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What the Hell, Hero? is the general trope for a protagonist getting called out for bad behavior.
Nobody batting an eye at Tsundere behavior that would be considered abusive IRL would be covered by Comedic Sociopathy. The aversion of Comedic Sociopathy could be a Surprisingly Realistic Outcome, or possibly Deconstructed Trope.
Or it's Double Standard: Abuse, Female on Male, where it's ignored if the abuser is a woman. We don't have the inverse of that yet but it's in TLP.
Edited by WarJay77 Currently Working On: Incorruptible Pure Pureness
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Is there a trope for where a Jerkass gets called out on it? Like in anime, most of the time when a tsundere wallops a guy (think Louise/Saito from Zero no Tsukaima or Haru/Keitaro from Love Hina) nobody around really reacts. Some rare times though, a bystander will be like WTF? Why did you just do that?
Is there a trope categorization for when that happens?