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This is Troper Counseling Services and Support Group: round two because the old one broke.

In this thread, you can talk about any problems or stress you are experiencing without fear of judgement or condescension. No problem is too small for you to talk about. Do not worry that your problems are annoying or petty or what have you; we're here to help and we're here to listen.

Carry on.

edited 25th Jan '13 3:16:33 PM by Willbyr

MrAHR Ahr river from ಠ_ಠ Relationship Status: A cockroach, nothing can kill it.
Ahr river
Chagen46 Dude Looks Like a Lady from I don't really know
Jan 26th 2011 at 3:39:48 PM

Good...I'm sick of looking at eight year old girls and worrying if I'm gonna rape them one day...

"Who wants to hear about good stuff when the bottom of the abyss of human failure that you know doesn't exist is so much greater?"-Wraith
MrAHR Ahr river from ಠ_ಠ Relationship Status: A cockroach, nothing can kill it.
Ahr river
Jan 26th 2011 at 3:40:51 PM

ಠ_ಠ

You just said you would never have sex with them. You in there?

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ArgeusthePaladin from Byzantine.
Jan 26th 2011 at 3:41:29 PM

If you're conscious to worry you may rape 8-y-os some day, then you are still fine. smile

^ I believe what he is saying is that he is afraid he might lose it and rape kids. I personally thinks if he is conscious enough to say that he is still in the green zone. Or maybe it is just me.

On other note, AHR, stop ninjaing me, will you? tongue

edited 26th Jan '11 3:42:53 PM by ArgeusthePaladin

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Chagen46 Dude Looks Like a Lady from I don't really know
Jan 26th 2011 at 3:41:48 PM

No, I'm worried because society has been endlesssly telling me that I'm going to rape them one day, and there's nothing I can do about it.

edited 26th Jan '11 3:41:58 PM by Chagen46

"Who wants to hear about good stuff when the bottom of the abyss of human failure that you know doesn't exist is so much greater?"-Wraith
Jan 26th 2011 at 3:42:33 PM

@Aishkiz: Hmm, so what's your problem? That you have a different way of thinking? I don't see anything wrong with that, it's actually a pretty positive trait in many cases.

rmctagg09 The Wanderer (he/him) from Brooklyn, NY Relationship Status: I won't say I'm in love
The Wanderer (he/him)
Jan 26th 2011 at 3:47:09 PM

There's nothing wrong with being an Observer. I'm one.

Hugging a Vanillite will give you frostbite. "The wheel will turn ever more, but I see pain. I see victory, but pain.
Chagen46 Dude Looks Like a Lady from I don't really know
Jan 26th 2011 at 3:49:21 PM

Aish:...The hell?

Sorry, but the internet has jaded me so much that I can't help but read your post in an Attention Whore style.

But seriously. You're a human. You're not anything else. People who think they aren't human are called asylum inmates.

"Who wants to hear about good stuff when the bottom of the abyss of human failure that you know doesn't exist is so much greater?"-Wraith
Jumpingzombie Queen of Hyperbole from a hill in Washington
Queen of Hyperbole
Jan 26th 2011 at 3:56:13 PM

Well, today is better. I hate it when we fight though. It's always so bitter and I'm left feeling incredibly miserably and insecure. It never feels like I do enough to make myself a good person. Not to mention, she's very unpredictable, so when I think she's forgiven me and turns around and is all angry at me again. :/ I wish I was less impulsive; shit wouldn't be as bad.

"JZ doesn't like romance flicks. She likes bloodthirsty carnage." - Imipolex G
Jan 26th 2011 at 4:02:36 PM

@Jumpingzombie: I'm glad to hear things have gotten better. It doesn't sound like you deserve to be made to feel like a bad person, as long as you try in school and do what your mother asks (within reason), you shouldn't. I don't have a lot of advice other than to be patient with your mother, and maybe let her know you love her more often. Parents love that, especially moms.

Jan 26th 2011 at 4:34:54 PM

When I was 13 I used to get teased for having a high voice....then puberty happened and I have the opposite problem; my voice is too deep and people mimic everything I say in a retarded deep voice.

aishkiz Slayer of Threads from under the stairs
Slayer of Threads
Jan 26th 2011 at 4:34:55 PM

@Aishkiz: Hmm, so what's your problem?
See first line of paragraph three. Ignore rest of post if desired.

This is not the kind of thing that's remotely worth spending time thinking about, though. I guess I don't have any real problems, I just needed to rant for a bit; you can ignore me if you like. I really should know better than to do this.

I have devised a most marvelous signature, which this signature line is too narrow to contain.
Jan 26th 2011 at 6:43:27 PM

[up][up] Ah, that's too bad. I wouldn't worry though, that time of one's life is awkward for everybody.

[up] So it's a problem communicating with people then? Well, as long as it doesn't seem like a huge issue to you. Just tell me if there's anything I can do to help.

Chagen46 Dude Looks Like a Lady from I don't really know
Jan 26th 2011 at 7:04:10 PM

My teachers called my dad.

I'm missing over a dozen assignments in two classes- English Pre-AP and Bio Pre-AP. They're thinking of forcibly kicking me out of them.

I don't know what to do any more. Suicide looks like a better option every day that passes.

"Who wants to hear about good stuff when the bottom of the abyss of human failure that you know doesn't exist is so much greater?"-Wraith
CyganAngel Away on the wind~ from Arcadia
Away on the wind~
Jan 26th 2011 at 7:07:00 PM

Or, alternatively, I dunno, you could do the work?

The more you talk about suicide, Chagen, the more I begin to lose respect for you.

There are too many toasters in my chimney!
Jan 26th 2011 at 7:08:21 PM

A dozen . . . you're in those classes to do work, Chagen. Did you think they couldn't kick you out? It sounds like you needed to be out of those classes anyway. As long as your parents don't kill you, you'll be fine.

Chagen46 Dude Looks Like a Lady from I don't really know
Jan 26th 2011 at 7:10:17 PM

Cygan: Because that's so easy.

Everest: Well aware they could kick me out, I'm just too lazy/perfectionist to ever do things.

"Who wants to hear about good stuff when the bottom of the abyss of human failure that you know doesn't exist is so much greater?"-Wraith
Jumpingzombie Queen of Hyperbole from a hill in Washington
Queen of Hyperbole
Jan 26th 2011 at 7:10:38 PM

Ahh, dude, take it from me, don't fragging skip stuff. Suicide is not worth thinking about when all you have to do is write a four page report. I suggest talking to a counselor.

"JZ doesn't like romance flicks. She likes bloodthirsty carnage." - Imipolex G
Chagen46 Dude Looks Like a Lady from I don't really know
Jan 26th 2011 at 7:12:51 PM

The suicude part is more from the endless stress I experience both outside school and in it. I can't take this anymore.

"Who wants to hear about good stuff when the bottom of the abyss of human failure that you know doesn't exist is so much greater?"-Wraith
Kino Relationship Status: Californicating
Jan 26th 2011 at 7:14:10 PM

How the hell do you miss 12 AP assignments?!? Wait, are those even AP classes? The school can drop you if you fail to meet the standard dude; that's how it is.

You're an American teenager in HS; the fuck kind of stress are you going through?

You know what needs to be done; go do it. Don't spend your time in class bullshitting or come here looking for sympathy. We're going to give you the necessary advice to accomplish your goals; listen.

No excuses.

edited 26th Jan '11 7:17:58 PM by Kino

CyganAngel Away on the wind~ from Arcadia
Away on the wind~
Jan 26th 2011 at 7:14:17 PM

I dunno, Chagen.

I've managed to pull together 4 major assignments in and around my TV Tropes addiction, all over the course of 3 weeks.

Chagen... Gah, how can you consider suicide when even I don't?

edited 26th Jan '11 7:14:59 PM by CyganAngel

There are too many toasters in my chimney!
rmctagg09 The Wanderer (he/him) from Brooklyn, NY Relationship Status: I won't say I'm in love
The Wanderer (he/him)
Jan 26th 2011 at 7:17:20 PM

You have to do the work Chagen. That's what happens when you mess around with your lessons.

Hugging a Vanillite will give you frostbite. "The wheel will turn ever more, but I see pain. I see victory, but pain.
ArgeusthePaladin from Byzantine.
Jan 26th 2011 at 7:20:33 PM

@ Chagen: First of all, pardon me for being harsh. Seriously, pardon me.

*Deep breath*

First, take a deep breath. Second, sit down on the table. Third, turn on some epic music if you need to. Fourth, WORK, DON'T COMPLAIN. And fifth, if the thought of suicide ever occur to you again, repeat step 2. Rinse and repeat until you have settled all your assignment and the words "I WILL NOT COMMIT SUICIDE. I WILL FACE LIFE AND ITS ADVERSITY LIKE THE MAN I AM" is etched on the frontal lobe of your brain. In bold, block letters.

Chances are you will end up a better person after this ordeal.

"Adversity reveals the genius of a general; good fortune conceals it."

-Horace- Again, pardon me.

edited 26th Jan '11 7:22:19 PM by ArgeusthePaladin

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Jan 26th 2011 at 7:20:54 PM

How the fuck are laziness and perfectionism in any way correlated, Chagen?

Alkthash Was?
Was?
Jan 26th 2011 at 7:21:18 PM

Just make it a matter of honor and pride to finish those assignments. It is a proper student's duty to actually do the work and know the material!


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