One must question if kyon is actually Selectively Oblivious to haruhi's feelings, or if, due to her being a hopeless, selfish bitch with no redeeming qualities whatsoever, he simply realizes she doesn't *deserve* to have her feelings acknowledged. stuff like the whole "hurr mikuru exists only to be my toy, I don't have to give her any respect as a human being at all" Moral Event Horizon make this sort of thing clear... which makes it all the more disgusting that itsuki won't allow for haruhi being corrected when she's demonstrating how much of a Complete Monster she is.