hiya, the name's scout.
So, like... I'm secretly making plans to move across the state when I'm 22. Pottsville, specifically, so I can meet my girlfriend. I hope this works out.
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Uniocular
That's a long way away. Good luck.
"It's so hard to be humble, knowing how great I am."
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That's a long ways away.
Today is the day I realized that me and Mukora are the same person.
Also men are pigs. So am I technically but I'm not attracted to other pigs.
edited 23rd Aug '14 7:44:45 PM by SilentlyHonest
hiya, the name's scout.
sssssSSSHHH IT'LL WORK
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Konknitive Dissonance
-sees all that Anti-Men talk-
-walks out-
Uniocular
I don't think anyone's actually anti-men (I am a man, for starters.)
In my case, I just can't feel comfortable dating one due to past experiences. I'll still look at the ones that are hella fine, though.
edited 23rd Aug '14 7:53:21 PM by Mukora
"It's so hard to be humble, knowing how great I am."
What happened?
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Uniocular
My first boyfriend (and also first person I ever dated) abused the hell out of me, and only kept me around for sex (sex that I never wanted.)
It's weird though, because my first girlfriend did basically the same thing, and yet I'm not scared of women.
"It's so hard to be humble, knowing how great I am."
Like I said previously, Men are pigs. And well... I can understand where you're coming from. A lover of mine did something pretty maleficent to me. He ruined it for an entire group of people.
My own family used and abused me financially and emotionally. I will never trust them again.
So yeah, I have a respect for your feelings on the topic.
@Daft: That's quite a long time to wait. Good luck with that I guess.
@Daft: You're pretty optimistic about this,...but much could happen in that time. You could break up in that time for who knows what reasons.
Her family could move closer to or farther from you.
Someone else could enter the equation IRL.
Or something could cause the occasion to happen sooner.
Just saying it's just not a certainty and you gotta be careful.
Luminous beings are we, not this crude matter
Do a barrel roll!
Well, lucky me, I seem to have stumbled in at Happy Hour.
Flora is the most beautiful member of the Winx Club. :)
Apparition in the Woods
I can understand finding men but not women threatening after such experiences, but I do hope that you find yourself comfortable enough to approach the same sex/gender again at some point in your life. One horrible person should not spoil that entire range of opportunities for you.
...I'm actually pretty happy right now, though. I really like being in love with someone who loves me back, even when logistics are a bitch.
I'll hide your name inside a word and paint your eyes with false perception.
Still just awesome like that
Uniocular
And I wouldn't be opposed to, like, the world's most perfect man if he offered. I just don't seek it out that much.
"It's so hard to be humble, knowing how great I am."
So I've been hanging around with some of my new friends at college, and I ran into this girl at one of the events we all had to go to. My friend and I have been hanging around with her for the past two days(technically nights) now, and I'm not exactly sure if what I'm feeling is attraction or just desire to get to know her better.
We share a lot of the same interests, and even come from the same area, so I'm leaning towards the latter right now.
Had a wonderful date today. Went to lunch with her and saw GOTG again, and then we walked around the mall together for a while. I wish I could spend every day with her like this.
Would that it were so simple.
Today, I was suddenly reminded of this girl I was crushing on hard when I was in college; I think I was 19 at the time. We were in a political theory class together, and had a mutual friend. We got along great, and we grabbed lunch a couple times, but always with other people. All through that time I was struggling to work up the courage to ask her out, just the two of us, or just express that I was into her, but I never could. I would literally walk across campus with the intention of visiting her, and then get so neurotic in the interim that by the time I reached her hall, I convinced myself to walk back home. Then, one time, she asked me out to dinner and I brushed her off instinctively. Semester ended, and we never spoke again. I was kicking myself for it a month later when I realized what a fool I had been. I was so close, yet so far. That was nearly five years ago. This morning, I suddenly remembered her and realized my love life has continued to be empty. I sometimes tell myself that there's still time, but I'm 24 now, without ever having dated a girl once. You can make a man fit, rich, educated, and successful, but you can't make them succeed in love if they're neurotic, paranoid, or vain, and I tend to be all three.
I try so hard to be a Cultural Rebel and not go through the traditional Indian arranged marriage, but I have so many issues connecting with women confidently that the prospect is looking more inevitable.
"For all those whose cares have been our concern, the work goes on, the cause endures, the hope still lives, and the dream shall never die."
Wide Eyed Wonderman
Ah, the triumph of reasoning.
I resisted flirting with my crush yesterday and am finding myself finding ways to be less attracted more and more every day.
David Bowie 1947-2016
LEGENDARY GALE
:(
I'm still not sure whether being attracted to my crush is even a good thing or not. Probably not. Almost definitely not. What am I thinking. Ugh. >_<
but HOW?
Wide Eyed Wonderman
You and I both
Boys are gross.
I don't think I'll ever be able to date a man again.
"It's so hard to be humble, knowing how great I am."