"[Your daughter] already doesn't trust you because you stole her memories. And that, I recall, was because you were trying to protect her. Maybe if you hadn't protected her so much, she would know more about what is dangerous, and what isn't, and be a little less secretive—and less reckless!"Most parents will do anything to protect their kids. Naturally, this means setting some restrictions. Sometimes however, they can become too over-protective, albeit well-intentioned, to the point of giving them almost no freedom. In these scenarios, the child might obey their parent's every rule. Other times, they just become better at hiding things from their parents. This can go to even higher extremes in fiction, where a child may very well have a secret other life as a demon-slayer or magical warrior, though their secrets could also be much more mundane. In any case, the child is keeping secrets from their over-protective parent. Is often Truth in Television. Compare to Preacher's Kid. May result from My Beloved Smother, Fantasy-Forbidding Father, Knight Templar Parent, or Safety Worst. If the parent eventually discovers their child's secrets, it may result in Anti-Smother Love Talk or Calling the Old Man Out. For a tamer variant, you've got Dating What Daddy Hates.
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Films - Animated
- Coco: Miguel's family is very intimate and loving, but music is strictly banned. This causes him to hide his secret passion for music from all of them.
- In The Little Mermaid: Ariel's Beginning, King Triton bans music from the kingdom after it indirectly causes his wife's death. As a result, Ariel goes behind his back and starts attending a secret music club. He doesn't handle it well, which leads to Ariel Calling the Old Man Out.
- Implied in Tangled. Rapunzel actively hides Pascal from Mother Gothel, likely for fear that if discovered he would be taken away from her.
- The No. 1 Ladies' Detective Agency: In the first book, a rich Indian man tries to strictly control his daughter's life, and when the daughter starts sneaking away, he suspects she's seeing a secret boyfriend. He hires the detective Precious Ramotswe to find out who this boyfriend is. Mma Ramotswe finds there isn't any boyfriend: the daughter is just sneaking away to make her dad think she's seeing someone, as an act of rebellion. So Mma Ramotswe reports what she found to the dad, and urges him to just give his daughter some more autonomy, and he agrees. And at the very end, Mma Ramotswe discovers the daughter played her like a fiddle, and actually does have a secret boyfriend.
- Romeo and Juliet: Lord and Lady Capulet are both completely uncompromising with their daughter, trying to force Juliet to marry Paris whether she likes it or not. This provides further motivation for her abrupt elopement with Romeo, and ultimately leads to her death, after which they finally see the error in their ways.
- In Avatar: The Last Airbender, Toph's parents were over-protective and strict with their "helpless little blind girl"...which resulted in her becoming the reigning champion of an underground earthbending arena behind their backs, and ultimately running away to teach Aang earthbending.
- Gabriel Agreste from Miraculous Ladybug is a most strict and controlling parent, yet his son has a secret life as a rather goofy superhero.
- Steven Universe: Connie has strict parents who punish her harshly for rule-breaking, and as a result she kept her secret life with the Crystal Gems a secret, including her sword-fighting lessons with Pearl. In the episode "Nightmare Hospital", Connie's mother finds her sword and is horrified. Connie confesses that she's been fighting monsters with Steven for the past year, finally telling her how much she hates her parents' over-protective and restrictive nature, shocking her mother. In the end, Connie agrees to stop keeping secrets from her parents and her mother agrees to loosen up on the rules, and they hug it out.
Connie: Really, Mom, I know to do this!
Dr. Maheswaran: No you don't!
Steven: Yes she does! She's been training! She wasn't playing around with that sword, she was taking classes learning how to use it right! Even though she's always studying or practicing tennis or doing her homework, she still works really hard to be a good sword fighter.
Dr. Maheswaren: No. No, no, no, no, no, no. I know my daughter. I know what she's doing every second of the day, all her activities, all her internets. I know she's definitely not some sword-fighting hooligan!
Connie: You don't know me at all!