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* In ''WebAnimation/{{Nameless}}'', it's heavily implied that [[spoiler: Miller's]] mom molested him, which could be the reason why he's so [[AxCrazy screwed up.]]

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* In ''WebAnimation/{{Nameless}}'', ''WebAnimation/Nameless2005'', it's heavily implied that [[spoiler: Miller's]] mom molested him, which could be the reason why he's so [[AxCrazy screwed up.]]
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* ''WebAnimation/AbilityNoX'': When [[https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=v00pfYihEpU Ayame]] manifested her ability to hear the flowers, her parents frequently abused her because they wanted to cover it up. This made Ayame resentful of her ability and the flowers and she began to hurt them.
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* ''WebAnimation/HappyTreeFriends'': [[BumblingDad Pop]] is a downplayed example of this, but he's lapsed into this tertiary on a few occasions. For instance, hammering a nail into Cub's face to hide it, yanking him out of a kitchen sink by tying a rope around his neck and car, intentionally breaking off his spine, etc. He killed Cub on purpose once even, though to be fair, it was a last-ditch effort [[ItMakesSenseInContext to kill a demon inside him]]. One early draft of an episode even had Pop intentionally setting Cub's dead body on fire to dispose of his corspe.
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When the abused child in question grows up and starts their own family, they will sometimes bow not to make the same mistakes their parents did with them and will try to treat their own children better with the hopes of BreakingTheCycleOfBadParenting.
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* ''WebAnimation/MyStoryAnimated'': Carol and Lana's father from [[https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=5sMu14aWqs4 "I Found My Missing Sister In A Graveyard"]] allows his second wife to [[WickedStepmother torment her stepdaughters]] and gets physically abusive with Carol.
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Unfortunately, Abusive Parents ''are'' TruthInTelevision and a very sensitive topic for many, so '''Administrivia/NoRealLifeExamplesPlease''' - It is sufficient to say '''[[https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Child_abuse they do exist]]''' and that they are also all NoRealLife/TooCommon.

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Unfortunately, Abusive Parents ''are'' are TruthInTelevision and a very sensitive topic for many, so '''Administrivia/NoRealLifeExamplesPlease''' Administrivia/NoRealLifeExamplesPlease - It is sufficient to say '''[[https://en.[[https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Child_abuse they do exist]]''' exist]] and that they are also all NoRealLife/TooCommon.
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* AbusiveParents/{{Jokes}}
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Real child abuse isn't funny, period. However there is BlackHumor and ComedicSociopathy. With that being said:
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* There's a whole line of short "Mommy Mommy" jokes that are popular:
-->"Mommy-mommy, why do I keep walking in circles?"\\
"Shut up dear, or I'll nail your other foot to the floor."\\
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"Mommy-mommy, why is Daddy running back and forth across the field?"\\
"Shut up and reload, dear."\\
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"Mommy-mommy, why can't Daddy have a proper burial?\\
"Shut up and keep flushing, dear."\\
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"Mommy-mommy, Grandma has a huge mole on her leg!"\\
"Shut up and eat around it, dear."

* A mother is making jam in the kitchen, and her legless son plays in the other room. He calls for her to bring him some jam, and she answers that he can easily walk to the kitchen. "But I have no legs..." "No legs, no jam!"
** This joke is also told in the "No arms, no cartoons" variety.
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* AbusiveParents/{{Roleplay}}
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* ''Roleplay/DawnOfANewAgeOldportBlues'':
** Mrs. Miller forced all her expectations onto Jacob, which eventually developed into her emotionally abusing him if he didn't match up to her standards. His [[ScheduleFanatic obsession with routine]] is his way of coping with it.
** Benedict's father micromanages his life, expecting him to get the best possible grades so that he can inherit the family legacy. Even worse, he's blatantly homophobic, going so far as to hurl slurs at his son. As a result, Benedict has become haughty and stand-offish in order to conceal his issues of self-worth.
** Daigo's father and stepmother physically abused him, outed him as bisexual, and frequently mocked his Japanese heritage. This only stopped when his stepmother passed away, and his father grew too frail to hurt him anymore- which, in turn, led to Daigo [[BestServedCold exacting his revenge]] against the old man.
** Emmanuel's lack of self-esteem and self-control are a result of his mother, who verbally abuses him about being overweight. Even after he gained a super metabolism and slimmed down, she still tore into him when she found him eating cookies.
* Fairly common as a backstory for characters in ''Roleplay/SurvivalOfTheFittest'', in that there are at least several examples per version. It was particularly common in v1 and v2, and while it isn't as common in later versions they still pop up. V2's [[DarkActionGirl Mariavel Varella]] is one such example, having been abused physically (and in a retconned thread, sexually) by her father, who also [[OffingTheOffspring killed her brother]].
* In ''Roleplay/TouhouAGlimmerOfAnOutsideWorld'', Marisa's father. Amongst other things, he threw her out -- despite Marisa's being sixteen or seventeen at the most -- and hit her when she tried to get back in.
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** [[https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=cXpgu7Zaxl4 "My 'Perfect' Dad Wasn't Who I Thought He Was"]] centers on Zion, whose father forced her to ''view pornography and violent content'', made her ''sit in the bathtub with her brother'', and even [[WouldHurtAChild physically assaulted her]] on one occasion. After Zion's mother confronts him for his behavior, he blackmails her by threatening to take away her children. Once doctors became suspicious about the family's mental health, they called 911 and had him arrested.

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** [[https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=cXpgu7Zaxl4 "My 'Perfect' Dad Wasn't Who I Thought He Was"]] centers on Zion, whose father forced her to ''view pornography and violent content'', made her ''sit in the bathtub with her brother'', and even [[WouldHurtAChild physically assaulted her]] on one occasion. After Zion's mother confronts him for his behavior, he blackmails her by threatening to take away her children.children away. Once doctors became suspicious about the family's mental health, they called 911 and had him arrested.
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** [[https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=cXpgu7Zaxl4 "My 'Perfect' Dad Wasn't Who I Thought He Was"]] centers on Zion, whose father appears to fun-loving but is truly anything but. He forces his underaged daughter to view pornography and violent content, makes her sit in the bathtub with her brother, and even physically assaults her once. After Zion's mother confronts him for his behavior, he blackmails her by threatening to take away her children if she reports him. Once doctors became suspicious about the family's mental health, they called 911 and had him arrested.

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** [[https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=cXpgu7Zaxl4 "My 'Perfect' Dad Wasn't Who I Thought He Was"]] centers on Zion, whose father appears forced her to fun-loving but is truly anything but. He forces his underaged daughter to view ''view pornography and violent content, makes content'', made her sit ''sit in the bathtub with her brother, brother'', and even [[WouldHurtAChild physically assaults her once. assaulted her]] on one occasion. After Zion's mother confronts him for his behavior, he blackmails her by threatening to take away her children if she reports him.children. Once doctors became suspicious about the family's mental health, they called 911 and had him arrested.
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** [[https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=cXpgu7Zaxl4 "My 'Perfect' Dad Wasn't Who I Thought He Was"]] features Zion having a supposedly fun-loving father, but he reveals his true colors when he forces his underaged daughter to ''view pornography and violent content'', makes her ''sit in the bathtub with her brother'', and even [[WouldHurtAChild physically assaults her]] once. After Zion's mother finally confronts him for his abusive behavior, he blackmails her by threatening to take away her children if she reports him. Once doctors became suspicious about the family's mental health, they call 911 and have him arrested.

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** [[https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=cXpgu7Zaxl4 "My 'Perfect' Dad Wasn't Who I Thought He Was"]] features Zion having a supposedly centers on Zion, whose father appears to fun-loving father, but he reveals his true colors when he is truly anything but. He forces his underaged daughter to ''view view pornography and violent content'', content, makes her ''sit sit in the bathtub with her brother'', brother, and even [[WouldHurtAChild physically assaults her]] her once. After Zion's mother finally confronts him for his abusive behavior, he blackmails her by threatening to take away her children if she reports him. Once doctors became suspicious about the family's mental health, they call called 911 and have had him arrested.
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** [[https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=3Vtb64wZkzs "16 and Pregnant"]] has Poppy's parents [[KickTheDog disowning their daughter]] once they figure out she was impregnated by Aiden. The kicker is that she was ''extorted'' into having sex with him, [[LackOfEmpathy but the parents clearly couldn't care less]].

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** [[https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=3Vtb64wZkzs "16 and Pregnant"]] has Poppy's parents [[KickTheDog disowning their daughter]] her]] once they figure out she was impregnated by Aiden. pregnant with Aiden's child. The kicker is that she was Aiden ''extorted'' her into having sex with him, [[LackOfEmpathy but the parents clearly couldn't care less]].
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** AbusiveParent/TheDCU
** AbusiveParent/MarvelUniverse

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* ''WebAnimation/HommerSimpson'': Hommer is responsible for the death of his daughter Maggie, but is also shown to be repeatedly rude and abusive to Bart and (especially) Lissa.
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* In ''Podcast/InStrangeWoods'', Howl's father and uncle were emotionally and physically abusive to him, and he grew up in a house without love.

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* In ''Podcast/InStrangeWoods'', Howl's father and uncle were was emotionally and physically abusive to him, and he grew up in a house without love.
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* In ''Podcast/InStrangeWoods'', Howl's father and uncle were emotionally and physically abusive to him, and he grew up in a house without love.
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This includes parents who are emotionally, verbally, physically, or mentally abusive, or who neglectfully allow their children to be abused by others if they don't abuse the child themselves; [[ParentalIncest sexual abuse]] in particular is typically treated as [[RapeIsASpecialKindOfEvil a special kind of evil]]. Sometimes, the abuse at the hands of their parents becomes a FreudianExcuse for a villain. Other times, the character manages to [[DefiedTrope not grow up broken, bitter, and hateful]], and instead [[CharacterDevelopment a different and better person]] than the upbringing would incline one to think. TroublingUnchildlikeBehavior is often a tell-tale sign that things are not right at home.

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This includes parents who are emotionally, verbally, physically, or mentally abusive, or who neglectfully allow their children to be abused by others if they don't abuse the child themselves; [[ParentalIncest sexual abuse]] in particular is typically treated as [[RapeIsASpecialKindOfEvil a special kind of evil]]. Sometimes, the abuse at the hands of their parents becomes a FreudianExcuse for a villain. Other times, the character manages to [[DefiedTrope not grow up broken, bitter, and hateful]], and instead [[CharacterDevelopment a different and better person]] than the upbringing would incline one to think.think; they may even pass down their newfound betterment [[BreakingTheCycleOfBadParenting to their own children]]. TroublingUnchildlikeBehavior is often a tell-tale sign that things are not right at home.
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If a parent has just dumped the child, for whatever reason, that's ParentalAbandonment; if they aren't paying attention, that's ParentalNeglect. If the parents refuse to discipline their kids, they are PushoverParents. Contrast MamaBear or PapaWolf (where ''others'' abuse the children and the parents abuse the abusers), and the more extreme variant of KnightTemplarParent, where the abusive parent is violently overprotective. Also contrast AbusiveOffspring, where the children are abusive to their parents. AbusivePrecursors can be considered this, on a metaphorical level. See HilariouslyAbusiveChildhood for when this is [[ExaggeratedTrope cranked up to absurd levels]] and PlayedForLaughs. BlackComedy is often connected in the comedic aspect of it, and a BigScrewedUpFamily may be involved if it is adult comedy. In keeping with the above note, some may call the show on it and say DudeNotFunny. See EvilMatriarch and ArchnemesisDad for characters who are beyond ''abusive'' and outright ''evil''. Abusive-type parents are mostly [[NotoriousParent wanted criminals being chased by the law]]. For grandparents who abuses their grandchildren, see GruesomeGrandparent.

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If a parent has just dumped the child, for whatever reason, that's ParentalAbandonment; if they aren't paying attention, that's ParentalNeglect. If the parents refuse to discipline their kids, they are PushoverParents. Contrast MamaBear or PapaWolf (where ''others'' abuse the children and the parents abuse the abusers), and the more extreme variant of KnightTemplarParent, where the abusive parent is violently overprotective. Also contrast AbusiveOffspring, where the children are abusive to their parents. AbusivePrecursors can be considered this, on a metaphorical level. See HilariouslyAbusiveChildhood for when this is [[ExaggeratedTrope cranked up to absurd levels]] and PlayedForLaughs. BlackComedy is often connected in the comedic aspect of it, and a BigScrewedUpFamily may be involved if it is adult comedy. In keeping with the above note, some may call the show on it and say DudeNotFunny. See EvilMatriarch and ArchnemesisDad for characters who are beyond ''abusive'' and outright ''evil''. Abusive-type parents are mostly [[NotoriousParent wanted criminals being chased by the law]]. For grandparents who abuses abuse their grandchildren, see GruesomeGrandparent.
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* ''WebAnimation/StoryBooth'': Due to the topics revolving around AdultFear, plenty of stories will involve this. Here are a few examples:

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* ''WebAnimation/StoryBooth'': Due to the topics revolving around AdultFear, the horrors of daily life, plenty of stories will involve this. Here are a few examples:
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* ''WebAnimation/RockNRollDad'': Murry Wilson likes hurting his son Brian's feelings.
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* The titular ''VideoGame/SaladFingers'' has his "family" introduced in episode 11 as a BigBrotherBully and an unpleasant matriarch who lives in mirrors and reflections. While it is unknown whether or not the Glass Mother is in any way his ''actual'' mother, she is verbally abusive and gets him to poison himself. His father is not any better, going by her final words before Salad Fingers [[SealedEvilInACan seals the last of her away in a box after breaking the mirror]].

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* The titular ''VideoGame/SaladFingers'' ''WebAnimation/SaladFingers'' has his "family" introduced in episode 11 as a BigBrotherBully and an unpleasant matriarch who lives in mirrors and reflections. While it is unknown whether or not the Glass Mother is in any way his ''actual'' mother, she is verbally abusive and gets him to poison himself. His father is not any better, going by her final words before Salad Fingers [[SealedEvilInACan seals the last of her away in a box after breaking the mirror]].
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* The titular ''VideoGame/SaladFingers'' has his "family" introduced in episode 11 as a BigBrotherBully and an unpleasant matriarch who lives in mirrors and reflections. While it is unknown whether or not the Glass Mother is in any way his ''actual'' mother, she is verbally abusive and gets him to poison himself. His father is not any better, going by her final words before Salad Fingers [[SealedEvilInACan seals the last of her away in a box after breaking the mirror]].
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** Nora reveals in private to Ren that her mother was a DirtyCoward who abandoned Nora during a Grimm attack to try and save her own life, which is how she ended up a StreetUrchin in Kuroyuri.
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Bear in mind that [[SlidingScaleOfParentShamingInFiction not everyone agrees on the line between actual abuse and merely heavy-handed parenting]] (or even ''normal'' parenting). Is MovingTheGoalposts merely inspiring the child to achieve more, or the most insidious form of abuse to instill mistrust and paranoia in the children? Some include [[DontMakeMeTakeMyBeltOff spanking]] as abuse; others think it's appropriate given certain guidelines. Some believe it's okay to make a kid go without a meal (they won't starve that easily); others disagree. Making a kid miss a friend's birthday sleepover -- is that ''emotional'' abuse? Raising a kid without exposure to TV? Telling your daughter she's getting fat? A little name-calling? There's a line here somewhere, but not everyone agrees on where it is.[[note]]although, it should be said that the examples listed here and in other places that correspond to the "line" would be considered "disrespectful", ''especially'' [[{{MoralMyopia}} by the parents]], if a child had done it to them or other adults (a parent hitting their kid is considered discipline in some circles, [[{{Hypocrite}} but "disrespect" if vice versa is done)]], although because of children being seen as sub-human by majority of society, this is never taken into account by some and flat-out ignored by others.[[/note]]

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Bear in mind that [[SlidingScaleOfParentShamingInFiction not everyone agrees on the line between actual abuse and merely heavy-handed parenting]] (or even ''normal'' parenting). Is MovingTheGoalposts merely inspiring the child to achieve more, or the most insidious form of abuse to instill mistrust and paranoia in the children? Some include [[DontMakeMeTakeMyBeltOff spanking]] as abuse; others think it's appropriate given certain guidelines. Some believe it's okay to make a kid go without a meal (they won't starve that easily); others disagree. Making a kid miss a friend's birthday sleepover -- is that ''emotional'' abuse? Raising a kid without exposure to TV? Telling your daughter she's getting fat? A little name-calling? There's a line here somewhere, but not everyone agrees on where it is.[[note]]although, [[note]]Although, it should be said that the examples listed here and in other places that correspond to the "line" would be considered "disrespectful", ''especially'' [[{{MoralMyopia}} by the parents]], if a child had done it to them or other adults (a parent hitting their kid is considered discipline in some circles, [[{{Hypocrite}} but "disrespect" if vice versa is done)]], although because of children being seen as sub-human by majority of society, this is never taken into account by some and flat-out ignored by others.[[/note]]



* ''WebAnimation/ActuallyHappened'': In the video ''[[https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=5ky-X_vIRTc I Failed To Save My Girl From Her Father]]'', a boy learns that his girlfriend's father is the abusive ex of his aunt. He notices that both his girlfriend Emma and her mother show signs of being abused. When the boy mentions his worries to Emma, she gets angry at him for accusing her dad. The two end up breaking up.

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* ''WebAnimation/ActuallyHappened'': In the video ''[[https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=5ky-X_vIRTc I Failed To Save My Girl From Her Father]]'', Father,]]'' a boy learns that his girlfriend's father is the abusive ex of his aunt. He notices that both his girlfriend Emma and her mother show signs of being abused. When the boy mentions his worries to Emma, she gets angry at him for accusing her dad. The two end up breaking up.



** "[[https://m.youtube.com/watch?v=mXS0_YMT6Y8 Mean Mom]]" revolves around Sydney's mother constantly bullying and beating up her own daughter for not being good enough. This results in Sydney going through severe depression, even ''inflicting self-harm'' due to her mother's bullying.
** "[[https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=3Vtb64wZkzs 16 and Pregnant]]" has Poppy's parents [[KickTheDog disowning their daughter]] once they figure out she was impregnated by Aiden. The kicker is that she was ''extorted'' into having sex with him, [[LackOfEmpathy but the parents clearly couldn't care less]].
** "[[https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=cXpgu7Zaxl4 My 'Perfect' Dad Wasn't Who I Thought He Was]]" features Zion having a supposedly fun-loving father, but he reveals his true colors when he forces his underaged daughter to ''view pornography and violent content'', makes her ''sit in the bathtub with her brother'', and even [[WouldHurtAChild physically assaults her]] once. After Zion's mother finally confronts him for his abusive behavior, he blackmails her by threatening to take away her children if she reports him. Once doctors became suspicious about the family's mental health, they call 911 and have him arrested.

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** "[[https://m.[[https://m.youtube.com/watch?v=mXS0_YMT6Y8 Mean Mom]]" "Mean Mom"]] revolves around Sydney's mother constantly bullying and beating up her own daughter for not being good enough. This results in Sydney going through severe depression, even ''inflicting self-harm'' due to her mother's bullying.
** "[[https://www.[[https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=3Vtb64wZkzs 16 "16 and Pregnant]]" Pregnant"]] has Poppy's parents [[KickTheDog disowning their daughter]] once they figure out she was impregnated by Aiden. The kicker is that she was ''extorted'' into having sex with him, [[LackOfEmpathy but the parents clearly couldn't care less]].
** "[[https://www.[[https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=cXpgu7Zaxl4 My "My 'Perfect' Dad Wasn't Who I Thought He Was]]" Was"]] features Zion having a supposedly fun-loving father, but he reveals his true colors when he forces his underaged daughter to ''view pornography and violent content'', makes her ''sit in the bathtub with her brother'', and even [[WouldHurtAChild physically assaults her]] once. After Zion's mother finally confronts him for his abusive behavior, he blackmails her by threatening to take away her children if she reports him. Once doctors became suspicious about the family's mental health, they call 911 and have him arrested.
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** "[[https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=cXpgu7Zaxl4 My "Perfect" Dad Wasn't Who I Thought He Was]]" features Zion having a supposedly fun-loving father, but he reveals his true colors when he forces his underaged daughter to ''view pornography and violent content'', makes her ''sit in the bathtub with her brother'', and even [[WouldHurtAChild physically assaults her]] once. After Zion's mother finally confronts him for his abusive behavior, he blackmails her by threatening to take away her children if she reports him. Once doctors became suspicious about the family's mental health, they call 9-1-1 and have him arrested.

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** "[[https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=cXpgu7Zaxl4 My "Perfect" 'Perfect' Dad Wasn't Who I Thought He Was]]" features Zion having a supposedly fun-loving father, but he reveals his true colors when he forces his underaged daughter to ''view pornography and violent content'', makes her ''sit in the bathtub with her brother'', and even [[WouldHurtAChild physically assaults her]] once. After Zion's mother finally confronts him for his abusive behavior, he blackmails her by threatening to take away her children if she reports him. Once doctors became suspicious about the family's mental health, they call 9-1-1 911 and have him arrested.

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