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Konkfan7 Konknitive Dissonance from Roselle Since: May, 2013 Relationship Status: Armed with the Power of Love
Konknitive Dissonance
#76001: Apr 27th 2014 at 7:00:13 PM

I never thought I'd be ready for a relationship until I ended up in one. But I did wait a while.

Maybe you should wait until you feel better about this, Sis.

terlwyth Since: Oct, 2010
#76003: Apr 27th 2014 at 7:09:54 PM

[up][up][up] [up]what happened Dafty? I remember turning down someone in middle school for not being ready. I figured I was asexual and aromantic until my first girlfriend caught me off guard. So glad to have after so long been given another chance. Now if only it were next week

edited 27th Apr '14 7:10:38 PM by terlwyth

DaftPunch hiya, the name's scout. from lesbian Since: Dec, 2013 Relationship Status: Hugging my pillow
hiya, the name's scout.
#76004: Apr 27th 2014 at 7:10:30 PM

Something with Omega Shadowcry...

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MurkyMuse Magical Girl Since: Jan, 2001 Relationship Status: Shipping fictional characters
Magical Girl
#76005: Apr 27th 2014 at 7:45:49 PM

I'm going to join the you-shouldn't-feel-bad-about-it party. If you had started a relationship before you felt ready it would have not ended well.

People are mirrors. If you smile, a smile will be reflected.
DaftPunch hiya, the name's scout. from lesbian Since: Dec, 2013 Relationship Status: Hugging my pillow
hiya, the name's scout.
#76006: Apr 27th 2014 at 7:49:29 PM

But I feel... So horrible... I posted on another website about it, but maybe I should stop doing this in every thread I go to.

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SmytheOrdo Wide Eyed Wonderman from In The Mountains Since: Jan, 2001 Relationship Status: watch?v=dQw4w9WgXcQ
Wide Eyed Wonderman
#76007: Apr 27th 2014 at 7:53:47 PM

So I think I may be getting a girl to go on a date with me soon- like me she is very sensitive to others' emotions, which my last two exes lacked.

David Bowie 1947-2016
joeyjojo Happy New Year! from South Sydney: go the bunnies! Since: Jan, 2001
Happy New Year!
#76008: Apr 27th 2014 at 8:21:48 PM

0dd1: oh, for some reason I didn't see the part where you said roommate.

It's not going to be not awkward. But it's how often you're going to run in with the girl who rebuffed you.

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Odd1 Still just awesome like that from Nowhere Land Since: Sep, 2013 Relationship Status: And here's to you, Mrs. Robinson
Still just awesome like that
#76009: Apr 27th 2014 at 9:47:01 PM

It's all good.

Well, if nothing else, she'd let me down gently and there's no ill-will between us (we sometimes briefly talk on Facebook at least). So there's that. Just the "asking someone close to someone whom I'd previously asked out" factor...I dunno, I feel like that might unintentionally send some certain signals, know what I mean?

Insert witty 'n clever quip here.
joeyjojo Happy New Year! from South Sydney: go the bunnies! Since: Jan, 2001
Happy New Year!
#76010: Apr 28th 2014 at 7:01:20 AM

Yes I can see where you're coming from. Unfortunately that kind of comes with the territory. You just got to either grin and bare it or address it directly.

If you do decide to bring it up, telling her outright you don't want to give the wrong impression considering her roommate is fine.

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Kesagake from Tahlequah, OK Since: Mar, 2014 Relationship Status: Owner of a lonely heart
#76011: Apr 28th 2014 at 2:59:46 PM

Well, I am now officially a boyfriend!

Now I have to figure out how to do boyfriend stuff . . .

Konkfan7 Konknitive Dissonance from Roselle Since: May, 2013 Relationship Status: Armed with the Power of Love
Konknitive Dissonance
#76012: Apr 28th 2014 at 3:00:44 PM

Congratulations, K!

I wish you and your dearly beloved a long, happy life together.grin

Kesagake from Tahlequah, OK Since: Mar, 2014 Relationship Status: Owner of a lonely heart
#76015: Apr 28th 2014 at 3:17:08 PM

This being my first relationship, I'm not sure what the heck I'm doing, but I'm still pretty happy.

[up]Heck, that one doesn't even really count. I'll be sure to tell you though.tongue

edited 28th Apr '14 3:18:32 PM by Kesagake

RBluefish Since: Nov, 2013
#76016: Apr 28th 2014 at 3:18:02 PM

Things are working out well with O, I presume?

"We'll take the next chance, and the next, until we win, or the chances are spent."
Konkfan7 Konknitive Dissonance from Roselle Since: May, 2013 Relationship Status: Armed with the Power of Love
Konknitive Dissonance
#76017: Apr 28th 2014 at 3:18:15 PM

Just be yourself, show devotion, express your affection, and show you trust her and that she means a lot to you.

Demetrios Our Favorite Tsundere in Red from Des Plaines, Illinois (unfortunately) Since: Oct, 2009 Relationship Status: I'm just a hunk-a, hunk-a burnin' love
Our Favorite Tsundere in Red
#76018: Apr 28th 2014 at 3:20:01 PM

And though it might be tempting, don't worry too much. Believe me, I accidentally made myself sick that way once. ><

I smell magic in the air. Or maybe barbecue.
Kesagake from Tahlequah, OK Since: Mar, 2014 Relationship Status: Owner of a lonely heart
#76019: Apr 28th 2014 at 3:22:41 PM

@Blue: Well, we're a couple now. So yes, very.

@Konk: So exactly what I'm doing already.tongue

@Dem: Got it.

terlwyth Since: Oct, 2010
#76020: Apr 28th 2014 at 3:28:10 PM

I assume you can already agree to disagree what with her being an earlier friend. Keep that going.

Kesagake from Tahlequah, OK Since: Mar, 2014 Relationship Status: Owner of a lonely heart
#76021: Apr 28th 2014 at 3:30:48 PM

@Terl: That whole thing was pretty much the Valentine's talking. This is different.

terlwyth Since: Oct, 2010
#76022: Apr 28th 2014 at 3:42:32 PM

Doesn't matter you're never gonna agree with O 100% so you got to make peace with the parts you don't

Kesagake from Tahlequah, OK Since: Mar, 2014 Relationship Status: Owner of a lonely heart
#76023: Apr 28th 2014 at 3:46:12 PM

Uh, what? I don't follow what you're saying.

edited 28th Apr '14 3:46:50 PM by Kesagake

terlwyth Since: Oct, 2010
#76024: Apr 28th 2014 at 4:22:14 PM

You and O will probably have differing opinions on certain things. You gotta peacefully respect her opinion on the matter and hope she'd do the same to you. If you can settle it before it escalates.

Kesagake from Tahlequah, OK Since: Mar, 2014 Relationship Status: Owner of a lonely heart
#76025: Apr 28th 2014 at 4:33:26 PM

. . . Settle what? There's been no disagreement. I think you misread something I said.


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