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Ettina Since: Apr, 2009
#1: Mar 10th 2010 at 8:21:21 AM

I'm working on a short story about a girl who is being abused by her parents, and need some help fleshing out the parents' characters.

The father is abusive to the mother as well, and is forcing her to participate in sexual abuse of the daughter. That's what I've fleshed out so far. So, knowing that, would the father differ from other spousal abusers? And what would the mother be like? Does it work for me to have her act totally different (ie, like a fairly good mother) whenever the father isn't around?

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Sionnach Eyes of the Hunter from down the rabbit-hole. Since: Feb, 2010
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#2: Mar 10th 2010 at 9:13:11 AM

Usually in cases where the mother participates in the abuse of a child when she's been abused herself, she's afraid of what the father will do to her if she refuses. At first she could love and want to protect her child, but after countless beatings and other forms of abuse then she starts joining in just to survive. So I'd think it'd be reasonable for her to show some bit of kindness when the father isn't around, or when she knows she won't be caught.

Maybe you could look at A Child Called It for some further details, and sometimes Criminal Minds go into details about this sort of thing in certain episodes.

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Leradny Since: Jan, 2001
#3: Mar 10th 2010 at 12:09:15 PM

This is extremely nuanced and would do better as a series of short stories, if not a full-fledged novel.

Acting different when the father isn't around is believable, but depending on how old the child is she may either be 1) too confused and scared to accept the affection, or 2) think of the two opposing aspects as different people entirely.

Ettina Since: Apr, 2009
#4: Mar 10th 2010 at 12:14:32 PM

Great idea! I'll go with the 'thinks they're two different people' thing.

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cutealien TA CUTEST THING AROUND from The lab Since: Dec, 1969
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#5: Nov 14th 2010 at 6:25:00 PM

i told my friends one time that my dad calls me a asshole when i do something wrong and they said my dads abusive is it true

edited 14th Nov '10 6:25:22 PM by cutealien

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