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TempestKnight Tempest Knight from Toronto Since: Dec, 2014
Ecrivan Amused Since: Apr, 2016 Relationship Status: Too sexy for my shirt
DaftPunch hiya, the name's scout. from lesbian Since: Dec, 2013 Relationship Status: Hugging my pillow
hiya, the name's scout.
#4253: Jul 26th 2016 at 9:17:31 PM

im single and do not enjoy this lifestyle

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golgothasArisen Since: Jan, 2015
#4254: Jul 26th 2016 at 9:26:31 PM

seconded

"If you spend all your heart / On something that has died / You are not alive and that can't be a life"
SeducedByTheLight bored from a fandom trashcan Since: Jul, 2016 Relationship Status: Shipping fictional characters
bored
#4255: Jul 26th 2016 at 9:29:25 PM

Being single is my only option. I'm far too uncomfortable with myself to date. Appearance and emotionally.

DaftPunch hiya, the name's scout. from lesbian Since: Dec, 2013 Relationship Status: Hugging my pillow
hiya, the name's scout.
#4256: Jul 26th 2016 at 9:40:16 PM

I've been LOOKIN AT THIS STUPID GODDAMN KID FOR SO LONG and it's probably unrequited

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SeducedByTheLight bored from a fandom trashcan Since: Jul, 2016 Relationship Status: Shipping fictional characters
bored
#4257: Jul 26th 2016 at 9:43:55 PM

Being single is kinda awesome. I don't have to commit to something seriously and I can be my flirty self.

DaftPunch hiya, the name's scout. from lesbian Since: Dec, 2013 Relationship Status: Hugging my pillow
hiya, the name's scout.
#4258: Jul 26th 2016 at 9:44:50 PM

I can be flirty as well, which I love to, but I want to be flirty with my crush, all the time

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SeducedByTheLight bored from a fandom trashcan Since: Jul, 2016 Relationship Status: Shipping fictional characters
bored
#4259: Jul 26th 2016 at 9:45:35 PM

Hehe, I understand what you mean.

golgothasArisen Since: Jan, 2015
#4260: Jul 26th 2016 at 9:45:40 PM

also seconded

"If you spend all your heart / On something that has died / You are not alive and that can't be a life"
DaftPunch hiya, the name's scout. from lesbian Since: Dec, 2013 Relationship Status: Hugging my pillow
hiya, the name's scout.
#4261: Jul 26th 2016 at 9:46:28 PM

I've basically sorta given up on everything

I want my crush to be my boyfriend for my birthday,,,, That's what I want

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SeducedByTheLight bored from a fandom trashcan Since: Jul, 2016 Relationship Status: Shipping fictional characters
bored
#4262: Jul 26th 2016 at 9:47:48 PM

I want to be older and more comfortable so I can date. For now though, being single is fine with me.

golgothasArisen Since: Jan, 2015
#4263: Jul 26th 2016 at 9:48:47 PM

I hate being single

someone please fix that

"If you spend all your heart / On something that has died / You are not alive and that can't be a life"
SeducedByTheLight bored from a fandom trashcan Since: Jul, 2016 Relationship Status: Shipping fictional characters
bored
#4264: Jul 26th 2016 at 9:49:30 PM

Can't be me, for personal reasons.

DaftPunch hiya, the name's scout. from lesbian Since: Dec, 2013 Relationship Status: Hugging my pillow
hiya, the name's scout.
#4265: Jul 26th 2016 at 9:49:46 PM

I'm almost 17. I can't.

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golgothasArisen Since: Jan, 2015
#4266: Jul 26th 2016 at 9:52:43 PM

excuses excuses

Daft we're still married by the state of China

remember?

"If you spend all your heart / On something that has died / You are not alive and that can't be a life"
SeducedByTheLight bored from a fandom trashcan Since: Jul, 2016 Relationship Status: Shipping fictional characters
bored
#4267: Jul 26th 2016 at 9:57:11 PM

Golgo, I'm honestly not making excuses. I know you`re being silly, but I'm far too uncomfortable with myself personally to date. I'm sure you'll find someone great soon,though.

wehrmacht belongs to the hurricane from the garden of everything Since: Dec, 2010 Relationship Status: YOU'RE TEARING ME APART LISA
belongs to the hurricane
#4268: Jul 27th 2016 at 2:14:20 PM

tbh actually getting into a relationship can be much more uncomfortable than being single, especially if you go into it with the mindset of being lonely and miserable because you're liable to put it on too high a pedestal and be unable to have a healthy relationship

you basically sabotage yourself and you end up even worse than before

kind of important to get your house in order at least a little so that doesn't happen

edited 27th Jul '16 2:15:25 PM by wehrmacht

terlwyth Since: Oct, 2010
#4269: Jul 29th 2016 at 5:48:25 PM

[up] This.

When you're in that state of mind (which kinda describes my own situation since Graduation 7 months ago, really depends on the day), being single at least gives you logistical control and no feeling of obligation to keep up with anyone else all the time.

But commitment attaches guilt when you aren't trying to keep up and support your SO, and you have the factor in the negatives of your SO and try not to be bogged down by them, and when s/he lifts you up, you have to try not to take it for granted.

And then there's the logistics of sacrificing time and money to do all sorts of things and please all sorts of people you wouldn't need to deal with.

All these things are ridiculously difficult feats to pull off when one has low self-esteem.

And heaven help you if your crush has esteem issues as well.

Demetrios Our Favorite Red Tsundere from Des Plaines, Illinois (unfortunately) Since: Oct, 2009 Relationship Status: I'm just a hunk-a, hunk-a burnin' love
SeducedByTheLight bored from a fandom trashcan Since: Jul, 2016 Relationship Status: Shipping fictional characters
bored
Demetrios Our Favorite Red Tsundere from Des Plaines, Illinois (unfortunately) Since: Oct, 2009 Relationship Status: I'm just a hunk-a, hunk-a burnin' love
SeducedByTheLight bored from a fandom trashcan Since: Jul, 2016 Relationship Status: Shipping fictional characters
Demetrios Our Favorite Red Tsundere from Des Plaines, Illinois (unfortunately) Since: Oct, 2009 Relationship Status: I'm just a hunk-a, hunk-a burnin' love
DaftPunch hiya, the name's scout. from lesbian Since: Dec, 2013 Relationship Status: Hugging my pillow
hiya, the name's scout.
#4275: Jul 29th 2016 at 6:19:59 PM

//hugs deme//

You know, I bet your SO will regret it. I broke up with the best SO I've ever had and I regret it so much. We have no hard feelings toward each other - we never did. But still I just....... ahh.

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