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* In ''Manga/BloomIntoYou'', Chie Yuzuki, Sayaka's sempai and ex-girlfriend, seems to believe they are(or at least ''can be'') AmicableExes, since she apologizes for making Sayaka like girls, and acts relieved when Sayaka [[StealthInsult says she has no idea why she fell in love with Chie]].



** All-Might seems to view Endeavor as an acquaintance. However, Endeavor hates him and always brushes him off due to his desire to [[UnknownRival one-up him]]. That being said, [[spoiler:after All Might is forced into retirement and Endeavor becomes the #1 Hero as a result of that, Endeavor's hatred for All Might seems to have died down, since he's willing to ask All Might for advice (something he'd never have considered before).]]

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** All-Might All Might seems to view Endeavor as an acquaintance. However, Endeavor hates him and always brushes him off due to his desire to [[UnknownRival one-up him]]. That being said, [[spoiler:after All Might is forced into retirement and Endeavor becomes the #1 Hero as a result of that, Endeavor's hatred for All Might seems to have died down, since he's willing to ask All Might for advice (something he'd never have considered before).]]


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* Downplayed with Mitsuki and Kanoko in ''Manga/YuriIsMyJob''. Mitsuki doesn't think she and Kanoko are friends, but doesn't seem to be aware that Kanoko is jealous of Mitsuki's closeness to Kanoko's best friend, Hime.

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* ''WesternAnimation/TheSimpsons:'' Flanders is always friendly to Homer, despite all the times he tells him to shut up or go away and borrows his stuff without returning them and has either fantasized or actively plotted to make his life miserable and doesn't even bothers to keep it a secret. However, if Flanders is truly oblivious varies DependingOnTheWriter since there are some episodes that show Ned is fully aware of how much Homer dislikes him, but puts up with it for the sake of being a good Christian.

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Flanders is always friendly to Homer, despite all the times he tells him to shut up or go away and borrows his stuff without returning them and has either fantasized or actively plotted to make his life miserable and doesn't even bothers to keep it a secret. However, if Flanders is truly oblivious varies DependingOnTheWriter since there are some episodes that show Ned is fully aware of how much Homer dislikes him, but puts up with it for the sake of being a good Christian.Christian.
** Martin believed that he was popular with his classmates, when in actuality, they find him annoying and laugh at him when he gets humiliated. He learns this the hard way in ''Bart Gets An F'' when Bart offers to help make him more popular in exchange for helping him study.



* On ''WesternAnimation/InvaderZim'', Zim himself is completely blind to the fact that his entire species hates him, due to his insanity and big ego [[IRejectYourReality tainting his view of reality]].

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* On ''WesternAnimation/InvaderZim'', Zim himself is completely blind to the fact that his entire species hates him, due to his insanity and big ego [[IRejectYourReality tainting his view of reality]].reality]], and because during Operation Impending Doom 1, he nearly destroyed the Irken's home planet.
* Todd from ''WesternAnimation/CodeMonkeys'' [[SmallNameBigEgo claims he is the best developer at Game-O-Vision, he is very attractive, and is adored by his co-workers]]. In actuality, his games are no better or worse than anybody else's, he's an obese nerd, and his co-workers find his ego annoying. The only characters who tolerate him are Jerry or (DependingOnTheWriter) Black Steve.

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** All-Might seems to view Endeavor as an acquaintance. However, Endeavor hates him and always brushes him off due to his desire to [[UnknownRival one-up him]].
** Toga seems to think Ochako and Tsuyu are her friends, despite being an AxCrazy SerialKiller with a serious case of BloodLust. Tsuyu even tells her not to use a FirstNameBasis with her since she only lets her friends do it, but she doesn't comply.

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** All-Might seems to view Endeavor as an acquaintance. However, Endeavor hates him and always brushes him off due to his desire to [[UnknownRival one-up him]].
him]]. That being said, [[spoiler:after All Might is forced into retirement and Endeavor becomes the #1 Hero as a result of that, Endeavor's hatred for All Might seems to have died down, since he's willing to ask All Might for advice (something he'd never have considered before).]]
** Toga Himiko Toga, a member of the League of Villains, seems to think Ochako and Tsuyu are her friends, despite being an AxCrazy SerialKiller with a serious case of BloodLust. Tsuyu even tells her not to use a FirstNameBasis with her since she only lets her friends do it, but she doesn't comply.


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* In ''Manga/UselessPrincesses'', since Nanaki Fujishiro repeatedly picked on Kanade Kurokawa for being plain-looking, the fact that Kurokawa doesn't like Fujishiro should have been completely obvious. However, when Fujishiro discovers that her boyfriend is cheating on her, and said boyfriend cruelly dumps her after being caught, Kurokawa says that anyone would feel sad about being treated that way by the person they love. Fujishiro misinterprets that as Kurokawa trying to be nice to her in spite of their past history, while Kurokawa bears a grudge against her. Kurokawa doesn't try to correct Fujishiro, though, and they eventually do become friends.
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* ''WesternAnimation/DannyPhantom'': Throughout their lives since college, Jack always saw Vlad as his best friend and practically idolized the guy, unaware of the sheer hatred Vlad felt towards him for causing the accident that hospitalized him and gave him his powers, as well as for marrying Maddie, the woman Vlad wanted for himself.

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* ''WesternAnimation/DannyPhantom'': Throughout their lives since college, Jack always saw Vlad as his best friend and practically idolized the guy, unaware of the sheer hatred Vlad felt towards him for causing the accident that hospitalized him and gave him his powers, as well as for marrying Maddie, the woman Vlad wanted for himself. Only in the GrandFinale did Jack finally see what Vlad truly is.



** Stewart seems to believe Beavis and Butt-head are his best friends, despite how often they bully, insult, and get him into trouble. This is shown in the clipshow SeriesFauxnale where his flashback remembering the duo had them hanging out like old friends and talking like they came out of an episode of ''Series/LeaveItToBeaver.''

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** Stewart seems to believe Beavis and Butt-head are his best friends, despite how often they bully, insult, and get him into trouble. This is shown in the clipshow SeriesFauxnale where his flashback remembering the duo had them hanging out like old friends and talking like they came out of an episode of ''Series/LeaveItToBeaver.''''Series/LeaveItToBeaver''.

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* [[RobotGirl Arale]] from ''Manga/DoctorSlump''. [[MadScientist Dr. Mashirito]] wants to kill her and openly tells her to her face, but she just thinks of him as an another playmate. She has a moment of clarity in the second movie, but apparently just forgot about it later on. Towards the end of the anime, both Senbei and Obotchaman know about Mashirito's bad intentions, but she's still as oblivious as ever.




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* ''Series/{{Blackadder}} the Third:'' Prince George is completely clueless as to how much his entire country hates him. Parliament votes him a budget to spend on booze for the explicit purpose of drinking himself to death, and what he hears as "We hail Prince George!" is in fact "We hate Prince George!".


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* ''Series/{{Blackadder}} the Third:'' Prince George is completely clueless as to how much his entire country hates him. Parliament votes him a budget to spend on booze for the explicit purpose of drinking himself to death, and what he hears as "We hail Prince George!" is in fact "We hate Prince George!".
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* ''Literature/WingsOfFire'': Fatespeaker is convinces the other "false" dragonets are her friends, though they actually hate her and are happy when their next task assigned by Morrowseer allows them to potentially kill her.
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** When they first meet during the first round of the Celestic Cup, Flash very clearly dislikes Timber due to him [[GreenEyedMonster flirting with Twilight]]. Timber however never seems to pick up on this, even when Flash is challenges him to a duel, they get into an argument during it, and Flash tells for him to [[GetOut go away]] once it is over. When Timber reunited with Flash and Twilight in the sequel at the party before the final round, he acts as if he and Flash are old friends, when Flash is clearly annoyed at seeing him again.

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** When they first meet during the first round of the Celestic Cup, Flash very clearly dislikes Timber due to him [[GreenEyedMonster flirting with Twilight]]. Timber however never seems to pick up on this, even when Flash is challenges him to a duel, they get into an argument during it, and Flash tells for him to [[GetOut go away]] once it is over. When Timber reunited with Flash and Twilight in the sequel at the party before the final round, he acts as if he and Flash are old friends, when Flash is clearly annoyed at seeing him again.
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* ''WesternAnimation/DannyPhantom'': Throughout the original series, Jack always saw Vlad as his best friend and practically idolized the guy, unaware of the sheer hatred Vlad felt towards him for causing the accident that hospitalized him and gave him his powers, as well as for marrying Maddie, the woman Vlad wanted for himself.

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* ''WesternAnimation/DannyPhantom'': Throughout the original series, their lives since college, Jack always saw Vlad as his best friend and practically idolized the guy, unaware of the sheer hatred Vlad felt towards him for causing the accident that hospitalized him and gave him his powers, as well as for marrying Maddie, the woman Vlad wanted for himself.
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* ''WesternAnimation/{{Futurama}}'': Sometimes Dr. Zoidberg is oblivious about his TheFriendNobodyLikes status, and thinks all his co-workers are his close friends. In "The Six Million Dollar Mon", he's genuinely shocked when Hermes tells him he's not his friend, even if Hermes openly hates Zoidberg more than anyone and is always verbal about it. Yet the same episode implies he's subconsciously aware of it [[SelfDeprecation with his spot-on impression of what Hermes would say to him.]]

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* ''WesternAnimation/{{Futurama}}'': Sometimes Dr. Zoidberg is oblivious about his TheFriendNobodyLikes status, to being TheFriendNobodyLikes, and thinks all his co-workers are his close friends. In "The Six Million Dollar Mon", he's genuinely shocked when Hermes tells him he's not his friend, even if Hermes openly hates Zoidberg more than anyone and is always verbal about it. Yet the same episode implies he's subconsciously aware of it [[SelfDeprecation with his spot-on impression of what Hermes would say to him.]]

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* On ''WesternAnimation/InvaderZim'', Zim himself is completely blind to the fact that his entire species hates him, due to his insanity and big ego [[IRejectYourReality tainting his view of reality]].
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* ''WesternAnimation/{{Futurama}}'': Sometimes Dr. Zoidberg is oblivious about his TheFriendNobodyLikes status, and thinks all his co-workers are his close friends. In "The Six Million Dollar Mon", he's genuinely shocked when Hermes tells him he's not his friend, even if Hermes openly hates Zoidberg more than anyone and is always verbal about it.

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* ''WesternAnimation/{{Futurama}}'': Sometimes Dr. Zoidberg is oblivious about his TheFriendNobodyLikes status, and thinks all his co-workers are his close friends. In "The Six Million Dollar Mon", he's genuinely shocked when Hermes tells him he's not his friend, even if Hermes openly hates Zoidberg more than anyone and is always verbal about it. Yet the same episode implies he's subconsciously aware of it [[SelfDeprecation with his spot-on impression of what Hermes would say to him.]]
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* ComicBook/TheJoker's relationship with Batman is this, DependingOnTheWriter. Sometimes, he views his crime spree on Gotham and Batman's attempts to stop him as a game, despite the serious damage he often causes. Other times, he does seem to hate him just as much, but doesn't really show it outside of finding ways to torment Batman.

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* ComicBook/TheJoker's relationship with Batman is this, DependingOnTheWriter. Sometimes, he views his crime spree on Gotham and Batman's attempts to stop him as a game, despite the serious damage he often causes. Other times, he does seem actually seems to hate him just as much, but doesn't really show it outside of finding ways to torment Batman.
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* ComicBook/TheJoker's relationship with Batman is this, DependingOnTheWriter. Sometimes, he views his crime spree on Gotham and Batman's attempts to stop him as a game, despite the serious damage he often causes.

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* ComicBook/TheJoker's relationship with Batman is this, DependingOnTheWriter. Sometimes, he views his crime spree on Gotham and Batman's attempts to stop him as a game, despite the serious damage he often causes. Other times, he does seem to hate him just as much, but doesn't really show it outside of finding ways to torment Batman.
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** When they first meet during the first round of the Celestic Cup, Flash very clearly dislikes Timber due to him [[GreenEyedMonster flirting with Twilight]]. Timber however never seems to pick up on this, even when Flash is challenges him to a duel, they get into an argument during it, and Flash tells for him to [[GetOut go away]] once it is over. When Timber reunited with Flash and Twilight in the sequel at the party before the final round, he acts as if he and Flash are old friends, when Flash is clearly annoyed at seeing him again.
** Flash's parents, Trail Blazer and Misty Veil, both considered Sombra to be a close friend of theirs. Sombra however [[spoiler:never liked Trail at all, believing him to be interfering with his attempts to ask out Misty himself. When Misty ended up marrying Trail instead of Sombra, Sombra saw it as a betrayal from both of them. Neither of them ever realized how bitter he felt towards them both until he prepares to sacrifice them both to begin the return of the Doom-Vaders]].
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* ComicBook/{{Catwoman}}: {{Deconstruction}}. Selina's childhood friend Sylvia Sinclair had a deep hatred for her because when they were teenagers working the streets together as prostitutes, Sylvia took Selina's place during their first time so Selina wouldn't have to go through with it. Selina didn't know how to handle Sylvia after the incident or attempt to comfort her, causing Sylvia to develop a deep hatred of Selina because she felt Selina abandoned her. Despite their shaky history - and also that in the past during a heist gone bad, Selina was forced to leave Sylvia to be arrested - Selina was in the dark about Sylvia's hatred for her and trusted her, even considering Sylvia her closest childhood friend. Sylvia abuses that trust by revealing her identity to her enemy Black Mask, who kidnaps Selina's little sister Maggie and her husband Simon Burton. Simon is tortured to death, while Maggie is tortured to insanity.
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* ''WesternAnimation/DannyPhantom'': Throughout the original series, Jack always saw Vlad as his best friend and practically idolized the guy, unaware of the sheer hatred Vlad felt towards him for causing the accident that hospitalized him and gave him his powers, as well as for marrying Maddie, the woman Vlad wanted for himself.
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-->'''Scorpia:''' Catra left me in charge! She said "Scorpia, even you can't screw this up." Isn't she sweet?

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She said "Scorpia, even you can't screw this up." ''Even me!'' Isn't she sweet?
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* ''WesternAnimation/TheLegendOfKorra'': Prince Wu is a rather sweet person and genuinely friendly, who considers New Team Avatar (Korra, Asami, and Mako) the best friends he has. However, Wu's bratty, ditsy, and overtly flirtatious attitude makes it hard for them to do more than tolerate him. It seems Wu is in the dark on how his behavior annoys them. He does get better as the season progresses. By the end of the season, Mako and Korra have warmed up to him and are proud of his decision to dissolve the monarchy.

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* ''WesternAnimation/TheSimpsons:''
** Flanders is always friendly to Homer, despite all the times he tells him to shut up or go away and borrows his stuff without returning them and has either fantasized or actively plotted to make his life miserable and doesn't even bothers to keep it a secret. However, if Flanders is truly oblivious varies DependingOnTheWriter since there are some episodes that show Ned is fully aware of how much Homer dislikes him, but puts up with it for the sake of being a good Christian.
** In the episode "Homer's Enemy", while wallowing in Moe's Bar that [[SomebodyDoesntLoveRaymond Frank Grimes (the titular enemy) hates him]], Moe tells him that many other people in town also hate him (and it's implied that one of them is Moe himself). Homer doesn't listens.

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''WesternAnimation/TheSimpsons:'' Flanders is always friendly to Homer, despite all the times he tells him to shut up or go away and borrows his stuff without returning them and has either fantasized or actively plotted to make his life miserable and doesn't even bothers to keep it a secret. However, if Flanders is truly oblivious varies DependingOnTheWriter since there are some episodes that show Ned is fully aware of how much Homer dislikes him, but puts up with it for the sake of being a good Christian.
** In the episode "Homer's Enemy", while wallowing in Moe's Bar that [[SomebodyDoesntLoveRaymond Frank Grimes (the titular enemy) hates him]], Moe tells him that many other people in town also hate him (and it's implied that one of them is Moe himself). Homer doesn't listens.
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* ''WesternAnimation/TheSimpsons:'' Flanders is always friendly to Homer, despite all the times he tells him to shut up or go away and borrows his stuff without returning them. However, if Flanders is truly oblivious varies DependingOnTheWriter since there are some episodes that show Ned is fully aware of how much Homer dislikes him, but puts up with it for the sake of being a good Christian.

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** In the episode "Homer's Enemy", while wallowing in Moe's Bar that [[SomebodyDoesntLoveRaymond Frank Grimes (the titular enemy) hates him]], Moe tells him that many other people in town also hate him (and it's implied that one of them is Moe himself). Homer doesn't listens.
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* ''WesternAnimation/{{Futurama}}'': Sometimes Dr. Zoidberg is oblivious about his TheFriendNobodyLikes status, and thinks all his co-workers are his close friends. In "The Six Million Dollar Mon" he's genuinely shocked when Hermes tells him he's not his friend, even if Hermes openly hates Zoidberg more than anyone and is always verbal about it.

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A sub-trope of MutuallyUnequalRelation. Oblivious to Hatred is when a character, usually TheDitz, a CloudCuckoolander, or has a SmallNameBigEgo, is blissfully unaware of how much another character hates them, despite how blatant they are about their feelings. This trope can often result in either an InsultBackfire or InsultMisfire.

When a character does become aware of the other's dislike for them, it turns into SomebodyDoesntLoveRaymond. For when a character can't accept that another isn't in love with them, see MadLove. Compare UnknownRival and contrast ObliviousToLove.

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A sub-trope of MutuallyUnequalRelation. Oblivious to Hatred is when a character, usually TheDitz, a CloudCuckoolander, or has a SmallNameBigEgo, or is a HorribleJudgeOfCharacter, is blissfully unaware of how much another character hates them, despite how blatant they are about their feelings. This trope can often result in either an InsultBackfire or InsultMisfire.

When a character does become aware of the other's dislike for them, it turns into SomebodyDoesntLoveRaymond. For when a character can't accept that another isn't in love with them, see MadLove. Compare UnknownRival and contrast ObliviousToLove.
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* ''WesternAnimation/BeavisAndButthead:'' Stewart seems to believe Beavis and Butt-head are his best friends, despite how often they bully, insult, and get him into trouble. This is shown in the clipshow SeriesFauxnale where his flashback remembering the duo had them hanging out like old friends and talking like they came out of an episode of ''Series/LeaveItToBeaver.''

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** On the other hand, Beavis and Butt-head want to be friends with Todd, despite how often he bullies, insults, beats them up, and gets them into trouble. They don't mind being assaulted by him, and they think he only does it because he is "cool".


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* ''WesternAnimation/SpongeBobSquarePants:'' Squidward notoriously loathes [=SpongeBob=], but no matter how blunt he is, Bob can never seem to get the picture.

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* [[Characters/StevenUniverseStevenQuartzUniverse Steven]] in ''WesternAnimation/StevenUniverse'' is an AllLovingHero with an optimistic streak that borders on ignorance, so he usually ignores Lars' vitriolic behavior.
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* ''WesternAnimation/TheSimpsons:'' Flanders is always friendly to Homer, despite all the times he tells him to shut up or go away and borrows his stuff without returning them. However, this seems to be a case of DependingOnTheWriter since there are some episodes that show Ned is fully aware of how much Homer dislikes him, but puts up with it for the sake of being a good Christian.

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* ''WesternAnimation/TheSimpsons:'' Flanders is always friendly to Homer, despite all the times he tells him to shut up or go away and borrows his stuff without returning them. However, this seems to be a case of if Flanders is truly oblivious varies DependingOnTheWriter since there are some episodes that show Ned is fully aware of how much Homer dislikes him, but puts up with it for the sake of being a good Christian.
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* ''Manga/OnePunchMan:'' Puri Puri Prisoner's fellow prisoners hate him for all the abuse he put them through, to the point that they willingly become monsters just for the chance to kill him. He is completely oblivious to this when they finally meet in the Monster Association base, and promises to save them even after they outright tell him that they hate his guts and don't want to be saved.
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Bob hates Aerith. He makes it very clear that he hates her. However, for some reason, no matter how blunt he is with her, she is not only unaware that he hates her, but actually thinks they're friends.

A sub-trope of MutuallyUnequalRelation. Oblivious to Hatred is when a character, usually TheDitz, a CloudCuckoolander, or has a SmallNameBigEgo, is blissfully unaware of how much another character hates them, despite how blatant they are about their feelings. This trope can often result in either an InsultBackfire or InsultMisfire.

When a character does become aware of the other's dislike for them, it turns into SomebodyDoesntLoveRaymond. For when a character can't accept that another isn't in love with them, see MadLove. Compare UnknownRival and contrast ObliviousToLove.

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* ''Manga/BlueExorcist:'' Shiemi seems to be this at first with Izumo. She tries to be her friend, but Izumo would often insult her for her attempts. However, by the Impure King arc, it's revealed that she's fully aware of what she thinks of her, but still wants to help her and be her friend.
* ''Manga/FruitsBasket:'' Kagura is madly in love with Kyo, but she tends to be violent when overcome with her emotions. Because of this, Kyo can't stand her, but she can never seem to take the hint.
* ''Manga/MyHeroAcademia:''
** All-Might seems to view Endeavor as an acquaintance. However, Endeavor hates him and always brushes him off due to his desire to [[UnknownRival one-up him]].
** Toga seems to think Ochako and Tsuyu are her friends, despite being an AxCrazy SerialKiller with a serious case of BloodLust. Tsuyu even tells her not to use a FirstNameBasis with her since she only lets her friends do it, but she doesn't comply.
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* ComicBook/TheJoker's relationship with Batman is this, DependingOnTheWriter. Sometimes, he views his crime spree on Gotham and Batman's attempts to stop him as a game, despite the serious damage he often causes.
* ComicBook/PoisonIvy: Another case of DependingOnTheWriter, Ivy is often depicted as having such a [[VillainessesWantHeroes delusional infatuation with Batman]] that she is completely unaware of how he really feels about her. Some portrayals indicate that she sees herself as a princess of sorts, waiting for her knight (Batman) to free her from her prison (Arkham), without really comprehending the fact that ''he's'' the person who sent her there in the first place. Other stories have her claim that Batman's [[ILoveYouBecauseICantControlYou ability to resist her mind control]] indicates that he has strong feelings for her without her drugs to induce it. And others have her interpret [[ThouShaltNotKill Batman's tendency to]] [[SaveTheVillain save her life]] (even from accidents of her own making) as a tacit admission that he does "love" her on some level. Some stories even indicate that she sees ComicBook/{{Catwoman}} and [[ComicBook/RasAlGhul Talia al Ghul]] as rivals for Batman's affections. However, while Batman definitely has been tempted by raw physical attraction to Ivy ([[LivingAphrodisiac because anyone remotely attracted to women is]]), [[AGodAmI her goddess complex]], megalomania and disregard for human life utterly disgust him.
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* In ''FanFic/NeitherABirdNorAPlaneItsDeku'', Izuku is completely oblivious to how much Bakugou's cat, Dexter, despises him. He insists they're friends even as the cat does nothing but bite, scratch, and throw toys at him. Izuku continues to deny it even after Bakugou tells him flatly to his face that Dexter hates him.
* In ''FanFic/AmazingFantasy,'' Tsukauchi wonders if All Might is faking ignorance of Endeavor's animosity for him to avoid creating tension or if he actually has no clue.
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* ''Series/{{Blackadder}} the Third:'' Prince George is completely clueless as to how much his entire country hates him. Parliament votes him a budget to spend on booze for the explicit purpose of drinking himself to death, and what he hears as "We hail Prince George!" is in fact "We hate Prince George!".
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* In some productions of ''Theatre/JosephAndTheAmazingTechnicolorDreamcoat,'' Joseph is portrayed as being cheerfully oblivious to how much his brothers resent his status as the favored son. Jacob also has no idea how much his favoritism towards Joseph enrages his other sons, to the point that when they sell Joseph into slavery and tell Jacob that he was killed in a fight with a goat, he sees no reason not to believe their obviously ridiculous story.
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* This is Fighter and Black Mage's relationship in a nutshell in ''WebComic/EightBitTheatre.'' Fighter thinks he and Black Mage are the best of friends, but Black Mage hates Fighter's guts (primarily due to Fighter being for the most part dumb as a box of rocks). Black Mage even attempts to kill Fighter on more than one occasion.
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* ''Machinima/RedVsBlue:'' Caboose thinks Church is his best friend, but Church despises Caboose due to his dangerous stupidity, which had gotten him killed and turned into a ghost ([[spoiler: or an AI as it's later revealed]]).
* ''WebVideo/DragonBallZAbridged:'' Goku thinks that he and Vegeta are friends, despite Vegeta's not-so-subtle hatred for him. He even tells Goku to fuck off when he claims they're friends, to which he responds "the best."
* ''Machinima/FinalFantasyVIIMachinabridged:'' A rare example when the resident JerkAss is this. Tifa spends the majority of season 1 belittling and threatening Cloud, something he makes all to clear he doesn't appreciate when he occasionally [[TheDogBitesBack verbally retaliates]]. At the end of season 1, she reveals that despite all that, she still believed Cloud had any ounce of respect for her, which triggers Cloud's RageBreakingPoint, leading to him delivering a huge ReasonYouSuckSpeech.
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* ''WesternAnimation/SpongeBobSquarePants:'' Squidward notoriously loathes [=SpongeBob=], but no matter how blunt he is, Bob can never seem to get the picture.
* ''WesternAnimation/TheSimpsons:'' Flanders is always friendly to Homer, despite all the times he tells him to shut up or go away and borrows his stuff without returning them. However, this seems to be a case of DependingOnTheWriter since there are some episodes that show Ned is fully aware of how much Homer dislikes him, but puts up with it for the sake of being a good Christian.
* ''WesternAnimation/SheRaAndThePrincessesOfPower:'' Scorpia is always friendly, and at times, motherly, with Catra. However, Catra openly finds her annoying and incompetent, something Scorpia sees as just her playing around.
* ''WesternAnimation/BeavisAndButthead:'' Stewart seems to believe Beavis and Butt-head are his best friends, despite how often they bully, insult, and get him into trouble. This is shown in the clipshow SeriesFauxnale where his flashback remembering the duo had them hanging out like old friends and talking like they came out of an episode of ''Series/LeaveItToBeaver.''
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