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1Tearjerking moments in ''Film/TheBigLebowski''.
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3* Donny's death is one thing in the movie that ''isn't'' [[PlayedForDrama milked for a cheap laugh]].
4** Donny's collapse from his failing heart is played brutally, with the Dude and Walter showing genuine fear over what's happening to one of their good friends.
5** Donny doesn't appear to have any close family, as Walter and The Dude are the only ones who show up to accept and spread his ashes.
6** Walter and The Dude scatter Donny's ashes at the movie's end, which unfortunately ends with some of the ashes ending up in the Dude's face. Immediately after, they get into a loud spat as The Dude decides that he's finally had enough of Walter's self-important ranting about Vietnam. The high emotions are too much for the outwardly grumpy Walter. Barely holding back tears, he sincerely apologizes, and the two men warmly embrace. Walter's (justly famous) line at the end of that scene is enough to make any grown man choke up.
7--->'''Walter:''' [[MeaningfulEcho Fuck it, Dude. Let's go bowling.]]
8** The whole MoodWhiplash after Donny's death is surprisingly sad, in and of itself. After two hours of crazy intrigue and hijinks, Walter and The Dude can only quietly mourn together, and soberly try to move on with their lives. When they go bowling at the end of the movie (after spending about half of the film's running time in the bowling alley), it's because they need a familiar hobby to take their minds off of their grief--and bowling is the only one they've got. For a stoner comedy about bowling and mistaken identity, the last 15 minutes are a surprisingly realistic portrayal of the grieving process, as many people who've lost loved ones can attest.
9* The film's use of Music/TownesVanZandt's cover of [[https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=NBwC7Qzljso "Dead Flowers"]] in the ending scene, and the following closing credits. ''(sniffle)''
10-->''"Take me down, little Susie, take me down,\
11I know you think you're the Queen of the Underground,\
12Send me dead flowers every morning,\
13Send me dead flowers by the mail,\
14Send me dead flowers to my wedding,\
15And I won't forget to put roses on your grave,\
16No, I won't forget to put roses on your grave."''
17* While The Dude's nonchalance lessens it, he goes through a ''lot'': he's randomly attacked by thugs, his rug is ruined, Walter gets him into a lot of trouble, a cop attacks him, he's a pawn in a corrupt fake billionaire's schemes and his car is smashed and destroyed.

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