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Basic Trope: Someone who constantly looks out for others learns to take time for their own well-being.

  • Straight: Bob starts to burn out from his heroism duties. After the events of the episode, he learns that he needn't push himself too hard, for his physical and mental well-being is also important. The episode ends with Bob taking up a new hobby to give himself some downtime.
  • Exaggerated: Bob cares for others to the point that he hasn't eaten anything for 10 years. Literally everyone he knows yells at him to take a vacation for several months.
  • Downplayed: Bob still overworks himself, but starts eating a bit more healthily.
  • Justified:
    • Bob has a heart condition and too much stress could kill him.
    • Others are taking advantage of Bob's lack of boundaries.
    • If Bob collapses under the strain, so does the entire group.
    • In the setting, ignoring one's negative emotions and letting them fester (as opposed to acknowledging and dealing with them in a healthy way) can create literal monsters.
    • Since Bob is so devoted to helping others, he thinks it'd be hypocritical to not accept help.
  • Inverted: Bob, a self-centered slacker, learns to look out for others.
  • Subverted: The "hobby" Bob takes up turns out to be volunteering.
  • Double Subverted: He finds volunteering personally fulfilling and a chance to make new friends and experience something fresh.
  • Parodied: Bob starts acting like a self-indulgent jerk and calls it self-care.
  • Zig-Zagged: Bob starts out taking more breaks, but keeps falling back into old habits. Finally the lesson sticks - only for circumstances to begin demanding more time and energy from him than ever before.
  • Averted:
    • Bob continues to overburden himself, and nobody calls him out on it.
    • Bob never overburdened himself in the first place.
  • Enforced: Moral Guardians claim Bob's character is holding audiences to unrealistic and destructive standards of altruism and productivity. The show is pressured to have Bob learn about the importance of self-care.
  • Invoked: Alice finds Bob collapsed on the floor and gets panicked about how he's destroying himself.
  • Discussed: "Bob, if you don't look after yourself now and again, how are you going to be able to look after others?"
  • Conversed: "Finally, Bob's learned he doesn't have to take on the weight of the world."
  • Deconstructed: Bob realises he sorely needs self-care... but between having to work 80 hours a week and look out for his family, it isn't going to happen.
  • Reconstructed: Bob's loved ones offer to share some of his duties.

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