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Film: Rachel Getting Married
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Rachel Getting Married is a 2008 drama film about Kym, the Black Sheep of her family, who was released out of rehab just in time for her sister Rachel's wedding. And naturally, things start to spill.

Directed by Jonathan Demme. Starring Anne Hathaway as Kym, a role in which she was nominated for an Oscar, and Rosemarie De Witt as Rachel.

This film provides examples of:

  • Actor Allusion: Near the end, as Kym is watching her mother leave the wedding early, she is interrupted when her father comes up to her with one of the wedding guests. He tells his daughter that the woman "just lost an office assistant" and she'd be perfect for the job.
  • Bitter Wedding Speech: Kym, who has just gotten out of rehab, makes a speech at her sister's rehearsal dinner apologizing for her past actions because she is jealous of the attention her sister is getting.
  • Black Sheep: Kym.
  • California Doubling: Averted; the movie was actually shot in Stamford, Connecticut, where it's set.
  • Creator Cameo: Variation. Legendary schlock filmmaker Roger Corman plays one of the wedding guests. Demme is one of several high-profile directors to have apprenticed under Corman. note 
  • Damage-Proof Vehicle: Kym, angry after a fistfight with her mother, purposely drives her father's Mercedes off the road, over a road sign, into the woods and then crashes into a rock. Although the airbag deploys, when we see the car in the morning light, the front end isn't even dented.
  • Dinner and a Show: Subverted for the most part. Much of the escalation happens when the family is at home, but it's hard to have any privacy when the wedding party is in the same home at all times.
  • Dysfunctional Family: Rachel and Kym's family. Lampshaded by Kym during her speech at the rehearsal dinner.
  • It's All About Me: Kym is so self obsessed she throws a tantrum when she realizes her sister's wedding is not about her rehabilitation.
    • Kym and Rachel seem to actually be a variation of The Glorious War of Sisterly Rivalry in which Kym is out to prove that she's better and Rachel is, well, getting married. Rachel even pulls the news of her pregnancy out during a heated argument. Everyone cheers up and congratulates her, while Kym is left angry, miserable, and still unable to settle things with her family.
  • Jerk Ass: Kym can come off as such, but she's of a different flavor.
    • And then there's Mom...
  • Jitter Cam: Demme wanted the film to look like "the most beautiful home movie ever made", so he eschewed the usual practice of setting up shots before filming scenes, leaving the cinematographer and his crew free to react to the scene the way they thought best as it played out.
  • Leave the Camera Running: At times, it looks like the movie was cut together from footage the guests took with their camcorders.
  • Mood Whiplash: Realistically for a wedding weekend where one member of the family is fresh from her latest stint in rehab, scenes can go from tense dysfunctional-family drama to lighthearted and joyful, then back again, within minutes (The dishwasher scene is a prime example).
  • My Greatest Failure: Kym accidentally driving off a bridge and causing her little brother to drown because she was high. Rachel almost never lets her live it down.
  • Off The Wagon: Averted. Despite the fact that she's in a situation that would be fraught with triggers even under the best of circumstances, and the many times we see her going off by herself, Kym stays clean and sober through the weekend.
  • Oscar Bait: Anne Hathaway was nominated for an Oscar for her role in this film.
  • Playing Against Type: Who'd have thought that the girl from The Devil Wears Prada could pull off such a raw emotional performance?
  • Poor Communication Kills: Boy howdy, it sure does.
  • Reality Subtext: The dishwasher scene is based on a real event that occurred at screenwriter Jenny Lumet's house involving her father, the veteran director Sidney Lumet, and Bob Fosse.
  • Left the Background Music On: Non-humorous example; the background music is generally the sound of the wedding band practicing prior to the big day, and the father asks the musicians to stop playing during a very intense emotional moment
    • Throw It In: Between takes, Anne Hathaway asked the director Johnathan Demme if the wedding band was going to be playing throughout the scene. He told her if she didn't like it, she should "do something about it." So she did.
  • Stepford Smiler: Kym and Rachel's mother.
  • Title Drop: During one of the rehearsals.
  • Tropaholics Anonymous: While she's in town for the wedding, Kym attends the meetings of a local NA chapter.

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