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Odd1 Still just awesome like that from Nowhere Land Since: Sep, 2013 Relationship Status: And here's to you, Mrs. Robinson
Still just awesome like that
#75976: Apr 24th 2014 at 7:30:08 PM

Well, anyway...

Anyone else ever get a sudden urge in the middle of the night in a fit of loneliness just to tell someone, "I love you"? Like, just a pained, desperate feeling where you just want to express that to someone in what I suppose would be a Catcher In The Rye-esque fashion.

Insert witty 'n clever quip here.
ImmortalFaust sess10n status: l0st from a spaceship in hell Since: Nov, 2013 Relationship Status: Faithful to 2D
sess10n status: l0st
#75977: Apr 24th 2014 at 7:31:09 PM

[up]I FEEL THAT FEEL ALL THE TIME

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KylerThatch literary masochist Since: Jan, 2001
literary masochist
#75978: Apr 24th 2014 at 7:40:09 PM

I used to have those sometimes.

This "faculty lot" you speak of sounds like a place of great power...
AnimeBadger Since: Jul, 2012
#75979: Apr 24th 2014 at 7:42:33 PM

[up][up][up] It's safe to say that a great deal of us can relate to that.

Okay... this might be a tad long but here goes nothing... 

[down][down]thank you for the advice.

edited 27th Apr '14 11:42:28 AM by AnimeBadger

Mukora Uniocular from a place Since: Jan, 2010 Relationship Status: I made a point to burn all of the photographs
Uniocular
#75980: Apr 24th 2014 at 7:46:56 PM

I just say it to my body pillow. Don't see what the big deal is.

But yes, I am also aware of that feeling.

"It's so hard to be humble, knowing how great I am."
tparadox Since: Jan, 2001 Relationship Status: The captain of her heart
#75981: Apr 24th 2014 at 7:47:26 PM

Why don't you speak for yourself, John?

If you're worried about frequent path-crossing making you look like a stalker, either start up a comversation or ask her out, depending on how far you've already gotten. That way, when you cross paths, you'll be a welcome friendly.

edited 24th Apr '14 7:48:36 PM by tparadox

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Odd1 Still just awesome like that from Nowhere Land Since: Sep, 2013 Relationship Status: And here's to you, Mrs. Robinson
Still just awesome like that
#75982: Apr 24th 2014 at 7:59:43 PM

I admit, it's a feeling I suppose I've experienced rather often, but last night, for some reason, I just felt it far more intensely than I'd ever felt it before in my life (far as I can recall at least). I was just driving around places that I didn't know, as I tend to do lately to ease my mind in the dark of night, and all of a sudden this desperate longing feeling and a desire to say that to someone just seized me in a powerful way. I seriously had to pull over because of it, as I just couldn't stand it. I managed to shake it eventually, but I can't stop thinking about it, and a lesser feeling of that has been just lingering in my mind since. I've always had attacks like that for years, but none quite so mind-numbing and emotionally destitute as that.

Insert witty 'n clever quip here.
Odd1 Still just awesome like that from Nowhere Land Since: Sep, 2013 Relationship Status: And here's to you, Mrs. Robinson
Still just awesome like that
#75983: Apr 24th 2014 at 8:26:16 PM

Not to be a nag, but I just suppose if anyone could give me some advice or some sort of reaction or response on the matter, I'd appreciate it.

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KylerThatch literary masochist Since: Jan, 2001
literary masochist
#75984: Apr 24th 2014 at 8:29:43 PM

I don't know what to say, really. I wouldn't know what to do either except try ride it out and let the feelings pass. Sometimes singing along to music helps for me, depending on what's playing.

This "faculty lot" you speak of sounds like a place of great power...
HellmanSabian Since: Jun, 2010 Relationship Status: Maxing my social links
#75985: Apr 26th 2014 at 5:28:25 PM

Keeping yourself busy with stuff I find helps. At least for me, it takes my mind off things whether I like it or not.

Konkfan7 Konknitive Dissonance from Roselle Since: May, 2013 Relationship Status: Armed with the Power of Love
Konknitive Dissonance
#75986: Apr 26th 2014 at 5:44:39 PM

I've noticed since falling in love, I've had a tendency to freak out over something when it's really nothing much.

I guess it's a result of me being afraid of ever upsetting my love.

SmytheOrdo Wide Eyed Wonderman from In The Mountains Since: Jan, 2001 Relationship Status: watch?v=dQw4w9WgXcQ
Wide Eyed Wonderman
#75987: Apr 26th 2014 at 7:15:52 PM

Yeah the girl who I wanted to hang out really does, but wants to talk to me more first.

David Bowie 1947-2016
terlwyth Since: Oct, 2010
#75988: Apr 26th 2014 at 8:32:19 PM

[up][up] same. At the same time I have also found myself laughing more at the random or after overreacting

Konkfan7 Konknitive Dissonance from Roselle Since: May, 2013 Relationship Status: Armed with the Power of Love
Konknitive Dissonance
Odd1 Still just awesome like that from Nowhere Land Since: Sep, 2013 Relationship Status: And here's to you, Mrs. Robinson
Still just awesome like that
#75990: Apr 26th 2014 at 11:39:29 PM

So, do you think it might be awkward if I asked out the roommate of a girl who I'd previously asked out but who turned me down?

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Mukora Uniocular from a place Since: Jan, 2010 Relationship Status: I made a point to burn all of the photographs
Uniocular
#75991: Apr 27th 2014 at 12:20:21 AM

It kinda worked for Ted Mosby. Kinda.

"It's so hard to be humble, knowing how great I am."
joeyjojo Happy New Year! from South Sydney: go the bunnies! Since: Jan, 2001
Happy New Year!
#75992: Apr 27th 2014 at 6:37:26 AM

I'm not saying don't do it. But the what makes you think you're gonna be getting a different answer this time?

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Odd1 Still just awesome like that from Nowhere Land Since: Sep, 2013 Relationship Status: And here's to you, Mrs. Robinson
Still just awesome like that
#75993: Apr 27th 2014 at 9:26:59 AM

The fact that it's a different person, for one?

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Kesagake from Tahlequah, OK Since: Mar, 2014 Relationship Status: Owner of a lonely heart
#75994: Apr 27th 2014 at 6:39:16 PM

I'm nervous about tomorrow. Why on Earth am I nervous if I know she wants me to ask?

DaftPunch hiya, the name's scout. from lesbian Since: Dec, 2013 Relationship Status: Hugging my pillow
hiya, the name's scout.
#75995: Apr 27th 2014 at 6:41:48 PM

Go for it, Kesa. God knows she won't react like I did. He still never asked me, but I made it pretty damn clear I didn't want him to... She actually wants you to ask her. Don't sweat it, man...

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Kesagake from Tahlequah, OK Since: Mar, 2014 Relationship Status: Owner of a lonely heart
#75996: Apr 27th 2014 at 6:52:05 PM

Are you still beating yourself up over this?

DaftPunch hiya, the name's scout. from lesbian Since: Dec, 2013 Relationship Status: Hugging my pillow
hiya, the name's scout.
#75997: Apr 27th 2014 at 6:53:49 PM

Yes

I'm going to for a long time

I never realsed how upset it'd make him...

edited 27th Apr '14 6:54:01 PM by DaftPunch

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Sixthhokage1 Since: Feb, 2013
#75998: Apr 27th 2014 at 6:57:47 PM

Well if you're not ready for a relationship, if you even ever will be, that's something he'll just have to get over. You can't go beating yourself up over this.

DaftPunch hiya, the name's scout. from lesbian Since: Dec, 2013 Relationship Status: Hugging my pillow
hiya, the name's scout.
#75999: Apr 27th 2014 at 6:59:35 PM

... -hugs you-

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Kesagake from Tahlequah, OK Since: Mar, 2014 Relationship Status: Owner of a lonely heart
#76000: Apr 27th 2014 at 6:59:56 PM

While I can understand how he would be upset, from personal experience in fact, he should respect your decision.

@Sixy: You semi-ninja.

edited 27th Apr '14 7:00:56 PM by Kesagake


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