These are what we call the 'YMMV items.' Things that some people find in this work. We call them 'your mileage might vary' because not everyone sees these things in the same way. This starts discussions in the trope lists, a thing we don't want. Please use the discussion page if you'd like to discuss any of these items.
Nightmare Fuel: The 'choice' scene, obviously. Meryl Streep—herself a mother—found it so draining and disturbing that she did the whole scene in one take and never watched it again, until she appeared on Oprah's show and she showed the scene, much to Streep's discomfort.