Line #86 Main/LovingDetails


1	->''"I would give her flowers every day. And not just any flowers, okay? Her favorites are orchids. White. And breakfast in bed. Six loaves of wheat toast with butter on both sides. No crusts. The way she likes it."''
2	-->-- '''Melman''', ''WesternAnimation/{{Madagascar}}: Escape 2 Africa''
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4	This trope happens when a character in love recites (or otherwise shows knowledge of) tiny details about the object of their affection, showing how well they know the other. The amount or obscurity of the detail suggests the intensity of feeling on the part of the speaker, although practical circumstances may limit the amount of information that is available.
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6	A common variant is when the speaker lists every tiny detail about a past experience with the beloved, especially about the day they first met: the weather, what each of them was wearing at the time, what they both ate, and so on.
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8	This is usually played as romantic, but it can take on a creepy tone if the person reciting detail is a StalkerWithACrush. However, there should be affection of some kind involved in order for this trope to be in play. (Non-romantic love may also qualify, though this version is less commonly seen in media.)
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10	Overlaps with LudicrousPrecision when precise numerical details are given (such as calculating down to the minute or second how long it's been since the couple met), especially when it's PlayedForLaughs.
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12	Not to be confused with DescriptionPorn, though they may overlap if the speaker gets really carried away.
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16	!!Examples
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21	* ''Manga/AyakashiTriangle'': Suzu [[BigEater eats so often]] in front of Matsuri, he's memorized how long each type of food takes, and sees deviation as a sign of distress.
22	-->'''Matsuri:''' It took her 3 minutes and a half to eat a single donut! Usually, that type'd only take her 50 seconds.\
23	'''Shirogane:''' The fact that you know such details creeps me out.
24	* Towards the end of ''Anime/CrossAnge,'' the BigBad, who is unhealthily obsessed with the title heroine, tries to demoralize her boyfriend Tusk by telling him how exactly he will seduce her. Tusk quickly {{no sell}}s his attempt, saying that he already knows Ange in more intimate ways than the BigBad can ever hope to, including how many moles she has on her inner thigh.
25	* PlayedForLaughs in ''Manga/KaguyaSamaLoveIsWar''. When Shirogane claims that Kaguya probably doesn't even remember his birthday since he only ever told her once, she mentally lists off his birthday, horoscope sign, blood type, ''and'' birth weight (with a caption noting that he never told her the last two things). It's then played straight later on when [[spoiler:Hayasaka is helping her figure out what she'll say for her LoveConfession]] during the Culture Festival.
26	* The Creator/NisioIsin oneshot manga ''Henshin Gambo!'' features its heroine, a girl playing matchmaker for the protagonist Sunaki and her friend, listing [[ReasonYouSuckSpeech every single thing about him]] that would be offputting to women. It's actually an early sign that [[MatchmakerCrush she has feelings for Sunaki]], given she also lists mundane details that no one would pay attention to on first glance.
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31	* ''Fanfic/TheFlowerPrincessAndTheAlchemist'': When thinking or discussing about [[SecondLove Ed]][[{{Manga/FullmetalAlchemist}} ward's]] character and personality, [[AllLovingHeroine Ori]][[{{Manga/Bleach}} hime]] often goes on a passionate tangent about all the things she likes about him. From noteworthy details of how kind and caring he is to small, mundane details of how she finds his nose twitching cute whenever he is concentrating on something. [[EveryoneCanSeeIt When other characters point how she must be in love with him]], she becomes [[ObliviousToLove confused and embarrassed]] and [[HeIsNotMyBoyfriend vehemently denies having any sort of romantic interest in Ed]].
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36	* In ''WesternAnimation/MadagascarEscape2Africa,'' Melman recites a lot of minor details about Gloria when he interrupts her date with Moto Moto, including her favourite meal. This convinces Gloria that Melman really loves her, while Moto Moto is only interested in her [[ChubbyChaser because of her bulk]].
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40	* Just before the climactic penultimate scene in ''Film/BallOfFire'', Sugarpuss has a LoveEpiphany during her shotgun wedding to the gangster she was desperate to elope with and realises that she has feelings for the shy English professor Bertram. Her boyfriend doesn't believe her, so she lists all the little things she finds cute about Bertram, from his waistcoasts always being misbuttoned to his naivety towards love, seen in the scene when she kissed him three times and he ran out of the room flustered.
41	* In ''Film/CoverGirl'' (1944), Rusty recites to the minute how long it's been since she met Danny as a way of subtly reassuring him that she still cares about him despite her newfound fame as a model.
42	* In ''Film/EasterParade,'' Hannah accuses Don of not noticing her as a woman, and to prove it, she closes her eyes and challenges him to tell her what color they are. He answers, "They're brown" and kisses her.
43	* In ''Film/FollowTheFleet,'' when Bake is reunited with his former girlfriend and dancing partner Sherry, he orders a chocolate sundae without whipped cream for her. This signals both his continuing feelings for her and his desire to reconcile (showing that he both remembers what she likes and wants to give it to her). Sherry is not quite ready to forgive him, so she immediately tells the waiter to make her sundae ''with'' whipped cream--"and plenty of it!"
44	* The "remember a time together" variation is parodied in the song "I Remember It Well" from ''Film/{{Gigi}}.'' Honoré tries to convince Mamita that she's the love of his life by reciting details about their last evening together (before he cheated on her), but he gets them all wrong. She, on the other hand, remembers the details perfectly and corrects him each time he makes a mistake.
45	* Phil in ''Film/GroundhogDay'' attempts this with Rita by using his GroundhogDayLoop to learn tons of facts about her, but instead of endearing him to her, it creeps her out. The only time it causes her to be interested is when he's proves his time loop is real by reciting details about ''everyone'' in the town, though the interest is caused more by concern than by attraction.
46	* ''Film/LoveActually:'' When Sarah is called in to speak with her boss Harry at the start of the film, it seems at first that she simply keeps very close track of her own employment history. It soon becomes apparent, however, that she can only recite the details because they're relevant to the first moment she met her crush Karl.
47	* ''Film/SnowDay:'' StalkerWithACrush Hal is a one-sided example of this, as he knows more tiny details about Claire than her boyfriend Chuck actually knows, such as the fact that her favorite gum is Watermelon Bubblicious, that she can't go a whole day without diving, that she has brown eyes, and that (he assumes) her favorite animal is the whale. Hal even {{lampshades}} this early in his narration of the movie by saying he knows the the ''exact'' number of times she blinks per minute.
48	* During Harry's LoveConfession at the end of ''Film/WhenHarryMetSally,'' he lists several of Sally's small quirks as things he loves about her.
49	* ''Film/FantasticBeastsTheCrimesOfGrindelwald'': Newt Scamander is enamored with how Tina Goldstein's eyes are like a salamander's. There's also him digressing a bit when he notices how narrow Tina's footprints are.
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53	* ''Literature/CiaphasCain'', HERO OF THE IMPERIUM, at the end of his career while composing his secret memoirs, can still remember every detail of the first time he met Amberley Vail.
54	* ''Literature/TheCinderellaMurder'': Dwight had an unrequited crush on the murder victim, Susan. He knew how much Susan's lucky necklace meant to her and that she was rarely without it (a detail only her parents and best friend tend to acknowledge). She'd also once confided in him that the computer lab was sometimes the only place she felt she could relax and escape from life's stresses, which he still remembers twenty years after her death. [[spoiler:Consequently, when Dwight overhears Nicole mention that Susan couldn't find her necklace in her room the night she died, he realises she must've left it in the lab and went back for it. And then he realises she must've overheard Hathaway trying to persuade him to take credit for REACH, something Hathaway wouldn't want anyone else to know...]]
55	* In ''Literature/{{Dune}},'' when Paul's future lover Chani imbibes some Spice, she has a premonition of this. She has a vision of their child and is amazed that she can recognize Paul's "every feature."
56	* In the ''Literature/EarthsChildren'' book ''The Valley of Horses'' and those following, Ayla demonstrates a remarkable memory to Jondolar--specifically, when she learns that his morning routine includes a cup of tea and a small stick with which to clean his teeth, she makes a point of having those available to him every morning. At first he is impressed, but eventually it becomes routine. Then in the following book, ''The Mammoth Hunters,'' they break up--but then, Jondolar realizes that she's ''still putting them out for him every morning.'' This makes him realize that she still loves him.
57	* In ''[[Literature/LastHeraldMageTrilogy Magic's Promise]]'', grieving Herald-Mage Vanyel makes an illusion of his lost lover Tylendel. Thirteen or fourteen years have passed since he last saw the man alive, but naturally, it's a perfect likeness, right down to the last curl. This causes an awkward moment when a young man who happens to resemble 'Lendel walks in and sees it.
58	* A feature of Aeran culture in Creator/MCAHogarth's ''Literature/{{Paradox}}'' universe. In the short story "Rosettes and Ribbons," an Aera tries to convince his wife that he's having an affair with a Seersa anthropologist by telling her sordid tales of their liaisons in vivid detail in an attempt to get her to divorce him. Fortunately, said Seersa is able to talk the wife out of a DuelToTheDeath by showing off a [[IntimateMarks birthmark]] he would have mentioned had their affair not been total fiction.
59	* In ''Literature/PrideAndPrejudice'', Elizabeth takes encouragement from how easily Mr Bingley names the exact date and how long it's been since he last saw Elizabeth (and by extension, how long he last saw Jane), suggesting that Jane remains on his mind.
60	* Subverted in ''[[Literature/{{Redwall}} Rakkety Tam]]:'' Yoofus at one point reassures Doogy that he is not lost, because he knows the woods like his dear wife's face. Doogy responds by standing between him and Didgety and challenging him to name her eye color. He can't, even after several guesses, giving the excuse that when he's looking into them he's too enchanted to think about colors.
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64	* ''Series/{{Arrow}}''
65	** In the pilot episode, Tommy Merlyn makes an offhand remark about how long it's been since his best friend got laid. "By my rough estimate... 1,839 days", the implication being that Tommy counted the days since Oliver Queen was LostAtSea.
66	** When Oliver goes on a date with Felicity Smoak, he's able to recall the color of the pen tip she was chewing on [[LoveAtFirstSight when he first laid eyes on her.]]
67	* When Emma Peel departs on ''Series/TheAvengers1960s'' (the British SpyDrama), she meets her replacement, Tara King, on the stairs. A little wistfully, Emma tells Tara, "He likes his tea stirred anticlockwise." The series had always been very coy about the nature of the relationship between Emma Peel and John Steed, so this plays as a final bit of ShipTease.
68	* In ''Series/TheBigBangTheory'' episode "The Clean Room Infiltration," Sheldon and Amy agree not to exchange gifts on Christmas, but after he learns that Amy bought him a gift anyway, Sheldon decides to punish her by [[{{Unishment}} getting her a personal gift to make her feel guilty.]] He goes to the store with Bernadette, who asks what Amy would like. Sheldon responds by rattling off many details about Amy's taste and then adds, "[[MoodWhiplash Now let's find the kind of gift that makes her feel small and worthless.]]"
69	* ''Series/BuffyTheVampireSlayer''. When Buffy is brought back from the dead, she asks Spike how long she's been away. Spike says the exact number of days without having to think about it.
70	* ''Series/TheCommish:'' As Tony is talking about the case of the week with his wife, she mentions that it must be particularly vexing for him because he's absentmindedly playing with his wedding ring while he talks about it, which is something he always does when he's annoyed by a case. This serves as Tony's EurekaMoment for the case: a man whom they have arrested for murder claims that his wife set him up to take the fall, but she claims that they're not married and he was her stalker. Tony asks him to identify something that "only a husband would know," and he mentions that his wife hates to see a cup away from its saucer--if he walks around with a cup, his wife follows along with the saucer to make sure they stay together. Tony visits the woman and asks for a cup of coffee, then wanders around her place and she follows along with the saucer.
71	* Hilariously subverted in an episode of ''Series/TheDrewCareyShow'' where Drew and Oswald try to pass for a gay couple to hide the fact that Drew used his company health insurance to pay for surgery for his dog. Mrs. Louder and Mr. Wick separate them and interrogate them to see how well they know each other. They fail miserably.
72	* ''Series/{{Frasier}}:'' Niles is able to recall a lot of details about Daphne, such as the precise way her hair smells. Of course, for most of the series his attraction to her is something she's entirely oblivious about, but once it gets switched around, Daphne starts doing this to Niles.
73	* ''Series/{{Leverage}}:'' In "[[Recap/LeverageS01E05TheMileHighJob The Mile-High Job]]" (season 1), Sophie and Nate's relationship is in a tentative stage. Sophie becomes upset when Nate apparently doesn't remember their first meeting--he dates it as two years later than she does. She takes this as a sign that he's not really into her. Later, he recites details of the first time he ''saw'' her (which matches her date), but adds that he didn't properly ''meet'' her until two years after that. Sophie is reassured by this.
74	* ''Series/TheNewlywedGame'' (known to British viewers as ''Mr and Mrs)'' invokes and practically tests out this trope: winning demands you know what your spouse would answer to a given question.
75	* In ''Series/ParksAndRecreation'', Tom ropes his coworkers into participating in a test run of his game show concept, ''Know Ya Boo'', a [[FollowTheLeader thinly-veiled ripoff]] of ''Series/TheNewlywedGame'' with a [[SidekickCreatureNuisance CGI puppy]] [[NonhumanSidekick co-host]]. Drama ensues when this trope is {{subverted}}; platonic friends Donna and Jerry turn out to know more about each other than newlyweds April and Andy.
76	* In ''Series/NCISLosAngeles'', this comes up at least twice for Kensi and Deeks.
77	** In "Neighborhood Watch," while UndercoverAsLovers, the "married" couple are asked how they met. Kensi and Deeks give an embellished version of their actual first meeting at the MMA gym. The follow-up question is "Do you remember what the other was wearing?" Both can remember with absolute clarity, and no hesitation.
78	** Eric and Nell get an almost identical scene in season 8's "Getaway."
79	** Later, in season 6's "Traitors," a bickering argument about whether or not Kensi ate Deeks' food from the office fridge turns into a Loving Details moments as Deeks tries to prove he knows Kensi better than she thinks he does.
80	-->'''Deeks:''' I know you hate liver but love bulgogi.\
81	'''Kensi:''' So does everyone else.\
82	'''Deeks:''' I know your favorite movie on the planet is ''Film/{{Titanic\|1997}}''.\
83	'''Kensi:''' Me and a billion other people.\
84	'''Deeks:''' I know that you love mojitos and {{techno}} music at the Apex Hotel. I know that you played college softball. I know that you dressed up like a [[Franchise/TeenageMutantNinjaTurtles Teenage Mutant Ninja Turtle]] as a kid for [[UsefulNotes/AllHallowsEve Halloween]]. I know that you keep a journal. I know you wanna have an oregano garden, even though you are a notorious plant killer. I know that your favorite [[Music/NewKidsOnTheBlock New Kid on the Block]] was Joey [=McIntyre=]. And why not? Because he was the dreamiest. Bam. Oh, and I also know that you hide girlie magazines under your bathroom sink.
85	** It's a [[SugarWiki/MomentOfAwesome Crowning Moment of Awesome]] for the writing team, too, since every one of those details is {{canon}}. All of them can be traced to previous episodes. There's a great vid on Website/YouTube illustrating it [[https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=pNf9FA_eO_M here.]]
86	* In the ''Series/StarTrekTheOriginalSeries'' episode "The Deadly Years," Kirk's OldFlame Jan Wallace knows (almost) exactly how long it's been since she last saw him: "Six years, four months, and an odd number of days. You mean you don't know?"
87	* ''Series/StarTrekVoyager''. In "The Voyager Conspiracy", Seven of Nine has an attack of paranoia and tries to flee Voyager. Captain Janeway recites significant moments in their relationship from memory, then kneels down in the marriage proposal position and gives Seven the [[PuppyDogEyes Gooey Look]]. SlashFic ensued.
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91	* "Crazy Love" by Mindy Gledhill is about the impulse to learn all these things about the object of your affection.
92	* Music/TyHerndon's "What Mattered Most" is a subversion, about a guy who was so focused on the details about his ex that he didn't pay enough attention to her as a person and she left him.
93	-->''Her eyes are blue\
94	Her hair is long\
95	In ‘64 she was born\
96	In Baton Rouge\
97	Her favorite song is “In My Life”\
98	I memorized her every move\
99	I knew her books, her car, her clothes\
100	But I paid no attention to what mattered most''
101	* Music/JohnMichaelMontgomery's "I Love the Way You Love Me":
102	-->I like to imitate ol' Music/{{Jerry Lee\|Lewis}}\
103	And watch you roll your eyes when I'm slightly off-key\
104	And I like the innocent way that you cry\
105	at sappy old movies you've seen hundreds of times\
106	But I love the way you love me\
107	Strong and wild, slow and easy\
108	Heart and soul, so completely\
109	I love the way you love me...
110	* The Music/BenFolds[=/=]Creator/NickHornby collaboration "Password" is sung from the perspective of a guy who memorizes small details about his crush in an attempt to win her over. While she's a little creeped out at first, she does agree to a relationship [[spoiler:which ends when she gets bored and cheats on him. The song suggests that knowing the details of a person's life isn't the same as knowing the person.]]
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114	* UsefulNotes/{{Israel}}i columnist Dana Spector, who writes the column ‘Soon I’ll Go Far’ on the [[https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Yedioth_Ahronoth Yediot Akharonot]] extra ‘7 Days’, mentioned in a column how relationships start off as this, when you can practically paint an accurate painting of your beloved’s eyes and their colour pattern from gazing into them for so long, but ultimately looking so closely at someone for so long makes the image blur and the passion wane. This became HarsherInHindsight when not too long after writing this column, she left her husband Alex Levitt for screenwriter Ran Sarig.
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118	* Played with in episode three of ''VideoGame/TalesOfMonkeyIsland.'' Adventurer Coronado de Cava suspects Guybrush of moving in on his old sweetheart, the Voodoo Lady. Guybrush tries to defuse this by pretending to be married to Morgan la Flay; Coronado tests this by forcing them to play a round of ''Series/TheNewlywedGame'' at the peril of being dropped down the gullet of a giant manatee. Morgan knows all about Guybrush because she's a huge fan, and Guybrush must deduce the answers to the questions based on clues he encountered earlier.
119	* Characters in ''VideoGame/TomodachiLife'' who are in a relationship will sometimes ask you if they can tell you something about their significant other, then go on a long ramble along these lines, and parents will sometimes brag about their children the same way. The game lampshades this by using a FastForwardGag to reduce everything after the first few lines to BlahBlahBlah.
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123	* In the first season of ''WebVideo/TheGuild,'' StalkerWithACrush Zaboo shows up on Codex's doorstep announcing that he wants to move their online "relationship" to real life. He casually rattles off all the things he has learned about her, including her cell phone record, medication dosage, and "every floor plan of every place you have ever lived." Codex is flustered, but it's PlayedForLaughs.
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127	* ''WesternAnimation/TheSimpsons:''
128	** In [[Recap/TheSimpsonsS2E22BloodFeud "Blood Feud"]], Marge demonstrates an intimate knowledge of not just her husband but her whole family, including Homer's blood type and earmuff size, Lisa's ring and shoe sizes, and Bart's number of teeth and allergies.
129	** In [[Recap/TheSimpsonsS8E9ElViajeMisteriosoDeNuestroJomer ""El Viaje Misterioso de Nuestro Jomer]], when Homer fears that Marge may not be his soulmate, he is reassured when she manages to track him down using everything she knows about him:
130	--->'''Marge:'''Well, I was sure you'd be on foot because you always say public transportation is for losers. And I was sure you'd head west because Springfield slopes down that way. And then I saw the lighthouse and I remembered how you love blinking lights, like the one on the waffle iron.
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134	* If an immigrant spouse of a US citizen applies for a green card and the immigration authorities suspect the marriage to be [[CitizenshipMarriage fraudulent,]] then they will question the couple to see if they can provide these loving details about each other. This ''[[http://cityroom.blogs.nytimes.com/2010/06/11/marriage-test/ New York Times]]'' article gives examples of the sorts of questions asked.
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