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* '''Invoked''': Alice is afraid Bob will become attracted to her, and so deliberately becomes more assertive so as to be intimidating to him.

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Alice is afraid Bob will become attracted to her, and so deliberately becomes more assertive so as to be intimidating to him.him.
** Alice chases Bob in the most stalkerish way she can muster to teach him a lesson about how it feels.
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** Bob is AllergicToLove.

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** Bob is AllergicToLove.AllergicToLove, or generally hates being the center of attention.



** Bob is glad that Alice would take the initiative and also likes that someone's interested in him.

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** UnluckyEverydude Bob is glad that Alice would take the initiative and also likes that [[IJustWantToBeSpecial someone's interested in him.him]].
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** ...or Bob is just AllergicToLove.

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Bob is just AllergicToLove.


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** Bob concludes that Alice must not be a good catch if she has to chase guys, rather then having them come to her.

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** [[MasculineGirlFeminineBoy Bob is glad that Alice would take the initiative]] and also likes that someone's interested in him.

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** [[MasculineGirlFeminineBoy Bob is glad that Alice would take the initiative]] initiative and also likes that someone's interested in him.
** CasanovaWannabe Bob desperately wishes he was chased by girls, [[ButtMonkey but there's no girl who really interested in
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* '''Double Subverted''': But then Alice takes her agression ''too'' far and continues to pester Bob for dates and affection when he's busy with other things, and Bob starts avoiding her again.

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* '''Double Subverted''': But then Alice takes her agression aggression ''too'' far and continues to pester Bob for dates and affection when he's busy with other things, and Bob starts avoiding her again.
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** Alice is an AxCrazy {{Yandere}}.

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** Alice is a stalker and/or an AxCrazy {{Yandere}}.



* '''Enforced''': "Guys are usually put off by aggressive girls, so there's no way Bob would actually want Alice."

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* '''Enforced''': "Guys are usually The producers insist that the show ought to have a scene featuring Bob being put off by aggressive girls, so there's no way Bob how Alice aggressively pursues a relationship, believing that the male demographic would actually want Alice."find the show more relatable.



* '''Defied''': Bob reasons that a girl interested in him his a good thing, and accepts Alice's offer.

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* '''Defied''': Bob reasons that a girl interested in him his is a good thing, and accepts Alice's offer.
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** Alice is an AxCrazy {{Yandere}}.
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* '''Subverted''': When Alice starts pursuing him, Bob is ''thrilled'' that she's so interested that she's actively coming after him and kick-starting their relationship.
* '''Double Subverted''': Though her obvious interest in him excites him at first, Bob soon realizes that her aggressiveness isn't charming so much as it is ''creepy''.

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* '''Subverted''': When Alice starts pursuing him, Bob is ''thrilled'' that she's so interested that she's actively coming initially put-off by her aggressiveness. But after him pursuing and kick-starting their relationship.
getting together with the ShrinkingViolet Claire, he decides that he prefers Alice's straightforwardness.
* '''Double Subverted''': Though But then Alice takes her obvious interest in him excites him at first, agression ''too'' far and continues to pester Bob soon realizes that for dates and affection when he's busy with other things, and Bob starts avoiding her aggressiveness isn't charming so much as it is ''creepy''.again.
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* '''Exaggerated''': Alice ''literally'' chases Bob around, constantly asking and/or ''demanding'' that he date her.

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* '''Exaggerated''': Alice ''literally'' chases Bob around, constantly asking and/or ''demanding'' that makes passes at Bob, and he date her.immediately blacklists her as a prospective LoveInterest, because, in his mind, girls shouldn't be the one to make the initial move to pursue romance, no matter how subtle.
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** Social mores dictate that it should be the men who pursue women. Alice's aggressive pursuit of Bob, even if he does like her otherwise, is damaging his social standing and making life for him and his family difficult.

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** Social mores dictate that [[MenActWomenAre it should be the men who pursue women.women]]. Alice's aggressive pursuit of Bob, even if he does like her otherwise, is damaging his social standing and making life for him and his family difficult.

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** Plenty of guys ''do'' want to be chased, and are actually too cowardly to pursue a girl otherwise, especially considering the desire to avoid harassment. However, women's knowledge of this trope stops them from pursuing men.



* '''Implied''': Bob turns down Alice for some strange reason. It appears she might be coming on too strong, but it's not clear.



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* '''Conversed''': ???

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* '''Conversed''': ???"How come men hate it so much when a woman pursues them?" "Because a woman who chases a man so adamantly makes herself look like a low-hanging fruit that anyone could pick up."
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** Bob wants to date Lola, who isn't interested; knowing that he doesn't like aggressive girls, Lola pretends to be suddenly super-obsessed with dating him, expecting that to drive him away.

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** Bob wants to date Lola, Alice, who isn't interested; knowing that he doesn't like aggressive girls, Lola Alice pretends to be suddenly super-obsessed with dating him, expecting that to drive him away.
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* '''Reconstructed:''' When Alice takes her pursuit too far, such as getting Bob's family involved so she can get his family's "approval, ''that's'' when everyone decides she's done enough and drive her away. The men in the family especially learn from the experience, telling Bob that if he does fall in love, it better not be with a girl like her.

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* '''Reconstructed:''' When Alice takes her pursuit too far, such as getting Bob's family involved so she can get his family's "approval, "approval", ''that's'' when everyone decides she's done enough and drive her away. The men in the family especially learn from the experience, telling Bob that if he does fall in love, it better not be with a girl like her.
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* '''Reconstructed:''' When Alice takes her pursuit too far, such as getting Bob's family involved so she can get his family's "approval, ''that's'' when everyone decides she's done enough and drive her away. The men in the family especially learn from the experience, telling Bob that if he does fall in love, it better not be with a girl like her.
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* '''Downplayed''': Alice is attracted to Bob, and passive-aggressively pursues a relationship with him. Bob does not notice this.

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* '''Downplayed''': Alice is attracted to Bob, and passive-aggressively pursues a relationship with him. [[ObliviousToLove Bob does not notice this.]]



** Bob is glad that Alice would take the initiative and also likes that someone's interested in him.

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** [[MasculineGirlFeminineBoy Bob is glad that Alice would take the initiative initiative]] and also likes that someone's interested in him.
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** Violet likes Bob, but even though he's aware of her affection, her shyness and fear of actively pursuing a relationship with him leaves him cold.

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** Violet [[ShrinkingViolet Violet]] likes Bob, but even though he's aware of her affection, [[CannotSpitItOut her shyness and fear of actively pursuing a relationship with him him]] leaves him cold.
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** Bob actually doesn't mind an aggressive female partner, but Alice's behavior is ''scary''. She frequently [[StalkerWithACrush follows him home]], has scared off other girls with whom Bob has interacted, and lately has added [[NoSenseOfPersonalSpace physical and sexual intimidation tactics]] as well. Bob is thoroughly disturbed by her {{Yandere}} behavior, but [[CassandraTruth no one takes him seriously]] because [[TheUnfairSex Alice]] [[ScrewTheRulesImBeautiful is sexy]] and [[AManIsNotAVirgin as a man]] [[DoubleStandard he should be grateful for the attention]].

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** Bob actually doesn't mind an aggressive female partner, but Alice's behavior is ''scary''. She frequently [[StalkerWithACrush follows him home]], has scared off other girls with whom Bob has interacted, and lately has added [[NoSenseOfPersonalSpace physical and sexual intimidation tactics]] as well. Bob is thoroughly disturbed by her {{Yandere}} behavior, but [[CassandraTruth no one takes him seriously]] because [[TheUnfairSex Alice]] [[ScrewTheRulesImBeautiful is sexy]] and [[AManIsNotAVirgin [[AManIsAlwaysEager as a man]] [[DoubleStandard he should be grateful for the attention]].
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* '''Downplayed''': Alice is atrracted to Bob, and passive-aggressively pursues a relationship with him. Bob does not notice this.

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* '''Downplayed''': Alice is atrracted attracted to Bob, and passive-aggressively pursues a relationship with him. Bob does not notice this.



** The way Alice is aggressively pursuing Bob would be treated ''very'' differently if it was genderflipped to [[StalkerWithACrush Alex]] and Bobbie.

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** The way Alice is aggressively pursuing Bob would be treated ''very'' differently [[DoubleStandard differently]] if it was genderflipped to [[StalkerWithACrush Alex]] and Bobbie.



** It turns out that the whole reason Alice has been pushing her affection onto Bob is because she [[DarkAndTroubledPast has had a string of abusive relationships]]. Having never been allowed to say "No" before, she struggles with accepting that ''Bob'' can reject unwanted advances.
** Bob actually doesn't mind an aggressive female partner, but Alice's behavior is ''scary''. She frequently [[StalkerWithACrush follows him home]], has scared off other girls with whom Bob has interacted, and lately has added [[NoSenseOfPersonalSpace physical and sexual intimidation tactics]] as well. Bob is thoroughly disturbed by her {{Yandere}} behavior, but [[CassandraTruth no one takes him seriously]] because [[HotGuysAreBastards Alice is sexy]] and [[AManIsNotAVirgin as a man]] [[DoubleStandard he should be grateful for the attention]].

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** It turns out that the whole reason Alice [[BrokenBird Alice]] has been pushing her affection onto Bob is because she [[DarkAndTroubledPast has had a string of abusive relationships]]. Having never been allowed to say "No" before, she struggles with accepting that ''Bob'' can reject unwanted advances.
** Bob actually doesn't mind an aggressive female partner, but Alice's behavior is ''scary''. She frequently [[StalkerWithACrush follows him home]], has scared off other girls with whom Bob has interacted, and lately has added [[NoSenseOfPersonalSpace physical and sexual intimidation tactics]] as well. Bob is thoroughly disturbed by her {{Yandere}} behavior, but [[CassandraTruth no one takes him seriously]] because [[HotGuysAreBastards Alice [[TheUnfairSex Alice]] [[ScrewTheRulesImBeautiful is sexy]] and [[AManIsNotAVirgin as a man]] [[DoubleStandard he should be grateful for the attention]].
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* '''Discussed''': ???

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* '''Discussed''': ???"Maybe we should tell Alice that carrying around a net to capture Bob isn't going to make him like her?"
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* '''Downplayed''': ???

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* '''Downplayed''': ???Alice is atrracted to Bob, and passive-aggressively pursues a relationship with him. Bob does not notice this.
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** The way Alice is aggressively pursuing Bob would be treated ''very'' differently if it was genderflipped to [[StalkerWithACrush Alex]] and Bobbie.

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* '''Straight''': [[AliceAndBob Alice]] wants to date [[EverythingsBetterWithBob Bob]], and actively pursues a relationship with him. Bob does not approve of this.

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* '''Straight''': [[AliceAndBob Alice]] wants to date [[EverythingsBetterWithBob Bob]], Bob, and actively pursues a relationship with him. Bob does not approve of this.



* '''Justified''': Bob simply doesn't like Alice in that way, and the fact that she not only doesn't accept that, but actively tries to ''force'' him to accept her only puts him off further.

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Bob simply doesn't like Alice in that way, and the fact that she not only doesn't accept that, but actively tries to ''force'' him to accept her only puts him off further.



* '''Inverted''': Evan chases after Danielle, much to her dismay.

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Evan chases after Danielle, much to her dismay.



* '''Deconstructed''': Alice's entirely public pursuit of Bob -- and his equally public rejections of her -- damage both their reputations. Alice is treated as if her wanting a relationship with Bob [[MyGirlIsNotASlut somehow makes her a slut]], while other girls who were interested in Bob before decide they don't want to risk being rejected and shunned just for showing interest.
** It turns out that the whole reason Alice has been pushing her affection onto Bob is because she [[DarkAndTroubledPast has had a string of abusive relationships]]. Having never been allowed to say "No" before, she struggles with accepting that ''Bob'' can reject unwanted advances.
** Bob actually doesn't mind an aggressive female partner, but Alice's behavior is ''scary''. She frequently [[StalkerWithACrush follows him home]], has scared off other girls with whom Bob has interacted, and lately has added [[NoSenseOfPersonalSpace physical and sexual intimidation tactics]] as well. Bob is thoroughly disturbed by her {{Yandere}} behavior, but [[CassandraTruth no one takes him seriously]] because [[HotGuysAreBastards Alice is sexy]] and [[AManIsNotAVirgin as a man]] [[DoubleStandard he should be grateful for the attention]].
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* '''Exploited''': Bob wants to date Lola, who isn't interested; knowing that he doesn't like aggressive girls, Lola pretends to be suddenly super-obsessed with dating him, expecting that to drive him away.

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* '''Exploited''': '''Exploited''':
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Bob wants to date Lola, who isn't interested; knowing that he doesn't like aggressive girls, Lola pretends to be suddenly super-obsessed with dating him, expecting that to drive him away.



* '''Deconstructed''':
** Alice's entirely public pursuit of Bob -- and his equally public rejections of her -- damage both their reputations. Alice is treated as if her wanting a relationship with Bob [[MyGirlIsNotASlut somehow makes her a slut]], while other girls who were interested in Bob before decide they don't want to risk being rejected and shunned just for showing interest.
** It turns out that the whole reason Alice has been pushing her affection onto Bob is because she [[DarkAndTroubledPast has had a string of abusive relationships]]. Having never been allowed to say "No" before, she struggles with accepting that ''Bob'' can reject unwanted advances.
** Bob actually doesn't mind an aggressive female partner, but Alice's behavior is ''scary''. She frequently [[StalkerWithACrush follows him home]], has scared off other girls with whom Bob has interacted, and lately has added [[NoSenseOfPersonalSpace physical and sexual intimidation tactics]] as well. Bob is thoroughly disturbed by her {{Yandere}} behavior, but [[CassandraTruth no one takes him seriously]] because [[HotGuysAreBastards Alice is sexy]] and [[AManIsNotAVirgin as a man]] [[DoubleStandard he should be grateful for the attention]].






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** Bob actually doesn't mind an aggressive female partner, but Alice's behavior is ''scary''. She frequently [[StalkerWithACrush follows him home]], has scared off other girls with whom Bob has interacted, and lately has added [[NoSenseOfPersonalSpace physical and sexual intimidation tactics]] as well. Bob is thoroughly disturbed by her {{Yandere}} behavior, but [[CassandraTruth no one takes him seriously]] because [[HotGuysAreBastards Alice is sexy]] and [[AManIsNotAVirgin as a man]] [[DoubleStandard he should be grateful for the attention]].
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* '''Defied''': Bob reasons that a girl being interested in him his a good thing, and accepts Alice's offer of a date.

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* '''Defied''': Bob reasons that a girl being interested in him his a good thing, and accepts Alice's offer of a date.offer.
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** Bob is actually glad that Alice would take the initiative and also likes that someone's actually interested in him.

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** Bob is actually glad that Alice would take the initiative and also likes that someone's actually interested in him.
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* '''Lampshaded''': "You're always chasing girls around, but when one actually ''wants'' you, you turn her down?''

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* '''Lampshaded''': "You're always chasing girls around, but around and you don't score shit yet when one actually ''wants'' you, you turn her down?''
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** ...or Bob is just AllergicToLove.
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** Social mores dictate that it should be the men who pursue women. Alice's aggressive pursuit of Bob, even if he does like her otherwise, is damaging his social standing and making life for him and his family difficult.

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** Bob is actually glad that Alice would take the initiative and also likes that someone's actually interested in him.



* '''Averted''': ???
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Alice's aggressiveness isn't a factor in Bob rejecting or hooking up with her.
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"Guys are usually put off by aggressive girls, so there's no way Bob would actually want Alice."
* '''Lampshaded''': ???"You're always chasing girls around, but when one actually ''wants'' you, you turn her down?''



* '''Defied''': ???

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* '''Defied''': ???Bob reasons that a girl being interested in him his a good thing, and accepts Alice's offer of a date.

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