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** Take his word for it when a loved-one is sick or missing. Most people are satisfied with, "I think I know where to find him," or "You're just going to have to trust me." Never mind that Johnathan is a drifter with no ID and a new job in every episode.

* TruthInTelevision: If you are not a criminal, and usually stay out of conflict, the person most likely to murder you is your spouse. It's the same for rape, with the majority of offenses being date rape. It's not so much the fact that strangers are nicer people -- that would be InsaneTrollLogic -- but due to psychological phenomenons, you could actually be safer around a random stranger than someone you are attracted to, or who approached you. [[note]] People who were victimized as children may subconsciously come to think of the red flags as signs of masculinity and thus be attracted to violent men. The other way round, psychopaths are known to be good at spotting people who are easy prey, i.e. have been traumatized before, or have no social network, and so on. [[/note]] Many a parent will agree that they have no problem with their child talking to complete strangers, like the lady behind the library counter or such, but would be very wary of someone who approaches the kid on the way home from school and introduces himself properly.

** This is an example where the trope feeds on itself. As hichhiking has gotten to be less respectable, fewer and fewer "nice" people were willing to pick up hichhikers, which meant that it became even more dangerous and less respectable, feeding the cycle.

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A JustifiedTrope, as in ancient Greece, [[SacredHospitality accepting aid from and giving aid to complete strangers was shown to be a virtuous characteristic]]. Even in relatively recent times and stories it was not improbable for these sorts of events to occur; strife at them is likely to be due to ValuesDissonance.

* In an episode of ''Manga/CardcaptorSakura'', a strange old man befriends ten-year-old Sakura. [[spoiler:It turns out to be her great grandfather, but she didn't know it at the time and went off with what could very well have been a creep showing unnatural interest in her]]. MoralGuardians were ''so'' very unamused.

* Happens all the time in ''Series/HighwayToHeaven''. After meeting Jonathan (the angel) and Mark (his sidekick), people rarely suspect any danger of any kind from these two. In one rare instance (in the episode ''Monster'') where a boy does distrust strangers, the episode is about tolerance of those who are different. The boy turns out to be a liar who can't be trusted. Within a day or two of knowing someone Mark and Jonathan will be granted full access to loved ones and personal property beyond what a normal person would trust his own spouse or children to do. In some episodes, Jonathan has convinced near complete strangers to:

** Justified, of course, when you consider that, as an angel, [[DivineIntervention he probably had a little help]].

* Happens all the time in ''Series/HighwayToHeaven''. After meeting Jonathan (the angel) and Mark (his sidekick), people rarely suspect any danger of any kind from these two. In one rare instance (in the episode ''Monster'') where a boy does distrust strangers, the episode is about tolerance of those who are diffent. The boy turns out to be a liar who can't be trusted. Within a day or two of knowing someone Mark and Jonathan will be granted full access to loved ones and personal property beyond what a normal person would trust his own spouse or children to do. In some episodes, Jonathan has convinced near complete strangers to:

* TruthInTelevision: If you are not a criminal, and usually stay out of conflict, the person most likely to murder you is your spouse. It's the same for rape, with the majority of offenses being date rape. It's not so much the fact that strangers are nicer people, that would be InsaneTrollLogic, but due to psychological phenomenons, you could actually be safer around a random stranger than someone you are attracted to, or who approached you. [[note]] People who were victimized as children may subconsciously come to think of the red flags as signs of masculinity and thus be attracted to violent men. The other way round, psychopaths are known to be good at spotting people who are easy prey, i.e. have been traumatized before, or have no social network, and so on. [[/note]] Many a parent will agree that they have no problem with their child talking to complete strangers, like the lady behind the library counter or such, but would be very wary of someone who approaches the kid on the way home from school and introduces himself properly.

-->''You can always depend on the kindness of strangers''
-->''To pluck up your spirits and shield you from dangers.''
-->''Now here's a tip from Blanche you won't regret.''
-->''A stranger's just a friend you haven't met!''
-->-- TheSimpsons

* In ''VideoGame/TheLegendOfZelda'', many fans have commented on Link's ability to ''just'' walk into anyplace. Few [=NPCs=] will care that much about you breaking pots and taking the goodies inside, or just walking around. Bedrooms aren't off-limits. ''Some'' places can only be entered during the day, though.

* In ''LonelyWerewolfGirl'' Moonglow and Daniel take in werewolf Kalix no questions asked, even when they know she is a werewolf with self destructive tendencies, no social skills, and hunted by, well pretty much everyone.

* An aspect of this fits into the general aspect of hitchhiking and picking up hitchhikers. Hitchhiking was once considered a perfectly reasonable way for young people to travel, and it was considered bad hospitality to not pick up stranded travelers along the way. Now, the general feeling is to lock one's doors; both the hitchhikers and the drivers expect the other to be scumbags who will take advantage of them, attack them, or [[BreadEggsBreadedEggs take advantage of them and then attack them]].

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* An aspect of this fits into the general aspect of hitchhiking and picking up hitchhikers. Hitchhiking was once considered a perfectly reasonable way for young people to travel, and it was considered bad hospitality to not pick up stranded travelers along the way. Now, the general feeling is to lock one's doors; both the hitchhikers and the drivers expect the other to be scumbags who will take advantage of them, attack them, or [[BreadEggsBreadedEggs take advantage of them and then attack them]].
** This is an example where the trope feeds on itself. As hichhiking has gotten to be less respectable, fewer and fewer "nice" people were willing to pick up hichhikers, which meant that it became even more dangerous and less respectable, feeding the cycle.
** Many an older person will tell you that you didn't have to be as careful a few decades ago as you do now, but it's hard to know if that's the NostalgiaFilter talking if you weren't there.
** Also depends on country. There are countries where it is more common, and thus safe, and countries where it's less so.
* TruthInTelevision: If you are not a criminal, and usually stay out of conflict, the person most likely to murder you is your spouse. It's the same for rape, with the majority of offenses being date rape. It's not so much the fact that strangers are nicer people, that would be InsaneTrollLogic, but due to psychological phenomenons, you could actually be safer around a random stranger than someone you are attracted to, or who approached you. [[note]] People who were victimized as children may subconsciously come to think of the red flags as signs of masculinity and thus be attracted to violent men. The other way round, psychopaths are known to be good at spotting people who are easy prey, i.e. have been traumatized before, or have no social network, and so on. [[/note]] Many a parent will agree that they have no problem with their child talking to complete strangers, like the lady behind the library counter or such, but would be very wary of someone who approaches the kid on the way home from school and introduces himself properly.

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* In ''Literature/FireAndHemlock'', this is played totally straight; the only people who actively seek to harm Polly are those who know who she is. She gatecrashes a funeral, pretends to be part of the (large) family, and befriends an adult man, who helps her get out of the party before people notice she isn't family. Sounds dangerous? Only becomes dangerous because his enemies are now her enemies.

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* In ''Literature/FireAndHemlock'', this is played totally straight; the only people who actively seek to harm Polly are those who know who she is. She gatecrashes a funeral, pretends to be family, and befriends an adult man. Sounds dangerous? Only becomes dangerous because his enemies are now her enemies.

* In the ''Literature/{{Hurog}} duology, this trope is sometimes subverted (Ward's younger brother ran away from the man Ward sent him to live with, because he didn't trust Ward, and thought strangers to be the safer option. Ward is perfectly trustworthy.), but also played straight a number of times - which this is justified by the number of scheming nobles. Random strangers ''are'' more trustworthy if a large number of people wants you dead because of who you are.

The tendency of fictional works to assume that characters can talk to, share a room with, or travel with complete strangers without doing a background check or even a [[FailedASpotCheck basic spot check]] - and despite this, nothing bad will ''ever'' happen.

* TruthInTelevision: If you are not a criminal, and usually stay out of conflict, the person most likely to murder you is your spouse. It's the same for rape, with the majority of offenses being date rape. It's not so much the fact that strangers are nicer people, that would be InsaneTrollLogic, but due to psychological phenomenons, you could actually be safer around a random stranger than someone you are attracted to, or who approached you. [[note]] People who were victimized as children may subconsciously come to think of the red flags as signs of masculinity and thus be attracted to violent men. The other way round, psychopaths are known to be good at spotting people who are easy prey, i.e. have been traumatized before, or have no social network, and so on. [[/note]]

* TruthInTelevision: If you are not a criminal, and usually stay out of conflict, the person most likely to murder you is your spouse. It's the same for rape, with the majority of offenses being date rape. It's not so much the fact that strangers are nicer people, that would be InsaneTrollLogic, but due to psychological phenomenons, you could actually be safer around a random stranger than someone you are attracted to, or who approached you.

* In ''MobyDick'', Ishmael isn't put off by having to share a bed with a complete stranger, until he discovers the stranger in question is a WildSamoan. Note that that ''was'' how inns and guest houses worked back then. A bed to yourself was very, very expensive. It only gets ''truly'' [[HomoeroticSubtext homoerotic]] when they start spooning and Queequeg insists on grasping his harpoon all night.
* Ayla and Jondolar from the ''EarthsChildren'' series are constantly meeting new people, who are (almost) always helpful and friendly.

* Explicitly averted with the WheelOfTime. The merits and shortfalls of playing one's hand close to the chest are closely examined, but there are a lot of bad people in their world.

* TheSimpsons MusicalEpisode "[[AStreetcarNamedDesire Oh, Streetcar]]" featured a song which had a message of "You can always depend on the kindness of strangers!" This is a parody of the same line's darkly ironic use in the original play.

* Both ''PokemonMysteryDungeon'' games start in this manner. The first game is particularly jarring, as you, a complete stranger, are tasked to rescue a baby Caterpie.

* Happens all the time in ''HighwayToHeaven''. After meeting Jonathan (the angel) and Mark (his sidekick), people rarely suspect any danger of any kind from these two. In one rare instance (in the episode ''Monster'') where a boy does distrust strangers, the episode is about tolerance of those who are diffent. The boy turns out to be a liar who can't be trusted. Within a day or two of knowing someone Mark and Jonathan will be granted full access to loved ones and personal property beyond what a normal person would trust his own spouse or children to do. In some episodes, Jonathan has convinced near complete strangers to: