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* An episode of ''Series/ICarly'' had Spencer dating a woman who turned out to be the mother of Gibby. He can't get over this and the two break up by the end of the episode. [[DownplayedTrope Downplayed]] due to the fact Spencer's issue was with her being Gibby's mother specifically, and not just because she's a single mother.
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** The episodeof ''Series/ICarly'' "iFix a Pop Star" had Spencer dating a woman who turned out to be the mother of Gibby. He can't get over this and the two break up by the end of the episode. [[DownplayedTrope Downplayed]] due to the fact Spencer's issue was with her being Gibby's mother specifically, and not just because she's a single mother.mother.
** In the pilot of the [[Series/ICarly2021 2021 sequel series]], a woman is hitting on Freddie at Spencer's party, with Freddie telling her that he's not in a good place in life to be dating, which just impresses her more. However, once she finds out he has an adopted stepddaughter and still lives with his mother, she bails.
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** In the pilot of the [[Series/ICarly2021 2021 sequel series]], a woman is hitting on Freddie at Spencer's party, with Freddie telling her that he's not in a good place in life to be dating, which just impresses her more. However, once she finds out he has an adopted stepddaughter and still lives with his mother, she bails.
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* Delia Ketchum in ''Fanfic/PokemonResetBloodlines'' implies this may be the reason why nobody seems interested in dating her.
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-->'''CJ:''' Come on, man, a lady cop I can handle, a cop-ex I can handle.... but kids? Damn, I'm sorry, I know black men got a reputation of running out on they kids but I don't think it counts if they ain't YOUR kids.
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** Another example moment in the show is where Barney attempts to woo Anita (played by Creator/JenniferLopez) who repeatedly rejects him as part of her idea that multiple rejections helps empower women against untrustworthy men only looking for sex. Barney replies just saying she had a kid would weed out most dating prospects.
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* The made-for-TV movie ''Film/SmallSacrifices'' is a {{dramatization}} of Diane Downs, a divorcee with three children, who tries to seduce a married man. Though interested, the man won't divorce his wife for Diane. Diane concludes that her three kids are hindering her effort, so she murders them on a lonely country back road, then blames the killings on a carjacker.
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* ''Series/{{Frasier}}'': Sexpot Roz Doyle has a noticeably harder time attracting men after becoming a single mother.
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* ''Manga/RistoranteParadiso'': This is why Nicoletta's mother, Olga, abandoned her because, after her divorce, Olga took up with a guy, Lorenzo, who preferred women that weren't divorcees or divorcees with kids. As you might guess, Nicoletta is still bitter about that.
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* Referenced in an episode of ''WesternAnimation/KingOfTheHill'', where Bill dates an attractive single mother who eventually moves in with him (kids in tow). Dale comments that the reason he's able to get with someone so attractive, smart, and kind is because she has kids, and single mothers are more desperate.
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* Done for a quick joke at the end of a ''WesternAnimation/TUFFPuppy'' episode. After spending the episode concerned about his mom dating his arch-enemy Snaptrap, Dudley ends up finding out she hit it off with The Chameleon instead. The Chameleon immediately balks on the relationship as soon as he sees Dudley's mom still has kids. The fact that her kid is his enemy seems to be a zero factor in the decision.
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* Referenced in an episode of ''WesternAnimation/KingOfTheHill'', where Bill dates an attractive single mother who eventually moves in with him (kids in tow). Dale comments that the reason he's able to get with someone so attractive, smart, and kind is because she has kids, and single mothers are more desperate.
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* Subverted in ''Series/Charmed1998''. When Piper and Leo are separated during season 6, Piper tries to date but every potential boyfriend runs for the hills immediately after meeting Wyatt, leading her to think this trope is in play. The real reason is that Wyatt is intentionally scaring them off by making his eyes glow while he is looking over Piper's shoulder. Piper doesn't find this out until Wyatt attempts this on Paige's new boyfriend; since he's a witch too he just casually asks if what Wyatt is doing is normal for him.
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* An episode of ''Series/ICarly'' had Spencer dating a woman who turned out to be the mother of Gibby. He can't get over this and the two break up by the end of the episode. [[DownplayedTrope Downplayed]] due to the fact Spencer's issue was with her being Gibby's mother specifically, and not just because she's a single mother.
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* This was the initial situation of the song "He Didn't Have to Be" by Music/BradPaisley, with the narrator, looking back on his childhood, comparing dates that his single mom went on to job interviews before she met the guy who would become his dad, who was the first one who would invite the kid out on the date with her.
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Compare to StrugglingSingleMother, for when a single parent struggles financially, and ChristmasCake, which deals with women who can't find a date because of age instead of parenthood. Contrast with MarryTheNanny, in which a person meets their future spouse because of their kids.
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Compare to StrugglingSingleMother, for when a single parent struggles financially, and ChristmasCake, which deals with women who can't find a date because of age instead of parenthood. Contrast with MarryTheNanny, in which a person meets their future spouse because of their kids. If finding out that their potential spouse is also a devoted parent makes the person even more interested, the trope may overlap with SingleWomanSeeksGoodMan.
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* The movie "Film/{{Stepbrothers}}" features a single parent man and a woman who end up meeting, falling in love, and revealing they both have an obnoxious ManChild that has deterred them from finding love for so long because no one wanted to deal with that kind of circumstance. The whole conflict of the movie is about the couple getting married and their respective manchildren butting heads and eventually becoming true brothers.
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Dating as a single parent can be difficult for multitude of reasons. Sometimes [[ParentWithNewParamour your kids reject your partner]] and sometimes your partner turns out to be a [[WickedStepmother Wicked Step-parent]]. Other times, just ''getting'' a second (or even first) date is hard because people run away after hearing about your kids. They either aren't ready for kids yet or don't want to deal with the baggage of being a step-parent.
This is often TruthInTelevision, as many single parents can tell. As a result, many single parents date other single parents.
Compare to StrugglingSingleMother, for when a single parent struggles financially, and ChristmasCake, which deals with women who can't find a date because of age instead of parenthood. Contrast with MarryTheNanny, in which a person meets their future spouse because of their kids.
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* Frankie from ''Fanfic/MoreThanMyFriend'' is still in her 20s but has become the guardian of 8-year old Mac after his mother died. One story revolves around Frankie finding it difficult to get a boyfriend because guys balk after hearing about Mac.
* In the "history of Trunks" special of ''WebVideo/DragonBallZAbridged'', Trunks comes home after [[CurbStompBattle trying to fight the androids]]. His mother Bulma sarcastically asks if Trunks is the one who just opened the door or she should change her online dating profile from "single mother" to just "single" because she'd get a lot more matches that way.
* In the ''WesternAnimation/MiraculousLadybug'' fic ''[[https://archiveofourown.org/works/14878527 Second Chances]]'' by [[https://archiveofourown.org/users/TheNovelArtist TheNovelArtist]], it is remarked that women tend to have second thoughts about flirting with Adrien upon learning he is a single father, and, moreover, actually dedicates a lot of time to his daughter.
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* In ''Film/TheMightyDucks'', Charlie tells Bombay about how his mother's potential suitors run like hell as soon as they see him.
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* In ''Film/{{Cyrus}}'', Molly has a lot of trouble dating because her immature 21-year-old son still lives with her, and his considerable issues scare off many of her potential paramours.
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* Lampshaded in one ''Series/{{Monk}}'' episode after Monk ruins one of Sharona's dates by calling the man on some lies, causing him to storm out. Sharona asks him if he thinks she told her date everything potentially off-putting about her, such as the fact that she has a son. Later, in "Mr. Monk and the Paperboy", Randy Disher subverts this by placing an ad in the personals clearly referring to Sharona and saying he's okay with kids.
* In ''Series/HowIMetYourMother'', this is initially Stella's reasoning for not wanting to date Ted, since she is a single mother who only gets out about one night a month. They end up dating anyway and even get engaged [[spoiler:before she leaves him [[RunawayBride on their wedding day]] for the father of her daughter.]]
* ''Series/TheUnicorn'' has Wade, a single father and owner of a landscaping company, who throws himself at work after the death of a wife a year ago. Some of his friends and family suggest that he should try to date someone in order to improve his lifestyle and get his relationship back on track with his daughters.
* ''Series/MurderSheWrote'': In the episode "[[Recap/MurderSheWroteS5E5CoalMinersSlaughter Coal Miner's Slaughter]]", Jessica finds out during her investigation that local widow Mrs. Harmon was the mistress of the murdered coal magnate. Mrs. Harmon says in her defense that other people who might have helped wouldn't want to deal with her and her son.
* The made-for-TV movie ''Film/SmallSacrifices'' is a {{dramatization}} of Diane Downs, a divorcee with three children, who tries to seduce a married man. Though interested, the man won't divorce his wife for Diane. Diane concludes that her three kids are hindering her effort, so she murders them on a lonely country back road, then blames the killings on a carjacker.
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* This was the initial situation of the song "He Didn't Have to Be" by Music/BradPaisley, with the narrator, looking back on his childhood, comparing dates that his single mom went on to job interviews before she met the guy who would become his dad, who was the first one who would invite the kid out on the date with her.
->''It always winds up feeling more like a job interview.''
->''My mama used to wonder if she'd ever meet someone''
->''Who wouldn't find out about me and then turn around and run.''
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Dating as a single parent can be difficult for multitude of reasons. Sometimes [[ParentWithNewParamour your kids reject your partner]] and sometimes your partner turns out to be a [[WickedStepmother Wicked Step-parent]]. Other times, just ''getting'' a second (or even first) date is hard because people run away after hearing about your kids. They either aren't ready for kids yet or don't want to deal with the baggage of being a step-parent.
This is often TruthInTelevision, as many single parents can tell. As a result, many single parents date other single parents.
Compare to StrugglingSingleMother, for when a single parent struggles financially, and ChristmasCake, which deals with women who can't find a date because of age instead of parenthood. Contrast with MarryTheNanny, in which a person meets their future spouse because of their kids.
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* Frankie from ''Fanfic/MoreThanMyFriend'' is still in her 20s but has become the guardian of 8-year old Mac after his mother died. One story revolves around Frankie finding it difficult to get a boyfriend because guys balk after hearing about Mac.
* In the "history of Trunks" special of ''WebVideo/DragonBallZAbridged'', Trunks comes home after [[CurbStompBattle trying to fight the androids]]. His mother Bulma sarcastically asks if Trunks is the one who just opened the door or she should change her online dating profile from "single mother" to just "single" because she'd get a lot more matches that way.
* In the ''WesternAnimation/MiraculousLadybug'' fic ''[[https://archiveofourown.org/works/14878527 Second Chances]]'' by [[https://archiveofourown.org/users/TheNovelArtist TheNovelArtist]], it is remarked that women tend to have second thoughts about flirting with Adrien upon learning he is a single father, and, moreover, actually dedicates a lot of time to his daughter.
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* In ''Film/TheMightyDucks'', Charlie tells Bombay about how his mother's potential suitors run like hell as soon as they see him.
* The movie "Film/{{Stepbrothers}}" features a single parent man and a woman who end up meeting, falling in love, and revealing they both have an obnoxious ManChild that has deterred them from finding love for so long because no one wanted to deal with that kind of circumstance. The whole conflict of the movie is about the couple getting married and their respective manchildren butting heads and eventually becoming true brothers.
* In ''Film/{{Cyrus}}'', Molly has a lot of trouble dating because her immature 21-year-old son still lives with her, and his considerable issues scare off many of her potential paramours.
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* Lampshaded in one ''Series/{{Monk}}'' episode after Monk ruins one of Sharona's dates by calling the man on some lies, causing him to storm out. Sharona asks him if he thinks she told her date everything potentially off-putting about her, such as the fact that she has a son. Later, in "Mr. Monk and the Paperboy", Randy Disher subverts this by placing an ad in the personals clearly referring to Sharona and saying he's okay with kids.
* In ''Series/HowIMetYourMother'', this is initially Stella's reasoning for not wanting to date Ted, since she is a single mother who only gets out about one night a month. They end up dating anyway and even get engaged [[spoiler:before she leaves him [[RunawayBride on their wedding day]] for the father of her daughter.]]
* ''Series/TheUnicorn'' has Wade, a single father and owner of a landscaping company, who throws himself at work after the death of a wife a year ago. Some of his friends and family suggest that he should try to date someone in order to improve his lifestyle and get his relationship back on track with his daughters.
* ''Series/MurderSheWrote'': In the episode "[[Recap/MurderSheWroteS5E5CoalMinersSlaughter Coal Miner's Slaughter]]", Jessica finds out during her investigation that local widow Mrs. Harmon was the mistress of the murdered coal magnate. Mrs. Harmon says in her defense that other people who might have helped wouldn't want to deal with her and her son.
* The made-for-TV movie ''Film/SmallSacrifices'' is a {{dramatization}} of Diane Downs, a divorcee with three children, who tries to seduce a married man. Though interested, the man won't divorce his wife for Diane. Diane concludes that her three kids are hindering her effort, so she murders them on a lonely country back road, then blames the killings on a carjacker.
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* Hamell On Trial's track "I Hate Your Kid" is all about the travails brought to middle-aged dating by your partners' obnoxious teenagers.
* This was the initial situation of the song "He Didn't Have to Be" by Music/BradPaisley, with the narrator, looking back on his childhood, comparing dates that his single mom went on to job interviews before she met the guy who would become his dad, who was the first one who would invite the kid out on the date with her.