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* Goku in ''DragonBall'' is fairly henpecked, despite the fact that he could break his wife Chichi in half... with his ''fingers''.

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* Goku in ''DragonBall'' is fairly a bit henpecked, despite the fact that he could break his wife Chichi in half... with his ''fingers''.



** Goku isn't nearly as henpecked as most examples on the page, at least. Usually it just seems like his easygoing personality is overpowered by Chichi's more forceful one. He's perfectly capable of defying her demands when he feels like it and often goes off to save the world while nonchalantly ignoring her protests.
** Let's not forget she forced Goku into getting a drivers licence... together with [[TheStoic Piccolo]].
-->'''Piccolo''': L-Leave me out of this!
** Please note: His son Gohan marries someone someone much more similar to himself and their relationship is far more equal than his parents. It's seems Goku's defiance of Chichi's orders had a much larger effect on their son than any of his mother's domineering ways.
** Although the bulk of Chichi's aggression is focused around Gohan, whom she would prefer not to go into battle. Given that she ''watched'' Goku's violent battle with Piccolo at the end of the first DB anime, which might have left him crippled if not for a senzu bean, it makes sense that she doesn't want to risk Gohan ending up like that.
*** Also, Gohan is much, much, much smarter than his dad.

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** Goku isn't nearly as henpecked as most examples on the page, at least.though. Usually it just seems like his easygoing personality is overpowered by Chichi's more forceful one. He's perfectly capable of defying her demands when he feels like it and often goes off to save the world while nonchalantly ignoring her protests.
** Let's not forget she forced Goku into getting a drivers licence... together with [[TheStoic Piccolo]].
-->'''Piccolo''': L-Leave me out of this!
** Please note: His son Gohan marries someone someone much more similar to himself and their relationship is far more equal than his parents. It's seems Goku's defiance of Chichi's orders had a much larger effect on their son than any of his mother's domineering ways.
** Although the bulk of Chichi's aggression and frustration is focused around Gohan, whom she would prefer not to go into battle. Given that Considering she ''watched'' Goku's violent battle with Piccolo at the end of the first DB anime, which might have left him crippled if not for a senzu bean, it makes sense that she doesn't want you can hardly blame her for not wanting her own child to risk Gohan ending up like have to deal with that.
*** Also, Gohan Not to mention, it must really suck to have your husband gone for years at a time because he goes and gets himself killed, or is much, much, much smarter than his dad.otherwise engaged in constant training or battle. As good-intentioned as Goku may be--saving the world and all--''Chichi's'' the one who is always left alone.
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* ''KeepingUpAppearances'' beat this to death, then, like Apophis in ''{{Stargate}}'', resurrected it to beat it some more.

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* ''KeepingUpAppearances'' (pictured, above) beat this to death, then, like Apophis in ''{{Stargate}}'', resurrected it to beat it some more.
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* ''ChickenRun'', appropriately, has Mr. Tweedy in this role. His wife constantly berates him for his stupidity and never believes his claims [[CassandraTruth that the chickens are plotting to escape]]. In the end, [[spoiler:when Mrs. Tweedy's "chicken pie" plan backfires, he literally slams the door on her and leaves]].
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* Battler implies that this is the sort of relationship his father and stepmother, Rudolph and Kyrie, have in ''UminekoNoNakuKoroNi''. Of course, Battler also considers his father an [[ParentingTheHusband irresponsible, philandering manchild]], so he doesn't really mind that his stepmom "has an iron grip on [Rudolph's] balls", as he puts it.
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-->'''The Doctor:''' From now on, I'll leave all the kissing to the brand new Mr. Pond.
-->'''Rory:''' Wait, what? No, I'm not Mr. Pond, [[TheMaidenNameDebate that's not how it works.]]
-->'''The Doctor:''' Yeah it is.
-->'''Rory:''' ...yeah it is]].

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-->'''The --->'''The Doctor:''' From now on, I'll leave all the kissing to the brand new Mr. Pond.
-->'''Rory:''' --->'''Rory:''' Wait, what? No, I'm not Mr. Pond, [[TheMaidenNameDebate that's not how it works.]]
-->'''The --->'''The Doctor:''' Yeah it is.
-->'''Rory:''' ...--->'''Rory:''' ...yeah it is]].
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** Driven to it's logical conclusion.
-->'''The Doctor:''' From now on, I'll leave all the kissing to the brand new Mr. Pond.
-->'''Rory:''' Wait, what? No, I'm not Mr. Pond, [[TheMaidenNameDebate that's not how it works.]]
-->'''The Doctor:''' Yeah it is.
-->'''Rory:''' ...yeah it is]].

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* Sir Samuel and Lady Sybil Vimes in ''{{Discworld}}''. The twist is that Lady Sybil cares for Sam and tries to look after him. This means making sure he eats properly and occasionally gets a day off, whether he wants it or not.
--->'''Sybil''':And you will try to look dignified, won't you?
--->'''Vimes''':Yes, dear.
--->'''Sybil''':What will you try to look?
--->'''Vimes''':Dignified, dear.
--->'''Sybil''':And please try to be diplomatic.
--->'''Vimes''':Yes, dear.
--->'''Sybil''':What will you try to be?
--->'''Vimes''':Diplomatic, dear.
--->'''Sybil''' You're using your "henpecked" voice, Sam.
--->'''Vimes''': Yes, dear.

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* Sir Samuel and Lady Sybil Vimes in ''{{Discworld}}''. The twist is that Lady Sybil cares for Sam and tries to look after him. This means making sure he eats properly and occasionally gets a day off, whether he wants it or not. \n--->'''Sybil''':And The gag is that Vimes is a BadassNormal who faces down werwolves, trolls and eldritch abominations, and the only way he can argue with his wife is by ''exaggerating'' how henpecked he is until she feels guilty:
-->'''Sybil''': And
you will try to look dignified, won't you?
--->'''Vimes''':Yes, -->'''Vimes''': Yes, dear.
--->'''Sybil''':What -->'''Sybil''': What will you try to look?
--->'''Vimes''':Dignified, -->'''Vimes''': Dignified, dear.
--->'''Sybil''':And -->'''Sybil''': And please try to be diplomatic.
--->'''Vimes''':Yes, -->'''Vimes''': Yes, dear.
--->'''Sybil''':What -->'''Sybil''': What will you try to be?
--->'''Vimes''':Diplomatic, -->'''Vimes''': Diplomatic, dear.
--->'''Sybil''' -->'''Sybil''': You're using your "henpecked" voice, Sam.
--->'''Vimes''': -->'''Vimes''': Yes, dear.
-->'''Sybil''': You know that's not fair.
-->'''Vimes''': No, dear.

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*Sir Samuel and Lady Sybil Vimes in ''{{Discworld}}''. The twist is that Lady Sybil cares for Sam and tries to look after him. This means making sure he eats properly and occasionally gets a day off, whether he wants it or not.
--->'''Sybil''':And you will try to look dignified, won't you?
--->'''Vimes''':Yes, dear.
--->'''Sybil''':What will you try to look?
--->'''Vimes''':Dignified, dear.
--->'''Sybil''':And please try to be diplomatic.
--->'''Vimes''':Yes, dear.
--->'''Sybil''':What will you try to be?
--->'''Vimes''':Diplomatic, dear.
--->'''Sybil''' You're using your "henpecked" voice, Sam.
--->'''Vimes''': Yes, dear.
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** Partially averted, in that Mary Todd Lincoln suffered from severe mental illness (possibly bipolar disorder) and was institutionalized by her own son in later life.
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* Ray from {{Everybody Loves Raymond}}. His wife virtually lives on the AbuseIsOkayWhenItsFemaleOnMale trope, she attempts to control every aspect of his life and is infuriated when he attempts to rebel, and even convinced the poor man's own children to look at him with contempt in one episode. What makes it even more infuriating is that the show always portrays the wife as being totally justified and blameless, and [[DracoInLeatherPants}} the studio audience is firmly on ''her'' side, as evidenced by the raucous cheering every time she abused Ray.]]

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* Ray from {{Everybody Loves Raymond}}. His wife virtually lives on the AbuseIsOkayWhenItsFemaleOnMale trope, she attempts to control every aspect of his life and is infuriated when he attempts to rebel, and even convinced the poor man's own children to look at him with contempt in one episode. What makes it even more infuriating is that the show always portrays the wife as being totally justified and blameless, and [[DracoInLeatherPants}} [[{{DracoInLeatherPants}} the studio audience is firmly on ''her'' side, as evidenced by the raucous cheering every time she abused Ray.]]
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* Ray from {{Everybody Loves Raymond}}. His wife virtually lives on the AbuseIsOkayWhenItsFemaleOnMale trope, she attempts to control every aspect of his life and is infuriated when he attempts to rebel, and even convinced the poor man's own children to look at him with contempt in one episode. What makes it even more infuriating is that the show always portrays the wife as being totally justified and blameless, and [[DracoInLeatherPants}} the studio audience is firmly on ''her'' side, as evidenced by the raucous cheering every time she abused Ray.]]
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* In Dylan Thomas' ''Under Milkwood'' we have Mr. Pugh and the ghosts of Mrs. Ogmore-Pritchard's two late husbands (Mr. Ogmore & Mr. Prichard); in the latter case, she continues to bully them even after they're dead!
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* Dr. Ernest Menville from ''DeathBecomesHer'', at least until he starts developing a spine. In fact, [[spoiler: he prefers suffering a near-fatal fall to being with his bothersome wife for the rest of his life]].

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* Dr. Ernest Menville from ''DeathBecomesHer'', at least until he starts developing a spine. In fact, [[spoiler: he prefers suffering a near-fatal fall to being with his bothersome wife for the rest of his life]]. However, he is fairly tall and athletic, in contrast to the physically weak part of the trope.

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** And in ''BaldursGate 2'' we have Khalid, who speaks in a PorkyPigPronunciation, and his wife Jaheira, although he seems pretty happy with the situation.

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** And in ''BaldursGate 2'' ''BaldursGate'' we have Khalid, who speaks in a PorkyPigPronunciation, and his wife Jaheira, although he seems pretty happy with the situation.situation.
*** His backstory reveals that his personality was like that from childhood, long before he met Jaheira. The two are HappilyMarried precisely because Jaheira is a mental support for him.
** The sequel has an NPC nobleman found inside the Copper Coronet, who has a wife of this kind: He's hiding from her in the back room of the establishment, along with the 'escorts'. The player character can force a confrontation between the two, which will lead to a CatFight to the death between the wife and one of the prostitutes who is smitten with the nobleman.

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* Rory of DoctorWho.
-->'''Amy:''' Do you get the feeling that you're forgetting something important, something incredibly big and monumental?
-->'''Rory:''' ...yep.
-->'''Amy:''' Are you just saying that because you're afraid of me?
-->'''Rory:''' ...yep.
-->'''Amy:''' I love you.
-->'''Rory:''' ...yep. [[CrowningMomentOfFunny Wait, no! I love you too!]]

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** "Porky's Romance", the first appearance of "Petunia Pig" in a Warner short, ran on this trope. Porky buys a box of chocolates to propose to Petunia and is thwarted by Petunia's annoying little dog repeatedly, as well as Petunia, who seems only interested in wanting to eat the chocolates. Porky, heartbroken, attempts suicide (aren't old cartoons grand?), but ends up hitting his head and imagines marrying Petunia and a sexy honeymoon period. After a "[[IncrediblyLamePun Time Munches On!]]" title card, Petunia and her dog are shown stretched out on the couch, fat as houses, and happily engorging themselves on seemingly infinite boxes of chocolates strewn all about the house, while Porky slaves away in the kitchen doing all the cooking and cleaning and caring for the children while [[LargeAndInCharge Petunia bosses him around.]]
** One really does have to wonder how the old Warner animators viewed marriage.

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** "Porky's Romance", the first appearance of "Petunia Pig" in a Warner short, ran on this trope. Porky buys a box of chocolates to propose to Petunia and is thwarted by Petunia's annoying little dog repeatedly, as well as Petunia, who seems only interested in wanting to eat the chocolates. Porky, heartbroken, attempts suicide (aren't old cartoons grand?), but ends up hitting his head and imagines marrying Petunia and a sexy honeymoon period. After a "[[IncrediblyLamePun Time Munches On!]]" title card, Petunia and her dog are shown stretched out on the couch, fat as houses, and happily engorging themselves on seemingly infinite boxes of chocolates strewn all about the house, while Porky slaves away in the kitchen doing all the cooking and cleaning and caring for the children while [[LargeAndInCharge Petunia bosses him around.]]
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**"Porky's Romance", the first appearance of "Petunia Pig" in a Warner short, ran on this trope. Porky buys a box of chocolates to propose to Petunia and is thwarted by Petunia's annoying little dog repeatedly, as well as Petunia, who seems only interested in wanting to eat the chocolates. Porky, heartbroken, attempts suicide (aren't old cartoons grand?), but ends up hitting his head and imagines marrying Petunia and a sexy honeymoon period. After a "[[IncrediblyLamePun Time Munches On!]]" title card, Petunia and her dog are shown stretched out on the couch, fat as houses, and happily engorging themselves on seemingly infinite boxes of chocolates strewn all about the house, while Porky slaves away in the kitchen doing all the cooking and cleaning and caring for the children while [[LargeAndInCharge Petunia bosses him around.]]
** One really does have to wonder how the old Warner animators viewed marriage.
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* In TheWitchOfBlackbirdPond, Goodman Adam Cruff is very much under the thumb of his wife, so far as he doesn't dare speak against her abuse of their daughter.
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Frequently in cartoons, he will be a small figure, literally overshadowed by his behemoth of a wife. Bigger than he is, she nevertheless expects him to carry all her packages when out shopping, to run all her errands, and to care for whatever snarling pet she dotes on. And he will. Many of these men long for a way to escape and/or rebel. Some try, oftentimes [[WomanScorned to their regret]]. Others are resigned to the horror of their lives.

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Frequently in cartoons, [[TinyGuyHugeGirl he will be a small figure, literally overshadowed by his behemoth of a wife.wife]]. Bigger than he is, she nevertheless expects him to carry all her packages when out shopping, to run all her errands, and to care for whatever snarling pet she dotes on. And he will. Many of these men long for a way to escape and/or rebel. Some try, oftentimes [[WomanScorned to their regret]]. Others are resigned to the horror of their lives.
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* Homer Simpson, contrary to the men hating Simpsons writers POV.

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* [[TheSimpsons Homer Simpson, contrary to the men hating Simpsons writers POV.Simpson]] sometimes slips into this.

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* The tales of TheBrothersGrimm had a few examples of this. In ''Hansel and Gretel'', it's the wife who badgers her husband into abandoning the title characters in the woods. In ''The Fisherman and His Wife'', the wife is constantly demanding her husband ask grander and grander wishes of the magic fish.

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* The tales of TheBrothersGrimm had a few examples of this. In ''Hansel and Gretel'', it's the wife who badgers her husband into abandoning the title characters in the woods. In ''The Fisherman and His Wife'', the wife is constantly demanding her husband ask grander and grander wishes of the magic fish. Until said fish is fed up and takes everything back.



* In [[{{Discworld}} Night Watch]], a minor character named Rutherford is overshadowed by his loud, domineering wife, who can be as snobbish as nobility. Vimes imagines that he's the sort who would not actually murder, but would happpily imagine spousal homicide on a regular basis.

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* In [[{{Discworld}} Night Watch]], a minor character named Rutherford is overshadowed by his loud, domineering wife, who can be as snobbish as nobility. Vimes imagines that he's the sort who would not actually murder, but would happpily happily imagine spousal homicide on a regular basis.




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* Maroof the Cobbler from one ArabianNights story. Later however, TheDogBitesBack, if you know what I mean.



* Basil Fawlty.

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* [[FawltyTowers Basil Fawlty.
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* Clyde from WitchesOfEastwick. Ends up killing her with a frying pan. With her dying breath, she jams his tie in the garbage disposal and hits on. What a nice woman.

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* Clyde from WitchesOfEastwick.''WitchesOfEastwick''. Ends up killing her with a frying pan. With her dying breath, she jams his tie in the garbage disposal and hits on. What a nice woman.
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* Homer Simpson.

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* Homer Simpson.Simpson, contrary to the men hating Simpsons writers POV.
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** Subverted first by the fact that they are HappilyMarried, and then in DeathlyHallows, when it's revealed that Molly is a CrouchingMoronHiddenBadass. In retrospect, it seems more likely that Arthur knows ''exactly'' what she's capable of, and doesn't want to be on the receiving end of it.
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**[[XanatosGambit so they would henpeck each other instead of their husbands?]]
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Compare MommasBoy, and MyBelovedSmother. See also NoAccountingForTaste. Is actually slowly becoming a {{Discredited Trope}} due to the Negative effects from a realationship like this in Real Life.

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Compare MommasBoy, and MyBelovedSmother. See also NoAccountingForTaste. Is actually slowly becoming a {{Discredited Trope}} due to the Negative effects from a realationship relationship like this in Real Life.
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-->'''Piccolo''': L-Leave me out of this!
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A common feature in the NoExit DomCom genre, it is also one of the more obvious cases of a DoubleStandard. Wives with this little spine would bring out the feminists ''en masse'', while a husband as abusive as such a wife would be roundly condemned. Then again, the {{Rule of Funny}} applies here, but can you honestly imagine a work where a man controls every aspect of his wife's life, orders her around at every opportunity and routinely criticises her every action, done as comedy?

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A common feature in the NoExit AwfulWeddedLife DomCom genre, it is also one of the more obvious cases of a DoubleStandard. Wives with this little spine would bring out the feminists ''en masse'', while a husband as abusive as such a wife would be roundly condemned. Then again, the {{Rule of Funny}} applies here, but can you honestly imagine a work where a man controls every aspect of his wife's life, orders her around at every opportunity and routinely criticises her every action, done as comedy?

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* In the first season of {{Slayers}}, there's a scene where a man falls under the influence of a cursed knife and starts attacking Lina and Gourry. His wife opens a window and yells at him, and he slithers meekly back to his shop. Lampshaded immediately afterwards as Lina comments that an angry wife is more powerful and influential than a cursed knife.
* In SetoNoHanayome, San's father is one of these. This is probably a good thing, given that he's and OverprotectiveDad to the point of psychosis. Nagasumi's father is also a bit of a wuss compared to his wife.

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* In the first season of {{Slayers}}, ''{{Slayers}}'', there's a scene where a man falls under the influence of a cursed knife and starts attacking Lina and Gourry. His wife opens a window and yells at him, and he slithers meekly back to his shop. Lampshaded immediately afterwards as Lina comments that an angry wife is more powerful and influential than a cursed knife.
* In SetoNoHanayome, ''SetoNoHanayome'', San's father is one of these. This is probably a good thing, given that he's and OverprotectiveDad to the point of psychosis. Nagasumi's father is also a bit of a wuss compared to his wife.






* The entire premise of ''Norbit''.
* The root of the character Bobby Davis in ''Wild Hogs''.

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* The entire premise of ''Norbit''.
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* The root of the character Bobby Davis in ''Wild Hogs''.''WildHogs''.



*Percy Hamleigh in ThePillarsOfTheEarth is thoroughly under the thumb of his wife, Regan.

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*Percy * Percy Hamleigh in ThePillarsOfTheEarth ''ThePillarsOfTheEarth'' is thoroughly under the thumb of his wife, Regan.



* Gender-flipped in Agatha Christie's ''The Hollow'' in which the hen-pecked (rooster-pecked?) wife is utterly devoted to her husband, and treated with as much pity and contempt by others as a male counterpart would.

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* Gender-flipped in Agatha Christie's AgathaChristie's ''The Hollow'' in which the hen-pecked (rooster-pecked?) wife is utterly devoted to her husband, and treated with as much pity and contempt by others as a male counterpart would.
** That is, not at all?



** This is also highlighted in the film version where the teacher is forced to eat a bad piece of meat by his wive, after which the film cuts to him taking out his aggression by spanking a student, and later in "The Trial" where the main character, Pink's, embellished, imaginary version of the school teacher appears as a marionette controlled by his wive.

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** This is also highlighted in the film version where the teacher is forced to eat a bad piece of meat by his wive, wife, after which the film cuts to him taking out his aggression by spanking a student, and later in "The Trial" where the main character, Pink's, embellished, imaginary version of the school teacher appears as a marionette controlled by his wive.wife.



* Thenardier to some extent in ''Les Miserables''. Of course, this is in contrast to the novel in which it's exactly the opposite.

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* Thenardier to some extent in ''Les Miserables''.''LesMiserables''. Of course, this is in contrast to the novel in which it's exactly the opposite.






* By some accounts, Joseph Smith, founder of the Mormons.

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* Andrey Pozorov in Anton Chekhov's ''The Three Sisters''.

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* Andrey Pozorov in Anton Chekhov's ''The Three Sisters''.AntonChekhov's ''TheThreeSisters''.



* In ''Fantasia 2000'' 's Rhapsody in Blue, one of the characters is a fun-loving husband who is forced to foot the bill and carry all of his wife's belongings, most of which are going to pamper her dog, who she seems to love more than him.

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* In ''Fantasia 2000'' 's Rhapsody ''{{Fantasia}} 2000'''s "Rhapsody in Blue, Blue", one of the characters is a fun-loving husband who is forced to foot the bill and carry all of his wife's belongings, most of which are going to pamper her dog, who she seems to love more than him.
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*Ricky Gervais played one in the Simpsons episode he guest starred in and wrote, "Homer Simpson, This Is Your Wife". His character Charles Heathbar is married to a domineering woman named Verity, and then when Charles gets paired with Marge on a Wife Swap-esque show, he falls in love with her, but eventually gets over it and separates from his wife.

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