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* ''WesternAnimation/Rio2'' has a variant of this trope in the main plot concerning Blu and Jewel, who already raised offspring together at the end of [[WesternAnimation/{{Rio}} the previous movie]]; here, the bulk of the plot involves them attempting to win over a wild flock of blue Spix's macaws led by Jewel's father, Eduardo. The problem is that Eduardo wants nothing to do with human civilization, and once the flock finds out that Blu [[CityMouse never really grew out of having been raised in suburbia]], he grows to resent him and turns the flock against him. It's only because Blu and Jewel are already married with kids that Eduardo tries to give him a chance, but Blu screws up every attempt to fit in, which only angers Eduardo even further. The flock only warms up to Blu come the climax of the movie, [[spoiler:when Blu finds out about an illegal logging operation threatening the macaws' home and rallies the jungle animals to save it. Eduardo in particular comes around after he's rescued from the loggers by Blu's former owner and her own husband, who had spent much of the secondary plot trying to stop said logging operation, finally accepting that if the person who raised Blu is good at heart, then so is he]].
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* ''[[ComicBook/DCPride2022 DC Pride: Tim Drake Special]]'': Bernard's parents have disapproved of Tim since high school when they were just friends, and are not at all happy to learn that Bernard is now dating him.
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* ''Series/FirstKill'': Juliette and Cal, mutually, though it's the objections of their mothers that get the most attention. As they're a [[MonsterSlayerRomance vampire with a vampire hunter]], both of their families are obviously less than thrilled about their relationship.

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* ''Series/FirstKill'': Juliette and Cal, mutually, though it's the objections of their mothers her mother that get the most attention. As they're she's a [[MonsterSlayerRomance vampire with hunter dating Juliette, who's a vampire hunter]], vampire]], both of their families are obviously less than thrilled about their relationship.relationship. Margot herself having fallen in love with a human Sebastian and turned him, their objections are about what Cal and her family do rather than the fact that she's human.
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* In ''WesternAnimation/AmericanDad'' Haley dates a Mexican boy just to tick off Stan, but Stan later hires him and a bunch of other Mexicans to make teddy bears for him, in revenge Haley rats him to the police because they were illegals.

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* In ''WesternAnimation/AmericanDad'' Haley dates a Mexican boy just to tick off Stan, but Stan later hires him and a bunch of other Mexicans to make teddy bears for him, in him. In revenge Haley rats him to the police because they were illegals.
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* ''Literature/{{Twilight}}'' shows repeatedly that Charlie does not approve of his daughter's relationship with Edward, and is an active ShipperOnDeck for Bella/Jacob. To be fair, he's seen his daughter become catatonic when Edward left her. At one point, he tries to ground Bella, just because Edward brought up the tickets to Phoenix his parents got Bella for her birthday and mentions they should use him, and that one of the tickets was his. Bella's not dating Edward to annoy her dad, but she makes it clear that if he bans her from seeing him, she'll move out because she knows the Cullens will let her live with them.

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* ''Literature/{{Twilight}}'' ''Literature/TheTwilightSaga'' shows repeatedly that Charlie does not approve of his daughter's relationship with Edward, and is an active ShipperOnDeck for Bella/Jacob. To be fair, he's seen his daughter become catatonic when Edward left her. At one point, he tries to ground Bella, just because Edward brought up the tickets to Phoenix his parents got Bella for her birthday and mentions they should use him, and that one of the tickets was his. Bella's not dating Edward to annoy her dad, but she makes it clear that if he bans her from seeing him, she'll move out because she knows the Cullens will let her live with them.
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* Her date's of a different [[MalignedMixedMarriage race]], religion, political affiliation, social class (from the WrongSideOfTheTracks), or is [[GayAesop the same gender]] (or even [[TransTribulations the other gender]], if she is [[UsefulNotes/{{Transgender}} a trans girl]]).

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* Her date's of a different [[MalignedMixedMarriage race]], religion, political affiliation, social class (from the WrongSideOfTheTracks), or is [[GayAesop the same gender]] (or even [[TransTribulations the other gender]], if she is ([[TransTribulations and/or]] [[UsefulNotes/{{Transgender}} a trans girl]]).gender]] [[CampStraight non-conforming]]).
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* In ''Fanfic/{{Heir}}'' [[Franchise/HarryPotter the Weasley family are NOT happy]] when they learn that Ron's accepted a formal courtship with [[StalkingIsLove an anonymous party in Slytherin House.]] From the hints his suitor has dropped and the gifts he's received, Ron guesses that his suitor is an older male pureblood of higher status.

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* In ''Fanfic/{{Heir}}'' ''Fanfic/{{Heir}}'', [[Franchise/HarryPotter the Weasley family are NOT happy]] when they learn that Ron's accepted a formal courtship with [[StalkingIsLove an anonymous party in Slytherin House.]] From the hints his suitor has dropped and the gifts he's received, Ron guesses that his suitor is an older male pureblood of higher status.
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* {{Zig|ZaggingTrope}}-Zagged in ''Webcomic/NaruHinaChronicles''. Hinata initially thought that Hiashi wouldn't approve of her dating Naruto because the latter was not exactly up to Hyuga standards. As it turned out, her father had no problem with that (besides the fact that Naruto wouldn't have been his first choice, but she could have picked worse as he said). [[spoiler:Unfortunately, following the Chunin Exams, Hiashi forced her to break up with Naruto because his reckless way of saving everyone that day could have killed everyone instead. Hinata responded by leaving the Hyuga residence and move in with her boyfriend. Afterwards, Hiashi wanted nothing to do with Naruto, even refusing to visit Hinata's new house just because it was Naruto's as well. However, it turned out he initially was against forcing his daughter to break up with her boyfriend, even going so far as to speak in Naruto's defense, but the rest of the Hyuga Clan forced him to agree to this solution to preserve the clan's reputation. Fortunately, after Naruto won his fight against Hiashi to earn the right to be with Hinata, Hiashi has been giving his full support to the couple, even giving his blessing when Naruto asked for Hinata's hand.]]
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* In the ''Franchise/{{Disgaea}}'' [[LightNovel/DisgaeaNovels novels]] '''[[Characters/DisgaeaHourOfDarkness Captain Gordon, Defender of Earth!]]''' and [[Characters/DisgaeaHourOfDarkness Jennifer]] have a daughter named [[Characters/DisgaeaNovels Jane]], who eventually falls for [[Characters/DisgaeaHourOfDarkness Laharl]]. It’s not that '''Captain Gordon, Defender of Earth!''' hates Laharl (they ''had'' been allies in ''VideoGame/DisgaeaHourOfDarkness''), but he is a hero and Laharl is a demon Overlord, '''Captain Gordon, Defender of Earth!''' is also an BoyfriendBlockingDad. Jane is a rebellious teen, so there are hints that she does it partly to piss '''Captain Gordon, Defender of Earth!''' off. Not that he has any reason to concerned, [[CelibateHero because Laharl is not interested]], not that it stops Jane from pursuing him.

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* In the ''Franchise/{{Disgaea}}'' [[LightNovel/DisgaeaNovels [[Literature/DisgaeaNovels novels]] '''[[Characters/DisgaeaHourOfDarkness Captain Gordon, Defender of Earth!]]''' and [[Characters/DisgaeaHourOfDarkness Jennifer]] have a daughter named [[Characters/DisgaeaNovels Jane]], who eventually falls for [[Characters/DisgaeaHourOfDarkness Laharl]]. It’s not that '''Captain Gordon, Defender of Earth!''' hates Laharl (they ''had'' been allies in ''VideoGame/DisgaeaHourOfDarkness''), but he is a hero and Laharl is a demon Overlord, '''Captain Gordon, Defender of Earth!''' is also an BoyfriendBlockingDad. Jane is a rebellious teen, so there are hints that she does it partly to piss '''Captain Gordon, Defender of Earth!''' off. Not that he has any reason to concerned, [[CelibateHero because Laharl is not interested]], not that it stops Jane from pursuing him.

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* In the crossover fic ''Fanfic/{{Unity}}'' (sequel to ''Fanfic/{{Empathy}}''), Fred/Kaiju starts dating Violet/Ultraviolet. While the two are happy together, Fred worries about what Mr. Incredible will think of their relationship, as Fred doesn't think of himself as that impressive a person or superhero. Averted hard when Mr. Incredible supports the relationship, as he realizes right off the bat that Fred would never do anything to hurt Violet. The entire Parr family clearly likes Fred, and even laugh a little bit at some of the lengths he goes to try and make a good impression.

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* In the crossover fic ''Fanfic/{{Unity}}'' (sequel ''Fanfic/{{Empathy}}'', Hiro and Riley begin dating shortly after Riley's twelfth birthday. While their friends, Aunt Cass and Riley's mother approve of the relationship, Riley's father plays this trope straight for most of the fic. He never tries to ''Fanfic/{{Empathy}}''), keep them apart or break them up, but he's clearly on edge whenever Hiro and Riley spend time together. To be fair, the Andersons first met Hiro when he, his brother, and Riley were being bailed out of jail for being involved in a bot fight. [[spoiler: He drops this attitude when Hiro makes it clear that he's ready to put his life on the line for Riley, and finally gives their relationship his full support]].
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Fred/Kaiju starts dating Violet/Ultraviolet. While the two are happy together, Fred worries about what Mr. Incredible will think of their relationship, as Fred doesn't think of himself as that impressive a person or superhero. Averted hard when Mr. Incredible supports the relationship, as he realizes right off the bat that Fred would never do anything to hurt Violet. The entire Parr family clearly likes Fred, and even laugh a little bit at some of the lengths he goes to try and make a good impression.
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* In the crossover fic ''Fanfic/{{Unity}}'' (sequel to ''Fanfic/{{Empathy}}''), Fred/Kaiju starts dating Violet/Ultraviolet. While the two are happy together, Fred worries about what Mr. Incredible will think of their relationship, as Fred doesn't think of himself as that impressive a person or superhero. Averted hard when Mr. Incredible supports the relationship, as he realizes right off the bat that Fred would never do anything to hurt Violet. The entire Parr family clearly likes Fred, and even laugh a little bit at some of the lengths he goes to try and make a good impression.
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* ''Series/FirstKill'': Juliette and Cal, mutually, though it's the objections of their mothers that get the most attention. As they're a [[MonsterSlayerRomance vampire with a vampire hunter]], both of their families are obviously less than thrilled about their relationship.
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* In ''Manga/KaguyaSamaLoveIsWar'', Chika is greatly opposed to her sister Moeha's attraction to Shirogane, mainly because she's endured [[SuckinessIsPainful his lack of talent]] firsthand multiple times and doesn't want Moeha to suffer like she has.

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* In ''Manga/KaguyaSamaLoveIsWar'', Chika Fujiwara is greatly opposed to her sister Moeha's attraction to Shirogane, mainly because she's endured [[SuckinessIsPainful his lack of talent]] firsthand multiple times and doesn't want Moeha to suffer like she has.
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Contrast with ParentPreferredSuitor. Overlaps a bit with AllGirlsWantBadBoys and MalignedMixedMarriage. Often involves a BoyfriendBlockingDad. When the dating is done ''because'' that is what daddy hates, it's a ShockValueRelationship. Often, the parents will ask WhereDidWeGoWrong See LikeParentLikeSpouse for the inversion.

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Contrast with ParentPreferredSuitor. Overlaps a bit with AllGirlsWantBadBoys and MalignedMixedMarriage. Often involves a BoyfriendBlockingDad. When the dating is done ''because'' that is what daddy hates, it's a ShockValueRelationship. Often, the parents will ask WhereDidWeGoWrong See LikeParentLikeSpouse for cases where a character's significant other is similar to a parent. Contrast ParentWithNewParamour for cases where it's the inversion.
child objecting (or sometimes not) to a potential or actual step-parent.
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* In the ''Franchise/{{Disgaea}}'' [[LightNovel/DisgaeaNovels novels]] '''[[Characters/DisgaeaHourOfDarkness Captain Gordon, Defender of Earth!]]''' and [[Characters/DisgaeaHourOfDarkness Jennifer]] have a daughter named [[Characters/DisgaeaNovels Jane]], who eventually falls for [[Characters/DisgaeaHourOfDarkness Laharl]]. It’s not that '''Captain Gordon, Defender of Earth!''' hates Laharl (they ''had'' been allies in ''VideoGame/DisgaeaHourOfDarkness''), but he is a hero and Laharl is a demon Overlord, '''Captain Gordon, Defender of Earth!''' is also an OverprotectiveDad. Jane is a rebellious teen, so there are hints that she does it partly to piss '''Captain Gordon, Defender of Earth!''' off. Not that he has any reason to concerned, [[CelibateHero because Laharl is not interested]], not that it stops Jane from pursuing him.

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* In the ''Franchise/{{Disgaea}}'' [[LightNovel/DisgaeaNovels novels]] '''[[Characters/DisgaeaHourOfDarkness Captain Gordon, Defender of Earth!]]''' and [[Characters/DisgaeaHourOfDarkness Jennifer]] have a daughter named [[Characters/DisgaeaNovels Jane]], who eventually falls for [[Characters/DisgaeaHourOfDarkness Laharl]]. It’s not that '''Captain Gordon, Defender of Earth!''' hates Laharl (they ''had'' been allies in ''VideoGame/DisgaeaHourOfDarkness''), but he is a hero and Laharl is a demon Overlord, '''Captain Gordon, Defender of Earth!''' is also an OverprotectiveDad.BoyfriendBlockingDad. Jane is a rebellious teen, so there are hints that she does it partly to piss '''Captain Gordon, Defender of Earth!''' off. Not that he has any reason to concerned, [[CelibateHero because Laharl is not interested]], not that it stops Jane from pursuing him.



* ''Literature/InCryptid'': Despite his [[KnightTemplar Covenant]] background, Alice Healy finds herself head over heels for Thomas Price, to her OverprotectiveDad Jonathan's horror.

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* ''Literature/InCryptid'': Despite his [[KnightTemplar Covenant]] background, Alice Healy finds herself head over heels for Thomas Price, to her OverprotectiveDad Jonathan's horror.
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* A rare GenderFlip occurs in ''[[FanFic/UltimateSpiderWoman Ultimate Spider-Woman: Change With The Light]]'' when Ben Reilly's OverprotectiveDad loathes Mary Jane Watson and bluntly threatens her unless she stays away from his son. Ben himself isn't amused when he finds out.

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* A rare GenderFlip occurs in ''[[FanFic/UltimateSpiderWoman Ultimate Spider-Woman: Change With The Light]]'' when Ben Reilly's OverprotectiveDad dad loathes Mary Jane Watson and bluntly threatens her unless she stays away from his son. Ben himself isn't amused when he finds out.
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* In AU versions of ''Franchise/StarWars'' that are even ''slightly'' comedic, Anakin will more often than not be less-than-pleased with Leia's choice of beau, [[AllGirlsWantBadBoys Han Solo]], either because he's still a mercenary smuggler, or [[OverprotectiveDad the fact that]] [[MayDecemberRomance Leia is 19 and Han is ten years older]].

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* In AU versions of ''Franchise/StarWars'' that are even ''slightly'' comedic, Anakin [[BoyfriendBlockingDad Darth Vader]] will more often than not be less-than-pleased with Leia's choice of beau, [[AllGirlsWantBadBoys Han Solo]], either because he's still a mercenary smuggler, or [[OverprotectiveDad the fact that]] that [[MayDecemberRomance Leia is 19 and Han is ten years older]].
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Contrast with ParentPreferredSuitor. Overlaps a bit with AllGirlsWantBadBoys and MalignedMixedMarriage. Often involves an OverprotectiveDad. When the dating is done ''because'' that is what daddy hates, it's a ShockValueRelationship. Often, the parents will ask WhereDidWeGoWrong See LikeParentLikeSpouse for the inversion.

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Contrast with ParentPreferredSuitor. Overlaps a bit with AllGirlsWantBadBoys and MalignedMixedMarriage. Often involves an OverprotectiveDad.a BoyfriendBlockingDad. When the dating is done ''because'' that is what daddy hates, it's a ShockValueRelationship. Often, the parents will ask WhereDidWeGoWrong See LikeParentLikeSpouse for the inversion.
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* ''WesternAnimation/{{Stoked}}'': Lo dating Reef is a serious sore spot for Mr. Ridgemount, as Reef is an obnoxious, lazy, and idiotic SurferDude. He goes as far as to bribe Lo with a new car to get her to break up with Reef, which she does and immediately gets back together with him. The trope gets hilariously inverted when Reef manages to keep his job, make George Jr. happy, and bond with his future father-in-law over golf, much to Lo's horror, as she doesn't like the idea of her dad and boyfriend being friends.
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** Lorelai loathes Rory's SecondLove, Jess. In a WrongGenreSavvy moment, she chalks up Rory's interest in him to a phase, a combination of teenage fancy and AllGirlsWantBadBoys. In reality, Rory likes Jess because they have quite a bit in common and she really wants Lorelai to like him. That never happens, but Jess doesn't like her either, so there's no angst about it.
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* ''[[ComicBook/DCPride2022 DC Pride: Tim Drake Special]]'': Bernard's parents have disapproved of Tim since high school when they were just friends, and are not at all happy to learn that Bernard is now dating him.
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* ''Manga/IMarriedMyBestFriendToShutMyParentsUp'': Machi Morimoto's parents are pressuring her to marry someone of respectable standing, and Machi knows full well that they're only doing it to have a son-in-law they can brag about. Machi starts contemplating a marriage to someone they hate [[InvokedTrope just to spite them]], but doesn't want to be attached to a deadbeat. Meanwhile, her [[SenpaiKouhai kouhai]] Hana Agaya recently got booted from her apartment in Mitaka for renovations, and can't afford a new place on her own. Hana proposes that they both get a place in Shibuya, which allows for a legal partnership that is, for all intents and purposes, a same-sex marriage, simultaneously spiting Machi's parents and solving Hana's residential troubles.

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* ''Manga/IMarriedMyBestFriendToShutMyParentsUp'': Machi Morimoto's parents are pressuring her to marry someone of respectable standing, and Machi knows full well that they're only doing it to have a son-in-law they can brag about. Machi starts contemplating a marriage to someone they hate [[InvokedTrope just to spite them]], but doesn't want to be attached to a deadbeat. Meanwhile, her [[SenpaiKouhai [[SenpaiKohai kouhai]] Hana Agaya recently got booted from her apartment in Mitaka for renovations, and can't afford a new place on her own. Hana proposes that they both get a place in Shibuya, which allows for a legal partnership that is, for all intents and purposes, a same-sex marriage, simultaneously spiting Machi's parents and solving Hana's residential troubles.
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* {{Discussed}} in ''Film/BendItLikeBeckham'': Jess mentions to her football teammates that, even though she's not been set up for an ArrangedMarriage, her very traditional parents wouldn't approve of her dating anybody but another Indian. This makes things ''interesting'' when she falls for the team's Irish coach, Joe. [[spoiler:They eventually decide to try anyway, and the epilogue shows Joe playing cricket with her father in hopes of befriending him to make it easier.]]
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* ''[[ComicBook/DCPride2022 DC Pride: Tim Drake Special]]'': Bernard's parents have disapproved of Tim since high school when they were just friends, and are not at all happy to learn that Bernard is now dating him.
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* Music/DierksBentley's What Was I Thinkin' is about going out with a girl whose father shoots at his tailgate when he picks her up and is waiting for him in the driveway at 2 am when he brings her back.
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* In the backstory to ''WesternAnimation/CorpseBride'', Emily's father put a ParentalMarriageVeto against her lover. Turns out that she should have listened to him when she tried to run away and the lover murdered and robbed her.
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# He rides a motorcycle, wears leathers and dark sunglasses (even [[SunglassesAtNight at night]]), and enters swaggering, chewing something indeterminate, and calls the father "pops". HilarityEnsues.
# Her date's of a different [[MalignedMixedMarriage race]], religion, political affiliation, social class (from the WrongSideOfTheTracks)
, or is [[GayAesop the same gender]] (or even [[TransTribulations the other gender]], if she is [[UsefulNotes/{{Transgender}} a trans girl]]).
# He has some other characteristic that offends Dad's sensibilities: he's too nerdy, too quiet, too loud, a fan of the wrong sports team, has bad table manners or atypical fashion sense.
# He may be a lout with NoSocialSkills.
# He might be the son of (or otherwise related to) [[SitcomArchNemesis someone the father doesn't like]].

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WrongSideOfTheTracks), or is [[GayAesop the same gender]] (or even [[TransTribulations the other gender]], if she is [[UsefulNotes/{{Transgender}} a trans girl]]).
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# * He may be a lout with NoSocialSkills.
# * He might be the son of (or otherwise related to) [[SitcomArchNemesis someone the father doesn't like]].
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# Her date's of a different [[MalignedMixedMarriage race]], religion, political affiliation, social class, or is [[GayAesop the same gender]] (or even [[TransTribulations the other gender]], if she is [[UsefulNotes/{{Transgender}} a trans girl]]).

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* ''ComicBook/XMen'': ComicBook/{{Wolverine}}'s clone [[OppositeSexClone "daughter"]] had a brief relationship with the time-displaced teenage ComicBook/{{Cyclops}}, his [[ArchEnemy mortal enemy]] ([[DorkAge at that point]]).

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* ''ComicBook/XMen'': ComicBook/{{Wolverine}}'s clone [[OppositeSexClone "daughter"]] had a brief relationship with the time-displaced teenage ComicBook/{{Cyclops}}, his [[ArchEnemy mortal enemy]] ([[DorkAge ([[AudienceAlienatingEra at that point]]).

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