History YMMV / BojackHorsemanS3E10ItsYou

* UnintentionallyUnsympathetic: While Todd's TheReasonYouSuckSpeech to [=BoJack=] about how [[FreudianExcuseIsNoExcuse he can't blame anything but himself for his bad behavior]] is quite poignant, his reaction to the specific situation - [=BoJack=] sleeping with Emily - comes across as unfair and overreacting. Unlike a lot of [=BoJack=]'s toxic actions, his night with Emily was consensual and mutual, and the only real wrongdoing was that he and Emily didn't tell Todd what happened. Todd hadn't dated Emily for years, and it quickly becomes clear that they aren't compatible because [[{{Asexuality}} he could never be attracted to her sexually]], so Todd comes across as unusually possessive, especially since he doesn't seem to get mad at Emily at all or consider that she could have a consensual relationship with [=BoJack=]. Todd even admits in Season 4 that the Emily incident was more the straw that broke the camel's back, possibly serving as an AuthorsSavingThrow.

* SomeAnvilsNeedToBeDropped: Becoming a better person is easier said than done, but wanting to be better isn't enough. You have to actually ''do'' it, and it's nobody's responsibility but your own.
* UnintentionallyUnsympathetic: Todd's TheReasonYouSuckSpeech to [=BoJack=] about how he can't blame anything but himself for his bad behavior is quite poignant, his reaction to the specific situation - [=BoJack=] sleeping with Emily - comes across as unfair and overreacting. Unlike a lot of [=BoJack=]'s toxic actions, his night with Emily was consensual and mutual, and the only real wrongdoing was that he and Emily didn't tell Todd what happened. Todd hadn't dated Emily for years, and it quickly becomes clear that they aren't compatible because [[{{Asexuality}} he could never be attracted to her sexually]], so Todd comes across as unusually possessive, especially since he doesn't seem to get mad at Emily at all or consider that she could have a consensual relationship with [=BoJack=]. Todd even admits in Season 4 that the Emily incident was more the straw that broke the camel's back, possibly serving as an AuthorsSavingThrow.

* UnintentionallyUnsympathetic: Todd's TheReasonYouSuckSpeech to [=BoJack=] about how he can't blame anything but himself for his bad behavior is quite poignant, his reaction to the specific situation - [=BoJack=] sleeping with Emily - comes across as unfair and overreacting. Unlike a lot of [=BoJack=]'s toxic actions, his night with Emily was consensual and mutual, and the only real wrongdoing was that he and Emily didn't tell Todd what happened. Todd hadn't dated Emily for years, and it quickly becomes clear that they aren't compatible because [[{{Asexuality}} he could never be attracted to her sexually]], so Todd comes across as unusually possessive, especially since he doesn't seem to get mad at Emily at all. Todd even admits in Season 4 that the Emily incident was more the straw that broke the camel's back, possibly serving as an AuthorsSavingThrow.

* UnintentionallySympathetic: While Todd is right that [=BoJack=] has to accept that he hurts people whether he knows it or not, just how guilty is [=BoJack=] in this particular situation? Sure, he slept with Emily, but it was ultimately between two consenting adults and Todd isn't even attracted to her, nor [[{{Asexuality}} could he ever be]]. In fact, the only reason Todd thinks [=BoJack=] took advantage of her is because Emily didn't have the guts to break it off with [=BoJack=] personally, leading Todd to assume the worst (which, at this point, is all he really can do).

* FamilyUnfriendlyAesop: Granted, it's still a reasonable message, but the moral is basically that it doesn't matter whether or not you can stop yourself from being destructive, it's still your responsibility.

* SomeAnvilsNeedToBeDropped: Becoming a better person is easier said than done, but wanting to be better isn't enough. You have to actually ''do'' it, and it's nobody responsibility but your own.

* FamilyUnfriendlyAesop: Granted it's still a reasonable message, but the moral is basically that it doesn't matter whether or not you can stop yourself from being destructive, it's still your responsibility.

* SomeAnvilsNeedToBeDropped: Becoming a better person is easier said than done, but wanting to be better isn't enough. You have to actually do it, and it's nobody responsibility but your own.

* UnintentionallySympathetic: While Todd is right that [=BoJack=] has to accept that he hurts people whether he knows it or not, just how guilty is [=BoJack=] in this particular situation? Sure, he slept with Emily, but it was ultimately between two consenting adults and Todd isn't even attracted to her, nor [[{{Asexuality}} could he ever be]]. In fact, the only reason Todd thinks [=BoJack=] took advantage of her is because Emily didn't have the guts to break it off with [=BoJack=] personally, leading Todd to assume the worst (which, at this point, is all he really can do).

* FamilyUnfriendlyAesop: Granted it's still a reasonable message, but the moral is basically that it doesn't mater whether or not you can stop yourself from being destructive, it's still you're responsibility.

* FamilyUnfriendlyAesop: Granted it's still a reasonable message, but the moral is basically that the destructive things you do because of your own trauma are still your responsibility, whether you can help it or not.

* UnintentionallySympathetic: While Todd is right that [=BoJack=] has to accept that he hurts people whether he knows it or not, just how guilty is [=BoJack=] in this particular situation? Sure, he slept with Emily, but it was ultimately between two consenting adults and Todd isn't even attracted to her, nor [[{{Asexuality}} could he ever be]].

* UnintentionalSympathetic: While Todd is right that [=BoJack=] has to accept that he hurts people whether he knows it or not, just how guilty is [=BoJack=] in this particular situation? Sure, he slept with Emily, but it was ultimately between two consenting adults and Todd isn't even attracted to her, nor [[{{Asexuality}} could he ever be]].