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* Joe is trying ''very'' hard to put his skirtchasing days behind him and shed his reputation as a manwhore, but in contrast to the rest of the readily accepted CharacterDevelopment that's been unfolding around him, almost ''nobody'' [[ReformedButRejected believes that Joe is capable of change.]]

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* Joe is trying ''very'' hard to put his skirtchasing days behind him and shed his reputation as a manwhore, but in contrast to the rest of the readily accepted CharacterDevelopment that's been unfolding around him, almost ''nobody'' [[ReformedButRejected believes that Joe is capable of change.]]]] Dorothy and Sarah have both tried to sabotage his relationship with Joyce thinking they're protecting her from him, but their actions are more painful to ''Joyce'', who feels that her closest friends aren't respecting her autonomy or judgment.
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* Joe is trying ''very'' hard to put his skirtchasing days behind him and shed his reputation as a manwhore, but in contrast to the rest of the readily accepted CharacterDevelopment that's been unfolding around him, almost ''nobody'' [[ReformedButRejected believes that Joe is capable of change.]]
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*** And in the end she can't even say for sure if she was...or if it was Danny instead.
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* Amber tries to warn Ethan off pursuing Asher on the grounds of his role in the robbery...but Ethan is on a ''very'' self-destructive path so the ''first'' thing he does is make out with Asher.
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* "But Don't Give Yourself Away" starts out badly for the Walkerton twins and Lucy when the Walkerton parents suddenly show up, promptly ruining Sal's month because she doesn't want to see them. Then Linda assumes Walky's new girlfriend is Joyce (which, note, she was the only white girl in the group), and immediately loses interest when she learns his girlfriend is actually Lucy. (Lucy is oblivious for now but how long will that last?) Then, when she says she plans to meet them both for lunch, she explicitly states she means Walky and Lucy, as she knows Sal 'makes her own plans'. But then she postpones lunch until dinner and says she'd understand if Lucy was unavailable for it, while clearly hoping she won't make it. And despite Walky's assertion that Lucy should stay away, Lucy just isn't getting it.

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* "But Don't Give Yourself Away" starts out badly for the Walkerton twins and Lucy when the Walkerton parents suddenly show up, promptly promptly ruining Sal's month because she doesn't want to see them. Then Linda assumes Walky's new girlfriend is Joyce (which, note, she was the only white girl in the group), and immediately loses interest when she learns his girlfriend is actually Lucy. (Lucy is oblivious for now but how long will that last?) Then, when she says she plans to meet them both for lunch, she explicitly states she means Walky and Lucy, as she knows Sal 'makes her own plans'. But then she postpones lunch until dinner and says she'd understand if Lucy was unavailable for it, while clearly hoping she won't make it. And despite Walky's assertion that Lucy should stay away, Lucy just isn't getting it.



** Once Lucy finally clues in about Linda's problem with her, they come up with a scheme to make her look better by comparison by claiming Walky's dating Amber instead: Amber, who stabbed Sal and has no shame about rambling about anything she's into (see: her rambling about Transformers mpreg). It even ends up ''working'' too, up until Amber accidentally drops the bomb about how Walky had been flunking math until she hacked his grades, and Linda proceeds to tear into Walky over flunking.

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** Once Lucy finally clues in about Linda's problem with her, they come up with a scheme to make her look better by comparison by claiming Walky's dating Amber instead: Amber, who stabbed Sal and has no shame about rambling about anything she's into (see: her rambling about Transformers mpreg). It even ends up ''working'' too, up until Amber accidentally drops the bomb about how Walky had been flunking math until she hacked his grades, and Linda proceeds to tear into Walky over flunking. Walky just ends up freezing in terror, and suddenly his reaction to getting a failing grade makes more sense.
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** Once Lucy finally clues in about Linda's problem with her, they come up with a scheme to make her look better by comparison by claiming Walky's dating Amber instead: Amber, who stabbed Sal and has no shame about rambling about anything she's into (see: her rambling about Transformers mpreg). It was WORKING too, and then Amber accidentally drops the bomb about how Walky had been flunking math until she hacked his grades. If Amber's words about Linda's face draining of color is any indication, Linda is ''not'' taking that well.

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** Once Lucy finally clues in about Linda's problem with her, they come up with a scheme to make her look better by comparison by claiming Walky's dating Amber instead: Amber, who stabbed Sal and has no shame about rambling about anything she's into (see: her rambling about Transformers mpreg). It was WORKING even ends up ''working'' too, and then up until Amber accidentally drops the bomb about how Walky had been flunking math until she hacked his grades. If Amber's words about Linda's face draining of color is any indication, grades, and Linda is ''not'' taking that well.proceeds to tear into Walky over flunking.

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** What's worse about all this is they could have been forewarned and had time to mentally prepare for this visit...[[PoorCommunicationKills if Walky had just checked his email and seen the one from his mom saying they plan to visit.]] Or, you know, if she had just bothered to email Sal too.

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** Once Lucy finally clues in about Linda's problem with her, they come up with a scheme to make her look better by comparison by claiming Walky's dating Amber instead: Amber, who stabbed Sal and has no shame about rambling about anything she's into (see: her rambling about Transformers mpreg). It was WORKING too, and then Amber accidentally drops the bomb about how Walky had been flunking math until she hacked his grades. If Amber's words about Linda's face draining of color is any indication, Linda is ''not'' taking that well.
** What's worse about all this of the above is they could have been forewarned and had time to mentally prepare for this visit...[[PoorCommunicationKills if Walky had just checked his email and seen the one from his mom saying they plan to visit.]] Or, you know, if she had just bothered to email Sal too.
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** Linda taking Sal dating Danny as ''vindication'' for all the decisions she made for Sal.
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** The fact that Sal is so desperate to be the golden child for just a minute that she is willing to exploit Danny for it.
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* "But Don't Give Yourself Away" starts out badly for the Walkerton twins and Lucy when the Walkerton parents suddenly show up, promptly ruining Sal's month because she doesn't want to see them. Then Linda assumes Walky's new girlfriend is Joyce (which, note, she was the only white girl in the group), and immediately loses interest when she learns his girlfriend is actually Lucy. (Lucy is oblivious for now but how long will that last?) Then, when she says she plans to meet them both for lunch, she explicitly states she means Walky and Lucy, as she knows Sal 'makes her own plans'. But then she postpones lunch until dinner and says she'd understand if Lucy was unavailable for it, while clearly hoping she won't make it.
** Not helping is Jennifer's (probably correct) assertion that ''she's'' Linda's favorite child (despite not being related), nor her firm belief that dating Lucy is going to make Walky TheUnfavorite.

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* "But Don't Give Yourself Away" starts out badly for the Walkerton twins and Lucy when the Walkerton parents suddenly show up, promptly ruining Sal's month because she doesn't want to see them. Then Linda assumes Walky's new girlfriend is Joyce (which, note, she was the only white girl in the group), and immediately loses interest when she learns his girlfriend is actually Lucy. (Lucy is oblivious for now but how long will that last?) Then, when she says she plans to meet them both for lunch, she explicitly states she means Walky and Lucy, as she knows Sal 'makes her own plans'. But then she postpones lunch until dinner and says she'd understand if Lucy was unavailable for it, while clearly hoping she won't make it. And despite Walky's assertion that Lucy should stay away, Lucy just isn't getting it.
** Not helping is Jennifer's (probably correct) assertion that ''she's'' Linda's favorite child (despite not being related), nor her firm belief that dating Lucy is going to make Walky TheUnfavorite. And the implication is clear that the former is because Jennifer can pass for white, and the latter is because Walky is dating a black girl.
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* "But Don't Give Yourself Away" starts out badly for the Walkerton twins and Lucy when the Walkerton parents suddenly show up, promptly ruining Sal's month because she doesn't want to see them. Then Linda assumes Walky's new girlfriend is Joyce (which, note, she was the only white girl in the group), and immediately loses interest when she learns his girlfriend is actually Lucy. (Lucy is oblivious for now but how long will that last?) Then, when she says she plans to meet them both for lunch, she explicitly states she means Walky and Lucy, as she knows Sal 'makes her own plans'.

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* "But Don't Give Yourself Away" starts out badly for the Walkerton twins and Lucy when the Walkerton parents suddenly show up, promptly ruining Sal's month because she doesn't want to see them. Then Linda assumes Walky's new girlfriend is Joyce (which, note, she was the only white girl in the group), and immediately loses interest when she learns his girlfriend is actually Lucy. (Lucy is oblivious for now but how long will that last?) Then, when she says she plans to meet them both for lunch, she explicitly states she means Walky and Lucy, as she knows Sal 'makes her own plans'. But then she postpones lunch until dinner and says she'd understand if Lucy was unavailable for it, while clearly hoping she won't make it.
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** Not helping is Jennifer's (probably correct) assertion that ''she's'' Linda's favorite child (despite not being related).

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** Not helping is Jennifer's (probably correct) assertion that ''she's'' Linda's favorite child (despite not being related).related), nor her firm belief that dating Lucy is going to make Walky TheUnfavorite.
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** Not helping is Jennifer's (probably correct) assertion that ''she's'' Linda's favorite child (despite not being related).
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** Then Carol drops ''another'' couple bombs: the divorce has been finalized for a week now, and she sold her house because "God told her to" in a dream. This gets Joyce so panicked that she hastily texts Joe begging for help. Carol's clarification of 'God told me to' makes it worse: she plans to give the money to the church because they're on the verge of losing their building because they used it as collateral for Ross's bail, and...well, we saw what happened there. Joyce is ''not'' taking it well that Carol is still supporting an organization that indirectly killed Mike.

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** Then Carol drops ''another'' couple bombs: the divorce has been finalized for a week now, and she sold her house because "God told her to" in a dream. This gets Joyce so panicked that she hastily texts Joe begging for help. Carol's clarification of 'God told me to' makes it worse: she plans to give the money to the church because they're on the verge of losing their building because they used it as collateral for Ross's bail, and...well, we saw what happened there. Joyce is ''not'' taking it well that Carol is still supporting an organization that indirectly killed Mike.Mike, and in her anger blurts out that she doesn't think God is real. ''And Carol refuses to believe Joyce believes that.''
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** Then Carol drops ''another'' couple bombs: the divorce has been finalized for a week now, and she sold her house because "God told her to" in a dream. This gets Joyce so panicked that she hastily texts Joe begging for help. Carol's clarification of 'God told me to' makes it worse: she plans to give the money to the church because they're on the verge of losing their building because they used it as collateral for Ross's bail, and...well, we saw what happened there.

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** Then Carol drops ''another'' couple bombs: the divorce has been finalized for a week now, and she sold her house because "God told her to" in a dream. This gets Joyce so panicked that she hastily texts Joe begging for help. Carol's clarification of 'God told me to' makes it worse: she plans to give the money to the church because they're on the verge of losing their building because they used it as collateral for Ross's bail, and...well, we saw what happened there. Joyce is ''not'' taking it well that Carol is still supporting an organization that indirectly killed Mike.
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** Then Carol drops ''another'' couple bombs: the divorce has been finalized for a week now, and she sold her house because "God told her to" in a dream. This gets Joyce so panicked that she hastily texts Joe begging for help.

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** Then Carol drops ''another'' couple bombs: the divorce has been finalized for a week now, and she sold her house because "God told her to" in a dream. This gets Joyce so panicked that she hastily texts Joe begging for help. Carol's clarification of 'God told me to' makes it worse: she plans to give the money to the church because they're on the verge of losing their building because they used it as collateral for Ross's bail, and...well, we saw what happened there.
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** Then Carol drops ''another'' couple bombs: the divorce has been finalized for a week now, and she sold her house because "God told her to" in a dream. This gets Joyce so panicked that she hastily texts Joe begging for help.
** And the implication is, like Sal and Walky, Joyce could have been forewarned and prepared herself mentally for this ordeal...but she opted to decline Jocelyne's phone call, no doubt warning her Carol planned to come.
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* "But Don't Give Yourself Away" starts out badly for the Walkerton twins and Lucy when the Walkerton parents suddenly show up, promptly ruining Sal's month because she doesn't want to see them. Then Linda assumes Walky's new girlfriend is Joyce (which, note, she was the only white girl in the group), and immediately loses interest when she learns his girlfriend is actually Lucy. (Lucy is oblivious for now but how long will that last?) Then, when she says she plans to meet them both for lunch, she explicitly states she means Walky and Lucy, as she knows Sal 'makes her own plans'.
** What's worse about all this is they could have been forewarned and had time to mentally prepare for this visit...[[PoorCommunicationKills if Walky had just checked his email and seen the one from his mom saying they plan to visit.]] Or, you know, if she had just bothered to email Sal too.


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* Joyce's day in "But Don't Give Yourself Away" starts out just as badly as the Walkertons': she's ambushed by her mother, who bullies her into taking totes of Joyce's stuff that she has no room for by threatening to leave them on the curb, then drops the bomb that she sold Joyce's childhood home. And then Joyce has to hastily hide her birth control so Carol doesn't see.

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* When Faz [[https://www.dumbingofage.com/2020/comic/book-10/04-is-a-song-forever/nurture/ opens up to Amber]] about his worry that he's [[GenerationXerox destined to become Blaine 2.0]], his last line in the strip becomes incredibly sad when you think about it, as the top comments point out: What's intended to be a joke about Faz being a perverted little creep also reveals that Faz is so abused and touch-starved that he cannot help but interpret ''any'' form of physical affection - in this case a hug from his ''half-sister'' - as sexual stimulation. Even worse is how his warning/preemptive apology for this reveals that he knows how fucked up it is.



* When Faz [[https://www.dumbingofage.com/2020/comic/book-10/04-is-a-song-forever/nurture/ opens up to Amber]] about his worry that he's [[GenerationXerox destined to become Blaine 2.0]], his last line in the strip becomes incredibly sad when thought about, as the top comments point out: what's intended to be a joke about Faz being a perverted little creep reveals that Faz is so abused and touch-starved that he cannot but interpret ''any'' form of physical affection - in this case a hug from his ''half-sister'' - as sexual stimulation. Even worse is how his warning/preemptive apology for this reveals that he knows how fucked up it is.
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* When Faz [[https://www.dumbingofage.com/2020/comic/book-10/04-is-a-song-forever/nurture/ opens up to Amber]] about his worry that he's [[GenerationXerox destined to become Blaine 2.0]], his last line in the strip becomes incredibly sad when thought about, as the top comments point out: what's intended to be a joke about Faz being a perverted little creep reveals that Faz is so abused and touch-starved that he cannot but interpret ''any'' form of physical affection - in this case a hug from his ''half-sister'' - as sexual stimulation. Even worse is how his warning/preemptive apology for this reveals that he knows how fucked up it is.
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** And then she tries to ''steal Walky away from Lucy''. Anyone else, they'd be called unflattering words, but it's just too easy to feel ''sorry'' for Dorothy because she's on the verge of a mental breakdown and just trying to go back to the last time she felt happy. Walky turns her down which leads to Dorothy breaking into Ruth's room to try to find her alcohol stash to [[DrowningMySorrows drown her sorrows]].

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** And then she tries to ''steal Walky away from Lucy''. Anyone else, they'd be called unflattering words, but it's just too easy to feel ''sorry'' for Dorothy because she's on the verge of a mental breakdown and just trying to go back to the last time she felt happy. Walky turns her down which leads to Dorothy breaking into Ruth's room to try to find her alcohol stash to [[DrowningMySorrows drown her sorrows]].sorrows]], eventually blackmailing Ruth into telling her where it is by threatening to look elsewhere (read: somewhere unsafe) for booze.
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** And then she tries to ''steal Walky away from Lucy''. Anyone else, they'd be called unflattering words, but it's just too easy to feel ''sorry'' for Dorothy because she's on the verge of a mental breakdown and just trying to go back to the last time she felt happy.

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** And then she tries to ''steal Walky away from Lucy''. Anyone else, they'd be called unflattering words, but it's just too easy to feel ''sorry'' for Dorothy because she's on the verge of a mental breakdown and just trying to go back to the last time she felt happy. Walky turns her down which leads to Dorothy breaking into Ruth's room to try to find her alcohol stash to [[DrowningMySorrows drown her sorrows]].
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** And now Dorothy is having a full-blown existential crisis, realizing that her life-long ambition might not be what she wants to do anymore, and the resulting trauma from being in the hostage situation may keep her out of it anyway, due to the stigmatization of mental issues such as depression and PTSD. And she wonders if she's continuing on the path to presidency because she still wants to, because she's sunk so much time in pursuing that path that changing her mind will feel like failure, or sheer ego not letting her quit.

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** And now Dorothy is having a full-blown existential crisis, realizing that her life-long ambition might not be what she wants to do anymore, and the resulting trauma from being in the hostage situation may keep her out of it anyway, due to the stigmatization of mental issues such as depression and PTSD. And she wonders if she's continuing on the path to presidency because she still wants to, because she's [[SunkCostFallacy sunk so much time in pursuing that path that changing her mind will feel like failure, failure]], or sheer ego not letting her quit.
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** And then she tries to ''steal Walky away from Lucy''. Anyone else, they'd be called unflattering words, but it's just too easy to feel ''sorry'' for Dorothy because she's on the verge of a mental breakdown and just trying to go back to the last time she felt happy.
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** And now Dorothy is having a full-blown existential crisis, realizing that her life-long ambition might not be what she wants to do anymore, and the resulting trauma from being in the hostage situation may keep her out of it anyway, due to the stigmatization of mental issues such as depression and PTSD.

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** And now Dorothy is having a full-blown existential crisis, realizing that her life-long ambition might not be what she wants to do anymore, and the resulting trauma from being in the hostage situation may keep her out of it anyway, due to the stigmatization of mental issues such as depression and PTSD. And she wonders if she's continuing on the path to presidency because she still wants to, because she's sunk so much time in pursuing that path that changing her mind will feel like failure, or sheer ego not letting her quit.
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** And now Dorothy is having a full-blown existential crisis, realizing that her life-long ambition might not be what she wants to do anymore, and the resulting trauma from being in the hostage situation may keep her out of it anyway, due to the stigmatization of mental issues such as depression and PTSD.
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* While out for breakfast with Raidah's circle of friends, Asher drops a harsh truth on Walky: it's probably Linda's connection with the dean that allowed the 'definitely has a criminal record' Sal to attend university in the first place.

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* While out for breakfast with Raidah's circle of friends, Asher drops a harsh truth on Walky: it's probably Linda's connection with the dean that allowed the 'definitely has a criminal record' Sal to attend university in the first place. Which means that's ''another'' thing Linda can hold over Sal's head to keep her 'in line'.
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* While out for breakfast with Raidah's circle of friends, Asher drops a harsh truth on Walky: it's probably Linda's connection with the dean that allowed the 'definitely has a criminal record' Sal to attend university in the first place.

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* The reason Dorothy decides not to accept her entrance into Yale: they only accepted her when she told them about being in the hostage situation, and she feels guilty about using a day that was so traumatic and tragic to get an advantage. Becky is ''not'' happy about being the reason Dorothy is refusing to go (as it was her father that started it all) and points out that Dorothy is going to have to do a ''lot'' worse than exploiting a traumatic situation for gain if she wants to make it into politics, straight up calling her a bad politician. (Not helping is the next day Raidah tells her to her face she doesn't trust anyone who is willing to become a war criminal. Dorothy can't even tell herself she wouldn't do that.)

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* The reason Dorothy decides not to accept her entrance into Yale: they only accepted her when she told them about being in the hostage situation, and she feels guilty about using a day that was so traumatic and tragic to get an advantage. Becky is ''not'' happy about being the reason Dorothy is refusing to go (as it was her father that started it all) and points out that Dorothy is going to have to do a ''lot'' worse than exploiting a traumatic situation for gain if she wants to make it into politics, straight up calling her a bad politician. (Not
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helping is the next day Raidah tells telling her to her face the next day that she doesn't trust anyone who is willing to become President, ie. a potential war criminal. Dorothy can't even tell herself she wouldn't do that.)
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* The reason Dorothy decides not to accept her entrance into Yale: they only accepted her when she told them about being in the hostage situation, and she feels guilty about using a day that was so traumatic and tragic to get an advantage. Becky is ''not'' happy about being the reason Dorothy is refusing to go (as it was her father that started it all) and points out that Dorothy is going to have to do a ''lot'' worse than exploiting a traumatic situation for gain if she wants to make it into politics, straight up calling her a bad politician. (Not helping is the next day Raidah tells her to her face she doesn't trust anyone who is willing to become a war criminal. Dorothy can't even tell herself she wouldn't do that.)

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