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The example from Ready Jet Go doesn't fit the trope. As it's a show for preschoolers and focused on science, it makes sense that Jet would only be bi according to Word of God due to the general lack of romantic relationships in this genre. If anything, Jet is more of a Discount Bisexual due to his status as an alien.


* ''WesternAnimation/ReadyJetGo'': Jet is never stated to be bi on the show, despite it being indirectly confirmed via WordOfGay. Due to not being a human, however, it can be hard to say if his sexuality can be categorized at all, although he's definitely shown attraction to multiple genders.
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* In ''Webcomic/TheOrderOfTheStick'', Haley's bisexuality is limited to a couple of throwaway gags related to her temporary CurseOfBabel. When "telling a secret," she says she's kissed girls more than once, and when dealing with the facets of her personality, one of them is named Haley's Latent Bisexuality. Her sole onscreen love interest is Elan, who's male.
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* The titular ''Literature/HaruhiSuzumiya'' makes it very clear right from the start that she doesn't care about the gender of the one she is with, as long as they're not an ordinary human being. However, aside from her fixation on [[ReluctantFanserviceGirl Mikuru]] (which isn't treated seriously, as it's largely PlayedForLaughs and {{Fanservice}}), she doesn't really show any romantic interest in other girls, and it seems as though only boys have confessed to her.

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* The titular ''Literature/HaruhiSuzumiya'' makes it very clear right from the start that she doesn't care about the gender of the one she is with, as long as they're not an ordinary human being. However, aside from her fixation on touchy-feely behavior towards [[ReluctantFanserviceGirl Mikuru]] (which isn't treated seriously, as it's largely PlayedForLaughs and {{Fanservice}}), she doesn't really show any romantic interest in other girls, and it seems as though only boys have confessed to her.

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* Haruhi from ''LightNovel/HaruhiSuzumiya'' makes it very clear right from the start that she doesn't care about the gender of the one she is with, as long as they're not an ordinary human being. However, aside from her fixation on [[ReluctantFanserviceGirl Mikuru]] (which isn't treated seriously, as it's largely PlayedForLaughs and {{Fanservice}}), she doesn't really show any romantic interest in other girls, and it seems as though only boys have confessed to her.


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* The titular ''Literature/HaruhiSuzumiya'' makes it very clear right from the start that she doesn't care about the gender of the one she is with, as long as they're not an ordinary human being. However, aside from her fixation on [[ReluctantFanserviceGirl Mikuru]] (which isn't treated seriously, as it's largely PlayedForLaughs and {{Fanservice}}), she doesn't really show any romantic interest in other girls, and it seems as though only boys have confessed to her.
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* ''Film/TheyThem2022'': Veronica tells other people she's bisexual, though she only shows attraction to Kim, a LipstickLesbian whom she meets (of course, the guys in the film [[IncompatibleOrientation are mostly gay]], so it's not surprising).
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* Jane from ''Happy Endings'' has had past relationships with both men and women but she is married to a man and the one time she engages in any same-sex behavior, it's {{fanservice}} for her husband.

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* Jane from ''Happy Endings'' ''Series/HappyEndings'' has had past relationships with both men and women but she is married to a man and the one time she engages in any same-sex behavior, it's {{fanservice}} for her husband.

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* Donna Freedman from ''Series/{{Neighbours}}'' unfortunately turned out like this. Having taken the brave step of having a bisexual character and acknowledging this in a subtle coming-out scene, the producers never explored her sexuality apart from a token peck on the lips with a female character.

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* Donna Freedman from ''Series/{{Neighbours}}'' has had isssues with this:
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unfortunately turned out like this. Having taken the brave step of having a bisexual character and acknowledging this in a subtle coming-out scene, the producers never explored her sexuality apart from a token peck on the lips with a female character.character.
** Stephanie Scully, after she returned in 2015, was only a slight improvement. While she was quickly revealed to be in a relationship with a woman, this quickly fell apart due to the woman being her former psychiatric nurse. Of her subsequent relationships, two serious ones were with male regular cast members and one very brief one was with a woman, which Steph ended because she didn't want to get between her and her family. For what it's worth, neither of her relationships with men went the distance either, and after she left in 2018 she was mentioned to have started a relationship with a woman.
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* ''Series/TheGoodPlace'': Eleanor is pretty flirty with women as well as men, explicitly states possible attraction to Tahani (though it was always [[PlayedForLaughs played for laughs]]), and was even confirmed bisexual by the creators, but in the actual series she only ever had male love interests and male exes.

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* ''Series/TheGoodPlace'': Eleanor is pretty flirty with women as well as men, explicitly states possible attraction to Tahani and Janet (though it was always [[PlayedForLaughs played for laughs]]), kisses a simulation of Simone on the lips, and was even confirmed bisexual by the creators, but in the actual series series, she only ever had male love interests and male exes.exes (save for 1 clip seen from 1 reboot where Michael tried assigning Tahani as her soulmate).
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* In Gene Roddenberry's (cough cough) novelisation of the first StarTrek movie, Kirk mentions that 'of course' he's had relationships with both men and women, but denies having a sexual relationship with Mr Spock.

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I don't think this counts, if it's unclear if Eric was even bisexual, and I'm adding another example.


* ''Series/EmeraldCity'': West is shown as attracted to women, and mentions her past involvement with Anna's mother. On the show she's only shown having sex with a man though.



* ''Series/TrueBlood'': When Talbot comes onvto Eric, Eric says this is new. Talbot naturally assumes he's talking about being with another man, but Eric clarifies that he meant being with another vampire. But later seasons contradict this claim by revealing that Eric had been FriendsWithBenefits with his progeny Pam and his "sister" Nora for over a century, while it has never been revealed or even suggested that he has ever been with another man. But then again, Eric was seducing Talbot to kill him, meaning he was possibly just telling him what he wanted to hear and might have never been attracted to men in the first place. This would not be out of character for him.
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* Yuri from ''VideoGame/FireEmblemThreeHouses'' is a notably egregious example as one of the reasons he was added in the first place was to help address the criticisms that the game was homophobic. Particularly towards gay and bisexual men as, pre-DLC, male Byleth had exactly one same-sex ending vs. over twenty straight ones (female Byleth had four). Despite being CampGay, Yuri has exactly one romantic ending with another man, this being male Byleth again. His only other male ending is platonic, while all his endings with women are explicitly romantic. Though Yuri became a popular fan favorite even so, this is still a huge sore spot for fans of the game.

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* Yuri from ''VideoGame/FireEmblemThreeHouses'' is a notably egregious example as one of the reasons he was added in the first place was to help address the criticisms that the game was homophobic. Particularly towards gay and bisexual men as, pre-DLC, male Byleth had exactly one same-sex ending vs. over twenty straight ones (female Byleth had four). Despite being CampGay, Yuri has exactly one romantic ending with another man, this being male Byleth again. His only other male ending is platonic, while all his endings with women are explicitly romantic. Though Yuri became a popular fan favorite even so, this is still a huge sore spot for fans of the game.
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* Yuri from ''VideoGame/FireEmblemThreeHouses'' is a notably egregious example as one of the reasons he was added in the first place was to help address the criticisms that the game was homophobic. Particularly towards gay and bisexual men as, pre-DLC, male Byleth had exactly one same-sex ending vs. over twenty straight ones (female Byleth had four). Despite being CampGay, Yuri has exactly one romantic ending with another man, this being male Byleth again. His only other male ending is platonic, while all his endings with women are explicitly romantic. Though Yuri became a popular fan favorite even so, this is still a huge sore spot for fans of the game.
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* ''WesternAnimation/ReadyJetGo'': Jet is never stated to be bi on the show, despite it being indirectly confirmed via WordOfGay. Justified, as this is a PBS show. Due to not being a human, however, it can be hard to say if his sexuality can be categorized at all, although he's definitely shown attraction to multiple genders.

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* ''WesternAnimation/ReadyJetGo'': Jet is never stated to be bi on the show, despite it being indirectly confirmed via WordOfGay. Justified, as this is a PBS show. Due to not being a human, however, it can be hard to say if his sexuality can be categorized at all, although he's definitely shown attraction to multiple genders.
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* ''Film/Fresh2022'': Mollie mentions that she prefers dating women to men, but has an ex-boyfriend whom she slightly regrets breaking up with, and is only really seen finding guys cute.
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* Valkyrie from ''Film/ThorRagnarok'' is written as a bisexual mourning her lost girlfriend, but the flashback making it clear that they were lovers was cut from the final film, making her bisexuality limited to WordOfGay.

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* Valkyrie from ''Film/ThorRagnarok'' is written as a bisexual mourning her lost girlfriend, but the flashback making it clear that they were lovers was cut from the final film, making her bisexuality limited to WordOfGay. It has been suggested that Valkyrie will find a female love interest in the upcoming ''Film/ThorLoveAndThunder'', but that just presents the other side of this trope: Val has never expressed any romantic or sexual interest in ''men,'' yet the writers insist she's bisexual and not a lesbian.
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Alice is stated or implied to be bisexual, gets flirty with both genders, and/or it's confirmed [[WordOfGay by the writers]], but within the story itself, all of her romantic and sexual partners are men. As one can guess, it is often the character's same-sex attraction that gets shafted, limited to only {{Noodle Incident}}s, [[HideYourLesbians subtext, and innuendos]]. This could be an attempt at appeasing MoralGuardians, especially in older works or those aimed at young viewers, but many will note the DoubleStandard. Sometimes, it might even go the other way if the work is aimed at queer audiences; the character may talk about still finding the opposite gender attractive, and they might have a former spouse or biological child to prove it, but nowadays we only ever see them with the same gender.

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Alice is stated or implied to be bisexual, gets flirty with both genders, and/or it's confirmed [[WordOfGay by the writers]], but within the story itself, all of her romantic and sexual partners are men. As one can guess, it is often the character's same-sex attraction that gets shafted, limited to only {{Noodle Incident}}s, [[HideYourLesbians subtext, and innuendos]]. This could be an attempt at appeasing MoralGuardians, especially in older works or those aimed at young viewers, but many will note the DoubleStandard. Sometimes, it might even go the other way if the work is aimed at queer audiences; the character may talk about still finding officially be bi- or pansexual in the opposite gender attractive, and they might have a former spouse or biological child to prove it, name of inclusivity, but nowadays we only ever see them with the same gender.
story is focused on a same-sex romance.
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* ''Film/{{Crush|2022}}'': AJ is identified as bisexual, but only shows attraction to Paige, another girl.
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* The titular character in ''ComicBook/TheIncredibleHercules'' has no qualms discussing various paramours of any gender; he doesn't shy away from talking about his homosexual encounters during the time of Greek myth, and it's strongly hinted [[spoiler:at his funeral]] that he had a fling with Northstar, Marvel's first gay hero. However, the only confirmed lovers he has in the present time frame are all women.

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* The titular character in ''ComicBook/TheIncredibleHercules'' has no qualms discussing various paramours of any gender; he doesn't shy away from talking about his homosexual encounters during the time of Greek myth, and it's strongly hinted [[spoiler:at his funeral]] that he had a fling with Northstar, Marvel's first gay hero. However, the only all his confirmed lovers he has in the present time frame are all women.day were exclusively women. This was finally averted in ''ComicBook/GuardiansOfTheGalaxy2020'', fifty-five years after the character's first appearance, when he begins a relationship with Noh-Varr.
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* ''Series/Peacemaker2022'': Peacemaker is bisexual, which he's berated for by his homophobic AbusiveDad. On screen however, he only sleeps with and expresses interest in women, aside from a possible PrisonRape joke and a threesome with a woman and [[LoonyFan Vigilante]] that was PlayedForLaughs.
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This is misuse given they still have relationships/sex with people of multiple genders.


* ''Film/{{Anon}}'': Most of Anon's former lovers were men, though one pair of women was also seen.



* ''Literature/KushielsLegacy'': All three protagonists are at least theoretically bisexual, but all the "main" relationships and final pairings are hetero, as are the majority of the briefer encounters. Phedre [[spoiler:dallies with a few women and has her ongoing complex attraction to Melisande (though they are never lovers again after Skaldia), plus a long-term friends-and-lovers arrangement with Nicola, whom she sees very rarely]]. Imriel largely avoids men due to past trauma, though [[spoiler:he does at least allow a male Servant of Naamah to pleasure him, and makes love with Sunjata as Leander]]. Moirin is often seen to have better chemistry with her female lovers [[spoiler:particularly Jehanne and Snow Tiger]] than her male ones, but is tied into her relationship with Bao, almost literally.



* ''Series/CarnivalRow'': Vignette and Tourmaline were once lovers, but are only seen with men or interested by them in the present (they kiss once and Tourmaline would like a relationship again, but Vignette turns her down).



* ''Literature/HighFidelity'': The series has Rob be shown as dating a woman previously, although most of her exes are men in the flashbacks. She is never seen involved with nor even attracted to women in the present.



* ''Series/KillingEve'': All over the place.
** Villanelle is a curious inverse, where she is only shown having sex with men in a threesome (admittedly with two men) in Season 1 and only becomes obsessed or develops romantic relationships with women. This may be because it's easier for her to fulfill the PsychoLesbian archetype like that.
** Eve is called bisexual by Bill, and she's definitely attracted to Villanelle, but she [[IfItsYouItsOkay never mentions ever having romantic feelings for another woman]], she's married to a man, and she even slept with Hugo in Season 2.
** Nadia is described as having had a sexual relationship with Villanelle in the past, but she's currently romantically involved with [[BastardBoyfriend Diego]], and [[spoiler:even after he dies]], she's not shown entering in any other romantic relationship before [[spoiler:Villanelle kills her.]]



* ''Series/TheLWord'': Alice and Tina are both bisexual, though nearly all their relationships are with women, getting much more focus. Usually they're just called lesbians.
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* In ''Manga/DemonSlayerKimetsuNoYaiba'', the 2nd Databook states that Suma is bisexual, considering she is also revealed to be Tengen original's wife, that comes in handy with she being very accepting of Hinatsuru and Makio being married off to Tengen as well, but other than that offhand revelation in a side-material Suma in the series proper is only shown to love her husband Tengen just like her companion wives do.

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* In ''Manga/DemonSlayerKimetsuNoYaiba'', the 2nd Databook states that Suma is bisexual, considering she is also revealed to be Tengen original's wife, wife after winning against her older sister by crashing her marriage interview with Tengen, that comes in handy with she being very accepting of Hinatsuru and Makio being married off to Tengen as well, but other than that offhand revelation in a side-material Suma in the series proper is only shown to love her husband Tengen just like her companion wives do.
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* ''VideoGame/FireEmblemFates'' has an interesting same-sex example with Soleil, who is supposedly bisexual but is only shown having any interest in other women. In fact, her defining characteristic is that she's a shameless flirt who loves talking up any pretty girl she meets. Despite this, she is unable to [[RelationshipUpgrade S support]] with the female Avatar, with her only romance options being the male characters. The English localization tones this down, by changing all but two of her S supports into [[PlatonicDeclarationOfLove declarations of deep friendship]] instead of love. Even of the two that remained romantic, only one has her wholly reciprocate the other person's feelings, that being the [[DudeLooksLikeALady effeminate]], [[WholesomeCrossdresser crossdressing]] Forrest. The other, the male Avatar, has her explicitly state that she's bisexual with a preference for women, but is willing to see where a relationship with him will go.
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Alice is stated or implied to be bisexual, gets flirty with both genders, and/or it's confirmed [[WordOfGay by the writers]], but within the story itself, all of her romantic and sexual partners are men. As one can guess, it is often the character's same-sex attraction that gets shafted, limited to only {{Noodle Incident}}s, [[HideYourLesbians subtext, and innuendos]]. This could be an attempt at appeasing MoralGuardians, especially in older works or those aimed at young viewers, but many will note the DoubleStandard. Sometimes, it might even go the other way if the work is aimed at queer audiences; the character may talk about still finding the opposite gender attractive, and they might have a former spouse or biological child to "prove" it, but nowadays we only ever see them with the same gender.

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Alice is stated or implied to be bisexual, gets flirty with both genders, and/or it's confirmed [[WordOfGay by the writers]], but within the story itself, all of her romantic and sexual partners are men. As one can guess, it is often the character's same-sex attraction that gets shafted, limited to only {{Noodle Incident}}s, [[HideYourLesbians subtext, and innuendos]]. This could be an attempt at appeasing MoralGuardians, especially in older works or those aimed at young viewers, but many will note the DoubleStandard. Sometimes, it might even go the other way if the work is aimed at queer audiences; the character may talk about still finding the opposite gender attractive, and they might have a former spouse or biological child to "prove" prove it, but nowadays we only ever see them with the same gender.
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* ''Series/HomicideLifeOnTheStreet'': Bisexual Tim Bayliss is never shown with a boyfriend, despite having been stated to have had sex with at least one man. The closest we come is Tim being rejected by one black, closeted, uniformed officer, and going on a dinner date with a man who runs a mostly gay restaurant. It even takes the show a season to actually ''use'' the word bi(sexual); before that, Bayliss just says he's 'not strictly heterosexual'. As a counterpoint, Bayliss is shown to have had at least one girlfriend whom he had a full blown love scene with. He also had brief affairs/flirtations with at least three of his female co-workers (Cox, Ballard, Sheppard) and [[Series/LawAndOrder Claire Kincaid]]. Somewhat {{justified}}, though, in that Bayliss doesn't fully acknowledge his attraction to men until season 6, just one before the last- and by that point he doesn't strike up a serious romance with ''anyone'' for the remainder of the series.
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* ''Series/TheLWord'': Alice and Tina are both bisexual, though nearly all their relationships are with women, getting much more focus. Usually they're just called lesbians.
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* ''Literature/ZaraHossainIsHere'': Zara is a bisexual girl who has a committed relationship with her girlfriend Chloe. She's never shown or even mentioned to find any boy attractive.
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* ''Literature/JustJuliet'': Lena is bisexual, though she's only with Juliet in the story.
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* ''VideoGame/LifeIsStrange2'' came in for a little criticism for its two main romantic options for bisexual protagonist Sean. The different-sex romance route can end with Sean losing his virginity to Cassidy, and indeed the game actively encourages the player to do so, as well as making her romance scene unskippable. However, the same-sex romance route with Finn is easily locked off by earlier, seemingly unrelated dialogue choices and ends with a kiss at most even if Sean and Finn's relationship is maxed. Lightly {{Downplayed}} in that it's more a case of ''Life Is Strange'' always promoting the female love interest over the male (the other three main titles in the series feature bi women protagonists and also nudge the player towards the female romantic option to varying degrees), but that doesn't really negate the use of this trope.

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* ''VideoGame/LifeIsStrange2'' came in for a little criticism for its two main romantic options for bisexual protagonist Sean. The different-sex romance route can end with Sean losing his virginity to Cassidy, and indeed the game actively encourages the player to do so, as well as making her romance scene unskippable. However, the same-sex romance route with Finn is easily locked off by earlier, seemingly unrelated dialogue choices and ends with a kiss at most even if Sean and Finn's relationship is maxed. Lightly {{Downplayed}} in that it's more a case of ''Life Is Strange'' always promoting the female love interest over the male (the other three main titles in the series feature bi women protagonists and also nudge the player towards the female romantic option to varying degrees), degrees[[note]]In [[VideoGame/LifeIsStrange the original]] Max can romance either Chloe or Warren, but Chloe remains the most important supporting character regardless; while in [[VideoGame/LifeIsStrangeBeforeTheStorm the prequel]], Rachel is Chloe's only real romantic option after Eliot turns out to be a RomanticFalseLead (and it's hinted Chloe is actually a lesbian). ''VideoGame/LifeIsStrangeTrueColors'' is more even-handed in-game, but on a meta level, long-term fans of the series were found to be more likely to romance popular returning character Steph than new character Ryan.[[/note]]), but that doesn't really negate the use of this trope.
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* ''VideoGame/LifeIsStrange2'' came in for a little criticism for its two main romantic options for bisexual protagonist Sean. The different-sex romance route can end with Sean losing his virginity to Cassidy, and indeed the game actively encourages the player to do so, as well as making her romance scene unskippable. However, the same-sex romance route with Finn is easily locked off by earlier, seemingly unrelated dialogue choices and ends with a kiss at most even if Sean and Finn's relationship is maxed. Lightly {{Downplayed}} in that it's more a case of ''Life Is Strange'' always promoting the female love interest over the male (the other three main titles in the series feature a bisexual woman protagonist and also tend to nudge the player towards the female romantic option to varying degrees), but that doesn't really negate the use of this trope.

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* ''VideoGame/LifeIsStrange2'' came in for a little criticism for its two main romantic options for bisexual protagonist Sean. The different-sex romance route can end with Sean losing his virginity to Cassidy, and indeed the game actively encourages the player to do so, as well as making her romance scene unskippable. However, the same-sex romance route with Finn is easily locked off by earlier, seemingly unrelated dialogue choices and ends with a kiss at most even if Sean and Finn's relationship is maxed. Lightly {{Downplayed}} in that it's more a case of ''Life Is Strange'' always promoting the female love interest over the male (the other three main titles in the series feature a bisexual woman protagonist bi women protagonists and also tend to nudge the player towards the female romantic option to varying degrees), but that doesn't really negate the use of this trope.
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