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* A common type of gag among creators of lewd material plays with this trope, treating such things as [[SleepCute chaste cuddling]], HoldingHands, and emotional intimacy as FauxHorrific acts of depravity, for instance [[CensoredForComedy pixilating entwined hands]] or imposing a NarrativeProfanityFilter over wholesome conversation.
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This trope can also be used to create DeliberateValuesDissonance: in a FreeLoveFuture, or among races for whom the concept of "settling down with a partner and raising a family" doesn't exist, [[YourNormalIsOurTaboo what we view as a vanilla relationship could be considered kinky and deviant]], which is usually PlayedForLaughs.

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This trope can also be used to create DeliberateValuesDissonance: in a FreeLoveFuture, or even among races for whom the concept of "settling down with a partner and raising a family" doesn't exist, [[YourNormalIsOurTaboo what we view as a vanilla relationship could be considered kinky and deviant]], which is usually PlayedForLaughs.



* ''Manga/YuuutsuKunToSuccubusSan'': Demons in general and succubi in particular have [[YourNormalIsOurTaboo an inverted idea]] of what is and is not appropriate in a relationship. Sakuma the succubus, for example, considers watching porno a wholesome family activity and, as a result, her PornStash consists of books with titles like "Pure Pure Love". The sight of a couple holding hands in public shocks her as she regards it as something that would get censored on television.

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* ''Manga/YuuutsuKunToSuccubusSan'': Demons in general general, and succubi in particular particular. have [[YourNormalIsOurTaboo an inverted idea]] of what is and is not appropriate in a relationship. Sakuma the succubus, for example, considers watching porno pornos a wholesome family activity activity, and, as a result, her PornStash consists of books with titles like "Pure Pure Love". The sight of a couple holding hands in public shocks her as she regards it as something that would get censored on television.



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* Lenina from ''Literature/BraveNewWorld'' is shamed by her friends for dating one guy at a time for months on end, as their society encourages all relationships to be purely physical, no-strings-attached hookups
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* ''Manga/YuuutsuKunToSuccubusSan'': Demons in general and succubi in particular have [[YourNormalIsOurTaboo an inverted idea]] of what is and is not appropriate in a relationship. Sakuma the succubus, for example, considers watching porno a wholesome family activity and, as a result, her PornStash consists of books with titles like "Pure Pure Love". The sight of a couple holding hands on public shocks her as she regards it as something that would get censored on television.

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* ''Manga/YuuutsuKunToSuccubusSan'': Demons in general and succubi in particular have [[YourNormalIsOurTaboo an inverted idea]] of what is and is not appropriate in a relationship. Sakuma the succubus, for example, considers watching porno a wholesome family activity and, as a result, her PornStash consists of books with titles like "Pure Pure Love". The sight of a couple holding hands on in public shocks her as she regards it as something that would get censored on television.
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* ''Manga/YuuutsuKunToSuccubusSan'': Demons in general and succubi in particular have [[YourNormalIsOurTaboo an inverted idea]] of what is and is not appropriate in a relationship. Sakuma the succubus, for example, considers watching porno a wholesome family activity and, as a result, her PornStash consists of books with titles like "Pure Pure Love". The sight of a couple holding hands on public shocks her as she regards it as something that would get censored on television.
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* ''VideoGame/{{Helltaker}}'': Modeus, the [[HornyDevils Lustful Demon]], finds out about romance after reading some romantic comedies and finds it to be lewder than anything she's ever seen.

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See also CasualKink, LastWishMarriage, MarryForLove, InLoveWithLove, SugarWiki/{{WAFF}}, and YourNormalIsOurTaboo. Compare GoodPeopleHaveGoodSex and TrueLoveIsExceptional and contrast TrueLoveIsBoring. Can also occur with InsatiableNewlyweds.

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True Love is not this attainable thing that one could find and put in a cage and listen to it sing all the ding-dong day. Love (true or otherwise) is like water; it changes form, can only stay in the palm of your hand until it drains through and inevitably dries out completely. ...ThatCameOutWrong.

Pictured as an erotic form of MundaneMadeAwesome, True Love (or at least an adult game based around it) can really stimulate certain erogenous zones based on idealistic nostalgia alone. Vanilla-scented candles, heart-shaped boxes full of chocolate-flavored condoms, elaborately-laced wedding-dresses (for both the "bride" and "[[{{Crossdresser}} the groom]]"), engagement rings ([[DoubleEntendre and not for fingers]] [[PunctuatedForEmphasis if. You. Know. What. I'm. Saying!]]), heart-shaped pasties... edible wedding-garters... [[OrgasmicallyDelicious licking wedding cake off of one another]]...

...I'm sorry, I'm going to [[ADateWithRosiePalms need a few minutes]]...

See also CasualKink, LastWishMarriage, MarryForLove, InLoveWithLove, SugarWiki/{{WAFF}}
and YourNormalIsOurTaboo. Compare GoodPeopleHaveGoodSex and TrueLoveIsExceptional and contrast TrueLoveIsBoring. Can also occur with InsatiableNewlyweds.

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True Love is not this attainable thing that one could find and put in a cage and listen to it sing all Ah, love. It can take many forms. In Western culture, the ding-dong day. Love (true or otherwise) is like water; it changes form, can only stay traditional image of a loving couple involves monogamy, hand-holding, kissing, marriage, sex in the palm of your hand until it drains through missionary position, and inevitably dries out completely. ...ThatCameOutWrong.

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having children. This is as an erotic form vanilla as it gets. On the opposite end, you have the, let's say "sexually liberated", who engage in polyamory, casual sex, open and shameless discussion of MundaneMadeAwesome, True Love (or sexuality, and experimenting with various positions, toys, and fetishes.

Generally, people who stick closer to the "traditional" side view behaviors associated with the "liberated" side as taboo, perhaps even immoral, but also as [[ForbiddenFruit tempting and exciting]]. So what about the other way around? If someone is involved enough in the kink community, the idea of a vanilla relationship could end up becoming just as exciting to them as kink is to someone who's more sexually conservative. This may have something to do with desiring the comforting familiarity of having one partner who's always there for you
at least an adult game based around it) the end of the day.

This trope
can really stimulate certain erogenous zones based on idealistic nostalgia alone. Vanilla-scented candles, heart-shaped boxes full of chocolate-flavored condoms, elaborately-laced wedding-dresses (for both also be used to create DeliberateValuesDissonance: in a FreeLoveFuture, or among races for whom the "bride" concept of "settling down with a partner and "[[{{Crossdresser}} the groom]]"), engagement rings ([[DoubleEntendre raising a family" doesn't exist, [[YourNormalIsOurTaboo what we view as a vanilla relationship could be considered kinky and not for fingers]] [[PunctuatedForEmphasis if. You. Know. What. I'm. Saying!]]), heart-shaped pasties... edible wedding-garters... [[OrgasmicallyDelicious licking wedding cake off of one another]]...

...I'm sorry, I'm going to [[ADateWithRosiePalms need a few minutes]]...

deviant]], which is usually PlayedForLaughs.

See also CasualKink, LastWishMarriage, MarryForLove, InLoveWithLove, SugarWiki/{{WAFF}}
SugarWiki/{{WAFF}}, and YourNormalIsOurTaboo. Compare GoodPeopleHaveGoodSex and TrueLoveIsExceptional and contrast TrueLoveIsBoring. Can also occur with InsatiableNewlyweds.
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* ''Webcomic/FoxesInLove'': [[https://foxes-in-love.tumblr.com/post/624305703092387840 Green "tortures" his partner Blue]]... by showering him in praise and validation. Blue quickly ends up begging for a safeword as if it was an intense BDSM scene.

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* ''Series/HowIMetYourMother'' has a more platonic example: Barney requests stories of being HappilyMarried from Marshall like children ask for fairytales at bedtime. In a romantic sense, Marshall and Lily are these to one another since day one of their relationship and never had any other relationship since then, barring the time Marshall almost had a rebound with a loony barista. They bring mementos when they're apart, and they get cranky when they don't have sex, and when they do, they do it literally in a jiffy.

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In a romantic sense, Marshall and Lily are these to one another since day one of their relationship and never had any other relationship since then, barring the time Marshall almost had a rebound with a loony barista. They bring mementos when they're apart, and they get cranky when they don't have sex, and when they do, they do it literally in a jiffy.

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* ''VideoGame/{{Helltaker}}'': Modeus, the [[HornyDevils Lustful Demon]], finds out about romance after reading some romantic comedies and finds it to be lewder than anything she's ever seen.
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'''Modeus:''' ''[[[LuminescentBlush incredibly flustered]]]'' I've always known you were a perverted degenerate.
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* Canon within the ''Webcomic/{{Sunstone}}'' [[Timeline/{{Sunstone}} timeline]], the main characters Lisa and Ally (who are established as being a AggressiveSubmissive and {{Dominatrix}} respectively in the [=BDSM=] community) withhold their usual bondage play in favor of [[https://shiniez.deviantart.com/art/honeymoon-is-on-277097807 regular sex on their wedding night]] because they "just tied the ultimate knot."

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* Canon within the ''Webcomic/{{Sunstone}}'' [[Timeline/{{Sunstone}} timeline]], the main characters Lisa and Ally (who are established as being a an AggressiveSubmissive and {{Dominatrix}} respectively in the [=BDSM=] community) withhold their usual bondage play in favor of [[https://shiniez.deviantart.com/art/honeymoon-is-on-277097807 regular sex on their wedding night]] because they "just tied the ultimate knot."

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* ''Fanfic/UnbreakableRedSilkenThread'': Heather and Cody's love life in a nutshell.

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'''Random Minion:''' I'm here for you, mistress. ''[walks up and hugs Diamanda Hagan]''

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-> '''Diamanda Hagan:''' What kind of crazy mother-fucker has a fantasy like that? "I want to get married with someone I love so very much and"... why am I alone?
-> '''Random Minion:''' I'm here for you, mistress. [''Walks up and hugs Diamanda Hagan.'']
-> '''Diamanda Hagan:''' Get the fuck away from me! [''Brandishing a knife up to Random Minion.'']
-> '''Random Minion:''' That's why you're alone. [''Random Minion walks off-camera. Diamond Hagan throws knife at Random Minion.'']
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'''Random Minion:''' That's why you're alone. [''Random ''[Random Minion walks off-camera. off-camera; Diamond Hagan throws knife at Random Minion.'']
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-->-- [[WebVideo/DiamandaHagan Diamond Hagan's]] ''WebVideo/DiamandaHagan'', review of ''Film/PreachingToThePerverted''



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* Klingons in ''Franchise/StarTrek'' have a predilection for ''very'' rough sex (a broken collarbone on the wedding night is considered a good omen for the marriage). [[https://imgur.com/gallery/r6UYD86 This]] Website/{{Tumblr}} joke suggests that the Klingon equivalent of BDSM is to "gather in secrecy in dark cellars to engage in sweet, gentle loving, to the scorn of fellow Klingons."
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* Klingons in ''Franchise/StarTrek'' have a predilection for ''very'' rough sex (a broken collarbone on the wedding night is considered a good omen for the marriage). [[https://imgur.com/gallery/r6UYD86 This]] Website/{{Tumblr}} joke suggests that the Klingon equivalent of BDSM is to "gather in secrecy in dark cellars to engage in sweet, gentle loving, to the scorn of fellow Klingons."
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* During [[WebVideo/DiamandaHagan Diamanda Hagan's]] review of ''Film/PreachingToThePerverted'', it is implied that she shares Tanya's desire to find and marry her one true love. [[spoiler:Justified, as Hagan claims that the film is based on true events, with her being the inspiration for Tanya Cheex.]]

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See also CasualKink, LastWishMarriage, MarryForLove, {{WAFF}}

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Who says we live in a cynical age? On second thought, I think someone in every age has thought that. Besides, saying so is limited for the trope. It implies it would be invalid in another hypothetical age.


In this cynical age that we live in, True Love is not this attainable thing that one could find and put in a cage and listen to it sing all the ding-dong day. Love (true or otherwise) is like water; it changes form, can only stay in the palm of your hand until it drains through and inevitably dries out completely. ...ThatCameOutWrong.

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In this cynical age that we live in, True Love is not this attainable thing that one could find and put in a cage and listen to it sing all the ding-dong day. Love (true or otherwise) is like water; it changes form, can only stay in the palm of your hand until it drains through and inevitably dries out completely. ...ThatCameOutWrong.
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-> '''Diamanda Hagan:''' What kind of crazy mother-fucker has a fantasy like that? "I want to get married with someone I love so very much and"... why am I alone?
-> '''Random Minion:''' I'm here for you, mistress. [''Walks up and hugs Diamanda Hagan.'']
-> '''Diamanda Hagan:''' Get the fuck away from me! [''Brandishing a knife up to Random Minion.'']
-> '''Random Minion:''' That's why you're alone. [''Random Minion walks off-camera. Diamond Hagan throws knife at Random Minion.'']
-->-- [[WebVideo/DiamandaHagan Diamond Hagan's]] review of ''Film/PreachingToThePerverted''

In this cynical age that we live in, True Love is not this attainable thing that one could find and put in a cage and listen to it sing all the ding-dong day. Love (true or otherwise) is like water; it changes form, can only stay in the palm of your hand until it drains through and inevitably dries out completely. ...ThatCameOutWrong.

Pictured as an erotic form of MundaneMadeAwesome, True Love (or at least an adult game based around it) can really stimulate certain erogenous zones based on idealistic nostalgia alone. Vanilla-scented candles, heart-shaped boxes full of chocolate-flavored condoms, elaborately-laced wedding-dresses (for both the "bride" and "[[{{Crossdresser}} the groom]]"), engagement rings ([[DoubleEntendre and not for fingers]] [[PunctuatedForEmphasis if. You. Know. What. I'm. Saying!]]), heart-shaped pasties... edible wedding-garters... [[OrgasmicallyDelicious licking wedding cake off of one another]]...

...I'm sorry, I'm going to [[ADateWithRosiePalms need a few minutes]]...

See also CasualKink, LastWishMarriage, MarryForLove, {{WAFF}}
and YourNormalIsOurTaboo. Compare GoodPeopleHaveGoodSex and TrueLoveIsExceptional and contrast TrueLoveIsBoring. Can also occur with InsatiableNewlyweds.

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* In ''Film/TromeoAndJuliet'', the titular Tromeo Que has a brief scene where he masturbates furiously to a pornographic interactive computer game with a list of fetishes to pleasure himself to. Which does he choose?
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* In ''Film/PreachingToThePerverted'', Peter Emery was able to get the [=BDSM=] Dominatrix queen Tanya Cheex so drunk that he gets her to admit her darkest fantasy; getting married and having sex with her husband in a hotel room.
* ''Film/Deadpool2'': Wade and Vanessa have plenty of CasualKink in their relationship, but also talk about settling down and starting a family as a form of foreplay. Vanessa even makes a romantic gift out of showing Wade that she's no longer on birth control.
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* Aurora in ''Literature/TheRobotsOfDawn'' is a FreeLoveFuture, with exclusivity considered weird even for married people. However, Gremionis is in love with with Gladia and dreams of a monogamous relationship with her:
-->'''Gremionis:''' I don't want anyone else... How should I know why that is? I want Gladia. It's a--it's a kind of madness, except that I think it's the best kind of insanity. I'd be mad not to have that kind of madness.--I don't expect you to understand... Imagine having your mind out of whack and wanting it to ''stay'' out of whack. Any mentologist would put me in for major treatment.
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* ''Series/HowIMetYourMother'' has a more platonic example: Barney requests stories of being HappilyMarried from Marshall like children ask for fairytales at bedtime. In a romantic sense, Marshall and Lily are these to one another since day one of their relationship and never had any other relationship since then, barring the time Marshall almost had a rebound with a loony barista. They bring mementos when they're apart, and they get cranky when they don't have sex, and when they do, they do it literally in a jiffy.
* Played with in "I Think I Like You" from ''Series/CrazyExGirlfriend'' - Rebecca and Greg are FriendsWithBenefits, and their sex life is doing great, but Rebecca is starting to catch feelings, so as the camera shows him pushing her head down towards his waist she can't stop thinking about getting married to him on a hillside surrounded by ducks. Naturally, it's ''that'' she's far more disturbed by.
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* Canon within the ''Webcomic/{{Sunstone}}'' [[Timeline/{{Sunstone}} timeline]], the main characters Lisa and Ally (who are established as being a AggressiveSubmissive and {{Dominatrix}} respectively in the [=BDSM=] community) withhold their usual bondage play in favor of [[https://shiniez.deviantart.com/art/honeymoon-is-on-277097807 regular sex on their wedding night]] because they "just tied the ultimate knot."
* In ''Webcomic/PicturesForSadChildren'', Gary goes digging through his roommate's PornStash, notes how many of them feature weird fetishes, and asks "Do you have any that simulate being in a meaningful relationship? That is my fetish."
* Parodied in ''Webcomic/{{Homestuck}}'', where Caliborn pesters Dirk Strider to draw the vilest, most degenerate pornography Caliborn can imagine... which turn out to be hilariously tame scenarios like a happy couple holding hands, or kissing. Then he subverts it with his last request: [[spoiler:he asks for the happy couple to eat their baby]]. Elsewhere, it's revealed Caliborn is an alien from a species whose [[FoeRomanceSubtext romantic relationships are all based on mutual hatred]]--so [[JustifiedTrope love really is a bizarre kink for his species]].
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* During [[WebVideo/DiamandaHagan Diamanda Hagan's]] review of ''Film/PreachingToThePerverted'', it is implied that she shares Tanya's desire to find and marry her one true love. [[spoiler:Justified, as Hagan claims that the film is based on true events, with her being the inspiration for Tanya Cheex.]]
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