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AHI-3000 Since: Jul, 2014 Relationship Status: Wishfully thinking
#1: Jun 19th 2015 at 3:25:03 PM

Do you tend to look on the positives or negatives of life?

Forgive me if this sounds like a complaint thread, but I don't mean it to be as such. I don't mean for just one opinion to dominate. But I feel like expressing this opinion of mine that's been sitting on my chest.

I find myself to be pessimistic. This is probably the result of spending way too much time at home and browsing the Internet. But the more I read, I just find myself encountering quite a lot of ugliness...

randomdude4 Since: May, 2011
#2: Jun 19th 2015 at 3:38:01 PM

I think I tend to be more of an optimist. I've had a lot of bad things happen to me in my life, but I still have a tendency to look on the bright side of things when faced with a tough situation. I like being a glass half-full kinda guy; life's far happier that way.

"Can't make an omelette without breaking some children." -Bur
AHI-3000 Since: Jul, 2014 Relationship Status: Wishfully thinking
#3: Jun 19th 2015 at 3:40:42 PM

Right now I'm feeling really misanthropic. For example whenever something terrible happens, a lot of people want to shift the blame on others, even when it's really irrelevant. And then it perpetuates a nasty cycle...

ElectricNova Since: Jun, 2012
#4: Jun 19th 2015 at 3:44:39 PM

Optimist about the world and other people, pessimist about anything pertaining to myself

AHI-3000 Since: Jul, 2014 Relationship Status: Wishfully thinking
#5: Jun 19th 2015 at 3:50:27 PM

Do you guys know what I was trying to say earlier? Whenever tragedy strikes, if there's anything even remotely political about it, it will divide people instead of uniting them. You can see all the stupid assholes trying to blame the wrong people for the mess. I conclude that this reflects the way that many people think in some way or another, even if it's not so obvious.

Gaon Smoking Snake from Grim Up North Since: Jun, 2012 Relationship Status: Above such petty unnecessities
#6: Jun 19th 2015 at 5:24:54 PM

I'm a pessimist at heart. I often follow the logic pathway that it is better to expect the worst so when it comes you will be ready for when it comes, and if it doesn't come, well then it's a delightful surprise isn't.

"All you Fascists bound to lose."
LinkToTheFuture A real bad hombre from somewhere completely different Since: Apr, 2015 Relationship Status: What's love got to do with it?
A real bad hombre
#7: Jun 19th 2015 at 5:50:08 PM

A pessimist about little things, and usually optimistic about the big picture.

"I have not failed. I've just found 10,000 ways that won't work." -Thomas Edison
Demetrios Do a barrel roll! from Des Plaines, Illinois (unfortunately) Since: Oct, 2009 Relationship Status: I'm just a hunk-a, hunk-a burnin' love
Do a barrel roll!
#8: Jun 19th 2015 at 6:12:06 PM

I'm an optimist. I get the feeling that in my paternal side of the family, optimism skips a generation.

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PrincessGwen The Scarlet Witch from In the U.S.A Since: Oct, 2014 Relationship Status: If it's you, it's okay
The Scarlet Witch
#9: Jun 19th 2015 at 6:14:29 PM

It depends for me, but I don't understand why someone would be a misanthrope.

"Thanks for the lesson. But I don't need you to tell me who I am."
engie Since: Jan, 2015 Relationship Status: [TOP SECRET]
#10: Jun 19th 2015 at 6:21:47 PM

I'm not a pessimist, I just dislike people.

The fact that only 140 characters are allowed here is honestly so disappointing to me.
Twentington Since: Apr, 2009 Relationship Status: Desperate
#11: Jun 19th 2015 at 9:19:07 PM

Optimist more so than ever. I had a couple positive changes recently, and it's put my mind in a better place. I have a highly idealistic view of the future, and I believe that a lot of positive changes will happen in society before I'm all that old. (But at the same time I'm not blind to any risks that something such as, say, transhumanism will bring.)

DrFurball Two-bit blockhead from The House of the Rising Sun Since: Jan, 2001 Relationship Status: Tongue-tied
Two-bit blockhead
#12: Jun 20th 2015 at 12:02:11 PM

It varies, but I think when it comes to the big picture, I'm an optimist. Like, in general, things are getting better.

For short-term things, I tend to be pessimistic, especially if it's something involving me directly. Looking forward to something I've been planning for weeks? Yeah, there'll be a last-minute cancellation.

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Odd1 Still just awesome like that from Nowhere Land Since: Sep, 2013 Relationship Status: And here's to you, Mrs. Robinson
Still just awesome like that
#13: Jun 20th 2015 at 1:48:32 PM

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Demetrios Do a barrel roll! from Des Plaines, Illinois (unfortunately) Since: Oct, 2009 Relationship Status: I'm just a hunk-a, hunk-a burnin' love
Do a barrel roll!
#14: Jun 21st 2015 at 7:47:35 PM

I don't understand why someone would be a misanthrope

That's one of the reasons I ended my membership of Commercials I Hate.

Flora is the most beautiful member of the Winx Club. :)
LinkToTheFuture A real bad hombre from somewhere completely different Since: Apr, 2015 Relationship Status: What's love got to do with it?
A real bad hombre
#15: Jun 21st 2015 at 8:08:17 PM

I can't stand misanthropes either.

"I have not failed. I've just found 10,000 ways that won't work." -Thomas Edison
Quag15 Since: Mar, 2012
#16: Jun 21st 2015 at 8:09:20 PM

Mostly optimist, with a couple of days of pessimism once in a while.

Demetrios Do a barrel roll! from Des Plaines, Illinois (unfortunately) Since: Oct, 2009 Relationship Status: I'm just a hunk-a, hunk-a burnin' love
Do a barrel roll!
#17: Jun 21st 2015 at 8:19:40 PM

You don't seem like the pessimistic type to me. :)

Flora is the most beautiful member of the Winx Club. :)
MarkVonLewis Since: Jun, 2010
#18: Jun 21st 2015 at 8:38:14 PM

I'd say I'm definitely a pessimist. Based on history, things tend to work out negatively.

Demetrios Do a barrel roll! from Des Plaines, Illinois (unfortunately) Since: Oct, 2009 Relationship Status: I'm just a hunk-a, hunk-a burnin' love
Do a barrel roll!
#19: Jun 21st 2015 at 8:39:08 PM

My optimism was one of the things my brother and I would frequently argue about. He thought my optimistic personality was something that should be scornfully viewed as disgusting and satanic. :( >.<

Flora is the most beautiful member of the Winx Club. :)
BlueNinja0 The Mod with the Migraine from Taking a left at Albuquerque Since: Dec, 2010 Relationship Status: Showing feelings of an almost human nature
The Mod with the Migraine
#20: Jun 21st 2015 at 9:08:04 PM

Is there a depressimist? Because if so that's me.

That’s the epitome of privilege right there, not considering armed nazis a threat to your life. - Silasw
randomdude4 Since: May, 2011
#21: Jun 21st 2015 at 10:43:46 PM

[up][up] Why the heck does he think that?

"Can't make an omelette without breaking some children." -Bur
Odd1 Still just awesome like that from Nowhere Land Since: Sep, 2013 Relationship Status: And here's to you, Mrs. Robinson
Still just awesome like that
#22: Jun 22nd 2015 at 1:30:35 AM

I don't understand why someone would be a misanthrope

That's something you wouldn't say if life hasn't handed you a disproportionate amount of dissatisfaction. Especially with regards to people as social creatures and how they act.

Insert witty 'n clever quip here.
Cozzer Since: Mar, 2015
#23: Jun 22nd 2015 at 6:17:37 AM

I'd say I'm more on the optimist side. At least I consistently try to, it's definitely more fun.

Oh, and the whole "be a pessimist so you don't get too disappointed when things actually go bad"? Doesn't work. Actually, it makes things hurt more. Confirmation bias, self-fulfilling prophecies, all that.

Oh! But I do dislike with all my strength the "more intelligence -> less happiness" fallacy. I suppose I can't hate unhappy people for trying to rationalize it, but still... ugh.

edited 22nd Jun '15 7:54:36 AM by Cozzer

Quag15 Since: Mar, 2012
#24: Jun 22nd 2015 at 7:47:09 AM

@Demetrios: It happens once in a while. I had one day where I talked about why I felt that way on said given day in the Insecurities thread.

You have a point in that it's not my normal state of spirit. :)

He thought my optimistic personality was something that should be scornfully viewed as disgusting and satanic. :( >.<

Is he a fundamentalist? Or just a bitter, sour guy due to other stuff?

edited 22nd Jun '15 7:48:59 AM by Quag15

Aespai Chapter 1 (Discontinued) from Berkshire Since: Sep, 2014 Relationship Status: Longing for my OTP
Chapter 1 (Discontinued)
#25: Jun 22nd 2015 at 7:54:27 AM

optimist because I'm not a depressed teenager fishing for attention.

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