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That trope name was nothing like I remember, but I'm just dumb, so forget me. That's totally the right trope, thanks!
And while we're here, is there anything for characters who dislike other members of their own gender? Not necessarily someone who dislikes their self for being that gender, but like...a man who Does Not Like Men.
EDIT: Aaaand while we're still still here, is there anything for a character who usually invokes guilt and sympathy on others to get what they want?
Edited by Icchuchu
I saw this trope before, but I forget the name. Alice in an argument with Bob, so Alice points out something the Bob did wrong that has nothing to do with the argument, upon the basis that if Bob got that wrong, he probably got something else wrong, too.