These are what we call the 'YMMV items.' Things that some people find in this work. We call them 'your mileage might vary' because not everyone sees these things in the same way. This starts discussions in the trope lists, a thing we don't want. Please use the discussion page if you'd like to discuss any of these items.
YMMV: Divine Secrets of the Ya-Ya Sisterhood
Jerkass Woobie: Buggy, definitely. Sidda and Vivi too, to a lesser extent.
Tear Jerker: "You killed my son! You drink champagne to his death!"