History Main / MyGirlIsaSlut

* In ''VideoGame/TheHayseedKnight'', Ader falls in love with Sep, a high-class courtesan. She reciprocates, considering him her "favorite", but warns him she isn't going to be able to be faithful to him, nor does she want to be. He says that he doesn't mind, and considers any other potential lovers she takes as "keeping the bed real warm for me".

* Downplayed, if not outright subverted, with Kathy in ''VisualNovel/DaughterForDessert''. While in a relationship with the protagonist, Kathy still has sex with women (and sometimes brings them into her sessions with the protagonist), but she is never shown or spoken to be sleeping with other men at any time in the story.

* [[GenderInvertedTrope Gender-inverted]] in ''ComicBook/StarWarsLegacy''. Cade Skywalker's primary LoveInterest Deliah Blue is a Zeltron, whose [[PlanetOfHats hat]] is being [[SmellsSexy pheromonal]] empathic [[GreenSkinnedSpaceBabe Pink-Skinned Space Babes]] that believe in FreeLoveFuture. As such, she doesn't appear to mind him sleeping around as long as she knows about it (there's a brief scene where the two of them are shown frolicking with several other Zeltron women), she'd just ''really'' rather it not include [[EvilIsSexy Darth Talon]].

* Sasha Hartford of ''Webcomic/{{Housepets}}'' is a good example. She is very laissez-faire with regards to the relationships she's been involved in, frequently looking to snuggle with other dogs while carrying on a relationship with a boyfriend. A good early example is her openly showing then-boyfriend Bino [[http://www.housepetscomic.com/comic/2008/09/08/shes-not-the-best-one-to-ask/ an invitation to have his older brother Fido's puppies]]. Even with her later boyfriend, police dog, Kevin, [[http://www.housepetscomic.com/2016/01/01/lady-in-mondegreen/ he never seemed to mind her being admired by other dogs.]] But it seems she simply sees a difference between casual and romantic relationships. She is of the belief she can have one-off liaisons with other dogs, and separately have a romantic relationship with one dog. Bino didn't like that, but Kevin doesn't mind. In fact, he didn't even mind Sasha chasing Fox's tail [[http://www.housepetscomic.com/comic/2018/12/19/trapped-in-the-shower/ until Fox revealed he had a crush on her.]] That's when both Kevin and Sasha put their footpaws down.

** {{Downplayed}} between Yajima and Kurisu. While Kurisu is a gravure model and occasionally does soft-core porn photo shoots, her modelling opportuities are rare because her freckled face and her biracial ethnicity[[note]]she's only half-Japanese[[/note]] makes her unappealing to most Japanese men. None of which stopped Yajima from developing a crush on her. They officially become a couple by the end of chapter 28.

* ''Manga/BootyRoyaleNeverGoDownWithoutAFight'': Hatsumi Hime records Misora having sex with Akira on a hidden camera and uses it to extort sex from Misora as well. Misora tells Akira immediately after... who promptly jumps her bones, finding it a turn-on. It's shown later that Akira doesn't mind sharing Misora with other women in the slightest.

This applies to both sexes. Both men and women fall in love, are tempted to cheat on their partners, and feel jealousy when they suspect their partners are cheating on them. If you know that someone has had sex with many different people, this makes them attractive for a one-night-stand, because it suggests that it will be easy to get them into bed and that they will probably be good in it, but it makes them poor prospects for a long-term relationship; they didn't "settle down" with anyone else, so they probably won't settle down with you. Conversely, someone who has carefully guarded their "innocence" is more likely to remain faithful once in a relationship, but they aren't going to settle for anything less than True Love, either. Again, this, too, applies to both sexes. Both men and women tend to categorize potential mates along these lines, according to what is often referred to as the [[MadonnaWhoreComplex "virgin/whore dichotomy"]]. In other words, in spite of its other benefits, sleeping around will tend to make it harder to find a steady, long-term relationship.

* Fujiko Mine to Arsene Lupin III in ''Anime/LupinIII''. They actually did try settling down prior to ''Anime/LupinIIIPart5'' but both of them found it too restrictive and dull, so they soon went back to their promiscuous ways.

* GenderFlipped in ''ComicBook/StarWarsLegacy''. Cade Skywalker's primary LoveInterest Deliah Blue is a Zeltron, whose [[PlanetOfHats hat]] is being [[SmellsSexy pheromonal]] empathic [[GreenSkinnedSpaceBabe Pink-Skinned Space Babes]] that believe in FreeLoveFuture. As such, she doesn't appear to mind him sleeping around as long as she knows about it (there's a brief scene where the two of them are shown frolicking with several other Zeltron women), she'd just ''really'' rather it not include [[EvilIsSexy Darth Talon]].

* In ''Film/{{Caddyshack}}'' Danny becomes infatuated with Lacey and he becomes more attracted to her after Maggie tells him about [[ReallyGetsAround her reputation]]. Lacey later [[ThePornomancer picks up Danny and takes him to bed]]. The two [[CoitusEnsues are then making love]]. During [[ModestyBedsheet their pillow talk]], Lacey's giggling shows approval of what he just said after Danny tells her:

* In ''Fanfic/IzukusProHeroHaremLife'', Izuku has absolutely '''''no''''' qualms with Ochako or any of the harem members having sex with each other within the polycule or about their sexual history before entering it, and in a [[GenderFlipped gender flipped]] [[ExaggeratedTrope exaggeration]], [[GoodBadGirl Ochako]] ''actively encourages'' Izuku to pick up ''more'' girls many times.

* Kenny from ''WesternAnimation/SouthPark'' is quite overjoyed to learn his girlfriend is a "slut" in the episode "The Ring". It didn't make him happy when she became "born again". [[OnceDoneNeverForgotten The girlfriend in question had performed oral sex on one boy.]] Kenny was trying to make it two. He succeeded, [[DeathBySex but he died of syphilis after.]] Knowing the character, still WorthIt.

Contrast, obviously enough, MyGirlIsNotASlut, and, not so obviously, AllWomenAreLustful. Compare {{Polyamory}}, BeAWhoreToGetYourMan, EthicalSlut, {{Netorare}}, SexIsGood and GoodBadGirl. Can/does overlap with ThePornomancer, ReallyGetsAround and [[ChickMagnet Dude Magnet]].

This can sometimes be TruthInTelevision. [[https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Swinging_(sexual_practice) Swingers]] are people in committed relationships that have sex with other people that are also in the swinging lifestyle. In an open relationship, the partners are permitted to have sex outside of the relationship with whomever they wish, though it is usually understood to be "just sex." {{Polyamory}} takes this a step farther, with multiple romantic relationships allowed, as long as consideration is given to the feelings of all involved. And there are [[http://www.epjournal.net/filestore/ep021223.pdf various other reasons]] why a partner's infidelity, or the potential for infidelity, might make a someone ''more'' interested rather than less. [[Wiki/{{Wikipedia}} The Other Wiki]] [[https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Troilism has an article]] on the subject. (The polyamorous community also employs the term [[https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Polyamory#Compersion compersion]] for an empathetic experience of happiness and joy an individual experiences when another individual experiences the same emotions; this can occur not merely in the context of sex but also romantic relationships. Compersion often coexists with jealousy because relationships are complex.)

* Wrestling/{{Edge}} didn't like people calling Wrestling/{{Lita}} a slut, but he would gladly let her have sex with other people if it helped him win or keep a title belt... of course Edge would also let physical harm come to Lita to save his own skin and she, kind of just took it.

Except in fiction. Some writers generally want to have characters that have sex, and a lot of it, with many different people. Sexual jealousy, and the desire not to provoke it in others, provides a reason for characters not to have sex, so it tends to be one of those things that get [[HandWave swept under the rug]]. Or, in some cases, less {{HandWave}}d and more [[{{Demonization}} actively constructed as bad]]: often because of an erroneous assumption that jealousy inevitably leads to DomesticAbuse (it doesn't, the reasons for abuse are ''very complicated''). In these stories, it's often the case that a man falls in love with a woman as a long-term partner ''specifically because'' she [[ReallyGetsAround is promiscuous]], and even encourages her to sleep with other men after they are married. These stories take the MyGirlIsNotASlut trope, turn it upside down, throw it out the window, stomp on it, set it on fire, and then bury it at the bottom of the ocean. Their girl [[ReallyGetsAround IS a slut]], and they prefer it that way.

Although the title of this page is gendered female, it is also frequently applied to male characters. In fact, prior to the 20th Century it was almost exclusively applied to male characters because of the DoubleStandard (although the norm was always just for the woman to accept it, rather than actively encourage it). This is in no small part because of the psychological connection between male sexuality and battle prowress. A man who slept with lots of people (male or female in many societies) was presumed to be a good warrior, and vice versa. TheHero was either portrayed, or simply implied, to ReallyGetAround as evidence of his skills. Though the ChasteHero is equally OlderThanDirt, in older stories other characters will tend to assume this trope is in effect and be surprised (or even offended) by his lack of interest. Please note that use of the trope in this manner leads to the {{Unfortunate Implication|s}} that a man is not good enough unless he's getting laid constantly: a MindScrew that can cause a lot of unnecessary pain and heartache for real life men and women.

* GenderFlipped in ''ComicBook/StarWarsLegacy''. Cade Skywalker's primary LoveInterest Deliah Blue is a Zeltron, whose [[PlanetOfHats hat]] is being [[SmellsSexy pheromonal]] empathic [[BlueSkinnedSpaceBabe Pink-Skinned Space Babes]] that believe in FreeLoveFuture. As such, she doesn't appear to mind him sleeping around as long as she knows about it (there's a brief scene where the two of them are shown frolicking with several other Zeltron women), she'd just ''really'' rather it not include [[EvilIsSexy Darth Talon]].

* ''Film/{{Hobgoblins}}''. Daphne, and Amy by the conclusion.

* ''Literature/NineteenEightyFour'''s Julia. Winston even at one point says, "The more men you've been with, the more I love you." Though mostly for political reasons (the only sex allowed in the {{dystopia}} of Oceania for members of the Party is for the purpose of procreation, and only with the spouse the Party assigns you -- [[NoSexAllowed anything else along those lines is verboten]]).