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** The first ''VideoGame/BaldursGate'' has Khalid, who speaks in a PorkyPigPronunciation, and his wife Jaheira: he's perfectly happy with the situation, and the backstory reveals that his personality was like that long before he met her. They're HappilyMarried precisely because Jaheira's willingness to take charge gives him the kind of emotional support he needs.
** ''VideoGame/BaldursGateII'' has an NPC nobleman found inside the Copper Coronet, who has a wife of this kind; he's hiding from her in the back room of the establishment, along with the "escorts". The player character can force a confrontation between the two, which will lead to a CatFight to the death between the wife and one of the prostitutes, who is smitten with the nobleman.

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** The first ''VideoGame/BaldursGate'' has Khalid, who speaks in a PorkyPigPronunciation, and his wife Jaheira: he's perfectly happy with the situation, and the backstory reveals that his personality was like that long before he met her. They're HappilyMarried precisely because Jaheira's willingness to take charge gives him the kind of emotional support he needs.
needs. Unlike many of the examples on this page, Jaheira never takes things to the extent of even [[DoubleStandardAbuseFemaleOnMale "comedic" abuse]] and it's very clear she loves him, even if she is the domiant one in the relationship. [[spoiler:sShe is genuinely heartbroken in the sequel when she finds him dead and mutilated beyond the point of magical resurrection in the starter dungeon, nearly having a breakdown in shock.]]
** ''VideoGame/BaldursGateII'' has Rumar, an NPC nobleman found inside the Copper Coronet, who has a wife of this kind; he's hiding from her in the back room of the establishment, along with the "escorts". The player character can force a confrontation between the two, two as an unmarked sidequest, which will lead to a CatFight to the death between the wife and one of the prostitutes, who is smitten with the nobleman.nobleman. Because of how the game's mechanics work, it's random as to which woman will win; if the wife wins, Rumar is shocked by this side of his wife and it's ironically implied it helps strengthen their relationship. Meanwhile, if the prostitute wins, she shows signs of being just as controlling as Rumar's late wife, ordering him to follow her.
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Naturally, this can also apply to two people who are just dating, with the Henpecked Boyfriend being bossed around by his girlfriend.


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* In ''[[Fanfic/UltimateSleepwalker Ultimate Sleepwalker: The New Dreams]]'', Rick Sheridan is occasionally the Henpecked Boyfriend to Alyssa Conover, although they aren't actually dating. When they move in together, Alyssa even threatens to have him ExiledToTheCouch even though they sleep in separate beds and even ''separate bedrooms''.
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%%* Maroof the Cobbler from one ''Literature/ArabianNights'' story. Later, however, TheDogBitesBack, if you know what I mean.

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%%* * Maroof the Cobbler from one ''Literature/ArabianNights'' story. Later, however, TheDogBitesBack, if you know what I mean.His wife kicks him out of the house just because he brought home the wrong type of pastry from the marketplace. Fortunately for him, while he's outside, he finds a magic ring, which he uses to travel to another city. By the time his wife catches up to him he's married a princess and become an esteemed man of the court, so he has a house built for his first wife so that he never has to see her again.
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** Also subverted in that there are at least two occasions in the series (an argument overheard by Harry in ''Prisoner of Azkaban'', and a discussion early in ''Order of the Phoenix'') where Arthur makes it clear he can and will go against Molly's wishes if he thinks it important enough.
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* Subverted in ''Literature/LesMiserables''. People who first see [[TinyGuyHugeGirl the burly Mrs. Thenardier and her tiny husband]] tend to think that she must be the real man in the house. They are entirely wrong - Mr. Thenardier makes up for not being as big by being twice as mean, and he is in fact the only person in the world who Mrs. Thenardier fears.
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* ''Literature/ImTheEvilLordOfAnIntergalacticEmpire'': ConMan Musashi, as part of being a KarmicButtMonkey for tricking and exploiting Liam, ends up being one to a {{Yandere}} woman on a distant planet as a RunningGag.


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* ''LightNovel/TrappedInADatingSimTheWorldOfOtomeGamesIsToughForMobs'': ExaggeratedTrope. In the LadyLand FantasticCasteSystem Leon is born into, noblewomen only marry based on GoldDigger criteria and at best merely drain their husband's wealth to fund their opulent life in distant mansions alongside their {{Demihuman}} "[[SexSlave Exclusive Servant]]" lovers, best exemplified by Leon's WickedStepMother Zora. The explanation for this system, is that it was a social engineering experiment by the Royal Family to centralize authority, and reign in warlordism amongst [[FeudalFuture their vassal lords]].
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* Mexican sitcom ''Series/{{Vecinos}}'' features Arturo López Pérez, who is always at the whims of his wife Magdalena and never stands up to her. He is also the one who holds a job and takes care of the household while she just stays there enjoying their non-existent luxuries.


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* ''WebAnimation/AttackOnMika'':
** [[https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=PaL5ePbKuaQ Kazuo]] is mistreated by his wife Miho and his daughter Aika. The abuse escalates to the point he [[spoiler:divorces Miho and tells Aika that she is the daughter of another man.]]
** [[https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Lq7Gdo8zZpk Hiroshi Suzuki]] is abused by his daughter Marin and his wife Kozue for being a middle-school dropout. When he finds out that Marin [[spoiler:is actually the daughter of his old friend Benta Gakuta, Hiroshi invites him into the house to teach both his daughter and his wife a lesson.]]
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* From ''ComicBook/TheEyeOfMongombo'', we have Norbert Nuskle. He may be a {{Jerkass}} who fired [[BalefulPolymorph adventurer-turned]][[QuackingUp -duck]] Cliff Carlson and afterwards stole Cliff's map to the Temple of Mongombo, but Nuskle's own wife is extremely abusive of him.

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* From ''ComicBook/TheEyeOfMongombo'', we have Norbert Nuskle. He may be a {{Jerkass}} who fired [[BalefulPolymorph [[ForcedTransformation adventurer-turned]][[QuackingUp -duck]] Cliff Carlson and afterwards stole Cliff's map to the Temple of Mongombo, but Nuskle's own wife is extremely abusive of him.
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* ''Film/FlirtingScholar'': The main character is a handsome, wealthy man without peace at home because he is outnumbered by his eight wives. All eight are addicted to TabletopGame/{{Mahjong}} gambling, and his mother is on their side.
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* [[Film/{{Frankenstein1931 Frankenstien's Monster]] is implied to be one in ''Pinball/MonsterBash''; the Film/BrideOfFrankenstein's mode is called "Ball & Chain", during which she repeatedly hits him in the head with a FryingPanOfDoom.

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* [[Film/{{Frankenstein1931 [[Film/Frankenstein1931 Frankenstien's Monster]] is implied to be one in ''Pinball/MonsterBash''; the Film/BrideOfFrankenstein's mode is called "Ball & Chain", during which she repeatedly hits him in the head with a FryingPanOfDoom.
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* ''VideoGame/FinalFantasyXIV'' has Julyan Manderville, the beloved wife of Godbert Manderville, and one of the strongest (and scariest!) women in Eorzea. One meeting with her, and it's plain who wears the pants in their relationship (figuratively ''and'' [[WhoWearsShortShorts literally]]).

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* ''VideoGame/FinalFantasyXIV'' has Julyan Manderville, the beloved wife of Godbert Manderville, and one of the strongest (and scariest!) women in Eorzea. One meeting with her, and it's plain who wears the pants in their relationship (figuratively ''and'' [[WhoWearsShortShorts literally]]).literally).
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* ''Series/JonAndKatePlusEight'': Jon Gosselin was frequently portrayed as this on ''Series/TheSoup''. Once news broke of what their relationship was ''really'' like offscreen, Joel [=McHale=] noted that the show was "[[FunnyAneurysmMoment just kind of sad now]]."

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* ''Series/JonAndKatePlusEight'': Jon Gosselin was frequently portrayed as this on ''Series/TheSoup''. Once news broke of what their relationship was ''really'' like offscreen, Joel [=McHale=] noted that the show was "[[FunnyAneurysmMoment just "just kind of sad now]].now."
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* UsefulNotes/WuZetian made Emperor Gaozong into this, with him basically allowing her to make all the decisions and constantly wanting her advice instead of thinking for himself. He would state when asked about big decisions "Have you ever discussed with Empress Wu? what is her opinion?"
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* From ''ComicBook/TheEyeOfMongombo'', we have Norbert Nuskle. He may be a {{Jerkass}} who fired adventurer-turned-duck Cliff Carlson and afterwards stole Cliff's map to the Temple of Mongombo, but Nuskle's own wife is extremely abusive of him.

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* From ''ComicBook/TheEyeOfMongombo'', we have Norbert Nuskle. He may be a {{Jerkass}} who fired adventurer-turned-duck [[BalefulPolymorph adventurer-turned]][[QuackingUp -duck]] Cliff Carlson and afterwards stole Cliff's map to the Temple of Mongombo, but Nuskle's own wife is extremely abusive of him.
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* ''WesternAnimation/TheOwlHouse'': Downplayed with Alador Blight. He often gets dragged into [[ObnoxiousEntitledHousewife his wife's]] schemes, but it seems to be less submissiveness on his part and more that his distractible nature causes him to let her take charge. Plus, he's perfectly willing to protest when he thinks she's going too far [[spoiler: and when he argues against going back on their promise to Luz in "Escaping Expulsion", Odalia actually listens to him, instead of shutting him down.]]

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* ''WesternAnimation/TheOwlHouse'': Downplayed with Alador Blight. He often gets dragged into [[ObnoxiousEntitledHousewife his wife's]] schemes, but it seems to be less submissiveness on his part and more that his distractible nature causes him to let her take charge. In fact, he is a shrewd, cutthroat businessman himself. Plus, he's perfectly willing to protest when he thinks she's going too far [[spoiler: and when he argues against going back on their promise to Luz in "Escaping Expulsion", Odalia actually listens to him, instead of shutting him down.]]
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* ''Series/MurdochMysteries'':
** Inspector Brakenreid often finds decisions made for him by his wife, especially about their place in Society, which he couldn't care less about. It's very much the AwLookTheyReallyDoLoveEachOther kind and, given the contrast to how he orders his subordinates about, usually PlayedForLaughs (most humorously, when she tells him who to vote for, which shouldn't be the suffragettes because she doesn't understand why women don't want to leave these decisions to men).
** PlayedForDrama with Rupert and Lucinda Newsome. She's an outright sadist, who initally was attracted to how easy he was to dominate, before growing to absolutely despise him, but refuses a divorce because she wants to make him suffer. Brakenreid points out that (this being the 1900s) it's entirely his decision if he wants a divorce, to which he replies "''Legally'', yes."
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* ''Film/TheLittleDeath'': Phil is constantly belittled and called an idiot by his wife Maureen. He gets turned on by watching her sleep and later indicates it's because while asleep she doesn't do this.

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* ''Fanfic/LongTimeNoSee'': Shinji and Toji go to Nerv's reunion party, despite having no interest whatsoever, only because their wives nagged them for days. As speaking privately to Asuka, Shinji reluctantly admits he ''is'' henpecked.



* Literature/TheBible:
** Proverbs like "Better to live on the corner of a roof than to share a house with a nagging wife" seem to be speaking toward these types of people to garner some level of sympathy, although they can alternatively be interpreted as instructions for husbands to ''not'' give their wives any reason to be nagging.
** In the Literature/BooksOfKings, Ahab is a wimpy king at best, but is manipulated into outright corruption and idolatry by his domineering queen Jezebel.
* OlderThanFeudalism: In Myth/GreekMythology, one version of the Amazons had the men do all the housework and cleaning, being treated as lower than dirt all the while. The Amazon stories were generally told as moralizing inversions of patriarchal Greek life, [[ValuesDissonance possibly to emphasize how horrible women's rights would be]].

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''Literature/TheBible'':
** Proverbs ''Literature/BookOfProverbs'': Sentences like "Better to live on the corner of a roof than to share a house with a nagging wife" seem to be speaking toward these types of people to garner some level of sympathy, although they can alternatively be are also interpreted as instructions for husbands to ''not'' give their wives any reason to be nagging.
** In the Literature/BooksOfKings, ''Literature/BooksOfKings'', Ahab is a wimpy king at best, but is manipulated into outright corruption and idolatry by his domineering queen Jezebel.
* OlderThanFeudalism: In Myth/GreekMythology, one Myth/ClassicalMythology: One version of the Amazons had the men do all the housework and cleaning, being treated as lower than dirt all the while. The Amazon stories were generally told as moralizing inversions of patriarchal Greek life, [[ValuesDissonance possibly to emphasize how horrible women's rights would be]].while.



* [[Film/{{Frankenstein 1931}} Frankenstien's Monster]] is implied to be one in ''Pinball/MonsterBash''; the Film/BrideOfFrankenstein's mode is called "Ball & Chain", during which she repeatedly hits him in the head with a FryingPanOfDoom.

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* [[Film/{{Frankenstein 1931}} [[Film/{{Frankenstein1931 Frankenstien's Monster]] is implied to be one in ''Pinball/MonsterBash''; the Film/BrideOfFrankenstein's mode is called "Ball & Chain", during which she repeatedly hits him in the head with a FryingPanOfDoom.
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* ''Manga/MyMonsterSecret'' has Shiragami Genjirou, a 4-meter tall vampire with MonochromaticEyes, a scary aura, a scary voice, and a BadassBeard. His wife Touko is a sweet and loving human housewife, who protected his secret when they were at school and gently attends to his every need. Incidentally, she occasionally threatens him with a stake, a katana, or a crowbar when he fools around a bit too much (notably when he tries to drag their daughter Youko back home or tries [[OverprotectiveDad to get between her and Asahi]]), and he's utterly ''terrified'' of pissing her off. It's unknown whether she actually ''uses'' those tools though. She probably doesn't even need to.

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* ''Manga/MyMonsterSecret'' has Shiragami Genjirou, a 4-meter tall vampire with MonochromaticEyes, a scary aura, a scary voice, and a BadassBeard.ManlyFacialHair. His wife Touko is a sweet and loving human housewife, who protected his secret when they were at school and gently attends to his every need. Incidentally, she occasionally threatens him with a stake, a katana, or a crowbar when he fools around a bit too much (notably when he tries to drag their daughter Youko back home or tries [[OverprotectiveDad to get between her and Asahi]]), and he's utterly ''terrified'' of pissing her off. It's unknown whether she actually ''uses'' those tools though. She probably doesn't even need to.
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-->'''Sebarial:'''Woman, you make me the most henpecked man in all of Alethkar—\\

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-->'''Sebarial:'''Woman, -->'''Sebarial:''' Woman, you make me the most henpecked man in all of Alethkar—\\
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* In ''Film/SeanceOnAWetAfternoon'', PhonyPsychic Myra Savage dominates her husband Billy, as their house was inherited from her mother and Billy is unable to work due to chronic severe asthma. He thus puts up almost no resistance to her scheme to boost her profile as a spirit medium by kidnapping the daughter of a wealthy industrialist and then offering to locate her using her "gift", despite his reluctance to commit a criminal act. It isn't until her mental stability crumbles and she claims their son (who was stillborn) wants the girl to be with him (that is, for Billy to kill her) that he finally musters the courage to stand up to her.
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* In ''VideoGame/FurFighters'', Bungalow's wife Esmerelda is an abusive complaining harpy, and the poor guy just takes it all patiently.

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* "Head Over Heels" by Music/{{ABBA}} is sung by a woman whose friend treats her partner this way. The music video has Frida and Björn playing the couple with him carrying her bags while she shops.
-->''Each time when he speaks his mind\\
She pats his head and says "That's all very fine.\\
Exert that will of your own\\
when you're alone.\\
Now we'd better hurry."''



:: : This is also highlighted in the film version, where the teacher is forced to eat a bad piece of meat by his wife, after which the film cuts to him taking out his aggression by spanking a student, and later in "The Trial" where the main character, Pink's, embellished, imaginary version of the school teacher appears as a marionette controlled by his wife.

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:: : ** This is also highlighted in the film version, where the teacher is forced to eat a bad piece of meat by his wife, after which the film cuts to him taking out his aggression by spanking a student, and later in "The Trial" where the main character, Pink's, embellished, imaginary version of the school teacher appears as a marionette controlled by his wife.



* Music/{{Wham}}'s "Everything She Wants" is a bit vague on this trope, as the protagonist and his lover aren't explicitly said to be married, but his partner definitely treats him as such.
-->''And now you tell me that you're having my baby?\\
I'll tell you that I'm happy if you want me to.\\
But one step further, and my back will break.\\
If my best isn't good enough, then how can it be good enough for two?!''



* "Head Over Heels" by Music/{{ABBA}} is sung by a woman whose friend treats her partner this way. The music video has Frida and Björn playing the couple with him carrying her bags while she shops.
-->''Each time when he speaks his mind\\
She pats his head and says "That's all very fine.\\
Exert that will of your own\\
when you're alone.\\
Now we'd better hurry."''
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* George Putnam in ''Amelia'' is more than a little like this. They remain HappilyMarried despite what the title character puts him through because he is something of a FoolForLove.
* In ''Assassin in Love'' (a.k.a. ''The Baker''), a [[FatBastard fat slob of a woman constantly insults]] her meek husband, who [[WhatMeasureIsANonBadass doesn't have enough of a spine to defend himself]]. He turns out to be not so meek after all when he [[DisproportionateRetribution hires an assassin to have her dealt with]].

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* George Putnam in ''Amelia'' ''Film/{{Amelia}}'' is more than a little like this. They remain HappilyMarried despite what the title character puts him through because he is something of a FoolForLove.
* In ''Assassin in Love'' ''Film/AssassinInLove'' (a.k.a. ''The Baker''), a [[FatBastard fat slob of a woman constantly insults]] her meek husband, who [[WhatMeasureIsANonBadass doesn't have enough of a spine to defend himself]]. He turns out to be not so meek after all when he [[DisproportionateRetribution hires an assassin to have her dealt with]].
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* Maria's father says nothing in ''Film/StationOfTheCross'' that doesn't affirm his wife, who yells at her children and orders them around with nary a glance at her calmer husband. He seems a little troubled by his wife's behavior, but he never has the guts to say anything about it.
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* ''Literature/TheStormlightArchive'': Highprince Sebarial is an unusual version of this. While he complains about Palona running his household and telling him what to do they aren't actually married because she keeps refusing his proposals. It's also made clear that Sebarial actually enjoys the banter between them and his complaints are just for show.
-->'''Sebarial:'''Woman, you make me the most henpecked man in all of Alethkar—\\
'''Palona:''' We aren't ''in'' Alethkar.\\
'''Sebarial:''' —and I'm not even storming married!
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* In ''Literature/IggiesHouse'', this is what Winnie Bates imagines Mrs. Landon's husband to be, her being the domineering BitchInSheepsClothing in the neighborhood and him just going along with what she says.

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* In ''Literature/IggiesHouse'', this is what Winnie Bates Barringer imagines Mrs. Landon's husband to be, her being the domineering BitchInSheepsClothing in the neighborhood and him just going along with what she says.

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