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* ''TheBorgias'' depicts Lucrezia's husband raping her on a regular basis and claiming it as his right. This trope is further examined with the marriage of Gioffre Borgia and Sancia of Aragon- except it's genderswapped, with Sancia disrobing and climbing into bed on top of her alarmed (and very young) husband before he can protest...
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* In the Jodi Picoult novel HandleWithCare Sean rapes Charlotte, all the while telling her that he loves her, because he is trying to show her that [[ItMakesSenseInContext words don't always make actions any better.]]
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* [[GettingCrapPastTheRadar Implied]] in the [[TheMovie movie adaptations]] of both ''BeautyAndTheBeast'' and ''ASeriesOfUnfortunateEvents''.
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* In the 1993 movie ''What's Love Got to Do With It?'', Ike Turner pulls a type A.

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* In the 1993 movie ''What's ''[[WhatsLoveGotToDoWithIt What's Love Got to Do With It?'', It?]]'', Ike Turner pulls a type A.
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In some old patriarchal systems, a woman belonged first to her father (or closest living male relative if the father was dead) and then to her husband. Once married — and [[ArrangedMarriage in some systems]] she could be married off without her consent to some old man she despised or had never met — her husband had a legal and [[BlueAndOrangeMorality moral]] right to her body whether she liked it or not. It gets even creepier when the "bride" is [[OldManMarryingAChild underage]].

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In some old patriarchal systems, a woman belonged first to her father (or closest living male relative if the father was dead) and then to her husband. Once married — and [[ArrangedMarriage in some systems]] she could be married off without her consent to some old man she despised or had never met — her husband had a legal and [[BlueAndOrangeMorality moral]] "moral" right to her body whether she liked it or not. It gets even creepier when the "bride" bride is [[OldManMarryingAChild underage]].



* Type A is when a character or group of characters clearly are guided by this kind of morality, but this is not portrayed in a positive light. On the contrary, it is used to define them as villainous or at least severely flawed. In contemporary works, this Type A is the standard form of the trope.
* Type B is when the narrative itself buys into the morality: It is portrayed as if the woman had it coming for denying her husband his marital rights. However, she still doesn't enjoy it: If the wife seem to be happy with the forceful sex, then it's [[ItsNotRapeIfYouEnjoyedIt an entirely different trope]], and [[CasualKink yet another trope]] if they had agreed on it rather than her being okay with it retroactively. This Type B of the trope typically only comes up in older works.

All examples of this trope can be safely assumed to be Type A unless otherwise noted. The trope could as well have been named "Some Jerkass Believes That Rape Is Okay If You Are Married", if that title hadn't been so long.

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* Type A is when a character or group of characters clearly are guided by this kind of morality, but this is not portrayed in a positive light. On the contrary, it is used to define them as villainous or at least severely flawed. In contemporary works, all examples of this trope can be safely assumed to be Type A is the standard form of the trope.
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* Type B is when the narrative itself buys into the morality: It is portrayed as if the woman had it coming for denying her husband his marital rights. However, she still doesn't enjoy it: If the wife seem seems to be happy with the forceful sex, then it's [[ItsNotRapeIfYouEnjoyedIt an entirely different trope]], and [[CasualKink yet another trope]] if they had agreed on it rather than her being okay with it retroactively. This Type B of the trope typically only comes up in older works.

All examples of this trope can be safely assumed to be Type A unless otherwise noted. The trope could as well have been named "Some Jerkass Believes That Rape Is Okay If You Are Married", if that title hadn't been so long.
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You say that like it\'s a *good* thing. Two wrongs don\'t make a right.


Only a few decades ago, it was legal for a man to rape his wife. Sweden criminalized it in 1965 (in the USA it has been illegal in all states since 1993), and 53 countries around the world still don't consider it a crime[[hottip:*:Afghanistan, at least, has it more or less legal both ways - a man has a right to his wife every three days or so, while a woman has a right to her husband once a month]].

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Only a few decades ago, it was legal for a man to rape his wife. Sweden criminalized it in 1965 (in the USA it has been illegal in all states since 1993), and 53 countries around the world still don't consider it a crime[[hottip:*:Afghanistan, at least, has it more or less legal both ways - a man has a right to his wife every three days or so, while a woman has a right to her husband once a month]].
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* ''{{GonewiththeWind}}'' features a scene of Rhett Butler complaining that he doesn't get sex from his wife Scarlett followed by him roughly picking her up and running up to the bedroom with her while she attempts to fight him off. The next morning she has a big smile on her face.


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* ''Brookside'' features a storyline where Rachel Jordach is forced to have sex by her husband and the reaction of the bigoted character Ron Dixon is to say "he can't have raped her he's her husband"
* ''BarneyMiller'' has an [[http://www.hulu.com/watch/9225/barney-miller-rape episode]] where a woman comes into the police station distraught and says she's been raped. When it turns out that it was her husband, it's treated as a big joke and she ''learns her lesson'' that she should put out. Words cannot describe how cringeworthy this is now.
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** One gets the distinct feeling that a lot of the main group think the whoel thing is a sad affair - and Polgara, if anything, disapproves - if her sheer amount of sarcasm is anything to go by.
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Only a few decades ago, it was legal for a man to rape his wife. Sweden criminalized it in 1965 (in USA it has been illegal in all states since 1993), and 53 countries around the world still don't consider it a crime[[hottip:*:Afghanistan, at least, has it more or less legal both ways - a man has a right to his wife every three days or so, while a woman has a right to her husband once a month]].

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Only a few decades ago, it was legal for a man to rape his wife. Sweden criminalized it in 1965 (in the USA it has been illegal in all states since 1993), and 53 countries around the world still don't consider it a crime[[hottip:*:Afghanistan, at least, has it more or less legal both ways - a man has a right to his wife every three days or so, while a woman has a right to her husband once a month]].
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** Oh God, why did I click on [[BrainBleach the link?]]
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** Note that Jack did later acknowledge he'd done the wrong thing, following his HeelFaceTurn.
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* Type B is when the narrative itself buys into the morality: It is portrayed as if the woman had it coming for denying her husband his martial rights. However, she still doesn't enjoy it: If the wife seem to be happy with the forceful sex, then it's [[ItsNotRapeIfYouEnjoyedIt an entirely different trope]], and [[CasualKink yet another trope]] if they had agreed on it rather than her being okay with it retroactively. This Type B of the trope typically only comes up in older works.

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* Type B is when the narrative itself buys into the morality: It is portrayed as if the woman had it coming for denying her husband his martial marital rights. However, she still doesn't enjoy it: If the wife seem to be happy with the forceful sex, then it's [[ItsNotRapeIfYouEnjoyedIt an entirely different trope]], and [[CasualKink yet another trope]] if they had agreed on it rather than her being okay with it retroactively. This Type B of the trope typically only comes up in older works.
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Statutory rape is not automatically included in this trope: OldManMarryingAChild overlaps with this trope ''if and only if'' the marriage is consummated ''and'' the girl is indicated to be traumatized or unwilling. This distinction is included because some people [[MoralGuardians feel very offended]] when the marriages of [[PedophiliaIsOkayIfYouAreMuhammed historical persons]] get judged by contemporary standards and thus summarily defined as rape. No Real Life examples, please: Include only media examples, and stick to how the relationship is portrayed in that particular work.

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Statutory rape is not automatically included in this trope: OldManMarryingAChild overlaps with this trope ''if and only if'' the marriage is consummated ''and'' the girl is indicated to be traumatized or unwilling. This distinction is included because some people [[MoralGuardians feel very offended]] when the marriages of [[PedophiliaIsOkayIfYouAreMuhammed historical persons]] persons get judged by contemporary standards and thus summarily defined as rape. No Real Life examples, please: Include only media examples, and stick to how the relationship is portrayed in that particular work.
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Statutory rape is not automatically included in this trope: OldManMarryingAChild overlaps with this trope ''if and only if'' the marriage is consummated ''and'' the girl is indicated to be traumatized or unwilling. This distinction is included because some people [[MoralGuardians feel very offended]] when the marriages of historical persons get judged by contemporary standards and thus summarily defined as rape. No Real Life examples, please: Include only media examples, and stick to how the relationship is portrayed in that particular work.

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Statutory rape is not automatically included in this trope: OldManMarryingAChild overlaps with this trope ''if and only if'' the marriage is consummated ''and'' the girl is indicated to be traumatized or unwilling. This distinction is included because some people [[MoralGuardians feel very offended]] when the marriages of [[PedophiliaIsOkayIfYouAreMuhammed historical persons persons]] get judged by contemporary standards and thus summarily defined as rape. No Real Life examples, please: Include only media examples, and stick to how the relationship is portrayed in that particular work.
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* Type B is when the narrative itself buys into the morality: It is portrayed as if the woman had it coming for denying her husband his martial rights. However, she still doesn't enjoy it: If the wife seem to be happy with the forceful sex, then it's [[ItsNotRapeIfYouEnjoyedIt an entirely different trope]], and [[CasualKink yet another trope]] if they had agreed on it rather then her being okay with it retroactively. This Type B of the trope typically only comes up in older works.

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* Type B is when the narrative itself buys into the morality: It is portrayed as if the woman had it coming for denying her husband his martial rights. However, she still doesn't enjoy it: If the wife seem to be happy with the forceful sex, then it's [[ItsNotRapeIfYouEnjoyedIt an entirely different trope]], and [[CasualKink yet another trope]] if they had agreed on it rather then than her being okay with it retroactively. This Type B of the trope typically only comes up in older works.
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* {{Quills}}: Dr. Royee-Collard's first night with his young bride, who was raised in a convent. He rips off her nightgown while she is pretending to be asleep and tells her that it's her duty to give him whatever he wants. It is also heavily implied that he's a back-door kind of guy.
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* In ''Collar6'' this turns out to be the norm in [[spoiler:Laura's]] homeland in the Puritan Territories, and it's stated that [[http://collar6.com/2011/collar-6-211 men get to have their way with the woman of their choice in the hopes of conceiving a male]] because of a severe gender imbalance, and [[spoiler:Laura's]] father had a harem of sixty three women. This is contrasted with the consensual BDSM of the main setting.

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* In ''Collar6'' ''{{Collar 6}}'' this turns out to be the norm in [[spoiler:Laura's]] homeland in the Puritan Territories, and it's stated that [[http://collar6.com/2011/collar-6-211 men get to have their way with the woman of their choice in the hopes of conceiving a male]] because of a severe gender imbalance, and [[spoiler:Laura's]] father had a harem of sixty three women. This is contrasted with the consensual BDSM of the main setting.
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* In ''Collar6'' this turns out to be the norm in [[spoiler:Laura's]] homeland in the Puritan Territories, and it's stated that [[http://collar6.com/2011/collar-6-211 men get to have their way with the woman of their choice in the hopes of conceiving a male]] because of a severe gender imbalance, and [[spoiler:Laura's]] father had a harem of sixty three women. This is contrasted with the consensual BDSM of the main setting.
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**''OneLifeToLive'' had a similar storyline with Blair and Todd, though if I recall correctly, it was more morally ambiguous: it happened off-camera, but basically they had been having a fight which turned into sex as per [[BelligerentSexualTension usual TV conventions]]. Apparently Blair never directly said no, so Todd ''assumed'' it was consensual, but afterward she regarded it as a rape.
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** One quote that didn't make it into FSTDT, and this one is from a woman: ''"I disagree with the bill because I disagree that a man can rape his wife. The Bible tells me that a man’s body is his wife’s and her body is his. How could he rape her?"''

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** One quote that didn't make it into FSTDT, and this one is from a woman: [[HighOctaneNightmareFuel woman]]: ''"I disagree with the bill because I disagree that a man can rape his wife. The Bible tells me that a man’s body is his wife’s and her body is his. How could he rape her?"''
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Only a few decades ago, it was legal for a man to rape his wife. Sweden criminalized it in 1965 (in USA it has been illegal in all states since 1993), and 53 countries around the world still don't consider it a crime.

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Only a few decades ago, it was legal for a man to rape his wife. Sweden criminalized it in 1965 (in USA it has been illegal in all states since 1993), and 53 countries around the world still don't consider it a crime.
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Compare NoWomansLand.


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Compare NoWomansLand and StockholmSyndrome. Contrast RapeIsLove.
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* The focus of several ground-breaking SoapOpera plots, such as GuidingLight (Roger and Holly) and DaysOfOurLives (Jack and Kayla). True to form, both men insisted that since the women were their wives that they were completely entitled to have sex with them and there was no rape.
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In some old patriarchal systems, a woman belonged first to her father (or closest living male relative if the father was dead) and then to her husband. Once married — and [[ArrangedMarriage in some systems]] she could be married off without her consent to some old man she despised or had never met — her husband had a legal and [[BlueAndOrangeMorality moral]] right to her body whether she liked it or not. It gets even creepier when the "bride" is underage.

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In some old patriarchal systems, a woman belonged first to her father (or closest living male relative if the father was dead) and then to her husband. Once married — and [[ArrangedMarriage in some systems]] she could be married off without her consent to some old man she despised or had never met — her husband had a legal and [[BlueAndOrangeMorality moral]] right to her body whether she liked it or not. It gets even creepier when the "bride" is underage.
[[OldManMarryingAChild underage]].
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In some old patriarchal systems, a woman belonged first to her father and then to her husband. Once married — and [[ArrangedMarriage in some systems]] she could be married off without her consent to some old man she despised or had never met — her husband had a legal and [[BlueAndOrangeMorality moral]] right to her body whether she liked it or not. It gets even creepier when the "bride" is underage.

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* Hest and Alisa's marriage in [[TheRealmOfTheElderlings Dragon Keeper]] comes off a bit like this.
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* An episode of ''[[LawAndOrderSpecialVictimsUnit Law & Order: Special Victims Unit]]'' deals with a cop raping his wife after she throws a frying pan at his head (not that there's a justification for either). The cop, of course, claims it was consensual, while his precinct buddies simply say that it's not rape if it's your wife. The [=SVU=] cops go after him, after a bit of bickering, and Benson makes reference to the 1993 law.

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