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Smokey: Oh, right. I hadn't looked at it from that angle. Thank you.

Mostly she had been genderfluid or something to that effect for years; she originally saw herself as male from what I understand, went through a sort of genderfluid/genderneutral phase where she wasn't quite sure what she was, then finally transitioned to being full female. Granted, last I heard, which was back in December or November, she wasn't sure if she'd keep her male genitals, but still use the hormones, or do the complete operation and just put some sperm on ice, since they might want more kids in the future; since I haven't talked to her personally since December, I'm not sure what she ended up deciding, or if she's even gotten that far.

I went through a brief phase of wondering if I was genderfluid, then came out as a trans woman. Much happier now.

So basically the same then; God do I miss them, and most of the people I talked to on Skype. Really only like 5-6 people from the old group I talk to anymore these days, and even then there's no longer a real group chat with all of them.

Sometimes I still have periods of questioning whether I'm genderfluid or downright trans.

i might be gender neutral

on one hand i've certainly done more than my share of boyish activities and don't plan on changing that

on the other hand do you see how many avvies of girls that i have?? (plus im like super pretty)

i mean it ultimately doesn't change anything about my life and i really don't care so

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I was originally genderqueer before I came out as trans.

I think I worked it out when I worked out that most the people I looked up to and wanted to be were male.

Took a look at what seems to be Austin's highest rated gay club...(NSFW?)

Looks really posh...but man, that dance floor gets crowded. How are you supposed to meet anybody in a mess like that?

God that music sounds like actual ass. Like I can't hear anything but synthesized farting. I mean I get that you need a beat to have sex in the bathroom too but man...

Ha. ;p Well I liked it.

And the cowboy at :14...

So many of the patrons are women! I never get that.

Oi, and are clubs just things that you're supposed to bring somebody to? Seems it'd be impossible to hear anyone in there.

Clubs are where you go for the most primal and base of human interactions. Dancing, drinking, the occasional high risk sex, hell maybe you'll even fight someone.

What fun!

...though, I think the only reason I'd really go is for dancing, and that's no fun to do by yourself...

Hence the crowd, there are tons of lonely single people there waiting to lure you to that bathroom I mentioned before dance with someone else whose lonely and attractive, and drunk.

Which is why you dance with a cute girl or boy.

I can't do drunk. One of my big mottos in life is "Suffer sober." ;p Anything I can't do with a clear head, I probably shouldn't be doing.

Do people actually go to clubs alone? It seems like something you need a friend to take along. Like to drag you home after you've drunk too much. Or watch your back when somebody comes swinging a beer bottle at your head.

My (straight) sister would go to lesbian clubs with a lesbian friend of hers, so her friend would have a designated driver. I imagine others do the same, though not necessarily with straight friends.

You probably shouldn't go to a club alone or drink alone for that matter. It's dangerous for more then the reasons I said before. You don't want to be too drunk in places like those without someone to watch you, speaking from bitter experience here.

It must be nice...having friends willing to mop you up off the floor and take you home. ;p

Well it'd be hard even driving to Austin by myself and having no one to host me when I got there. I would take Dad, but he'd probably look it up if I told him I was going to Highland.

I wonder what it would have been like if I had gone to college at UT...I'd already be used to Austin and wouldn't be just considering it now...

I think the most important question here is; are you gonna pick up chicks or dudes?

Both of them—one in each arm.

;p Well the point of me going to a gay club would be to find a gay guy. There are plenty of other straight clubs. I've never been to a gay one. And it'd be more likely for me to be approached.

I've determined that a club would be the best place to get meaningless, casual sex. Not the safest, but the best...

edited 26th May '16 7:03:42 PM by SpaceWolf

Hey, TC, are you there?

There's something I'd like to discuss with you.

I would probably be the type of person who goes to a club, tries to dance, fails, decides to listen to the music instead, instantly hates it, and resigns to listening to post-hardcore on his tablet.

There are some types of clubs I'd love to go to.