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[[caption-width-right:256:[[http://nonadventures.com/2011/06/04/immaculate-reception/ Her arch nemesis is such a geek.]]]]

->'''Hardison''': Looks like an ordinary cell phone, right? It's not, man. It's a metal detector. See, it uses pulse-induction technology that sends out a current that generates a magnetic field, and then... are you even listening?\\
'''Eliot''': Yeah.\\
'''Hardison''': Well, what'd I say?\\
'''Eliot''': You were explaining how you're still a virgin?
-->-- ''Series/{{Leverage}}''

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If you are a nerd, then as far as fictional media are concerned, you have ''never'' gotten laid, very likely haven't gotten to first base, may have never ever stepped up to bat -- and quite possibly have never so much as wandered within a mile of the ballpark.

Now, this does have some [[Main/TruthInTelevision real life basis,]] in that some nerds and geeks do lack some social skills, and take up unusual interests as a way to fill the gap in their lives (or, more unfortunately, fail to develop social skills ''because'' of said interests), or simply find them more interesting than exercising social skills. Some might just be [[{{Asexuality}} asexual]].

This trope can apply to female nerds as easily as male nerds, but thanks to the DoubleStandard, the males are far more likely to [[AllMenArePerverts find unwholesome outlets for their unexpressed sexuality]], virginity notwithstanding. Also, because males are expected to make the first move, female nerds are not at a disadvantage due to shyness or social ineptness. In fact, male nerds have just as much chance of being the CasanovaWannabe as any other type of male character. Some males (and a rare female or two) may try to [[OfCourseImNotAVirgin deny their virginity]], out of [[SexAsRiteOfPassage fear of losing face]], but thanks to their nerdy exteriors, they are unlikely to be believed by other characters, [[BlatantLies if they even have the social graces to spin a convincing lie in the first place]]. Another possible reason that female nerds are less likely to be virgins is because AllMenArePerverts and AManIsAlwaysEager in Fiction Land, and couldn't care less about what a woman's hobbies are as long as she's letting him have sex with her. Women on the other hand are often depicted as far more discriminating and will reject a partner whose hobbies aren't "cool" enough. Hence the use of terms like "girl repellent" (or the less G-Rated version "pussy repellent") to describe nerdy things.

There is also a general perception that a nerd's level of nerdiness is inversely proportionate to their chances of losing their virginity, which is a big reason that EvenNerdsHaveStandards. It also means that some nerds will [[ClosetGeek deny at least some aspects of their nerdiness]]. The reverse belief also exists. Instead of believing that nerdy hobbies prevent you from having sex, some people believe that the only reason people take up nerdy hobbies in the first place is because they can't get sex and seek a form of escapism from that fact.

In non-mainstream works, this trope shows up less frequently, although some cases are deliberate aversions and some are just AuthorAppeal.

If the nerds are the main characters, there is a high chance they ''won't'' be virgins by the end of the movie/book/first season of the show, because [[NatureAbhorsAVirgin virginity is a tragic flaw]] and [[SexAsRiteOfPassage heroes always overcome their flaws]]. Make that a very, very high chance [[ComingOfAgeStory if said heroes are male]].

Note this doesn't prevent a {{Nerdgasm}}.

Compare YouNeedToGetLaid.

Contrast NerdsAreSexy, GeekyTurnOn.



[[folder: Advertising]]
* A Pacific Bell from the [[TheNineties late 1990s']] implies this when it features a group of geeks playing a [[TabletopGame/DungeonsAndDragons D&D like game]] in a basement that goes something like this:
-->'''Geek #1''': I roll 13 so I reach level 35 wizard.\\
'''Geek #2''': You can't level up, you ate a poison mushroom in the enchanted forrest.\\
'''Geek #1''': No I din't!\\
'''Geek #2''': Yes you did!\\
'''Geek #1''': No I din't!\\
'''Geek #3''': Ugh...
-->''The geeks get knocked on the floor by three flying phonebooks that open up on a specific page''.
-->'''Narrator''': "Dating services." Another problem solved by Pacific Bell.

[[folder:Anime & Manga]]
* In ''VisualNovel/SteinsGate'', Okabe and Kurisu spend a great deal of time mocking each other for being scrawny, nerdy virgins - naturally ignoring their own scrawny, nerdy virgin-hood.
* ''Manga/NoMatterHowILookAtItItsYouGuysFaultImNotPopular'': Several stories revolve around Tomoko's inability to talk to boys and her sexual frustration.
* ''Manga/TokyoGhoul'' introduces protagonist Ken Kaneki as a shy bookworm that rarely leaves his apartment. He's ''very clearly'' a virgin, fretting over trying to ask a girl out for the first time. Unfortunately for him, his first date ends with him discovering Rize is a LiteralManeater...

[[folder:Comic Books]]
* An issue of the Creator/MarvelComics' ComicBook/CaptainMarVell during the Genis-Vell run used this trope when an evil sorcerer needed to sacrifice virgins to summon a demon [[TakeThatAudience and tried to use a comic book store's customers for that purpose.]] Marlow pointed out that rather than going to the time and effort of setting up a comic book store [[TakeThat he could have just gone to the nearby]] [[Franchise/StarTrek Star Trek convention]].

[[folder:Films -- Animation]]
* [[HistoricalDomainCharacter Charles Darwin]] in ''WesternAnimation/ThePiratesInAnAdventureWithScientists'' laments that he may never get a girlfriend.

[[folder:Films -- Live-Action]]
* ''Film/RevengeOfTheNerds'' plays with this in varying degrees. Clearly some of the nerds are out of their depth sexually, but Gilbert seems fine at attracting nerdy girls, Lewis comes off as a sexual maestro, and Booger clearly has enough experience to take an illegitimate child scare seriously in the fourth movie.
* ''Film/TheFortyYearOldVirgin'': The virgin protagonist collects fantasy (comic book style) toys, and has a good understanding of technology; this doesn't necessarily imply 'geek' therefore 'virgin' but it is consistent with that view. But the film is also a deconstruction of SexAsRiteOfPassage, so it's probably a subversion. Also, the protagonist is conventionally attractive and has good social skills, further subverting the mainstream nerd stereotype.
* In ''Film/TheBreakfastClub'', Brian Johnson (the "brain") is a virgin... but so are Claire (the princess) and Alison (the basket case). However, Alison and Claire both get together with Bender and Andy at the end, while Brian is left alone and single.
* Implied in ''Film/DeadPoetsSociety'':
-->'''[[TheSmartGuy Meeks]]''': I'll try anything once!\\
'''[[JerkWithAHeartOfGold Charlie]]''': Except sex!
* Inverted in ''Film/AmericanPie'': the biggest nerds (band geeks) are also the sluttiest.
* Averted in ''Film/MeanGirls''. There, the school has the sexually active band geeks.
* ''Film/BackToTheFuture'':
** Played with/implied when in the past, Marty observes his dad's incompetence:
--->'''Marty''': Jesus, George, it was a wonder I was even born.
** There's also this, when Marty and Doc observe George's incompetence in 1955:
--->'''Dr. Emmett Brown''': Which one's your pop?\\
'''Marty''': ''[points him out]'' That's him.\\
''[they see him getting kicked around by other school bullies]''\\
'''Dr. Emmett Brown''': Maybe you were adopted.
* Referenced in ''Film/{{Transformers}}'' when Glenn is being held for interrogation by the FBI.
-->'''Glenn''': I have done NOTHING bad my entire life! Hey man, I'm still a virgin.
* In ''Film/TheCore'', the resident [[HollywoodHacking Hollywood Hacker]] delivers the following line when confronted by the GovernmentConspiracy:
-->'''Rat''': Wait a second... you guys aren't here to whack me, are you? Cause I was kinda hoping to have sex before that happens...
* ''Enforced'' by WebVideo/TheAngryVideoGameNerd in ''Film/AngryVideoGameNerdTheMovie'', who tells his protégé Cooper that true nerdhood means forsaking the pursuit of social interaction -- especially dating and sex -- for the pursuit of your chosen hobbies. Or, to summarize: "[[BrosBeforeHoes Nerds before birds]]". [[spoiler:He's fine with Cooper hooking up with Mandy at the end of the movie, though]].

%%* Played absolutely straight in ''Literature/TheBriefWondrousLifeOfOscarWao''.
* Suverted in ''Literature/ShoshanYLaDamaOscura''. Almost all of the adults on the book are nerds on their own way (Except Kadiri and her nuns, Sasuke, Placida and Kokoa) but it's implied that all of those nerds have also an active sex life.
* Referenced in ''Literature/TheMartian'' when the NASA senior staff are meeting to discuss a risky but viable plan to hasten Mark Watney's safe return to Earth, which the guy who thought it up has dubbed "Operation Elrond". Annie Montrose, Head of Media Relations and sometime NerdNanny, is the only person in the room who doesn't get the reference and has to have it explained to her by one of the others.[[note]]The film adaptation [[CastingGag had some fun with this]] by having [[Creator/SeanBean the man who played Boromir]] be the one to explain it.[[/note]]
--> '''Annie''': "Jesus. ''None'' of you guys got laid in highschool, did you?"

[[folder:Live-Action TV]]
* ''Series/TheBigBangTheory'' averts this. Aside from Sheldon justifying it with his {{Asexuality}}, no one else in the group is a virgin, even if Raj has trouble with women (as a result of a personality issue completely unrelated to being a nerd, and it didn't stop him from sleeping with at least two girls in the series). Played straighter with Amy. [[spoiler:As of season 9, both Sheldon and Amy have both lost their virginity to each other, making this trope fully averted.]]
* Similarly, ''Series/ThirtyRock''[='s=] Liz Lemon is not a virgin, but merely has a terrible sex life, partly due to her bad social skills and partly due to the fact that, aside from [[StraightMan Floyd]], all the men (and one woman) she has dated turned out to be either insane or wildly unsuitable in some way.
* In ''Series/{{Community}}'', Jeff Winger jokes that the math club has improved so dramatically at paintball that they must have been practicing... while everyone else was having sex.
* ''Series/{{Supernatural}}'':
** Sam has been [[FreakyFridayFlip body-swapped]] with a teenage boy and is looking through the kid's stuff.
--->'''Sam''': ''[checking out his new face]'' Who ''are'' you? ''[finds Advanced Physics and Chemistry textbooks]'' Smart kid. ''[finds [[Franchise/StarWars Darth Vader]] T-shirt]'' Virgin. ''[finds porn magazine]'' Frustrated Virgin.
** Subverted with Charlie, a semi-recurring character who {{LARP}}s and loves Franchise/HarryPotter among other nerdy endeavours, and is a lesbian [[ThePornomancer Pornomancer]] that can bed pretty much any woman she looks at, even once crossing the species boundary and making out with a [[FairySexy fairy]]. She probably also banged Dorothy from ''Literature/TheWizardOfOz'', but that's not confirmed.
** Also both brothers are both a little bit nerdy, Dean constantly [[ShoutOut dropping references]] and Sam being a former law student, and seem to have no trouble getting laid. It probably helps that they [[MrFanservice don't look remotely nerdy]].
** In one episode, Sam and Bobby both make fun of Dean for not having heard of Creator/HPLovecraft or any of his works. Dean then shoots back, "Sorry, I guess I was too busy having ''sex'' with '''''women'''''." Of course, EvenNerdsHaveStandards, and later in the same episode, Bobby is talking to a guy who [[CollectorOfTheStrange collects Lovecraft's private correspondence letters]] and snarks, "You must be catnip to the ladies".
* On ''Series/TheOC'', HollywoodNerd Seth is stated to be a virgin at the beginning of the series, but it doesn't stay that way.
** Of course, so are Summer and Marissa.
* Averted in ''Series/{{Bones}}'', where the show's extensive and exotic gallery of nerds and geeks all do have sex, usually satisfactory and often perverse (and do they brag about it!). Played with in the case of Zach Addy, whom everyone initially assumes is a virgin. He tells them quite frankly that he has, and does, in fact, have sex. At one point, he asks the psychologist Sweets why everyone thinks/assumes he is a virgin.
* Also averted in ''Series/CovertAffairs''. Auggie is a genius with an affinity for anything technological. He's also ''quite'' the ladies man.
* Toby Isaacs, one of the few people in Series/{{Degrassi}} Community School history to graduate as a virgin. This trope was averted with [[BlackAndNerdy Liberty]], however.
* ''Series/{{Seinfeld}}'' inverts the trope and implies Virgins are Nerds. When men don't have sex, or stop having sex for a significant amount of time, the [[AllMenArePerverts 99% of their brains that are always thinking about sex]] will start to function normally and boost their intelligence and thirst for knowledge significantly (George, for example, becomes an OmnidisciplinaryScientist and learns Portugese in a matter of days). Women however, [[AManIsAlwaysEager can get sex so easily]] they take it for granted to the point where they require it to function normally, and during a dry spell start to act like someone who hasn't had their morning coffee.
* Averted in ''Series/{{CSI}}'', when the HollywoodHomely assistant coroner displays some particularly nerdy knowledge and Nick quips "you need a girlfriend, man." The coroner replies "I'm engaged".
* {{Subverted}} in ''Film/{{Clueless}}:'' the main characters are doing a school assignment with a nerdy girl who keeps running off to throw up. At first they assume she has an eating disorder; instead, it turns out that [[MorningSickness she's likely pregnant]], which they get a test to confirm. (Note that all three of the [[LovableAlphaBitch popular protagonists]] are virgins up until about the last episode.) The girl's boyfriend, though [[TheUnseen unseen]], is apparently a massive dork himself.
* ''[[Series/LateNight Late Night With Conan O'Brien]]'' made this joke a lot. It went so far that, one year, at Comic Con Triumph The Insult Comic Dog went around interviewing the attendees and seeing how much they really knew about sex, including Triumph holding a picture of a vagina and asking the men in attendance to identify it. [[spoiler: No one did.]]
* Invoked on ''Series/{{Friends}}'' when Joey doesn't know why Chandler and Ross' college friend is nicknamed Gandalf.
-->'''Chandler''': Didn't you read ''Literature/LordOfTheRings'' in high school?\\
'''Joey''': No, I had sex in high school.
* ''Series/QuantumLeap'': When Sam's teenage leap-host was being mocked by some high school scifi geeks, one of them remarks that if he'd been as lame as host/Sam, he'd still be a virgin too. Al, looking invisibly over their shoulders, consults Ziggy and then remarks that the mocker still ''is'' a virgin at present, and will remain one for quite a few more years. (Talk about an OmniscientDatabase...)
* Used in ''Series/{{Veep}}'' regarding Jonah's stats team:
-->'''Statistician 1''': You're like Neo.\\
'''Dan''': Wow.\\
'''Selina''': What's a Neo?\\
'''Statistician 1''': He's from ''The Matrix''. Everything he does is awesome.\\
'''Statistician 2''': The first movie. The sequels sucked.\\
'''Jonah''': Guys, we agreed to let ''The Matrix'' debate lie.\\
'''Dan''': Jesus, I can feel my virginity growing back in here.

* Music/WeirdAlYankovic:
** In the song "All About the Pentiums", one line goes "They call me the king of the spreadsheets. Got 'em all printed out on my bedsheets." Doesn't leave too much room, apparently, for doing anything else ''under'' the bedsheets.
** And again in "White and Nerdy": "Spend my nights with a roll of bubble wrap. Pop, pop, hope no one sees me gettin' freaky."
* The ''Music/StephenLynch'' song "D&D" ends with the line "Virgins 'till the day we die!"

[[folder:Video Games]]
* ''VideoGame/{{Scribblenauts}}'': [[StrawLoser "Virgin"]] gives the same result as [[TakeThatAudience "Gamer"]].
** Changed in the sequel to give you a bride. [[GeniusBonus Which is the original meaning.]]
* {{Subverted}} in ''VideoGame/TheLastStory''. AdventurerArchaeologist, WeekendInventor, and all-around bookish and meek shopkeeper, Horace, is married... and when hero Zael discovers this, he seems rather shocked. Horace tells him he doesn't have to act so surpised that a fellow like him actually managed to find a wife.
* A rather subtle and possibly accidental instance of this trope occurs in ''Franchise/MassEffect'' if you decide to romance Liara, a shy, socially awkward scientist. At one point she states she has never done the "mind meld" asari equivalent of sex before, to which Shepard can ask incredulously, "Wait, you're a virgin?"

[[folder:Web Comics]]
* In the Halloween page (#150) of ''Webcomic/BlasterNation'', that's how vampire!Ash deduces Matt is a valid source of virgin blood.
* Averted with Rayne from ''Webcomic/LeastICouldDo''. He is a huge nerd who also routinely sleeps with women. [[http://leasticoulddo.com/comic/20050521 This strip]] is a very deliberate aversion.
* Gary from ''Webcomic/MenageA3'', [[spoiler:although he did get laid eventually. A few times, even. And he later gained a reputation as an [[SexGod master of cunnilingus]], so he has women literally lined up outside his door mos of the time. Unfortunately most of them just want to use him like a glorified vibrator so he doesn't get much out of this reputation other than a sore jaw, and he's too much of an ExtremeDoormat to say no]].
* The heroine of ''Webcomic/TheNonAdventuresOfWonderella'' will of course state this.
* Marigold in ''Webcomic/QuestionableContent'' is a [[VideoGame/WorldOfWarcraft World of Warcraft-playing]] YaoiFangirl with zero boyfriends to her name, who admits that she has "never seen a dick". She later manages to find a sort-of boyfriend or two ... at least one of whom, Dale, [[http://questionablecontent.net/view.php?comic=2567 is himself a rather nerdy [=WoW-playing=] virgin.]] The trope is averted as of [[http://questionablecontent.net/view.php?comic=2639 this strip]], where[[spoiler: Marigold and Dale hook up]].
* In the [[MrAltDisney Whimsy]] arc of ''Webcomic/SkinHorse'', the group [[http://skin-horse.com/2013/function-was-how/ needs]] a "total, inexperienced, never-been-kissed virgin" to play the role of a princess, and they turn to Nick. In fairness to Nick, he is a cyborg with the body of a helicopter. Actually, even Nick can make jokes about nerd virginity: [[http://skin-horse.com/comic/meet-and-plenty/ "Is this the reality filter kicking in, or are you that desperate?"]]
* Ruby in ''Webcomic/StickyDillyBuns'' is something of a nerd and clearly a virgin. Admittedly, she has [[FreudianExcuse significant issues]] in addition to her relatively subtle nerdiness.
* Openly ''subverted'' in ''Webcomic/TheWordWeary''. The main characters play Dungeons and Dragons and are open nerds, but have active sex lives.
* ''WebComic/GirlsWithSlingshots'' has Joshua, who although has good social skills and has confessed having experienced sex (with man despite being straight, and hookers), he admits never being in a relationship before.
* ''Webcomic/SaturdayMorningBreakfastCereal'':
** "All who enter must prove they have renounced all love, desire, and pleasures of the flesh..." *holds up D&D Player's Handbook* "[[http://www.smbc-comics.com/comic/2006-01-19 You may pass.]]"
** Later subverted with [[http://www.smbc-comics.com/comic/2006-12-14 the usual flair]].
* ''WebComic/SomethingPositive'' includes a few jokes of this caliber, but [[http://www.somethingpositive.net/sp10082006.shtml most explicitly]] with the "[[ScareEmStraight Hell House]]" arc.
-->'''Fred''': Wait. You don't want teenagers havin' sex but you don't want 'em playin' ''TableTopGames/DungeonsAndDragons'' either? Isn't that like sayin' you don't want 'em to get sick [[HilariousInHindsight but you'd hate to see them get vaccinations]]?

[[folder:Web Original]]
* Website/ThatGuyWithTheGlasses:
** [[WebVideo/BumReviews Chester A. Bum]] noted this in his review of the new ''Film/StarTrek''.
** Averted with most of the TGWTG crew though. Creator/DougWalker is married, his brother is married, Linkara is married, and Spoony and Lindsay have all been in long-term relationships.
** ''WebVideo/AskThatGuyWithTheGlasses'' had this answer to the ''Franchise/StarWars'' special editions and the famous TheDogShotFirst scene.
--->'''Q''': Who shot first? Han or Greedo?\\
'''A''': Sleep with somebody.
* There are several copypasta stories (which probably aren't true, but you never know for sure) that involve the poster bringing a girl who is very much into him back to his place only for her to see his nerdy interests and walk out.
** In one of these stories, the girl ''worked at the comic shop the poster frequented'', where she '''sold him''' most of the nerdy stuff. Somehow things didn't click for her until she got back to his place.
** In another, [[DoubleStandard the girl was perfectly fine with the guy having a model of a race car on his shelf]], thinking he was into UsefulNotes/{{NASCAR}} or whatever, but as soon as he mentioned it was actually a Franchise/{{Transformer|s}}, "Ha ha, what a loser! I'm outta here!"
* [[WebAnimation/ZeroPunctuation Yahtzee]] alludes to this in his review of ''VideoGame/{{Catherine}}'':
-->(Increasingly amused) "... there's a moral choice aspect where you answer questions based on your own substantial experience with relationships *stifled laughter* "
** And the accompanying visual is of a fat glasses-wearing guy sitting next to a blow-up doll.
* The [[http://knowyourmeme.com/memes/involuntary-abstinence/photos Involuntary Abstinence meme]].
* In a podcast, writer David S. Goyer asked, "How many people in the audience have heard of Martian Manhunter?" After some reaction from the audience, he asked, "How many people that raised their hands have ever been laid?" (That one of the architects of the Franchise/DCExtendedUniverse expressed this view of the franchise's core audience [[http://www.themarysue.com/david-goyer-calls-she-hulk-sex-fantasy/ did not go over well]].)
* The virgin in [[http://i2.kym-cdn.com/photos/images/newsfeed/001/265/076/394.jpg "The Virgin Walk"]] and its spinoffs looks nerdy.

[[folder:Western Animation]]
* ''WesternAnimation/TheClevelandShow'': Cleveland takes Junior to a sci-fi convention, to show him what happens to guys that fail to lose their virginity. They ended up coming home with heaps of stuff from it.
** Another example from this show involves a cutaway gag about finding a rapist at a Star Trek convention. The police ask the crowd to raise their hands if they are not a virgin. The only person who does so is told he is under arrest.
* The ''Franchise/StarTrek'' episode of ''WesternAnimation/{{Futurama}}'' mentions that in Earth's past, Trekkies, after the show became a worldwide religion, were executed by being thrown into a volcano because it was "the manner best befitting virgins." Considering how many of the show's staff are themselves Trekkies, nerds or holders of advanced degrees there was a definite TakeThatUs vibe to the scene.
* On ''WesternAnimation/FamilyGuy'', a CutawayGag features an Al-Qaeda suicide bomber arriving in Heaven, excited to get his promised reward of 72 virgins. He gets 72 male nerds playing ''TabletopGame/MagicTheGathering''.
-->'''Suicide Bomber''': ''[angry SkywardScream]'' OSAAAMAAA!!
* The Comic Book Guy in ''WesternAnimation/TheSimpsons'' lost his virginity to Agnes Skinner when he was in his forties. Principal Skinner, who is pretty square himself, apparently lost his to Mrs. Krabappel when he was in his early 40s.
* One bit on ''WesternAnimation/RobotChicken'' has the Devil wondering what happened when everything in the underworld suddenly turns frigid as he's torturing victims. Cut to a bedroom with a hot blonde lying in bed and a nerd dancing around the room singing "I got laid! I got laid!"
* Like its Creator/SethMacFarlane companions, ''WesternAnimation/AmericanDad'' has this in effect with Steve, Barry, Snots, and Toshi. Many episodes have a subplot involving either Steve or Steve and his friends trying to overcome their nerdiness and get some.
* ''WesternAnimation/{{Daria}}'':
** Both [[IntelligenceEqualsIsolation Daria]] and her artsy best friend [[CoolLoser Jane]] end the series as virgins; of the other notable characters in their grade, the only one not implied to have sex is [[ExtravertedNerd Upchuck]]. There was an episode where Daria and [[TallDarkAndSnarky Tom]] almost have sex, but Daria [[LetsWaitAWhile can't go through with it]].
** Interestingly {{Inverted}} with Daria's popular, boy-crazy sister [[LovableLibby Quinn]], who is implied to have a ParalyzingFearOfSexuality. In fact, there's not really any indication that anyone in [[GirlPosse the Fashion Club]] has had sex.