These are what we call the 'YMMV items.' Things that some people find in this work. We call them 'your mileage might vary' because not everyone sees these things in the same way. This starts discussions in the trope lists, a thing we don't want. Please use the discussion page if you'd like to discuss any of these items.
Crowning Moment of Heartwarming: Any episode that features an adult trying to find their birth mother/father when the mother/father in question actually is their parent, and when the parent actually does want to be the person's mother/father.
In most cases, as amusing as it may be for the studio and TV audiences, the adults involved in DNA tests are genuinely unlikable people who you don't want to envision with any type of responsibility with a child.
There was one case where a mom came on to prove that her deceased son was not the father of another woman's child. However, she did it in a way that would have gotten her booed if she was the second person introduced. Then, the mother of the infant comes out and gets violently booed. When it was revealed the deceased son was not the father, she poured on the verbal abuse so much, it came dangerously close to a Face Heel Double Turn. Maury himself looked increasingly uncomfortable as the bickering went on.
One can only hope the children of the paternity show guests never see the episode(s) featuring their parents, especially in the case of promiscuous mothers. This is especially because the show is such a Long Runner, sixteen years as of 2014, that in theory, a child who has been brought on to have her paternity disproven could end up birthing her own child with disputed parentage.
Female guests that test numerous men for their children often end up bringing more than one child on the show, some of which test up to 6 of their children. After you analyze the situation, you realize this means that after hearing "you are NOT the father" multiple times for their first child, they have learned absolutely nothing and they still refuse to close their legs. Additionally, if we assume that the first child that the guest brought on the show was the first child they gave birth to, this means that all of the children that the woman has given birth to have basicallygrown up onMaury.
During one female guest's fourth appearance, she admitted in a prior episode that she cheated on her boyfriend over 200 times after a DNA test determined he was not the father of her baby. As a result, she was ridiculed by the studio audience. A later appearance revealed that she was homeless and she was sleeping with these men in order to have a roof over her head.
Another female guest made a few appearances on the show to find out who the father of her son was. Like the above example, none of the men she brought was the father and she was ridiculed for it. In one of these appearances, she was actually in jail at the time.note She refused to reveal why she there. In her next appearance, she revealed that she was working as a prostitute at the time and that's why she was unsure who the father of her son was. This also explained why she was in jail during her previous appearance.
In 2007, a 14-year-old girl named Mylela was on the show because she was out of control. Her brother was murdered prior to her appearance on the show and during an interview with producers, Mylela told her mother off, saying "Who cares if you lose another child? You don't." Not even a year later, Mylela was killed in a drive-by shooting. She was 15.
"And the lie detector test determined THAT'S A LIE/you were telling THE TRUTH!"note It's never "...determined you were telling A LIE" or "...determined THAT'S THE TRUTH", probably to make it less predictable.
Maury is also the source of "CHICKEN TETRAZINNI!", a favorite clip on The Soup and the winner of the show's best moment of the year.
The moments when someone is hoping they are the father of a child, regardless of the results.
While we're at it, the times when it's the child him or herself that is looking for the father.
A man finds out he is not the father when he wanted to be (this tends to be genuinely heartbreaking). This is made substantially worse if the man decides to leave the woman if the child isn't his, as this will usually result in the man getting booed off the stage.
For some reason, any case involving the paternity of a child if the man being tested is deceased, because it never seems to turn out that he was the child's father. Tragic for the mother, the child, and the living family of the deceased to the point of frustration. Best to try to turn off your emotions when an episode features a segment like that.
Usually, the parents of the out of control teen girls claim that their daughters were once sweet, loving, and innocent and they don't know why they've chosen to act out.
In a specific, non-out of control teen related example, we have Moyisha, who was a recurring paternity guest. During her first couple of appearances, she didn't act especially off putting, despite the numerous men she tested. However, her behavior took a turn for the worse during her 4th appearance. First, she insults and curses out the potential father's sister and mother for simply stating that they didn't believe that the baby was related to them. Then, she tries to physically attack the sister and mom when they came out onstage for virtually no reason and curses the mom again after she says that the baby is not her son's. Moyisha also makes it a point to harrass the mother and sister for child support ''before'' the results are read. After Moyisha receives a short "The Reason You Suck" Speech from the sister, the results are read and the guy was not the father.
The point of "Man or Woman?" episodes. 10-15 people come onstage as women, while the audience tries to guess if they are really female or male.
It's quite easy when you've seen several shows before and realize the patterns. Most of the ones that look the most like women (usually, also with large breasts) and are dressed in the most revealing outfits are actually men, and the ones who move and behave awkwardly, are purposely done up to look like transvestites, and are often bodybuilders, are actually the women, in an effort to hit viewers with a Shocking Swerve. With these facts, you will be right in your guesses most of the time.
The times where the same couple come back time after time, and each time leave the show having ended it because s/he cheats, lies, or whatever. This especially apply to the abusive partner episodes, particularly when there are children involved.
Sholonda and her husband, full stop. Sholonda cheated on her husband with at least 17 men in one night, resulting in her getting pregnant with another man's baby, lied during her first appearance and said she cheated only 1 time and lied during her second appearance and said she cheated with 6 men, only to finally reveal the truth to her husband after all of the 6 men were proven to not be the father, and even then, she said that it was 14 men and not 18 like the DNA tests proved. Even after all of this, her husband still stayed with her, only to be cheated on yet again and was informed that their second child might not be his. Luckily, he was the father.
This was averted with Telia, however, who cheated on her husband with at least 11 men, including his cousin and a 17-year-old boy. Her husband left her after her first appearance.