Virginity

My virginity doesn't let me summon unicorns or control the weather. So I say to hell with it.

People ought to treasure their virginity, I think.

Haven't lost it and honestly, I don't care.

@Pipping Fool: Y'know, it's probably for the best that virgins can only do that in fictionland. I get the feeling the human race would've just stopped having kids if we could do that.

Considering my age, I think it would be somewhat creepy if I wasn't a virgin

Haven't lost it yet.

How can you treasure the lack of something (in this case, sexual experience)?

Honestly? The first time is really just the same as any other time. Society as a whole needs to stop putting such a premium on virginity.

Same way to value not killing someone. Or the same way you value peace over violence.

That being said, lost my virginity a long time ago. It's been kinky ever since.

I can definitely tell why it awes us, especially since we're often proud of ourselves to rely on dress codes that are strict enough to require concealing certain parts of our bodies in a manner that supposedly helps us maintain our virginity, especially in this supposed "modern baby boom" that we've been going through over the past few years that I had the urge to claim as a result of seeing a whole lotta preggers whenever I was out and about.

edited 20th Mar '11 3:21:37 PM by fungal88

I find it weird that I feel more like a virgin even after having had a very active sex life with one partner for months.

I fall in the gloriously retarded category of the technical virgin.

YAY FOR ME!!!!111one

How can one feel even more like a virgin?

(Note, it's been my default position for as long as I've lived, so I have no frame of reference.)

Sort of a mistype there. I meant: "I still feel more as a virgin than not."

Not in any real hurry to lose it, not all that attached to it either. When the time comes, it comes.

Still a virgin, and I really don't care that much.

I'm more concerned with being alone for the rest of my life. Don't care if I die a virgin, but I don't want to die without a partner, you know?

But sex is (at least to me) a very positive thing, whereas killing and violence are negatives.

I got it as a gift for my birth and everyone made a big deal of it but frankly I didn't even know what the big deal was. Once I did know I tried to pawn it off on several people but no one would take it. I've tried quite often to get rid of it myself but apparently you need two people.

On top of that not a lot of people want it. I guess you get really attached to it once it's gone and spend way to much time with the person who you gave it too and not a lot of people are into that. Apparently the best way to get rid of it is to give it too someone who still has theirs, and I don't know if i want that. I don't like it but I don't want to pawn it off to someone who doesn't know how to take care of it.

TL:DR Still a virgin, not from lack of trying.

@merton So, people who have terrible first times are doomed to have horrible sex lives?

By "the first time is just the same as any other time", I didn't mean that sex is always going to feel like it did your first time, I meant that one's first time really holds no special importance when compared to any other time.

I mean, is there anyone whose first time went well? I know mine was rather sweaty and uncomfortable.

I'm waiting for the right time with the right person. Meanwhile, I know a lot of people my age and younger who are already married or have kids.

I have a friend (who lost her virginity at 14) who feels her biological clock is ticking because all of her friends from high school already have kids. She is 22.

I'll probably die a virgin. I don't really care. I'm not waiting for the right person or anything silly like that, nor have I tried and failed. It just seems like a lot of work for no reward, as far as I can tell. Which maybe means I'm asexual? I dunno.

Ayup. Sweaty and uncomfortable.

I don't, my first time was pretty damn good. Then again, my girlfriend had some experience in the matter from before.

@Spain Sun

If anything it is very underrated

The cards are stacked against my unlikely loss of it being enjoyable.