Polygamy - polygyny (having many wives) - was traditionally beneficial to women and very bad news for those men who did not have lots of land/money.
The reason being that women could share the wealth (and the benefits associated with that) of a rich husband.
In the Old Testament, in its laws dealing with polygamy (the only "acceptable" version of which was polygyny as it was deemed "adultery" if a married woman had sex with any man other than her one-and-only husband), importance was placed on the husband being able to provide for all his wives equally and well - no man was allowed to have more wives than he could afford to keep and he was not to shirk his responsibilities to any one of them nor to his children by any of them in favour of another wife/child.
So, if a man had sufficient wealth to support more than one wife (and being rich, he's sought after by women as being a good provider for the woman and any children), more women in the area could benefit from that wealth. Instead of just one lucky woman landing the one guy in twenty miles with enough money to provide for a family, two or more women and their subsequent children could prosper.
Bad news for the large number of poorer blokes who suffer the shortage of women.
As to the man with the multiple wives - he's got even more responsibility than a man with a single wife.
Stupid people go "ooh, lucky devil, eh, gets to fuck lots of chicks, can pick and choose if he gets bored with one."
Well, it's not quite that simple. He has responsibilities to give emotional and financial support to all of those women - even if he's not bound by the laws of the Old Testament, he has a moral obligation to them all (and if our current laws permitted polygyny, he'd have legal obligations under our contemporary matrimonial laws to all of them as well.)
Then there's polyandry - a woman having multiple husbands (not popular in areas where the Old Testament holds sway because it runs afoul of the OT's definition of "adultery") and general polygamy where either sex can have as many spouses as they can manage - which gives rise to what we nowadays call "polyamory".
But in all of the above, it's not just about sex with multiple people (you can do that without the hassle of getting married to even one) it's about responsibilities and fairness, doing right by them and honouring your commitment to be there for them in all ways.
edited 17th Apr '13 5:27:22 AM by Wolf1066
Trouble is, in a patriarchal society, there's a huge gap between these (very nice and laudable) principles and what ends up happening in practice.
Certainly, this is not polygamy as such, since he explicitly does not do any parenting himself. In fact the rule might require the additional restriction that he is not to get a wife to have "legitimate" children with, condemning the rest to "bastard" status: perhaps it would be better if he didn't have any sex at all; that's not an unhealthy habit for a politician, given the Honey Trap and all related problems that can come from it...
I'm thinking, maybe the contest method is not the best approach socially. It does guarrantee the best future for the offspring, but only insofar as the Leader isn't overthrown, and an entire class of faithful privileged children might not lead to the best social ambience. Perhaps it would be cleverer to do a lottery: it would behoove the Leader to have children of as varied a background as possible, and it would dramatically increase the number of people who'll end up being linked to him that way.
edited 17th Apr '13 5:37:09 AM by TheHandle
Darkness cannot drive out darkness; only light can do that. Hate cannot drive out hate; only love can do that.I think that's why the OT had to include laws to enforce "fairness" - just so some rich bloke doesn't marry someone then years later marry another and ignore the needs of the first wife and her children in favour of the new wife and her children by him.
I dare say that other societies that permitted polygamy of various sorts would have, out of necessity due to unfairness happening, developed rules to govern it (early Judaism's version is easy to see because they thoughtfully wrote their rules down).
edited 17th Apr '13 5:39:34 AM by Wolf1066
What are those?
Darkness cannot drive out darkness; only light can do that. Hate cannot drive out hate; only love can do that.Many references in the OT. This one stands out in particular as a check against unfairness:
"If a man have two wives, one beloved, and another hated, and they have born him children, both the beloved and the hated; and if the firstborn son be hers that was hated: Then it shall be, when he maketh his sons to inherit that which he hath, that he may not make the son of the beloved firstborn before the son of the hated, which is indeed the firstborn: But he shall acknowledge the son of the hated for the firstborn, by giving him a double portion of all that he hath: for he is the beginning of his strength; the right of the firstborn is his." Deuteronomy 21:15-17.
They'd hardly have needed such clear rulings if people had been playing nice.
... They could have phrased that less verbosely. "The first-born of all your children ever born of legitimate marriage gets will inherit twice as much of your inheritance as any of the others." Period. Is that from Leviticus?
Darkness cannot drive out darkness; only light can do that. Hate cannot drive out hate; only love can do that.Translations of translations of dead languages...
Violence is the last refuge of the incompetent.No, there's no doubt it's verbose in the original as well. Of course, it's not fair to judge stuff that's Older Than Dirt by modern standards.
Darkness cannot drive out darkness; only light can do that. Hate cannot drive out hate; only love can do that.O.M.G. This has such potential as a commentary on the foibles of human nature. Should women take up such an offer? Is it empowering, or objectifying? Who would protest? Who would line up to participate? Just tell the story of several women as they make different decisions, for different reasons, and the reactions of the people who know them. Very interesting.
Of course, we can't forget about the fathers. Is raising a Prince an honor, or is one a cuckold? The main problem with being a cuckold is that you spend resources on offspring that isn't yours, but these kids come with built-in pension and tons of benefits! How does one play the "father figure" to a child whose father is the father figure of the entire nation, including yourself? If at some point you become a political opponent, how do you deal? Or what if you were an opponent from the start, and wanted to defeat the system from within? What sort of education would you give "your" child?
edited 18th Apr '13 8:29:45 AM by TheHandle
Darkness cannot drive out darkness; only light can do that. Hate cannot drive out hate; only love can do that.Not to mention foreigners, who may have no emotional attachment to the country or it's leader at all.
edited 18th Apr '13 5:16:04 PM by demarquis
Do the king's genes really do as you describe or is this the belief of the people? If the former, some genetic engineering of the sperm is going to have to be involved. He may have a lot of positive traits to pass down but there is a sea of negative traits in there as well.
Keep it breezy!Huh? The sperm does nothing by itself: all it does is that, if the child has the Leader's genes, he and his (foster?) family will gain all those amazing benefits from the State. With that many children,some of them are bound to be retards, others are bound to be geniuses, and some will be healthier than others.
Darkness cannot drive out darkness; only light can do that. Hate cannot drive out hate; only love can do that.There's at least a trilogy in exploring the ideas in those two posts alone.
Go for it - I'd enjoy reading something along those lines.
Problem is, I don't think I have the life-balls*]] to pull it off without looking like an idiot or exposing my inner self. I don't want to have the likes of Something Awful playing Internet Cold Reader with the juice of my soul.
Darkness cannot drive out darkness; only light can do that. Hate cannot drive out hate; only love can do that.If you are serious about writing this you can always seek publishing your work.
edited 19th Apr '13 1:46:28 PM by EditorPallMall
Keep it breezy!
So we were discussin polygamy on an OTC thread
Still, there are happy, consenting, equal polyamorous relationships, and we would do a disservice to our ideals to discourage them. I would, however, like to remind everyone that polygamy is not the subject of this thread — let's please rerail.
And then my brain coughed up this thing:
Neither was the intent. My brain just went:
and said brain just went all light-bulb-y
The end result might be something like this:
I was just following Rule of Funny though, I wasn't actually thinking of social consequences or anything like that. But, what do you think, is there a story there, perhaps a short Sci-Fi? There's lots of Unfortunate Implications and lots of potential for crazy things and horrible things, but what I find attractive about this idea is how baffling and outlandish it is. I dunno, it just seems challenging.
Darkness cannot drive out darkness; only light can do that. Hate cannot drive out hate; only love can do that.