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** Alice had other reasons for quitting than getting married, but finding love on the way has complicated things.

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* '''Inverted''': Alice is unemployed until meeting Bob, then immediately gets a job or sets up a husband-and-wife business partnership with him.

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Alice is unemployed until meeting Bob, then immediately gets a job or sets up a husband-and-wife business partnership with him.him.
** Alice has to get a job after getting married to support the family she’ll have with Bob.
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** Alice has a job with a very high market in any area, while Bob's job is one with a lower market. It would make more sense for her to quit and just find a job closer to where he lives rather than have him quit and have far more trouble finding a job.


** Alice's work as a homemaker is often taken for granted, even though it's ''hard'' work, [[AcceptableProfessionalTargets because she doesn't get paid for it]]. Alice begins to feel unappreciated and resentful.

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** Alice's work as a homemaker is often taken for granted, even though it's ''hard'' work, [[AcceptableProfessionalTargets because she doesn't get paid for it]].it. Alice begins to feel unappreciated and resentful.
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* '''Discussed''': "Why is she quitting just because she's married? Doesn't she realise it isn't TheFifties anymore?"
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* '''Discussed''': "Why is she Alice quitting just because she's married? Doesn't she realise it isn't TheFifties anymore?"
anymore?" "True, but there are people who choose to do so, rare as they are."
* '''Conversed''': ???"So this show ends with Alice quitting her job to get married... huh. I'm surprised that the audience doesn't pay attention to it much."
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* '''Enforced''': ??? %% Enforced is the author HAVING to include the trope, not WANTING to

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* '''Enforced''': ??? %% Enforced is The executives [[ExecutiveMeddling pressure]] the author HAVING writers to include have Alice's character arc end with her quitting her job to marry Bob, in order to cater to the trope, not WANTING tosocial conservatives who don't approve of a working wife.
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* '''Enforced''': The writers are trying to cater to the social conservatives in the audience who don't approve of a working wife.
* '''Lampshaded''': "Hey Alice, TheFifties [[XCalledTheyWantTheirYBack called, they said they want their old-fashioned values back!]]"

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* '''Enforced''': The writers are trying to cater to ??? %% Enforced is the social conservatives in author HAVING to include the audience who don't approve of a working wife.
trope, not WANTING to
* '''Lampshaded''': "Hey Alice, TheFifties [[XCalledTheyWantTheirYBack called, they said they want their old-fashioned values back!]]"Alice gives an AuthorTract about how the idea that women ought to work outside the home, and that such work is more satisfying, important, or worthwhile than working in the home, was all a clever ploy by capitalism sold to society under the veneer of feminism--and that she, for one, wants no part of it.

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* '''Exaggerated''': Alice is the successful and celebrated CEO of the world-leading Widget Corporation, but steps down the minute Bob proposes.

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Alice is the successful and celebrated CEO of the world-leading Widget Corporation, Corporation and enjoys her job, but steps down the minute BurgerFool Bob proposes.



* '''Downplayed''': Alice decides to work part-time or casually for the same employer, on marrying Bob, and her contract accomodates this.

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* '''Downplayed''': '''Downplayed''':
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Alice decides to work part-time or casually for the same employer, on marrying Bob, and her contract accomodates accommodates this.



*** Or, in a more conventional setting, Alice is a nun, and has to give up her vocation for the same reason.

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*** Or, in a more conventional setting, ** Alice is a nun, and has to give up her vocation for the same reason.



** Alice stops working about the same time as she marries Bob. It turns out that she didn't quit -- she was fired for StealingFromTheTill.



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* '''Parodied''': ???Both Alice and Bob quit their jobs when they get married and don't understand why doing it that way is a bad idea.



* '''Averted''': Alice keeps her job when she marries and still when she has children. To do otherwise wouldn't be fitting for a modern woman and besides, why should she?
** Alternatively, Alice married Bob right after she graduated from HighSchool or [[MrsDegree college]], and was never a part of the workforce in the first place.

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Alice keeps her job when she marries and still when she has children. To do otherwise wouldn't be fitting for a modern woman and besides, why should she?
** Alternatively, Alice married Bob right after she graduated from HighSchool or [[MrsDegree college]], and was never a part of the workforce in the first place.



* '''Invoked''': [[TruthInTelevision Alice's employer offers no maternity benefits, expecting women to quit when they get married.]]
* '''Exploited''': Alice is the sole heir to her [[EccentricMillionaire eccentric and conservative millionaire Uncle Charlie]], who inserted [[OnOneCondition a clause in his will whereby Alice will only inherit if she gets a husband and gives up her career]], else he will [[SillyWill leave his entire fortune to the local bat sanctuary]]. So, Alice decides to marry boyfriend Bob and quit her job.

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* '''Invoked''': '''Invoked''':
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[[TruthInTelevision Alice's employer offers no maternity benefits, expecting women to quit when they get married.]]
* '''Exploited''': ** Alice is the sole heir to her [[EccentricMillionaire eccentric and conservative millionaire Uncle Charlie]], who inserted [[OnOneCondition a clause in his will whereby Alice will only inherit if she gets a husband and gives up her career]], else he will [[SillyWill leave his entire fortune to the local bat sanctuary]]. So, Alice decides to marry her boyfriend Bob and quit her job.
* '''Exploited''': Alice is a BurgerFool who hates her
job. Once she marries Bob and has an excuse to quit, she does just that.



* '''Deconstructed''': Alice quits her job, but finds life as a housewife boring, lonely and unfulfilling compared to work; she ends up spending most days watching trashy daytime TV just to distract her. Moreover, the couple are finding it impossible to pay off the mortgage and the increasingly large gas bill on a one income household; how can they even think of affording to raise kids?

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* '''Deconstructed''': '''Deconstructed''':
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Alice quits her job, but finds life as a housewife boring, lonely and unfulfilling compared to work; she ends up spending most days watching trashy daytime TV just to distract her.herself. Moreover, the couple are finding it impossible to pay off the mortgage and the increasingly large gas bill on a one income household; how can they even think of affording to raise kids?



* '''Reconstructed''': So Alice decides to take up her long-neglected hobby and turns it into a successful online business, volunteers for local charity work, and homeschools little Diane after having her.

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* '''Reconstructed''': '''Reconstructed''':
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So Alice decides to take up her long-neglected hobby and turns it into a successful online business, volunteers for local charity work, and homeschools little Diane after having her.her.
** (To Deconstructed #5): When Alice is sick for a couple of weeks, Bob finds out just how much she works and learns to appreciate it -- and ''show'' his appreciation.



%%* '''Played For Drama''': ???

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%%* * '''Played For Drama''': ???Alice loves her job, but society tries to pressure her into giving it up to become a housewife.
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* '''Invoked''': [[TruthInTelevision Alice's employer offers no maternity benefits, expecting women to quit when they get married.

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* '''Invoked''': [[TruthInTelevision Alice's employer offers no maternity benefits, expecting women to quit when they get married.]]
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* '''Invoked''': ???

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* '''Invoked''': ???[[TruthInTelevision Alice's employer offers no maternity benefits, expecting women to quit when they get married.



%%* '''Implied''': ???

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%%* * '''Implied''': ???Alice is a bored housewife, but it seems she once had a good career. Notably, her job photos disappear after her wedding photos.

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** Alice is still in HighSchool, and [[TragicDropout drops out of school]] to get married.



** Alice is engaged in HighSchool, and decides that she's going to marry Bob the summer after graduation instead of going to college.



** Alice's work as a homemaker is often taken for granted, even though it's ''hard'' work, [[AcceptableCareerTargets because she doesn't get paid for it]]. Alice begins to feel unappreciated and resentful.

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** Alice's work as a homemaker is often taken for granted, even though it's ''hard'' work, [[AcceptableCareerTargets [[AcceptableProfessionalTargets because she doesn't get paid for it]]. Alice begins to feel unappreciated and resentful.
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** [[EmptyNest When the kids grow up and leave the house, Alice feels as if she's lost some meaning and purpose in her life, because she's based her entire identity around her roles as wife and mother]].
** [[DomesticAbuse Bob is abusive towards Alice]], and since she doesn't earn her own income or have bank accounts or credit cards in her own name, [[FinancialAbuse she's totally dependent on him]], making it that much harder to get out of that situation.
** Alice's work as a homemaker is often taken for granted, even though it's ''hard'' work, [[AcceptableCareerTargets because she doesn't get paid for it]]. Alice begins to feel unappreciated and resentful.
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** At some point, Bob decides he's bored with Alice, and leaves her for his much younger and prettier mistress, Carol. Alice has been out of the workforce for many years, and now has to go back into it, seeing as she can't depend on Bob's income anymore...only now she has no relevant skills, and an immediate need for income to support herself and her kids.
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** Alternatively, Alice married Bob right after she graduated from HighSchool or [[MrsDegree college]], and was never a part of the workforce in the first place.
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* '''Exploited''': Alice is the sole heir to her eccentric and conservative millionaire Uncle Charlie, who inserted a clause in his will whereby Alice will only inherit if she gets a husband and gives up her career, else he will leave his entire fortune to the local bat sanctuary. So, Alice decides to marry boyfriend Bob and quit her job.

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* '''Exploited''': Alice is the sole heir to her [[EccentricMillionaire eccentric and conservative millionaire Uncle Charlie, Charlie]], who inserted [[OnOneCondition a clause in his will whereby Alice will only inherit if she gets a husband and gives up her career, career]], else he will [[SillyWill leave his entire fortune to the local bat sanctuary.sanctuary]]. So, Alice decides to marry boyfriend Bob and quit her job.
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* '''Lampshaded''': ???

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* '''Lampshaded''': ???"Hey Alice, TheFifties [[XCalledTheyWantTheirYBack called, they said they want their old-fashioned values back!]]"
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** Alice and Bob are in the army; Bob is Alice's commanding officer and the army's code prohibits this sort of fraternization. Rather than risk Bob's military career, which they agree is more important, Alice gets a discharge.

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*** Or, in a more conventional setting, Alice is a nun, and has to give up her vocation for the same reason.



* '''Exploited''': ???

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* '''Exploited''': ???Alice is the sole heir to her eccentric and conservative millionaire Uncle Charlie, who inserted a clause in his will whereby Alice will only inherit if she gets a husband and gives up her career, else he will leave his entire fortune to the local bat sanctuary. So, Alice decides to marry boyfriend Bob and quit her job.



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* '''Deconstructed''': Alice quits her job, but finds life as a housewife boring, lonely and unfulfilling compared to work; she ends up spending most days watching trashy daytime TV just to distract her. Moreover, the couple are finding it impossible to pay off the mortgage and the increasingly large gas bill on a one income household; how can they even think of affording to raise kids?
* '''Reconstructed''': So Alice decides to take up her long-neglected hobby and turns it into a successful online business, volunteers for local charity work, and homeschools little Diane after having her.
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** Alice is a priestess of a virgin goddess cult that requires all priestesses to be celibate. She can't do that and be married (or even intimate) with Bob at the same time.

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** Alice is a priestess of a virgin goddess cult that requires all priestesses to be celibate. She can't do that and be married to (or even intimate) with intimate with) Bob at the same time.
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** Alice is socially conservative and thinks wives ''should'' be homemakers. At least, that's her choice.
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'''Basic Trope''': A character (usually female) gives up their job when they marry.
* '''Straight''': Alice is about to marry Bob, so she quits her job.
* '''Exaggerated''': Alice is the successful and celebrated CEO of the world-leading Widget Corporation, but steps down the minute Bob proposes.
* '''Downplayed''': Alice decides to work part-time or casually for the same employer, on marrying Bob, and her contract accomodates this.
* '''Justified''':
** The setting is a time and/or place where this was the norm.
** Alice wants to have kids and be a "full time mother", since she wants to avoid FamilyVersusCareer conflict.
** Alice is a priestess of a virgin goddess cult that requires all priestesses to be celibate. She can't do that and be married (or even intimate) with Bob at the same time.
* '''Inverted''': Alice is unemployed until meeting Bob, then immediately gets a job or sets up a husband-and-wife business partnership with him.
* '''Gender Inverted''': Bob quits his job on marrying Alice.
* '''Subverted''':
** Alice thinks about quitting her job, but decides not to.
** Alice only quits her job because she wants a better one, not because she's getting married (as everyone assumes).
* '''Double Subverted''': Until they have their first child, then Alice quits her job.
* '''Parodied''': ???
* '''Zig Zagged''': Alice plans to quit her job, then decides not to. Then she has kids and takes time off to raise them, returning to work when they're of school age. Then, Bob decides to take early retirement so he can spend more time with his family.
* '''Averted''': Alice keeps her job when she marries and still when she has children. To do otherwise wouldn't be fitting for a modern woman and besides, why should she?
* '''Enforced''': The writers are trying to cater to the social conservatives in the audience who don't approve of a working wife.
* '''Lampshaded''': ???
* '''Invoked''': ???
* '''Exploited''': ???
* '''Defied''': Alice's employers try to force her to quit when she gets married, but she successfully sues them for discrimination.
* '''Discussed''': "Why is she quitting just because she's married? Doesn't she realise it isn't TheFifties anymore?"
* '''Conversed''': ???
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