Speaking as a girl, I've been hearing my whole life that sex hurts like crazy your first time. It's probably just a cultural thing and a way for the woman to show vulnerability before the act. vOv
Depending on how active your lifestyle, it CAN. Remember, a woman's loss of virginity involves tearing of the hymen - literally smashing through a thin layer of skin. If so, it will hurt. However, if you are generally outdoors and mobile, you've probably torn your hymen away already, and not even known, with little to no pain.
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As a man, my ex at first was scared, me too, but after the first time, she always ALWAYS wanted rough sex. So I guess depends on in the individual.
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For curiosity's sake: Can this trope still apply to a couple where one or both involved parties have had sex before, but it's their first time as a couple? I don't have an example in mind, but I'm just wondering how flexible trope boundaries are.
You've kind of got to wonder why the woman in the relationship always feels a need to request that the man "be gentle". I mean, what? Do they expect us to fucking roughhouse with them like we're wrestling with one of our bros? Like, at the beach, or something? Come on.
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