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[[quoteright:251:[[quoteleft:250:"Never impose on others what you would not choose for yourself."\\
--'''Confucius''', ''Analects XV.24 (ca. 500 B.C.)''\\
"Do unto others as you would have done unto you"\\
--'''Jesus''', ''[[Literature/TheBible Luke 6:31]] (ca. 100 A.D.)''\\
"Whatever belief you belong to,\\
there's still always a reason to doubt\\
And there's always another opinion,\\
as to what life is all about [...]\\
There's only one thing to remember,\\
there is only one thing you can do:\\
And that is to do unto others,\\
as you'd have others do unto you"\\
--'''Clawfinger''', ''[[http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=2gv4cPCZXpc Two Sides (of every story)]] (ca. 2000 A.D.)'']]]]

To treat others like you would like them to treat you [[UsefulNotes/TheGoldenRule is one of the most basic and universal moral principles that exist]]. With all of [[Quotes/TheGoldenRule the different ways of expressing it]], this principle is known as The Golden Rule. In various works of fiction it surfaces as a StockAesop as well as a StockPhrase.

When played as AnAesop, there are two main ways in which it can come into play. In the negative form (don't treat others in a way you wouldn't want to be treated), the villain (or {{Jerkass}} protagonist) does something bad to another person. He then experiences the same thing being done to him. Somebody may have acted against him through revenge or punishment. Or possibly he is HoistByHisOwnPetard. CallItKarma, or even "[[EquivalentExchange Newton's third law of motion]]". He might then understand the very harm and pain inflicted by his actions, and decide not to do that onto others anymore.

In the positive form (treat others like you want to be treated), the Hero might do something good for another without expectation of a reward. This good deed turns out to be [[KarmicJackpot very beneficial for the Hero too]]. Sometimes because the person he helped has unexpectedly returned to reward him. (This is very popular in fairy tales where the beggar woman turns out to be a powerful fairy instead).

When played as a StockPhrase, it sometimes uses a quote from religious scriptures, such as the Confucianism page quote for the negative form or the Christianity page quote for the positive form.

A character might apply a strawman version of the golden rule, taking the EquivalentExchange aspect of the Golden Rule literally and treating people exactly like ''he'' likes to be treated, without any regard for how ''they'' want to be treated. This might lead to him encountering someone who treats him the same way. For example, he might [[StalkerWithACrush give a lot of attention]] to a woman he's attracted to, insisting that he would love if she treated him the same way - never mind that she isn't attracted to him. Then someone that ''he'' [[AbhorrentAdmirer isn't attracted to]] (and who might be [[DepravedHomosexual of the same sex]]) treats him the same way. Thus he learns that he shouldn't treat women like that (because, of course, being hit on by someone you don't happen to be interested in is ''just the same'' as being hit on by someone you find actively repellent) - or at least that's what he ''ought'' to learn. The lesson he actually does learn might instead be [[UnfortunateImplications to shun "ugly" women and homosexuals]].

When judging if a action is moral or not, one can either see to [[TheDeontologist the principle behind the action]] or [[TheUtilitarian to the consequences of the action]]. For morality based on principles, the golden rule is the most common principle to base the morality on. A common cynical take is that the Golden Rule is: "[[ScrewTheRulesIHaveMoney He who has the Gold makes the rules!]]". Another is "DoUntoOthersBeforeTheyDoUntoUs".

Not the same thing as [[GoldenMeanFallacy The Golden Mean]]. Compare EnlightenedSelfInterest, where you take actions that benefit others in order to get tangible benefits yourself. Contrast CycleOfRevenge (a common warping of the golden rule into "treat others as they ''have treated'' you") and PayEvilUntoEvil.

!! Examples:


[[folder: Comic Strips ]]

* Subverted in [[http://dilbert.com/strips/comic/2012-12-09/ this]] ''ComicStrip/{{Dilbert}}'' strip. Of course, this ''is'' Dilbert, and he (and the rest of the cast) tend to mess with the PointyHairedBoss's head like this a ''lot''.
* Quoted by Brainy near the end of ''ComicBook/TheSmurfs'' story "King Smurf" when he and his fellow Smurfs decide to help King Smurf clean and fix up the village.
* In a mid-60s ''ComicStrip/TheWizardOfId'' strip, the king urges his people to "follow the Golden Rule". When one peasant wonders "What the heck is the Golden Rule?", a cynical minstrel suggests, "[[ScrewTheRulesIHaveMoney Whoever has the gold, makes the rules]]."


[[folder: Films -- Animated ]]

* The cynical version shows up in ''Disney/{{Aladdin}}'':
-->'''Jafar:''' "You've heard of the golden rule, haven't you? [[ScrewTheRulesIHaveMoney Whoever has the gold makes the rules]]."


[[folder: Films -- Live-Action ]]

* From [[Theatre/{{Oscar}} the 1991 film version of Oscar]]:
-->'''Vendetti''': We're gonna observe the 11th commandment: "Do unto others before they do unto you."
* Invoked in ''Film/EnemyMine'', when the alien Jerry teaches Davidge about the religious beliefs of his people. When Davidge points out that he's heard that one before, the alien isn't surprised at all, as "truth is truth".
* This one of the many morals promoted by ''Film/ItsAWonderfulLife''.
* Subverted by Igor in ''Film/VanHelsing''.
-->'''Dracula:''' Remember, Igor. Do unto others... \\
'''Igor:''' ...Before they do unto me, master.


[[folder: Literature ]]

* ''Literature/TheGospelOfTheFlyingSpaghettiMonster'': The spirit of the rule is played straight, while the literal wording of the biblical version is played with in the 8:th commandment. FSM really prefers if we don't do stuff to others that we would like them to do to us but they don't want us to do to them. Oh, and that goes especially for rough sex.
* ''Discworld/SmallGods'' has one of the cynical takes: the Great God Om advises "Do unto others before they do unto you." He gets called out on his lack of compassion by Brutha in a TheReasonYouSuckSpeech during the crossing of the desert.
* Invoked in [[Creator/RobertAHeinlein Heinlein's]] ''Literature/TheCatWhoWalksThroughWalls'': The main character lives in a habitat called Golden Rule where, we are told, there is only one rule, and all others are merely derived from it. However, the only interpretation of the Golden Rule practiced in the habitat is that of the station's feudal ruler.
* Literature/TheBible uses this in the stories about Jesus. Invoked by the main character as a moral principle, and also used as AnAesop in several of the parables (short stories within the main story). The most famous is the story of the Good Samaritan (which is specifically about applying this to strangers and people outside one's own tribe).
** There's an extra layer to the story. Jesus told this story in response to a petitioner who asked to whom, exactly, people should apply this principle. The Samaritans were a tribe of people who generally had a mutual hate-on with the Israelites. In this parable, Jesus not only emphasized that you should treat others as you'd like to be treated ''no matter who they are or how little you'd like to do it,'' he also inserted a bit of social commentary about prejudice into the mix.
* Inverted in Anton [=LaVey=]'s ''The Satanic Bible'' with the "Lex Talionis" (Law of Reprisal): "Do unto others as they do unto you."
* Literature/TheTalmud gives us the tale of Hillel the Elder, a Rabbi who was challenged by a Gentile to teach him the whole of the Torah while he stood on one foot. Hillel replied "What is hateful to you, do not do to your fellow. That is the whole of the Torah; the rest is commentary."
* ''Literature/VorkosiganSaga'': a Vor lord who loved liversweets and therefore gave them to everyone, not understanding why they never gave any to him.
* Creator/DianeDuane's Franchise/StarTrek novel ''Literature/SpocksWorld'' has a particularly poetic version of this rule, credited to Surak:
-->The spear in the other's heart is the spear in your own; you are he.
* In ''Ape and Essence'' by Aldous Huxley, the catechism of the ReligionOfEvil includes: "My duty towards my neighbor is to do my best to prevent him from doing unto me what I should like to do unto him."
* In "Die Heimkehr" ("Homecoming: A Novel") by the German author Bernhard Schlink the main character's father invokes a variation he calls the "Iron Rule": "Whatever I am ready to suffer myself I may inflict onto others as well."
* The third book of ''Literature/DeathsHead'' has one the likes of: "Do unto others as they would do unto you. But first, and harder."
* Mentioned in "[[http://clarkesworldmagazine.com/kritzer_01_15/ Cat Pictures Please]]". [[InstantAIJustAddWater A search engine algorithm accidentally gained consciousness]] and is trying to figure out how to be moral. It started with the Golden Rule, but the [[TheInternetIsForCats only thing it really wants is cat pictures]], so it wasn't much of a guideline.
-->I hope you’ve been enjoying your steady supply of cat pictures! You’re welcome.
* ''Literature/FromTheEarthToTheMoon'' features the line "They did to others what they didn't want done to themselves, the immoral principle upon which is based the art of war" about the LensmanArmsRace between armored warships. Fittingly, the main character Barbicane designs cannon for a living, while his archrival and nemesis Nicholl makes armor plating.


[[folder: Live Action TV ]]

* Used by Captain Janeway in the pilot episode of ''Series/StarTrekVoyager''. Two starship crews need to cooperate, and when the leader of the other crew insults one of her men she says: "That man is a member of my crew. Treat him with the same respect as you would have me treat one of yours."
* Debated on ''Series/HowIMetYourMother'': Barney came up with the Platinum Rule: "You can love thy neighbor, but you can never, ever ''love'' thy neighbor." The others point out how Love Thy Neighbor isn't the Golden Rule as such (though the fuller "love thy neighbor as thyself" is).
* Subject of a CrossesTheLineTwice joke in ''Series/TheDailyShow'', where apropos of a meeting between Catholic Cardinals to discuss the sexual molestation scandals, Jon claims that Luke 6:31 will be altered to include the footnote "except when explicitly prohibited by law".
* Mike Hamar of the Canadian sketch show ''Series/TheRedGreenShow'' calls this the "Gold Card" rule, citing it as "do unto others before they can do unto you". Keep in mind, Mike is a habitual criminal, so it makes sense his take on this is a little off. He actually brings this up as part of a question on how to protect your house from criminals when you're not home.
-->'''Mike:''' If you want to protect your stuff, don't leave home without it.


[[folder: Music ]]

* Played straight as Aesop (and also invoked) in Clawfingers ''[[http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=2gv4cPCZXpc Two Sides (of every story)]]''. See page quote.
* Inverted/Parodied in a Creator/BennyHill song: "Do unto others before they do it unto you."
* Music/LivingColour shoots it down in flames: "History's a lie that they teach you in school - A fraudulent view called the golden rule..."
* In Tally Hall's song "&": "When the golden rule & the jungle meet, there'll be nothing to love & there'll be no one to beat..."
* Don't Fuck With Me, by ''Music/LoveHate'' is all about this rule, summarised as don't fuck with other people because you wouldn't want other people to fuck with you.
-->Do unto others as you'd have others do unto you,
-->don't fuck with me and I won't fuck with you.


[[folder: Theater ]]

* In ''Theatre/TwistedTheUntoldStoryOfARoyalVizier'', a flashback shows a young Ja'far preaching this rule to his friends and neighbors in a snappy musical number.
-->Before you harm your fellow man\\
Ask this question first:\\
How would you wish that he treat you\\
If your fortunes were reversed?
** The "cynical version" (see the ''Aladdin'' example under Western Animation below) is then presented as a DarkReprise by Ja'far's predecessor.


[[folder: Webcomics ]]

* ''Webcomic/SaturdayMorningBreakfastCereal'' - The comic [[http://www.smbc-comics.com/index.php?db=comics&id=1899 points out]] a possible analogy with the "PrisonersDilemma". Option A: If both choose "sell each other out" it's like "act selfishly" for the Golden Rule because it's worse for both parties, and option D: "each do as you would like other to do to you" is like "refuse to sell out" because it's best for both if they cooperate and reciprocate. It then points out that although it's a universal moral, its proponents have argued for it it in very different ways.
--> '''Jeremy Bentham''': "The greatest felicity for all is here! Eh? Come on! Maximize your felicity in option D! Wooh!" \\
'''Christ''': "A is made of fire!"
* ''Webcomic/SchlockMercenary'' book "[[BigBookOfWar The Seventy Maxims of Maximally Effective Mercenaries]]" has a somewhat abridged version: "Do unto others".
* Florence from ''Webcomic/{{Freefall}}'' [[http://freefall.purrsia.com/ff600/fv00546.htm points out]] a common mistake.
* Another mistake pointed out [[http://www.explosm.net/comics/2266/ here]].


[[folder: Web Original ]]

* Wiki/RationalWiki's [[http://rationalwiki.org/wiki/Golden_Rule article]] on the subject points out some problems with the rule if it is taken too literally. Effectively, the article implies, a more advisable philosophy is, "Do unto others as ''they would like to be done unto''", since not everyone wants the same things.


[[folder: Western Animation ]]

* A ''WesternAnimation/DuckTales'' episode describes [[ComicBook/DisneyDucksComicUniverse Scrooge McDuck]] as a follower of the cynical take. At least before he was taught the true meaning.
* The Little Troll Prince has a group of trolls reciting their version of the Golden Rule, "Do unto others before they do unto you." Later, human children go on to instruct the prince on what their version of the Golden Rule is.
* When Homer hears the Golden Rule on ''WesternAnimation/TheSimpsons'' he responds, "[[SarcasmMode Right, that'll work.]]"
* In ''WesternAnimation/BeastWars'', Rattrap was complaining about one of his assignments, and Optimus replies that he wouldn't give out an assignment that he wasn't willing to do himself. Rattrap promptly calls him out on it. Of course since this is Optimus, he does.
** Optimus does counter Rattrap on the initial selection. They were attempting to rescue Cheetor, who was in the no man's land of a fire fight. Optimus, being Optimus, would have been a prime target (pardon the pun) where as Rattrap wasn't. Optimus was counting oh his ability to draw fire giving Rattrap the cover needed. When Rattrap refused and Optimus did it anyway, he was correct and drew the fire towards Cheetor... in addition, Optimus was better armed than Rattrap, so the lack in offensive fire power meant that they had to retreat after getting Cheetor out of his situation, rather than hold off the advance.
* Parodied in the ''WesternAnimation/KingOfTheHill'' episode "Hilloween", in which Hank deals with a Christian fanatic who wants to ban Halloween.
-->'''Hank:''' You know, Bobby, I'm suddenly reminded of a Bible quote: "Do unto others."
* Played straight and then subverted in the ''WesternAnimation/AdventureTime'' episode "Freak City": Finn gives a sugar cube to a homeless man - really the Magic Man - hoping for a reward, and is instead turned into a giant foot. This was apparently part of the Magic Man's lesson, which Finn initially believes is that he should've just given the sugar without thinking of a reward. No, the lesson was that the Magic Man is a jerk.
* In ''WesternAnimation/SofiaTheFirst'', Royal Prep Academy's motto is a variant: "Rule over others as you'd have them rule over you."
* In the ''WesternAnimation/{{Arthur}}'' episode "Draw!", Fern draws an unflattering comic about Francine after she makes fun of her, inspiring the others to create their own. After showing the gang how Francine is taking their insults, Mrs. [=MacGrady=] tells them "Never serve anyone a stew that you wouldn't want to eat yourself."