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Deadlock Clock: Jul 11th 2014 at 11:59:00 PM
MichaelKatsuro Since: Apr, 2011
#1: May 27th 2014 at 12:56:25 AM

This trope refers to a character that's a genuinely good person, but I keep seeing people use it to mean the stereotypical Internet Nice Guy: somebody who thinks that acting nice to women obligates them to have sex with you or date you in return, and complains about being "friendzoned." My suggestion for a new name for this trope is Genuinely Nice Guy. What do you say?

eedwardgrey3 Since: Jun, 2011
#2: May 31st 2014 at 10:43:36 AM

Hmmm... assuming that a "Nice Guy" is a passive-agressive misogynist without the qualification "genuine" would require a rather jaded outlook.

Personally I'd prefer a clean-up over a rename and moving all the inapropriate examples to Dogged Nice Guy. Oh and remove the link to this trope on Entitled to Have You cause it might have caused some of the misuse.

edited 31st May '14 3:16:18 PM by eedwardgrey3

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#3: May 31st 2014 at 10:46:14 AM

I can see the potential for misunderstanding, as especially since the dating-context "nice guy" term is often used on this wiki.

eedwardgrey3 Since: Jun, 2011
#4: May 31st 2014 at 2:56:28 PM

The dating-context nice guy is covered under Dogged Nice Guy.

edited 31st May '14 2:56:36 PM by eedwardgrey3

Larkmarn Since: Nov, 2010 Relationship Status: Hello, I love you
#5: May 31st 2014 at 6:16:41 PM

Um... could we get some references for this misuse? Because I've never seen it misused like that.

The only potential issue that I have seen for this is that there's no clear cut off for what makes someone a Nice Guy versus just not a jerkass. But even that rarely causes problems.

edited 31st May '14 6:18:41 PM by Larkmarn

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#6: May 31st 2014 at 10:40:12 PM

The trope is called Nice Guy, not ''Nice Guy''. I don't think it needs changing unless there's significant misuse. Well, not even then, since that internet definition is only used ironically. Or that name for it, at any rate.

edited 31st May '14 10:44:32 PM by AnotherDuck

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#7: Jun 1st 2014 at 1:44:42 AM

[up]Good point.

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theAdeptrogue iRidescence Since: Nov, 2011 Relationship Status: Having tea with Cthulhu
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#8: Jun 1st 2014 at 5:49:20 AM

The "stereotypical Internet Nice Guy" misuse should probably be moved to Entitled to Have You (type B).

But how significcant is the misuse anyway? I don't actually see it used in that context very often...

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#9: Jun 1st 2014 at 9:46:41 AM

Since this page already doesn't have examples, I think it would be best to tweak it a bit to make it a disambiguation page between several "nice" related tropes, including Dogged Nice Guy and Entitled to Have You.

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Leaper Since: May, 2009
#10: Jun 1st 2014 at 2:01:44 PM

[up] So you want to eliminate the "actual Nice Guy" definition?

Rethkir A Trusted Friend in Science and Ponies from the gap between dimensions Since: Mar, 2013
#11: Jun 1st 2014 at 3:07:33 PM

Where is this misuse? I don't see it on any of the subpages. Unless a wick check can show that this is a serious problem, I don't see the point in renaming this. Even still, there should be a very good reason for any rename.

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Larkmarn Since: Nov, 2010 Relationship Status: Hello, I love you
#12: Jun 1st 2014 at 3:51:48 PM

Yes, we've had several requests for actual evidence of misuse, but the OP hasn't even come back... thus far I'm not even slightly convinced that any action needs to be taken.

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#13: Jun 1st 2014 at 4:36:06 PM

I'm giving this thread a clock; if someone (the OP or someone else who thinks it needs to be changed, doesn't matter) doesn't provide evidence of misuse, not just an assertion of misuse, the thread will be shut.

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Earnest from Monterrey Since: Jan, 2001 Relationship Status: Drift compatible
#14: Jun 2nd 2014 at 8:16:51 PM

I did a quick check, but it's been a while. Is 37 enough?

Correctly used: 27
No context, just listed: 10
Incorrectly used: 0

edited 2nd Jun '14 8:17:26 PM by Earnest

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#16: Jun 4th 2014 at 10:30:11 AM

appears that nothing actually needs to be done then

Sheneshta Since: Jan, 2014
#17: Jun 4th 2014 at 12:07:10 PM

I think the whole disambiguation part is unnecessary since it conflates Dogged Nice Guy (a guy trying to win a girl's heart through helpfulness and perseverance) with the Internet Nice Guy whose niceness is purely sex-motivated.

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#20: Jul 8th 2014 at 4:40:32 AM

Honestly, the only place I've seen this misused as "Internet Nice Guy" is this thread.

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#21: Jul 8th 2014 at 5:32:56 AM

Ditto.

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#22: Jul 8th 2014 at 5:38:19 AM

Aye, this thread should not be open. No misuse of any kind (other than in this thread, which doesn't count really) has been demonstrated, and demonstrating it was requested above.

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#23: Jul 8th 2014 at 6:19:52 AM

Have the ZC Es mentioned in 14 been context-ed?

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