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Just checking in. Being 17 in a small school where it feels like everyone is taken has not really helped me out romantically. I really don't mind not having a boyfriend (or ever having one) but with societal pressure, it certainly doesn't help. I've only had guy friends, for that matter.

Being the perpetual youngest in my social circle made me feels old and creaky when I see you young'uns.

...Looks like I might end up here again.

In a moment of weakness, I opened up my ex's blog. She haven't updated anything, but more importantly, I saw her picture again.

She's still the most beautiful girl I've ever met. This is very upsetting for me for several reasons, the most is that I've convinced myself I've mostly moved on from her and that I now have to do so again.

Well remember that beauty is only skin deep. You broke up with her for a reason (or did she break up with you?).

She broke up with me. I wasn't talking about just her physical beauty. I meant her, well, everything. I can't stop myself from understanding/justifying everything she did. I can barely keep from mentally comparing her with other romantic prospects. Even her flaws, and I acknowledged that they exist, seems to complete her as a person.

Sheesh. I'm still going on about her as if we're in the honeymoon phrase even though she's my ex.

edited 4th Sep '15 6:49:17 AM by pblades

Oh...wow.

Well for starters perhaps you should stop lookin at her blog.

After that, go out and have fun. Get your mind off of her. Have a one night stand if it'll make you feel better.

What you need is to get dynamic standards like me. My standards change every time I lose interest in a girl, whether it be through rejection, finding out she's taken, etc. (theoretically possible for breakups as well, but I have yet to test this)

It mitigates the possibility of regaining that interest, which would be most disadvantageous.

Wow is quite right. She's a hell of a girl.
Mhm. Thanks for the advice, I'll think about it.

edited 4th Sep '15 6:48:51 AM by pblades

Major crush on a guy who kinda knows i exist... I guess?

Single pringle & ready to mingle anyway.

I finally decided to use the HAX that is dating sites.

May the Love Pantheon have mercy on my soul. ._.

Great! Now ask him out.

What should I say if I see a cute girl? I met a cute girl at a theme park the other day and I feel I've missed an opportunity.

edited 6th Sep '15 5:57:07 AM by Spinosegnosaurus77

Ask her her name, ask where she's from and what she does. Then ask her out.

talk to her like a normal person

I generally don't talk to people unless spoken to, but that's probably not the best approach.

offer her the head of her most hated enemy. on a platter.

As long as I keep distracting myself with video games and funny cat pictures I'll never be lonely :D

theinternet.txt

I must say I find that a bit hard to believe.

It's not impossible Deme, just very improbable.

Give me four years, and that'll be me as well.

methreeyearsago.jpg

No change but my age.

I do seem to defy the probabilities. I'm a rare card. And, yeah, what I said is true. No relationships, sex or kissing (in the case of the latter, in the personal/affectionate sense) so far.

I really hope you don't end up in my situation.

edited 7th Sep '15 3:13:19 PM by Quag15

Oh, I will, trust me.