Romance

I don't have strong feelings about any of my ex's because they all pretty much pretend I don't exist. The pieces of garbage.

My exes and I are still friends

Well, one of my exes is dead, rest her soul, and my last one is probably pissed as fuck, because the European navigation satellite programme she was to my knowledge involved in went to shit last week; that's all I know for sure.

A supervisor and a pretentious hypocrite.

I have one ex (technically two, but I don't really talk about that one), and she's probably fine. I think about her sometimes, but more in a way of "hmm, I wonder what she's up to".

I have four exes

Castlemaine?

I only really have three exes, not counting 'ships that pass in the night'.

edited 3rd Sep '14 7:38:43 AM by InverurieJones

One ex,but I haven't heard from her in years. When she's on my mind,it really is more of "Well gee,what's she up to now?"

I have enough exes to make Scott Pilgrim fight them for me. I'm in good terms with most of them.

I don't have Exes, I have Nearlies.

Well, there's a technicality in there too.

I guess I have one ex, unless you count the two or three people I casually dated but never actually had a relationship with or the people I wanted to go out with but was too paranoid to ask.

That ex, tho. Honestly, I wouldn't be surprised if she's on this site (since I know she also at least was an avid reader of the site) and I didn't even know. She's the type who would gravitate toward a forum like this, for better or worse.

She also would've rathered stay home and play World Of Warcraft and Runescape alone all day than actually put some effort into the relationship, so eh, no loss there. EDIT: holy crap WoW gets changed to that, even gives it the italics without me even putting them there.

edited 4th Sep '14 12:13:45 AM by Odd1

how did you two meet if she spent all her time doing that to begin with lol

I actually have one girl i'm mildly interested in atm. i'm not necessarily expecting it to go anywhere nor am i sure how i'd proceed if she displayed interest back but at this point i don't have much to lose honestly, i'm just gonna try talking to her some more and see where it goes. if nothing comes of it, no big loss. if something does i'll deal with it as it comes. i know i won't make the same mistakes i did last time, there's no way i'm shooting myself in the foot like that again. one good thing that came out of that mess is that i actually have some confidence behind me for once; if it happened before, it can happen again right?

only problem is she lives in a small town like 2-3 hours away ):

edited 4th Sep '14 12:59:01 AM by wehrmacht

I only have one ex but I haven't talked to him in like .. I guess 6 years or so. He was my best friend growing up from middle school and into high school and was the first person I had sex with when we were freshmen, but he moved away and we lost touch.

I thought about maybe looking him up and letting him know I am getting married but it has just been so long now I just never seem to do it.

I don't have any exes. I think I'm more grateful for that than anything else.

No heartbreak for me.

got it right first time?

All I got is this lovely bunch of coconuts, and a series of feeble attempts at relationships that are pathetic and stupid enough to fill 5 seasons of a bad sitcom.

No, never been in a relationship. I appreciate the thought though.

Jones, you should know better than to assume someone here has had success in their love life.

edited 5th Sep '14 7:53:47 AM by Odd1

See, for me it's like people are discussing their multiple exes and i'm like:

"HOW? Is this what normal people are like? How is that even possible?"

That's just me though. Never been in a relationship, probably never will

To be fair, what I had, in hindsight, could hardly be called a relationship anyway.

Confession time, I never actually cared much when I was in a relationship. I mean they were nice enough, but I never felt different, I actually feel better unattached. In relationships you have to start worrying about what the second person thinks, and take on alot of their problems and deal with their baggage. I'm a pretty self-interested/selfish individual, and I'm aware of and okay with that. I will probably never be happy with a relationship unless we both are fairly independent quite honestly however that's not happened yet. So yeah.

That's probably why me and my ex's don't really talk honestly.

If it had any resemblance of one I'd call it a relationship, mostly because there's no real qualification on what a relationship is in such a context. Even if it were just somebody you spend some time with in a romantic manner now and then, that's enough for me.

Ehhhhhhhh, I know what relationship Oddo is talking about (I think I know?), I wouldn't really say it was as romantic-ish as you're suggesting.

edited 5th Sep '14 8:36:30 AM by inhopelessguy

So, I started an internship (which will last 3 months), and there's this really sexy girl who is also from my city who has been working in the company for a year (and is being paid).

Is it worth it asking her out for a coffee at the end of my internship? I'm not looking for anything (not even sex, unless she really wanted to), just leaving an impression or something.

Is coffee big in Portugal? Do you guys drink nothing but coffee in the southern states? I jest, I jest.

Sure, Why Not?

Worth a shot, and she lives in your city, so you could always frame it around that.