Needs Help: Mommy Issues

Deadlock Clock: 9th Jun 2014 11:59:00 PM
Total posts: [48]
1 2
1 Larkmarn4th Sep 2013 10:16:00 AM , Relationship Status: Hello, I love you
I'm not sure if the issue here is an Unclear Description or Ambiguous Name. Mommy Issues (along with its redirect, Daddy Issues) is specifically about someone going insane/murderous/deviant due to Parental Issues. But... what's the threshold for that? Would someone being sexually promiscuous count? Having trust issues in a relationship? If things as mundane as those count, then the description needs to be altered be less... murder-y.

If, however, the trope is specifically about people being shaped into psychopaths by their parents, then it's a bad name. Colloquially, it simply means someone has Parental Issues (most often "Well Done, Son!" Guy or a girl with a mild Electra Complex so she sleeps around). A clearer name would be appreciated. It strikes me as weird that it's distinct from Parental Issues since, well, it's effectively synonymous with Parental Issues but with one parent singled out.

edited 4th Sep '13 10:16:35 AM by Larkmarn

2 Larkmarn4th Sep 2013 10:22:35 AM , Relationship Status: Hello, I love you
I'll do a wick check once I know what exactly I'm checking for. In my experience seeing this across the wiki, it's usually a ZCE on someone's character list (usually one that's not a psychopath, often Troubled, but Cute or a Broken Bird).
This name is bad. Almost every time I hear the term, "mommy issues," I think of people who do not like their mother or the mother is problematic.
4 Rethkir4th Sep 2013 06:39:35 PM from the gap between dimensions
This seems to be Freudian Excuse applied to issues with one's mother (or father?). Azula and Norman Bates are the best examples I can think of.
Image Source. Please update whenever an image is changed.
I doubt the tropeworthiness of a villain with a specifically evil parent. Abusive Parents or Freudian Excuse seem to cover it.

edited 4th Sep '13 6:48:03 PM by MikuruFan

6 Rethkir4th Sep 2013 07:49:00 PM from the gap between dimensions
Freudian Excuse already covers many of the examples here, thus making this trope redundant.
Image Source. Please update whenever an image is changed.
I consider someone with mommy issues or daddy issues having never gotten enough attention from their mother or father. They can lead to acting out in different ways. Mommy issues can include fighting and daddy issues would probably result in sexually acting out.
9 Rethkir5th Sep 2013 07:28:01 PM from the gap between dimensions
[up] I think that is The Unfavorite. YAY! TV Tropes is back.
Image Source. Please update whenever an image is changed.
10 Larkmarn6th Sep 2013 06:57:54 AM , Relationship Status: Hello, I love you
[up][up] Yeah, that kind of thing is what I usually see used as Mommy Issues.

[up] It's more of a supertrope to The Unfavorite, since it wouldn't require there being a favorite.
11 Willbyr9th Oct 2013 01:07:24 PM from North Little Rock, AR , Relationship Status: Pining for the fjords
Clock is set.
Do we merge with Freudian Excuse or...?
As it's written Mommy Issues looks like Freudian Excuse but specifically about the parents. The title is definitely bad. Saying, "It's always the mother," is a lot stronger than just having some mommy issues.
14 theAdeptrogue10th Oct 2013 05:26:27 AM , Relationship Status: Having tea with Cthulhu
[up]Then wouldn't that just be a case of The Same, but More Specific? I still doubt the tropeworthiness of this particular one, and I vote for merge with Freudian Excuse.

edited 10th Oct '13 5:27:01 AM by theAdeptrogue

Freudian Excuse gets used for this plenty of times already.

Merge away.
16 SeptimusHeap11th Oct 2013 12:06:03 AM from Laniakea , Relationship Status: Mu
I am not clear on a distinction either.
Well, you could argue that it's a common enough occurrence to merit its own subpage. The development period is an awfully malleable time for a child. They also tend to be the same kinds of issues rather than just any old problem.
18 Larkmarn15th Oct 2013 05:33:56 AM , Relationship Status: Hello, I love you
My issue is that, 9/10 times, that's what Freudian Excuse is used for. And even if it does get its own distinct page, it would need a new name since Mommy Issues is decidedly unclear, in my opinion.

edited 15th Oct '13 5:34:16 AM by Larkmarn

Maybe "I blame my mother" as the new trope title?
My alignment is Chaotic Cute.
20 SeptimusHeap16th Oct 2013 01:03:39 PM from Laniakea , Relationship Status: Mu
A line of dialogue?[tdown]
Okay, then just change it to "Blaming Mommy."
My alignment is Chaotic Cute.
I thought that was about the mother blaming others.

I still stand for merging with Freudian Excuse.
23 theAdeptrogue16th Oct 2013 08:50:36 PM , Relationship Status: Having tea with Cthulhu
Same here. Most of the examples I saw can be covered by either Freudian Excuse or Abusive Parents (or both).
Abusive Parents appears to not be about the influences of a character but a trait of the characters themselves. The victim could still be a child at this point.
I agree that Freudian Excuse is usually blaming the parents. I don't see anything to lose by merging them.

Page Action: Mommy Issues
5th Nov '13 10:57:23 AM
What would be the best way to fix the page?
At issue:

Total posts: 48
1 2