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This is a thread for people who will not be or have not been on the site for a while, whether due to real life or to resist an internet addiction, the latter of which is encouraged within reason. Also, talk about the benefits/whatever of taking a day or a weekend off, or things to do when not online. TV Tropes ruining your life is nothing to be proud of.

Generally, expect the following from this thread:

  1. People announcing their departure or return.
  2. Moderators announcing a significant forum ban — not trolls or vandals, but someone people will notice and miss.
  3. Inquiries about an absent troper.
  4. Responses to inquiries about an absent troper.

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Not that I'm going anywhere, but this is a thread for people who will not be on the forums for a while, whether due to real life or to resist an internet addiction, the latter of which is encouraged within reason. Also, talk about the benefits/whatever of taking a day or a weekend off, or things to do when not online. TV Tropes ruining your life is nothing to be proud of.

Edited by GastonRabbit on Feb 10th 2023 at 3:48:36 AM

dRoy Professional Writer & Amateur Scholar from Most likely from my study Since: May, 2010 Relationship Status: I'm just high on the world
Professional Writer & Amateur Scholar
#5527: Jan 14th 2012 at 10:12:21 PM

Hmm...have at least several hours before Sundays ends...

So, to the people who quit, is this site getting worse? If yes, how?

I mean, am I really the only one who has no problem with moderations or anything?

Fast Eddie does scare me sometimes. :P

I'm a (socialist) professional writer serializing a WWII alternate history webnovel.
GameSpazzer The Beta Male from Against! The! Wall! Since: Jun, 2010
The Beta Male
#5529: Jan 14th 2012 at 10:14:17 PM

I mean, am I really the only one who has no problem with moderations or anything?

The main reason I have yet to set foot in the actual pages where things get done and simply confined myself to the forums is because I don't want to slip up and get banned.

@Firebert: Ditto with what you said about Bobby.

edited 14th Jan '12 10:16:37 PM by GameSpazzer

MY SOUL IS DARK BUT MY HAIR IS COLORFUL — Brahian Pokémon Alchemist
Flyboy Decemberist from the United States Since: Dec, 2011
Decemberist
#5530: Jan 14th 2012 at 10:14:21 PM

I'd try to explain, but I'd be here for days.

"Shit, our candidate is a psychopath. Better replace him with Newt Gingrich."
Hydronix I'm an Irene! from TV Tropes Since: Apr, 2010
I'm an Irene!
#5531: Jan 14th 2012 at 10:16:43 PM

I don't either, d Roy. I honestly agree with the staff in general. Not every decision, but I can't see one that was bad whatsoever.

Quest 64 thread
juancarlos Faith in the self. Since: Mar, 2012
Faith in the self.
#5532: Jan 14th 2012 at 10:16:56 PM

OK, let's clarify some things:

Cygan did ask Bobby and the administration to ban her. And so did I. It didn't fall through, so we stayed, which lead to Iverum's post a while back on Toper Updates about hosts and stuff.

It's been at least one month since that. By that time, Cygan's mind had changed and she thought she could genuinely help the site by staying and contributing to discussion.

now, Cygan had a history of uncivility before as she slowly grew tired with the way things are done here and with a...less than stellar userbase, let's just say. And so did I. I mostly stayed out of habit and because I made some great friendships with people who I dearly respect. Upon some reflection, though, I decided there's not a real point in staying.

This is, well, a truth that I've maintained for a very long time now. And I'm not sure if it'll ever turn into action. For now, I'm taking a break and reducing my posting. Wherever that leads, we'll see. I can't say I'll ever leave the site for good. At least, not with a flounce or a similar forced fashion, as I'm a slave to habit, which is a problem I deal with everyday.

"My life is my own" | If you want to contact me privately, please ask first on the forum.
Gwirion Since: Jan, 2011
#5533: Jan 14th 2012 at 10:19:04 PM

Not every decision, but I can't see one that was bad whatsoever.

How's that work?

You are a blowfish.
dRoy Professional Writer & Amateur Scholar from Most likely from my study Since: May, 2010 Relationship Status: I'm just high on the world
Professional Writer & Amateur Scholar
#5534: Jan 14th 2012 at 10:22:52 PM

Ah, Bobby, he's a nice guy.

There was a time, few days ago actually, when I was about to snap at a troper for repeatedly antagonizing me (note that I'm greatly exaggerating things). I had a second thought and just hollered the mod instead.

Bobby responded to it and, well, to sum, he listened to what I had to say (Read: childish whining).

And that made me feel all the better, really.

I'm a (socialist) professional writer serializing a WWII alternate history webnovel.
Flyboy Decemberist from the United States Since: Dec, 2011
Decemberist
#5535: Jan 14th 2012 at 10:23:04 PM

Juan, you loveable bastard, don't you dare leave yet. We're not done here. D:

"Shit, our candidate is a psychopath. Better replace him with Newt Gingrich."
TParadox Since: Jan, 2001 Relationship Status: The captain of her heart
#5536: Jan 14th 2012 at 10:23:29 PM

Cool people getting banned at this point is just a disagreement. Cool people leaving because they don't want to be here happens much more often and is one more confirmation of "this is a terrible place, get out before you're thrown out." Which I disagree with, but every ragequit is a drop in the evidence in favor.

If the moderation was fully in charge, I'd feel really good about the place.

Fresh-eyed movie blog
Schitzo HIGH IMPACT SEXUAL VIOLENCE from Akumajou Dracula Since: May, 2009 Relationship Status: LA Woman, you're my woman
HIGH IMPACT SEXUAL VIOLENCE
#5538: Jan 14th 2012 at 10:25:56 PM

The fight isn't over, boy. Stay, and keep ready at the draw.

ALL CREATURE WILL DIE AND ALL THE THINGS WILL BE BROKEN. THAT'S THE LAW OF SAMURAI.
GameSpazzer The Beta Male from Against! The! Wall! Since: Jun, 2010
The Beta Male
#5539: Jan 14th 2012 at 10:26:46 PM

...

Well shit.

I'm going to go back to hiding in Forum Games to avoid all this business.

edited 14th Jan '12 10:27:28 PM by GameSpazzer

MY SOUL IS DARK BUT MY HAIR IS COLORFUL — Brahian Pokémon Alchemist
Flyboy Decemberist from the United States Since: Dec, 2011
Decemberist
#5540: Jan 14th 2012 at 10:27:28 PM

The fight isn't over, boy. Stay, and keep ready at the draw.

Bitch, please, we ain't done until we're banned. tongue

"Shit, our candidate is a psychopath. Better replace him with Newt Gingrich."
Fuschlatz Since: Dec, 1969
#5541: Jan 14th 2012 at 10:27:50 PM

@Spazzy: I can understand why you might have forgotten, but you're already in the Just For Fun boards... I guess I'll see ya over there.

edited 14th Jan '12 10:29:22 PM by Fuschlatz

drunkscriblerian Street Writing Man from Castle Geekhaven Since: Oct, 2010 Relationship Status: In season
Street Writing Man
#5542: Jan 14th 2012 at 10:28:37 PM

Been kicking around the idea of leaving myself. Cygan's banning doesn't exactly fill me with new motivation to stay, I'll be honest.

It seems like battle lines are being drawn around here...Starting to think that maybe it would be best if I left while I'm still friends with both sides.

If I were to write some of the strange things that come under my eyes they would not be believed. ~Cora M. Strayer~
Hydronix I'm an Irene! from TV Tropes Since: Apr, 2010
I'm an Irene!
#5543: Jan 14th 2012 at 10:28:43 PM

@Gwirion: Easy. While I don't personally agree with a decision, is does not mean I find it actually bad.

For example: I hate auto-full healing after battle. That doesn't make it bad, just something I don't prefer. They're both subjective, and don't go hand in hand.

Quest 64 thread
MetaFour Since: Jan, 2001
#5544: Jan 14th 2012 at 10:29:12 PM

I'm actually sad to see Blix go.

GameSpazzer The Beta Male from Against! The! Wall! Since: Jun, 2010
The Beta Male
#5545: Jan 14th 2012 at 10:29:15 PM

@Fus: No kidding. I know, hence the magic edit. YOU DIDN'T SEE ANYTHING, WOOO~OOOO~oooo...

edited 14th Jan '12 10:32:28 PM by GameSpazzer

MY SOUL IS DARK BUT MY HAIR IS COLORFUL — Brahian Pokémon Alchemist
Flyboy Decemberist from the United States Since: Dec, 2011
Decemberist
#5546: Jan 14th 2012 at 10:30:20 PM

It seems like battle lines are being drawn around here...

~puts on Army helmet~

This is war, motherfuckers! Bring me some napalm!

~is shot~

"Shit, our candidate is a psychopath. Better replace him with Newt Gingrich."
Blackmoon Your Worth is 50 Yen! from the Blind Eternities Since: May, 2009 Relationship Status: Halfway to Pon Farr
Your Worth is 50 Yen!
#5547: Jan 14th 2012 at 10:32:25 PM

...well, fuck all y'all. You can sympathy-quit if you want, but I'm staying. I'll stay out of spite if I need to. I can be the last motherfucker standing in an empty forum with nobody but the moderators for company. tongue

月を見るたび思い出せ
Fuschlatz Since: Dec, 1969
#5548: Jan 14th 2012 at 10:32:39 PM

I'm just gonna say right now that I don't think I'll ever completely leave the site, or at least not in the forseeable future. I might not be posting or editing quite as much as I used to but as long as I have as many friends as I do here and I don't get banned or anything like that, I'm staying.

Then again, I don't know if I can really be considered one of the "cool people" on TV Tropes...

edited 14th Jan '12 10:33:12 PM by Fuschlatz

GameSpazzer The Beta Male from Against! The! Wall! Since: Jun, 2010
The Beta Male
#5549: Jan 14th 2012 at 10:32:50 PM

I think I'll wait for a Wham Episode to throw in the towel/take a side. There are still plenty of people here I like.

MY SOUL IS DARK BUT MY HAIR IS COLORFUL — Brahian Pokémon Alchemist
juancarlos Faith in the self. Since: Mar, 2012
Faith in the self.
#5550: Jan 14th 2012 at 10:33:35 PM

Moony, if you leave with me, I'll give you...um...

um...alex's head?

"My life is my own" | If you want to contact me privately, please ask first on the forum.

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