-hugs back-
what happened Dafty? I remember turning down someone in middle school for not being ready. I figured I was asexual and aromantic until my first girlfriend caught me off guard. So glad to have after so long been given another chance. Now if only it were next week
edited 27th Apr '14 7:10:38 PM by terlwyth
Something with Omega Shadowcry...
ppppppppfeiufiofuiorjfadkfbnjkdflaosigjbkghuiafjkldjnbaghkdI'm going to join the you-shouldn't-feel-bad-about-it party. If you had started a relationship before you felt ready it would have not ended well.
People are mirrors. If you smile, a smile will be reflected.But I feel... So horrible... I posted on another website about it, but maybe I should stop doing this in every thread I go to.
ppppppppfeiufiofuiorjfadkfbnjkdflaosigjbkghuiafjkldjnbaghkdSo I think I may be getting a girl to go on a date with me soon- like me she is very sensitive to others' emotions, which my last two exes lacked.
David Bowie 1947-20160dd1: oh, for some reason I didn't see the part where you said roommate.
It's not going to be not awkward. But it's how often you're going to run in with the girl who rebuffed you.
hashtagsarestupidIt's all good.
Well, if nothing else, she'd let me down gently and there's no ill-will between us (we sometimes briefly talk on Facebook at least). So there's that. Just the "asking someone close to someone whom I'd previously asked out" factor...I dunno, I feel like that might unintentionally send some certain signals, know what I mean?
Insert witty 'n clever quip here.Yes I can see where you're coming from. Unfortunately that kind of comes with the territory. You just got to either grin and bare it or address it directly.
If you do decide to bring it up, telling her outright you don't want to give the wrong impression considering her roommate is fine.
hashtagsarestupidWell, I am now officially a boyfriend!
Now I have to figure out how to do boyfriend stuff . . .
Congratulations, K!
I wish you and your dearly beloved a long, happy life together.
@keggy The last attempt told you nothing? tell me the secret to all this boyfriend stuff when you do figure it out
This being my first relationship, I'm not sure what the heck I'm doing, but I'm still pretty happy.
Heck, that one doesn't even really count. I'll be sure to tell you though.
edited 28th Apr '14 3:18:32 PM by Kesagake
Things are working out well with O, I presume?
"We'll take the next chance, and the next, until we win, or the chances are spent."Just be yourself, show devotion, express your affection, and show you trust her and that she means a lot to you.
And though it might be tempting, don't worry too much. Believe me, I accidentally made myself sick that way once. ><
I smell magic in the air. Or maybe barbecue.@Blue: Well, we're a couple now. So yes, very.
@Konk: So exactly what I'm doing already.
@Dem: Got it.
I assume you can already agree to disagree what with her being an earlier friend. Keep that going.
@Terl: That whole thing was pretty much the Valentine's talking. This is different.
Doesn't matter you're never gonna agree with O 100% so you got to make peace with the parts you don't
Uh, what? I don't follow what you're saying.
edited 28th Apr '14 3:46:50 PM by Kesagake
You and O will probably have differing opinions on certain things. You gotta peacefully respect her opinion on the matter and hope she'd do the same to you. If you can settle it before it escalates.
. . . Settle what? There's been no disagreement. I think you misread something I said.
I never thought I'd be ready for a relationship until I ended up in one. But I did wait a while.
Maybe you should wait until you feel better about this, Sis.