Follow TV Tropes

Following

Context TearJerker / WhatsEatingGilbertGrape

Go To

1Especially during his early years, Creator/LasseHallstrom had tender Tear Jerkers down in ''spades''. Just the depths of the love of this one family, that is the very definition of dysfunctional, and yet is so strong...
2-----
3
4* Bonnie Grape. Since her husband's suicide, she's eaten herself into morbid obesity, at the expense of her good looks, and refuses to leave the house. When she's forced to go outside for the first time in years, she makes the painful discovery about how much of a laughing stock she is as the whole town stares and makes fun of her. Even before that, [[WhatTheHellHero Gilbert was letting the neighborhood kids sneak a peek through his window to gawk at her like some sort of side-show attraction]].
5** Her death, especially considering that the way it happens has happened to plenty of real-life obese people, not to mention that any attempt to get her out will be humiliating: her body is so heavy it'd take a forklift to move, and the closest thing to a casket her size is a piano case. Even if there was a less disgraceful option, there would be a crowd, staring and laughing at her even in death.
6** The way Arnie and, by extension, the audience realizes that she's dead...At first he's delighted that she's playing the same sort of hiding game he plays with his brother and sisters...but he slowly shifts to [[PleaseWakeUp frustrated and frightened when the game doesn't end]], finally becoming distraught as he realizes something's wrong. His anguished howls and pleading are genuinely heartbreaking and upsetting, espeically since Creator/LeonardoDiCaprio [[https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=37Zb2M9DTA8 ad-libbed that whole scene.]]
7*** Darlene Cates eventually [[http://people.com/celebrity/darlene-cates-dies-gilbert-grape-weight-battle-hollywood-success/ died in her sleep as well]], making the whole scene eerily prophetic (although Cates had dropped an impressive 240 pounds by that time and was 69 years old when she passed, only a few years short of the median age of death of 74 for women of her generation).
8*** If you want proof of how effective this scene is, watch the parody of it in the ''WesternAnimation/AmericanDad'' episode "Irregarding Steve," which features a b-plot of scenes from this movie being reenacted by squirrels[[note]]"[[StealthPun In a nutshell]]," you see.[[/note]]. Even when played entirely as a joke, it's ''still just as sad.''
9* The scene where Gilbert finally loses control and beats Arnie in frustration. It's short and brutal and Arnie's look of fear and pain and betrayal is devastating, especially if you've ever cared for someone with special needs who rely on the caretaker to be the one person they can trust.
10* It's implied that the reason their father killed himself is because he'd always felt trapped by their small town and that he had condemned his children to the same fate.

Top