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* OutOfFocus: In the fifth and final season, all main characters except the titular Bob and Abishola are demoted to recurring characters.
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* {{Retool}}: A very minor one. Since season three, less emphasis has been placed on Bob's weight, since Billy Gardell had to undergo bariatric surgery to prevent serious health complications. He now weighs around 200 pounds (in ''Mike & Molly'', he was around 320).
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* UnseenNoMore:
** Lorraine Wheeler (Bob's ex-wife) and Tayo Adebambo (Abishola's husband) are mentioned early on, but don't appear onscreen until "Sock Wife" and "The Wrong Adebambo" respectively.
** Ebunoluwa goes from being mentioned only (season one), to [[TheFaceless having only part of her face seen via webcam]] (season two), to being fully shown (season three onward).
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** Seeing as Kemi is old enough to have three grown children, grandchildren and a deceased husband, she's likely much older than Chukwuemeka. Kemi mentions that Ogeche objects to her age, further corroborating this.

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** Seeing as Kemi is old enough to have three grown children, grandchildren and a deceased husband, she's likely much older than Chukwuemeka. Kemi mentions that Ogeche objects to her age, further corroborating this. According to "My Successful Lawyer Son" Chukwuemeka is only three years older than Kemi's son.
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* DeadPersonConversation: In [[Recap/BobHeartsAbisholaS4E02BiblesToBrothels "Bibles to Brothels"]], Bob has a conversation with his late father, Max (Creator/JoelMurray).

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* HiddenDepths: Ebunoluwa is as deeply religious as the rest of her family, and chafes at any challenge to the status quo. However, Bob brings up the story of Job, who went through a TraumaCongaLine because God made a bet with Satan that his faith could withstand it. Bob wonders why God would make a bet with Satan in the first place, and after a pause, she admits that that's always bugged her, too. The fact that she's willing to admit to questioning the Bible in any capacity is a surprise, given how devout and traditional she is.

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* HiddenDepths: HiddenDepths:
** Bob speaks fluent Mandarin, and is rather more cultured than you might think. He also sacrificed a ''lot'' to help take care of his family, which is part of what wins Abishola over.
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Ebunoluwa is as deeply religious as the rest of her family, and chafes at any challenge to the status quo. However, Bob brings up the story of Job, who went through a TraumaCongaLine because God made a bet with Satan that his faith could withstand it. Bob wonders why God would make a bet with Satan in the first place, and after a pause, she admits that that's always bugged her, too. The fact that she's willing to admit to questioning the Bible in any capacity is a surprise, given how devout and traditional she is.is.
** Goodwin is a hard-ass at work, and talks about how important it is to be tough on your kids, but he's clearly devoted to his family. While on a road trip, Bob finds out he reads them a bedtime story every night, and has ''Literature/GoodnightMoon'' memorized so well that he can recite it to the kids over the phone in Nigerian. Not that he'll let anyone else know, of course.
--->'''Bob:''' ''(watching from outside the door)'' That's really sweet.\\
'''Goodwin:''' This is private! Go back in the bathroom!


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* VitriolicBestBuds: Bob has this dynamic with Wati, one of [=MaxDot=]'s suppliers in Malaysia. They argue and snipe at each other, especially when it comes to business, but Bob always asks about Wati's family, and Wati misses him dearly when [[spoiler:he retires in Season Four. He complains that Goodwin yells at him, and admits it was different when Bob did it]].

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* ExiledToTheCouch: A case of being exiled to someone else's couch. Auntie Olu throws out Uncle Tunde for supporting Bob instead of Chukwuemeka. Bob is happy to accommodate him and he even bonds with Dottie.

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A case of being exiled to someone else's couch. Auntie Olu throws out Uncle Tunde for supporting Bob instead of Chukwuemeka. Bob is happy to accommodate him and he even bonds with Dottie.Dottie.
** Bob is exiled to the couch by Abishola in "Kicked Outta the Dele Club" due to sticking up for Dele when he changed his hairstyle.
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* BewareTheNiceOnes: Bob is normally a very kind and understanding man, but when he does get angry, he's downright scary as shown in "I'll sleep when I'm dead".

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* BewareTheNiceOnes: Bob is normally a very kind and understanding man, but when he does get angry, he's downright scary as shown in "I'll sleep when Sleep When I'm dead".Dead".
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* ArmorPiercingQuestion: When Dele changes his hair without Abishola's permission, she ''flips out'', grounding him and taking away his phone. When Bob challenges her on this, she points out her mother was always harsh and strict with her. He pointedly asks, "Didn't you guys have a period where you didn't speak?" and asks if Abishola really wants Dele to feel about her the way she feels about Ebunoluwa. She realizes no, she really, ''really'' doesn't, and un-grounds Dele.


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* ShutUpHannibal: Bob is mostly accommodating to Ebunoluwa, no matter how annoying she gets, but when he and Abishola are in a fairly serious argument about Dele, and Ebu tries to butt in, he shuts her down with a polite but firm, "Excuse me, I'm trying to have a discussion with my wife."


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* ToughLove: Abishola's method of raising Dele, just as Ebunoluwa raised her. Deconstructed, as Abishola is often ''way'' too hard on Dele despite him being a really good kid, and she and her mother don't really get along. She reveals to Dele that once, as a teenager, she snuck out to go clubbing, but someone stole her purse, leaving her unable to get home. She was so scared of her mother's wrath that she decided to hitch a ride with a ''complete stranger'' rather than call her. Nothing bad happened and she got home safe, but as an adult, she realizes that she got ''seriously'' lucky, and she doesn't ever want Dele to be so scared of her that he would endanger himself rather than admit his mistakes to her.
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* InnocentBigot:
** Dottie is pretty ignorant about other cultures and says some racially insensitive things about Nigeria, among other places, but despite her general personality, it doesn't seem to be out of malice, and she does get better after spending more time with Abishola. Douglas still wisely tells her to watch her mouth before she meets his Latina, working-class girlfriend, though.
** Abishola, Kemi, Tunde, and Olu all have pretty outdated views on homosexuality (more so Tunde and Olu, but even Kemi and Abishola genuinely believe Morineke being gay is super unusual and should be kept secret--albeit, partially for her own safety). However, none of them actually hate gay people; they're just from a country that has made homosexuality a criminal offense and don't know any gay people themselves, so they're all a bit ignorant about it. When Morineke comes out and Tunde and Olu decide to support her, they invite a gay neighbor over in a well-meaning but misguided attempt to help her make a friend from her own community.

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* ParentsAsPeople: Abishola's efforts to properly raise Dele are a prominent part of the story, especially when it comes to her traditional Nigerian sensibilities clashing with American culture, and Dele's growing free-spiritedness and independence. She's far from perfect, often being strict and too harsh, but she clearly loves her son very much and ultimately wants him to be successful and financially stable, seeing that as the key to a good, happy life. Abishola is also fully fleshed out beyond her role as a mother; her other family, romantic life, career aspirations, and friendships all receive a lot of focus as part of her character arc, meaning she's never defined solely by being a parent.



* WhamEpisode:
** "Ralph Lauren and Fish" Bob and Abishola finally have a real date. And Dottie has a stroke.
** "God Accepts Venmo", the season two finale. Bob and Abishola are set to get married, but [[spoiler:Tayo will not allow Dele to attend and wants to keep him in Nigeria for good.]]
** "Beard in Her Pulpit", the season three finale. [[spoiler:After being denied a large yearly bonus, Goodwin begins to feel unappreciated at [=MaxDot=] and seeks employment from the company Christina now works for.]]
** "Bibles to Brothels", [[spoiler:Bob finally decides to retire from [=MaxDot=]. And Goodwin, who was quickly let go from his new job, is finally named the new president of the company]].


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* WhamEpisode:
** "Ralph Lauren and Fish" Bob and Abishola finally have a real date. And Dottie has a stroke.
** "God Accepts Venmo", the season two finale. Bob and Abishola are set to get married, but [[spoiler:Tayo will not allow Dele to attend and wants to keep him in Nigeria for good.]]
** "Beard in Her Pulpit", the season three finale. [[spoiler:After being denied a large yearly bonus, Goodwin begins to feel unappreciated at [=MaxDot=] and seeks employment from the company Christina now works for.]]
** "Bibles to Brothels", [[spoiler:Bob finally decides to retire from [=MaxDot=]. And Goodwin, who was quickly let go from his new job, is finally named the new president of the company]].
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* {{Yandere}}: Christina, full stop. She stabbed her ex-husband and apparently has a Valentine's Day tradition of crying and screaming outside his camper. Then she gets involved with Kofo, which starts out innocently enough, with the two coming up with more enticing names for their products, but it quickly turns to flirting and then to full-on stalking. She even bakes a cake shaped like Kofo's face and is very insistent that he eat it, and he alone (Kofo mentioned that he let Goodwin try some, and Christina was not at all happy about it). This creeps him out so much that Bob and Douglas send her off to a psychiatric resort that she'd already been to at least once before and to keep Goodwin and Kofo quiet, send them on a paid vacation to an island. Then while at the resort, Christina finds a new man named Randy, which makes Kofo jealous.
* UnusualEuphemism: After she and Bob have some ''very'' good sex before she goes to work, Abishola brags to her friends that she had "''two'' good mornings."

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* UnusualEuphemism: After she and Bob have some ''very'' good sex before she goes to work, Abishola brags to her friends that she had "''two'' good mornings."
* {{Yandere}}: Christina, full stop. She stabbed her ex-husband and apparently has a Valentine's Day tradition of crying and screaming outside his camper. Then she gets involved with Kofo, which starts out innocently enough, with the two coming up with more enticing names for their products, but it quickly turns to flirting and then to full-on stalking. She even bakes a cake shaped like Kofo's face and is very insistent that he eat it, and he alone (Kofo mentioned that he let Goodwin try some, and Christina was not at all happy about it). This creeps him out so much that Bob and Douglas send her off to a psychiatric resort that she'd already been to at least once before and to keep Goodwin and Kofo quiet, send them on a paid vacation to an island. Then while at the resort, Christina finds a new man named Randy, which makes Kofo jealous.
* UnusualEuphemism: After she and Bob have some ''very'' good sex before she goes to work, Abishola brags to her friends that she had "''two'' good mornings."
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* {{Yandere}}: Christina, full stop. She stabbed her ex-husband and apparently has a Valentine's Day tradition of crying and screaming outside his camper. Then she gets involved with Kofo, which starts out innocently enough, with the two coming up with more enticing names for their products, but it quickly turns to flirting and then to full-on stalking. She even bakes a cake shaped like Kofo's face and is very insistent that he eat it, and he alone (Kofo mentioned that he let Goodwin try some, and Christina was not at all happy about it). This creeps him out so much that Bob and Douglas send her off to a psychiatric resort that she'd already been to at least once before and to keep Goodwin and Kofo quiet, send them on a paid vacation to an island. Then while at the resort, Christina finds a new man named Randy, which makes Kofo jealous.

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* {{Yandere}}: Christina, full stop. She stabbed her ex-husband and apparently has a Valentine's Day tradition of crying and screaming outside his camper. Then she gets involved with Kofo, which starts out innocently enough, with the two coming up with more enticing names for their products, but it quickly turns to flirting and then to full-on stalking. She even bakes a cake shaped like Kofo's face and is very insistent that he eat it, and he alone (Kofo mentioned that he let Goodwin try some, and Christina was not at all happy about it). This creeps him out so much that Bob and Douglas send her off to a psychiatric resort that she'd already been to at least once before and to keep Goodwin and Kofo quiet, send them on a paid vacation to an island. Then while at the resort, Christina finds a new man named Randy, which makes Kofo jealous.jealous.
* UnusualEuphemism: After she and Bob have some ''very'' good sex before she goes to work, Abishola brags to her friends that she had "''two'' good mornings."

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* ObfuscatingDisability: Dottie was disabled for a while due to her stroke, but she continued the charade long after she'd regained her ability to walk. The truth comes out when she's caught by Douglas, though he kept quiet about it for a while.


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* ObfuscatingDisability: Dottie was disabled for a while due to her stroke, but she continued the charade long after she'd regained her ability to walk. The truth comes out when she's caught by Douglas, though he kept quiet about it for a while.
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* NotSoDifferentRemark: Abishola asks Pastor Falade not to pursue her mother, since she's married. Falade assures Abishola that nothing has happened physically, and adds that he's surprised Abishola objects. After all, didn't she ''also'' fall for someone and start a relationship with him while still married to her estranged spouse? This makes Abishola rethink her stance, and she decides to back off, especially since Falade makes her mother happy.

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* HollywoodAtheist: "A Big, White Thumb" centers around Abishola wanting Bob to attend church with her. Bob is hesitant to do so because he's not religious (despite having prayed to God when [[spoiler:Dottie had her stroke]], which he dismisses as a "foxhole" moment). When Tunde asks if Bob's an atheist, Bob says that he wouldn't use that word, instead he'd say he's "sensible" and spends the rest of the dinner taking potshots at their Christian faith. He later apologizes and give church a chance, but still isn't convinced to follow religion. Abishola clearly has a problem with Bob's lack of belief, but Bob tells her that while he's not sure if there's a God, he does believe in miracles, hence how the two ended up together.

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* HollywoodAtheist: "A Big, White Thumb" centers around Abishola wanting Bob to attend church with her. Bob is hesitant to do so because he's not religious (despite having prayed to God when [[spoiler:Dottie Dottie had her stroke]], stroke, which he dismisses as a "foxhole" moment). When Tunde asks if Bob's an atheist, Bob says that he wouldn't use that word, instead he'd say he's "sensible" and spends the rest of the dinner taking potshots at their Christian faith. He later apologizes and give church a chance, but still isn't convinced to follow religion. Abishola clearly has a problem with Bob's lack of belief, but Bob tells her that while he's not sure if there's a God, he does believe in miracles, hence how the two ended up together.



* MistakenForCheating: After being thrown out by Olu and crashing at Bob's house, Tunde bonds with Dottie and when Olu finds out, she is not at all happy about it and goes over to demand that Tunde return home. Dottie reassures Olu that nothing like that is going on and since she's just [[spoiler:had a stroke]], Dottie couldn't do anything with Tunde even if she wanted to.

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* MistakenForCheating: After being thrown out by Olu and crashing at Bob's house, Tunde bonds with Dottie and when Olu finds out, she is not at all happy about it and goes over to demand that Tunde return home. Dottie reassures Olu that nothing like that is going on and since she's just [[spoiler:had had a stroke]], stroke, Dottie couldn't do anything with Tunde even if she wanted to.



* ObfuscatingDisability: Dottie was disabled for a while due to her stroke, but she continued the charade long after she'd regained her ability to walk. The truth comes out when she's caught by Douglas, though he kept quiet about it for a while.



* RacistGrandma: Bob's mother Dottie says very racially insensitive things, such as referring to Asians as "chopstick people" and suggesting that Bob take Abishola out to some place she'd be more comfortable--where they eat with their fingers. [[InnocentBigot None of it is said in a malicious way, though]]. She seems to have overcome this following [[spoiler:her stroke]] and getting to know Abishola, Tunde and Olu. Based on what we hear, Bob's late father Max was pretty racist himself, not allowing non-white workers to be supervisors.

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* RacistGrandma: Bob's mother Dottie says very racially insensitive things, such as referring to Asians as "chopstick people" and suggesting that Bob take Abishola out to some place she'd be more comfortable--where they eat with their fingers. [[InnocentBigot None of it is said in a malicious way, though]]. She seems to have overcome this following [[spoiler:her stroke]] her stroke and getting to know Abishola, Tunde and Olu. Based on what we hear, Bob's late father Max was pretty racist himself, not allowing non-white workers to be supervisors.



** "Ralph Lauren and Fish" Bob and Abishola finally have a real date. And [[spoiler:Dottie has a stroke.]]

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** Goodwin has been promised Bob's position when he retires, but that's probably ages away, and now, he's still a relatively low-level worker who doesn't get a bonus, despite being one of the longest-lasting and most dedicated employees. [[spoiler:At the end of Season Three, he gets sick of it and goes to work with Christina, who completely sympathizes. Unfortunately, Christina was forced to lay Goodwin off mere days later and Bob, due to both guilt and dissatisfaction with his job, decides to finally retire and makes Goodwin the new president of [=MaxDot=]]].

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** Goodwin has been promised Bob's position when he retires, but that's probably ages away, and now, he's still a relatively low-level worker who doesn't get a bonus, despite being one of the longest-lasting and most dedicated employees. [[spoiler:At the end of Season Three, he gets sick of it and goes to work with Christina, who completely sympathizes. Unfortunately, Fortunately, Christina was forced to lay Goodwin off mere days later and Bob, due to both guilt and long time dissatisfaction with his job, decides to finally retire and makes Goodwin the new president of [=MaxDot=]]].



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** Goodwin has been promised Bob's position when he retires, but that's probably ages away, and now, he's still a relatively low-level worker who doesn't get a bonus, despite being one of the longest-lasting and most dedicated employees. [[spoiler:At the end of Season Three, he gets sick of it and goes to work with Christina, who completely sympathizes.]]

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** Goodwin has been promised Bob's position when he retires, but that's probably ages away, and now, he's still a relatively low-level worker who doesn't get a bonus, despite being one of the longest-lasting and most dedicated employees. [[spoiler:At the end of Season Three, he gets sick of it and goes to work with Christina, who completely sympathizes.]] Unfortunately, Christina was forced to lay Goodwin off mere days later and Bob, due to both guilt and dissatisfaction with his job, decides to finally retire and makes Goodwin the new president of [=MaxDot=]]].



* FamilyBusiness: [=MaxDot=] Therapeutic Hosiery. The company was created by Max and Dottie Wheeler. Their son Bob is the current president, Douglas is head of Human Resources (at least until Dottie demotes him to the factory floor in order to teach him responsiblity) and Christina is head of sales (until she quit the company altogether because no one took her seriously).

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* FamilyBusiness: [=MaxDot=] Therapeutic Hosiery. The company was created by Max and Dottie Wheeler. Their son Bob is the current president, president ([[spoiler:He would eventually retire in season four, with Goodwin taking his place]]), Douglas is head of Human Resources (at least until Dottie demotes him to the factory floor in order to teach him responsiblity) and Christina is head of sales (until she quit the company altogether in season three because no one took her seriously).


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* GoodAdulteryBadAdultery:
** Abishola is still married to Tayo at the start, which is one reason she's hesitant to take up with Bob. However, given that Tayo isn't a very nice person, and that he basically abandoned her and Dele, Abishola eventually deciding to date Bob anyway is portrayed as a good thing, and she eventually divorces Tayo so she can marry Bob. Plus, Tayo has already started another family with a new woman.
** [[spoiler:Ebunoluwa is implied to be starting an affair with Pastor Falade. Much like Abishola and Tayo, Ebunoluwa's husband is emotionally distant and uncaring, to the point of barely talking to her. Thus, her developing feelings for someone who pays attention to her, is emotionally available, and enjoys talking with her is seen as understandable.]]
** By contrast, Bob's ex-wife Lorraine, who cheated on him with his best friend, gets no narrative sympathy. Her excuse is that Bob was MarriedToTheJob, which, while not an inaccurate point, still isn't seen as a valid reason to cheat on him, especially since Bob is overall a NiceGuy.


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* SympatheticAdulterer: Technically, Abishola. Her husband Tayo hasn't even lived on the same continent as her in years, and now has children with another woman in Nigeria. He's also generally a {{jerkass}}, making it easier to root for Abishola to date Bob even while she's still married. (Muddying the waters a bit is that polygamy ''is'' legal in some parts of Nigeria, although only for men.)
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** Abishola's husband Tayo Adebambo. He abandoned Abishola and Dele because he was unable to strike it rich in America and returned to Nigeria, marrying another woman. He comes back eight years later, but only because he's jealous and doesn't want Abishola to move on. He won't divorce her, even though he doesn't love her. At least until Olu and Tunde chew him out and finally drive him to agree to a divorce. He treats Dele even worse than Abishola, Tunde and Olu do. Even though Abishola is against Dele's dream of being a dance choreographer, she still let him dance because he enjoys it as long as it remains nothing more than a hobby. Tayo is against the dancing altogether because it isn't manly and he forbids Dele from doing it. If all that wasn't bad enough, [[spoiler:he convinces Dele to spend the summer with him in Nigeria, but won't let him return home for Bob and Abishola's wedding and wants him to stay in Nigeria for good]]. He is completely unlikable, making it even easier to root for Bob.

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** Abishola's husband Tayo Adebambo. He abandoned Abishola and Dele because he was unable to strike it rich in America and returned to Nigeria, marrying another woman.woman and having more children. He comes back eight years later, but only because he's jealous and doesn't want Abishola to move on. He won't divorce her, even though he doesn't love her. At least until Olu and Tunde chew him out and finally drive him to agree to a divorce. He treats Dele even worse than Abishola, Tunde and Olu do. Even though Abishola is against Dele's dream of being a dance choreographer, she still let him dance because he enjoys it as long as it remains nothing more than a hobby. Tayo is against the dancing altogether because it isn't manly and he forbids Dele from doing it. If all that wasn't bad enough, [[spoiler:he convinces Dele to spend the summer with him in Nigeria, but won't let him return home for Bob and Abishola's wedding and wants him to stay in Nigeria for good]]. He is completely unlikable, making it even easier to root for Bob.



* StrawVegetarian: While Bob is being rushed into the hospital during his heart attack, Christina comments that maybe now he'll stop eating defenseless animals. Though she is shown eating chili in "The Cheerleader Leader" and since Bob cooked it for the whole family, it most likely isn't vegetarian chili.

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* StrawVegetarian: While Bob is being rushed into the hospital during his heart attack, Christina comments that maybe now he'll stop eating defenseless animals. Though she is shown eating chili in "The Cheerleader Leader" and since Bob cooked it for the whole family, it most likely isn't vegetarian chili. She's also seen eating [=McDonald's=] food with the family in a later episode.

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* FamilyBusiness: [=MaxDot=] Therapeutic Hosiery. The company was created by Max and Dottie Wheeler. Their son Bob is the current president, Douglas is head of Human Resources (at least until Dottie demotes him to the factory floor in order to teach him responsiblity) and Christina is head of sales (until she quit the company because no one took her seriously).

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* FamilyBusiness: [=MaxDot=] Therapeutic Hosiery. The company was created by Max and Dottie Wheeler. Their son Bob is the current president, Douglas is head of Human Resources (at least until Dottie demotes him to the factory floor in order to teach him responsiblity) and Christina is head of sales (until she quit the company altogether because no one took her seriously).



** "Beard in Her Pulpit", the season three finale. [[spoiler:After being denied a large yearly bonus, Goodwin begins to feel unappreciated at [=MaxDot=] and seeks employment from the company Christina now works for.]]



** Bob and Abishola. Bob is middle-aged and overweight while Abishola is younger and quite stunning. Bob's personality no doubt helps. Also, he lost a lot of weight in the third season, making their gap in attractiveness less prominent.
** This was also the case with Abishola and her ex-husband Tayo, who is average-looking at best, not to mention very chauvinistic even for Nigerian standards.

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** Bob and Abishola. Bob is middle-aged and overweight while Abishola is younger and quite stunning. Bob's personality no doubt helps. Also, he lost a lot of weight in the third season, making their gap in attractiveness less prominent.
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** This was also the case with Abishola and her ex-husband Tayo, who is average-looking at best, not to mention very chauvinistic even for by Nigerian standards.
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* TwoTimingWithTheBestie: Bob's first marriage fell apart when his ex-wife Lorraine had an affair with his best friend Gary. As of the start of the series, he is no longer speaking to either one of them.
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* DudeWheresMyRespct: The higher-ups at [=MaxDot=] have an unfortunate habit of not always giving employees their due. Dottie especially, but even the usually-nice Bob isn't immune.

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* CoolUncle: Douglas and Christina happily chat about how they'll get to be the fun uncle and aunt to Dele once Bob and Abishola are officially married. They're both more than glad to bend some of Abishola's rules when Dele's with them, such as letting him have junk food or play video games.

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** Christina in particular reveals herself to be a Cool Aunt. When Dele has anxiety about disappointing his family by not wanting to be a doctor, it's Christina's advice he seeks. Christina lets Bob know Dele's with her so he knows the kid's safe, but doesn't rat him out to Abishola and helps him think about what he really wants for his future and find the strength to talk to his mother about how he feels.


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* TheCuckoolanderWasRight: When Dele's feeling unsure about his future and can't bring himself to talk to Abishola about it, Christina tries to help by giving him a tarot reading. While he considers tarot to be nonsense, Dele appreciates the effort, and smiles when she tells him the card he pulls symbolizes inner strength and bravery, admitting he does feel better. And soon after, he actually does put his foot down with Abishola and ask for space to figure things out for himself without her constant pressure, meaning Christina's tarot reading may have been the confidence boost he needed.


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* DudeWheresMyRespct: The higher-ups at [=MaxDot=] have an unfortunate habit of not always giving employees their due. Dottie especially, but even the usually-nice Bob isn't immune.
** Christina jumps ship when she realizes no one there respects her or her ideas. Any time she tries to contribute to the company and actually earn her paycheck, she's usually told to shut up and stop getting in the way. She even admits to Dele she had to leave because her resentment of Dottie was starting to get murderous.
** Goodwin has been promised Bob's position when he retires, but that's probably ages away, and now, he's still a relatively low-level worker who doesn't get a bonus, despite being one of the longest-lasting and most dedicated employees. [[spoiler:At the end of Season Three, he gets sick of it and goes to work with Christina, who completely sympathizes.]]


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* NiceGuy: While sometimes InnocentlyInsensitive, Bob is a very kind man who usually just wants to help. Even when faced with Abishola's {{jerkass}} ex Tayo or her controlling mother, he does his level best to be polite... though they sometimes make that difficult.


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* SingleWomanSeeksGoodMan: The thing that ultimately wins Abishola over is that Bob is that he's an unfailingly decent NiceGuy who supports her and respects her unconditionally. Compared to her first husband, it's a welcome change.
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* HiddenDepths: Ebunoluwa is as deeply religious as the rest of her family, and chafes at any challenge to the status quo. However, Bob brings up the story of Job, who went through a TraumaCongaLine because God made a bet with Satan that his faith could withstand it. Bob wonders why God would make a bet with Satan in the first place, and after a pause, she admits that that's always bugged her, too. The fact that she's willing to admit to questioning the Bible in any capacity is a surprise, given how devout and traditional she is.
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* AfraidOfBlood: In "Wrangling a Greased Pig", Abishola takes Dele to work with her, and forces him to watch an operation. Dele is unable to stand the sight of blood and gore, causing him to vomit. Abishola is forced to accept that Dele can't be a doctor.
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* UglyGuyHotWife:
** Bob and Abishola. Bob is middle-aged and overweight while Abishola is younger and quite stunning. Bob's personality no doubt helps. Also, he lost a lot of weight in the third season, making their gap in attractiveness less prominent.
** This was also the case with Abishola and her ex-husband Tayo, who is average-looking at best, not to mention very chauvinistic even for Nigerian standards.
** Bob's ex-wife Lorraine was also slightly out of his league when it comes to looks, but since she cheated on Bob with his best friend, it's safe to say that he's more beautiful than her where it counts.
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* HappilyMarried:
** As of the start of Season Three, Bob and Abishola.
** Tunde and Olu have their problems, but are overall extremely stable and affectionate. Tunde even refused to take a second wife when they couldn't conceive, despite everyone in their families pressuring him to, because he loves Olu and ''only'' Olu.
* HappyMarriageCharade: Ebunoluwa and Abishola's father. Abishola thought they were happy, but Ebunoluwa, [[ItMakesSenseInContext thinking she's speaking to her own mother from beyond the grave]], reveals that she's been quietly miserable for ''years'', to the point where she doesn't want to go back to Nigeria because that would mean going back to living with her husband. Gloria speculates that they hid it so the wouldn't upset Abishola. This revelation suggests a lot of Ebunoluwa's attitude stems from envy that Abishola had the courage to kick her own deadbeat husband to the curb and find love with Bob, and that her sister Olu married an ''incredibly'' devoted and caring man in Tunde.


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* MoodWhiplash: After Abishola's mother overstays her welcome, she and Kemi call her and pretend to be the ghost of her deceased mother in order to persuade her to leave. The scene starts off over-the-top and hilarious... until Abishola's mother, on the edge of tears, says she can't go back to her husband, and reveals that the union is completely loveless and he hasn't talked to her or touched her in years. Abishola and Kemi are both stunned by this revelation, with Abishola in particular shaken to her core, as she had no idea her parents were anything but happy.
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* BewareTheNiceOnes: Bob is normally a very kind and understanding man, but when he does get angry, he's downright scary as shown in "I'll sleep when I'm dead".

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