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Basic Trope: An immature slacker raises a young distant relative. Both learn lessons.
  • Straight: Bob is the very definition of One of the Kids - he's very much a slacker. When he inherits his younger brother Timmy after his parents die, he learns a lot about himself through the act of being a parent.
  • Exaggerated: Bob is an absolute loser with nothing to offer society. When he inherits Timmy he goes from a slacker to an ideal member of society overnight.
  • Downplayed: Bob cleans up his act a little while raising Timmy, but is still not that good a role model.
  • Justified: Raising a kid forced Bob to grow up himself; he can't really expect the kid to respect him unless he acts like an adult.
  • Inverted:
    • Bob is a model citizen who is incredibly mature, but raising Timmy places such a strain on him that the other facets of his life start to slip up and he reverts to a childlike state.
    • Timmy is a problem child to his own parents; when they die, Bob proves much more capable at handling him and he whips him into shape.
  • Subverted: It seems that raising Timmy has no effect on Bob...
  • Double Subverted: ...until he has to actually discipline the boy, after which he decides to start growing up.
  • Parodied:
    • Timmy literally raises Bob: cooking his meals, making sure he's ready for work, driving him there, et cetera.
    • It's revealed that the whole story took place in Soviet Russia.
  • Zig Zagged: After taking custody of Timmy, Bob bounces back and fourth on cleaning up his act depending on what the script requires each scene.
  • Averted:
    • Timmy has no effect on Bob's maturity.
    • Bob never has to care for Timmy.
  • Enforced: "I know we may want to teach Bob some life lessons, but we've got to consider Timmy's well-being. This is the perfect chance to include An Aesop about personal responsibility and coming of age."
  • Lampshaded: "I'd say I'm raising him, but I think it's the other way around."
  • Invoked: Bob's parents, realizing that Bob needs some motivation to stop being such a slacker, make sure that he gets the boy in case of an accident so that he'll learn how to function in society.
  • Exploited: ???
  • Defied: Bob finds someone else to give Timmy to.
  • Discussed: "This kid who I'm about to patron is probably going to whip me into shape."
  • Conversed: "Why did caring for Timmy make Bob more mature? That doesn't seem logical to me."
  • Deconstructed: After a while, it becomes evident that Bob, while ultimately good-hearted, lacks what it takes to be an effective father figure to Timmy. He loses custody of the boy, who's subsequently bounced around to foster homes.
    • Bob eventually breaks down from the overwhelming responsibility that comes with taking care of a child.
  • Reconstructed: However, this spurs Bob on to dig truly deep and improve his life to the point where he can earn custody of the boy for real.
    • In the long run, taking care of Timmy teaches Bob how to nurture a family of his own one day

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