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* ''Series/PeakyBlinders'': John Shelby sights his kids as the main reason he needs to remarry.

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* ''Series/PeakyBlinders'': John Shelby sights cites his kids as the main reason he needs to remarry.
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* When explaining to Ross why she has decided to marry his ArchEnemy George, Elizabeth uses this as one of the reasons. George is rich and can financially provide for her son, Geoffrey Charles.

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* In ''Series/{{Poldark}}'': When explaining to Ross why she has decided to marry his ArchEnemy George, Elizabeth uses this as one of the reasons. George is rich and can financially provide for her son, Geoffrey Charles.

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* When explaining to Ross why she has decided to marry his ArchEnemy George, Elizabeth uses this as one of the reasons. George is rich and can financially provide for her son, Geoffrey Charles.
--> '''Elizabeth:''' What seems like disloyalty to you now, is actually ''loyalty'' to my ''son.''
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* The case for King Leopold (Snow White's father) in ''Series/OnceUponATime''. He's very much still in love with his late wife Queen Eva, but when Regina saves young Snow White from a charging horse, he offers herself as StandardHeroReward, thinking that someone who would risk their life to save his daughter would be proper stepmother material. Of course, Regina's social climbing bitch of a mother, Queen Cora, is gleeful about this. (It's also possible that, given Leopold's history with Regina's mother, he was trying to get Regina away from said social climbing bitch) Regina really wants to marry a stablehand instead, but Cora tricks Snow into leading her to the stablehand, which gets him killed. Regina blames Snow White instead of putting the blame where it belongs (leading to Regina being the TropeCodifier EvilStepmother), and proceeds to take out her anger on everyone, including getting Leopold killed.
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* ''Film/TheAristocats''. Played straight with Duchess and O'Malley, but the kittens' lack of biological father is never mentioned or explained.

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* ''Film/TheAristocats''. Played straight with ''Disney/TheAristocats''. O'Malley says that the kittens need a father around, but it's more of an indirect way of telling Duchess and O'Malley, he wants to be with her than him genuinely believing they do. Duchess agrees, but at this point, her attraction to O'Malley has been very well established. So it's more of a "remarrying for ourselves, but won't it be great for the kids?" type of thing. (The kittens' lack of a biological father is never mentioned or explained. explained.)



* TruthInTelevision. This wasn't uncommon through much of human history, especially due to DeathByChildBirth being much more common. (Which often left behind children, and sometimes MassiveNumberedSiblings) The widower left behind would be expected to remarry to provide his children with a mother. A dead father would often produce a similar result. This was often motivated by the idea that children needed to be raised by a 'mother' and 'father' to flourish

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* TruthInTelevision. This wasn't uncommon through much of human history, especially due to DeathByChildBirth being much more common. (Which often left behind children, and sometimes MassiveNumberedSiblings) The widower left behind would be expected to remarry to provide his children with a mother. A dead father would often produce a similar result. This was often motivated by the idea that children needed to be raised by a 'mother' and 'father' to flourish flourish.
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* In RocketPower, the [[MissingMom Missing Mom's]] disappearance was eventually explained, saying she died. Ray married shortly after this was mentioned.

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* In RocketPower, ''WesternAnimation/RocketPower'', the [[MissingMom Missing Mom's]] disappearance was eventually explained, saying she died. Ray married shortly after this was mentioned.
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* This was common enough in the Victorian-era that etiquette books even had guidelines for how long Wife #2 should mourn her dead predecessor (assuming the male remarried during his mourning period).

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* This was common enough in the Victorian-era that etiquette books even had guidelines for how long Wife #2 should mourn her dead predecessor (assuming the male remarried during his mourning period).period).
* In UsefulNotes/OrthodoxChristianity, married men can become priests, but someone who's already a priest can only get married with special permission. The usual allowance is for widowers who still have young children.
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* In the second ''Literature/{{Deverry}}'' book, a middle-aged widower marries a woman who was divorced by her husband for barrenness because she needs a new home and he needs a wife to help raise the children from his first marriage (whose existence means that her inability to conceive children isn't an issue). In the following book, she gives birth to a son, which causes a great deal of political difficulty, because it implies that her first husband was the sterile one, which means that his lands could be up for grabs once he dies...
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* In Disney's ''Disney/{{Enchanted}}'', Robert has an extended relationship with Nancy, but end up with Giselle in the end. Morgan's mother is explicitly mentioned to have 'left,' which is actually pretty dark for a kid's movie.

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* In Disney's ''Disney/{{Enchanted}}'', ''Film/{{Enchanted}}'', Robert has an extended relationship with Nancy, but end up with Giselle in the end. Morgan's mother is explicitly mentioned to have 'left,' which is actually pretty dark for a kid's movie.
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-->''"All right? Because, '''I''' need someone. All right, '''the kids''' need someone."'''

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-->''"All -->'''John:''' All right? Because, '''I''' ''I'' need someone. All right, '''the kids''' ''the kids'' need someone."'''
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->''"Aunt Polly, you know what it's been like since Martha died… Truth is, my kids have been running bloody rings around me. Running barefoot with the dogs until all hours… What the kids need is a mother. So that's why I'm getting married."''

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->''"Aunt Polly, you know what it's been like since Martha died… died. […] Truth is, my kids have been running bloody rings around me. Running barefoot with the dogs until all hours… hours. […] What the kids need is a mother. So that's why I'm getting married."''
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-->''"Aunt Polly, you know what it's been like since Martha died… Truth is, my kids have been running bloody rings around me. Running barefoot with the dogs until all hours… What the kids need is a mother. So that's why I'm getting married."''
->--'''John Shelby''', ''Series/PeakyBlinders''

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-->''"Aunt ->''"Aunt Polly, you know what it's been like since Martha died… Truth is, my kids have been running bloody rings around me. Running barefoot with the dogs until all hours… What the kids need is a mother. So that's why I'm getting married."''
->--'''John -->-- '''John Shelby''', ''Series/PeakyBlinders''
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'''Jeff:''' Okay...but ''just'' for that sake of the children....[[AllMenArePerverts Hey, you don't think the kids would mind having a young stepmom with some big ol' hooters, do you?]]

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'''Jeff:''' Okay...but ''just'' for that the sake of the children....[[AllMenArePerverts Hey, you don't think the kids would mind having a young stepmom with some big ol' hooters, do you?]]
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* Comes up in a Creator/JeffFoxworthy bit that starts with him and his wife watching ''Film/SteelMagnolias'', with his wife tearing up over the death of Creator/JuliaRoberts' character.
--> '''Jeff's wife:''' If I died, would you ever get remarried?\\
'''Jeff:''' No way, baby. After you, no other woman could ever come close.\\
'''Wife:''' That's not the answer I was looking for. If I die, I want you to promise me that you will get remarried.\\
'''Jeff:''' ''({{beat}})'' You're teasing, right?\\
'''Wife:''' No, I'm not teasing. For the sake of the children, please promise me that you will get remarried.\\
'''Jeff:''' Okay...but ''just'' for that sake of the children....[[AllMenArePerverts Hey, you don't think the kids would mind having a young stepmom with some big ol' hooters, do you?]]
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-->''"All right? Because, I need someone. All right, the kids need someone."'''

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-->''"All right? Because, I '''I''' need someone. All right, the kids '''the kids''' need someone."'''

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-->''"Aunt Polly, you know what it's been like since Martha died… Truth is, my kids have been running bloody rings around me. Running barefoot with the dogs until all hours… What the kids need is a mother. So that's why I'm getting married."''
->--'''John Shelby''', ''Series/PeakyBlinders''



-->''"Aunt Polly, you know what it's been like since Martha died… Truth is, my kids have been running bloody rings around me. Running barefoot with the dogs until all hours… What the kids need is a mother. So that's why I'm getting married."''

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-->''"Aunt Polly, you know what it's been like since Martha died… Truth is, my kids have been running bloody rings around me. Running barefoot with the dogs until all hours… What -->''"All right? Because, I need someone. All right, the kids need is a mother. So that's why I'm getting married."''
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*''Series/PeakyBlinders'': John Shelby sights his kids as the main reason he needs to remarry.
-->''"Aunt Polly, you know what it's been like since Martha died… Truth is, my kids have been running bloody rings around me. Running barefoot with the dogs until all hours… What the kids need is a mother. So that's why I'm getting married."''
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* Deconstructed a bit in ''Literature/WivesAndDaughters'', Molly's mother dies when she's a little girl. When she's teenaged, her father thinks she really needs a mother-figure and marries because of it. However, while not being exactly EvilStepmother, she's a difficult woman and not helpful at all.

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* Deconstructed a bit in ''Literature/WivesAndDaughters'', Molly's mother dies when she's a little girl. When she's teenaged, her father thinks she really needs a mother-figure and marries because of it. However, while not being exactly EvilStepmother, WickedStepmother, she's a difficult woman and not helpful at all.
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* Annie marries Philip in ''Literature/EnochArden'' largely for her children's sake, and also because he reveals that he has [[DoggedNiceGuy loved her for a long time]]. She [[MarriageBeforeRomance comes to return his affection later]].
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May involve a plot that features ParentWithNewParamour, though those cases are not always for the children's sake. Contrast GlamorousSingleMother, who makes being a single parent look easy.

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May involve a plot that features ParentWithNewParamour, though those cases are not always for the children's sake. Contrast GlamorousSingleMother, who makes being a single parent look easy. Compare GiveTheBabyAFather, which is when a pregnant woman gets married so she won't be a single parent in the first place.
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There were two potholes to the same trope; removed one and added a couple other relevant tropes. Fixed a little grammar. Rearrnaged for aesthetics. Because the wiki should be written for readers, I removed the discussion about what \"counts\"; Playing With page gets that point across.


Having a single parent in a work isn't uncommon in the slightest. But if a character's MissingMom or DisappearedDad is explained as being a product of death or ParentalAbandonment, it's likely for the single parent to be [[LastMinuteHookup paired up with another character by the end.]] This can be used to resolve the lack of [[RomancingTheWidow spouse]] and [[ParentalSubstitute parent]] in one swoop. The character may intentionally be looking for a spouse/partner throughout the story, but this often isn't the case.

The popularity of this trope may lead one to assume that anytime a widowed parent appears, [[LastMinuteHookUp they will be paired off in the end.]]

Playing this straight involves the parent being [[OfficialCouple paired off with another character]] over the course of the story (backstory doesn't count) May involve a plot that features ParentWithNewParamour.

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Having a single parent in a work isn't uncommon in the slightest. But if If a character's MissingMom or DisappearedDad is explained as being a product of death or ParentalAbandonment, though, it's unusually likely for the single parent to be [[LastMinuteHookup paired up with another character by the end.]] end. This can be used to resolve the lack of [[RomancingTheWidow spouse]] and [[ParentalSubstitute parent]] in one swoop.swoop.

This will often be a [[BetaCouple sub-plot]] within a story, often with the children as main characters.
The character may intentionally be looking for a spouse/partner throughout the story, but this often isn't the case. \n\n The popularity of this trope may lead one to assume that anytime a widowed parent appears, [[LastMinuteHookUp they will be paired off in the end.]]

Playing this straight involves the parent being [[OfficialCouple paired off with another character]] over the course of the story (backstory doesn't count)
end]]. If there are two single parents whose children are friendly [[PairTheSpares it's doubly likely]].

May involve a plot that features ParentWithNewParamour.ParentWithNewParamour, though those cases are not always for the children's sake. Contrast GlamorousSingleMother, who makes being a single parent look easy.
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* Used in {{Glee}}. Kurt originally [[ShipperOnDeck tried to pair up his dad and Finn's mom]] so he would have an excuse to spend more time with Finn. They eventually married, quite appropriate, considering they had both been widowed.

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* Used in {{Glee}}.''Series/{{Glee}}''. Kurt originally [[ShipperOnDeck tried to pair up his dad and Finn's mom]] so he would have an excuse to spend more time with Finn. They eventually married, quite appropriate, considering they had both been widowed.
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* AbrahamLincoln's mother died of milk sickness when he was nine. A short time later his father went off for a week and brought home a WidowWoman specifically to be the new mother to his children. The new Mrs. Lincoln already had three children of her own, so the replacement went both directions.

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* AbrahamLincoln's UsefulNotes/AbrahamLincoln's mother died of milk sickness when he was nine. A short time later his father went off for a week and brought home a WidowWoman specifically to be the new mother to his children. The new Mrs. Lincoln already had three children of her own, so the replacement went both directions.



* This was common enough in the Victorian-era that etiquette books even had guidelines for how long Wife #2 should mourn her dead predecessor (assuming the male remarried during his mourning period).

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*Used in {{Glee}}. Kurt originally [[ShipperOnDeck tried to pair up his dad and Finn's mom]] so he would have an excuse to spend more time with Finn. They eventually married, quite appropriate, considering they had both been widowed.

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\n*In Film/EverAfter, Danielle's father remarries when she is eight, shortly after he dies. Unfortunately, her stepmother turns out to be a [[WickedStepMother wicked one]]


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*In RocketPower, the [[MissingMom Missing Mom's]] disappearance was eventually explained, saying she died. Ray married shortly after this was mentioned.
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* Averted in ''Film/TreasurePlanet''. Jim's lack of father is given an explicit explantation, but Mrs. Dawkins never enters another relationship.

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* Averted in ''Film/TreasurePlanet''.''Disney/TreasurePlanet''. Jim's lack of father is given an explicit explantation, but Mrs. Dawkins never enters another relationship.



* Averted in {{WesternAnimation/Epic}}. MK's mother is explicitly mentioned to have died, but her father, Bomba, is not paired up with another character


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* Averted in {{WesternAnimation/Epic}}. MK's mother is explicitly mentioned to have died, but her father, Bomba, is not paired up with another character


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* ''WesternAnimation/RugratsInParis'' has Chuckie's father decide to remarry because he wants to provide a mom for his son. Unfortunately, he's not very good at telling that Chuckie is ''terrified'' of his new girlfriend Coco. Played Straight as Chaz ends up marrying Kira by the end of the movie.

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* ''WesternAnimation/RugratsInParis'' has Chuckie's father decide to remarry because he wants to provide a mom for his son. Unfortunately, he's not very good at telling that Chuckie is ''terrified'' of his new girlfriend Coco. Played Straight as Chaz ends up marrying Kira by At the end of the movie.Chaz marries a different woman, Kira, who too is a single parent.
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* ''Film/TheAristocats''. Played straight with Duchess and O'Malley, but the kitten's lack of biological father is never mentioned or explained.

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* ''Film/TheAristocats''. Played straight with Duchess and O'Malley, but the kitten's kittens' lack of biological father is never mentioned or explained.
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Having a single parent in a work isn't uncommon in the slightest. But if a character's MissingMom or DisappearedDad is explained as being a product of death or ParentalAbandonment, it's likely for the single parent to be [[LastMinuteHookup paired up with another character by the end.]] This can be used to resolve the lack of [[RomancingTheWidow spouse]] and [[ParentalSubstitute parent]] in one swoop. The character may intentionally be looking for a spouse/partner throughout the story, but this often isn't the case.

The popularity of this trope may lead one to assume that anytime a widowed parent appears, [[LastMinuteHookUp they will be paired off in the end.]]

Playing this straight involves the parent being [[OfficialCouple paired off with another character]] over the course of the story (backstory doesn't count) May involve a plot that features ParentWithNewParamour.
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* A major plot point of ''Film/NannyMcPhee'' is Cedric Brown's necessity to get remarried after his wife's death, due to pressure put on him by the great aunt. By the end of the movie, he marries Evangeline.
* ''Film/LoveActually''. Liam Neeson's character's wife dies at the beginning of the movie and he is forced to raise their child alone. By the end, he is paired up with another woman, be this is an unusual variant of the trope, considering the son is his by marriage.
* Averted in ''Film/TreasurePlanet''. Jim's lack of father is given an explicit explantation, but Mrs. Dawkins never enters another relationship.
* ''Film/TheAristocats''. Played straight with Duchess and O'Malley, but the kitten's lack of biological father is never mentioned or explained.
* In Disney's ''Disney/{{Enchanted}}'', Robert has an extended relationship with Nancy, but end up with Giselle in the end. Morgan's mother is explicitly mentioned to have 'left,' which is actually pretty dark for a kid's movie.
* ''WesternAnimation/RugratsInParis'' has Chuckie's father decide to remarry because he wants to provide a mom for his son. Unfortunately, he's not very good at telling that Chuckie is ''terrified'' of his new girlfriend Coco. Played Straight as Chaz ends up marrying Kira by the end of the movie.
*Averted in {{WesternAnimation/Epic}}. MK's mother is explicitly mentioned to have died, but her father, Bomba, is not paired up with another character


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* Deconstructed a bit in ''Literature/WivesAndDaughters'', Molly's mother dies when she's a little girl. When she's teenaged, her father thinks she really needs a mother-figure and marries because of it. However, while not being exactly EvilStepmother, she's a difficult woman and not helpful at all.

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* Min Ziqian was a Chinese model of filial piety. After his father discovered that his WickedStepmother was dressing her own children warmly, and not his first son, he told her he had married her to have someone to look after his son, and she is not doing it, so he would divorce her. Only Min Ziqian's intervention, reminding him that without her there, ''none'' of the children would be looked after, saved her.
* In ''[[http://www.pitt.edu/~dash/greenknight.html The Green Knight]]'', the king remarries because his daughter begs him to.

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* AbrahamLincoln's mother died of milk sickness when he was nine. A short time later his father went off for a week and brought home a WidowWoman specifically to be the new mother to his children. The new Mrs. Lincoln already had three children of her own, so the replacement went both directions.
-->Thomas Lincoln: "I have no wife and you no husband. I came a-purpose to marry you. I knowed you from a gal and you knowed me from a boy. I've no time to lose: and if you're willin' let it be done straight off."
*TruthInTelevision. This wasn't uncommon through much of human history, especially due to DeathByChildBirth being much more common. (Which often left behind children, and sometimes MassiveNumberedSiblings) The widower left behind would be expected to remarry to provide his children with a mother. A dead father would often produce a similar result. This was often motivated by the idea that children needed to be raised by a 'mother' and 'father' to flourish
*This was common enough in the Victorian-era that etiquette books even had guidelines for how long Wife #2 should mourn her dead predecessor (assuming the male remarried during his mourning period).

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