The first time you meet Lavinia in the third generation.
Winfield: What are the rules of the gentleman!?
Thoma: Shower her with affection!
Winfield: The first rule!
Thoma: Old, young, it matters not!
Winfield: The second rule!
Thoma: Flatter her with compliments!
Winfield: The thiiiiiiird rule!
Thoma: This is an emergency, and the list must abridged, but never forget the final rule!
Winfield: The cardinal rule! The one thing you must never do to a woman!
Thoma: More important than never making her cry...Never, ever, raise raise your hand to a womaaaan!
Winfield: We are truly man of the highest caliber.
Thoma: We are, aren't we?