These are what we call the 'YMMV items.' Things that some people find in this work. We call them 'your mileage might vary' because not everyone sees these things in the same way. This starts discussions in the trope lists, a thing we don't want. Please use the discussion page if you'd like to discuss any of these items.
Alternate Character Interpretation:Or rather, Alternate Event Interpretation. On this page of the dreamer, 3rd panel, Alexander seems to recall fondly on the dancing, and since dancing with the same man who was not your blood relation more than once was a social taboo, one can only guess what he meant by the dancing... however, it could also be interpretated as simply dancing, although that seems like a slim chance.